#why i don't fuck with most of these so called “aspec safe space” pages because A LOT them are very wayward individuals im noticing

[leikeliscomet]

"Ace women have it easier than ace men because everyone thinks women are pure and men are predatory" when Black women are sexualised and Asian men are desexualised, "aroallos are privileged because they can just have sex like allo people" when gay sex bans and serophobia are alive and well, "alloaces have privilege because romance is always seen as pure and sex is always seen as bad" when gay marriage is still illegal in most parts and gay romance books are being burned, "aroaces have privilege because they have the most visibility and representation" when the aroace visibility and representation in question is harassment from TERFs and fascist Youtubers, 'asexuals have privilege over demis, greys and sex favourable aces and sex repulsed aces are the most privileged because they're seen as really asexual" when the emotionless asexual trope exists, when most sex repulsed characters are literal villains and when the go-to stance of every anti-asexual TERF, radfem, conservative and Christian puritan is that having no sex or sexual attraction at all can't exist in humans or ever should, is what happens when you have no substantial asexual or aromantic politic, remove the nuance of romance and sex as if they aren't effected by various factors, base your 'activism' on interpersonal moments over any systemic analysis and act like asexuality and aromanticism exist in a magical place unaffected by the rest of the world.

Just garlic bread and vibes, truly.