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it’s crazy how some people act like someone’s gender identity intrinsically determines how they act . or how people treat all people ‘belonging’ to a gender identity as a monolith . baby girl that is first and foremost a human person
#like we all know gender essentialism is bad . but also i don’t think people have actually unpacked their bioessentialist beliefs actually#it’s just . the way people act like someone’s gender is a determiner of their behaviour . it just kinda feels like a roundabout way of#reinforcing the gender binary and exclusionary politics#u can talk about how cishetnormativity and patriarchy encourages people of certain gender identities to act in a certain way without acting#like that behaviour taught to them is inherent to their fucking dna#like no as a nb transmasc person i don’t actually feel safe going to ur ‘cis men dni’ queer get togethers bc what does a ‘cis man’ look like#to you exactly . how do you decide who and who isn’t a cis man . and even then if u magically know whether the person is a Dreaded Cis Man#i don’t particularly want to go to a get together that has decided that cis men are uniquely capable of Posing an Issue as compared to other#queer folk . the sad truth is that literally anyone including a queer can be the most annoying (and dangerous!) bitch alive i’m sorry#like I Get It . in a way . i get why there is a tendency to create spaces like this (especially when it comes to lifting up more#marginalised voices) but idk man excluding people is a slippery slope! and also gives power to people to determine ‘how’ queer you are!#which sucks!#jay rants
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… Hello Sunglow it’s nice to get to meet you I’m Luna.. so how long ah e you been working on this….
...H-Hello! But... I... suppose around 5 years, now...
#sorry for taking a bit y'all!#Turns out you can't do custom colors on phone...#which sucks!#Because I was away from my computer for awhile#wishing I could answer these ones#and then perishing because it was NOT letting me do Sunglow's color#fantasy au past answers#fantasy asks
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Dunno if it's hormones or the time of year or what, but just feeling very low and on the outside looking in this evening.
#looking at my current WIP and feeling that all too familiar surge of “who cares? what does it matter?”#Which sucks!#I wanna be excited about my creative endeavors!#but right now I just feel lonely and invisible#so…ranting about it to the void#sorry
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i restarted my animal crossing island. hoping it will take my mind off this excruciating heat

#typically i’m always in more pain in the winter cause of the cold#but this is actually worse#if u face fibro u know the sweatiness we have to deal with anyway#but in this heat omgg#i’m losing as much water as i’m taking in basically lol#and all my muscles are screaming#and my joints are swollen#:(((#ps my island is called lost woods#i wanted to call it huckleberry but it’s over the letter limit#which Sucks!
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mini rambles #2
i'm currently in the process of writing the minific anthology thing i wanted to post on AO3, but while i'm doing it i decided to add a Mini Rambles abt Inazuma (b/c i wanna get back into the swing of posting teehee)
i'm also testing out different methods of yapping that helps me skip out on ✦ quest combing ✦
[post-civil war] as always, Kaeya and Lumine spend a year in the Nation that they're helping out w/ (as much as Lumine HATES Inazuma, i'm 90% sure she feels a need to help out b/c she's got a complex abt it)
Kaeya lowkey TERRIFIED of Raiden (b/c girly almost killed him, dw abt it)
Lumine constantly on edge b/c the air is slightly electric and she's Element Sensitive so it's always like her hairs are standing on end
despite Inazuma being Kinda Stressful, they become homies w/ the trio of Ayaka, Thoma, and Yoimiya.
Ayaka is a weirdo (affectionate). she goes creek crawling to find crabs and lizards. she's absolutely fascinated by the ecosystem of the Chinju Forest so she spends a lot of time there. (also love the idea that she does a sort of dance-style meditation but she does it in the creek b/c she's weird like that. soggy socks back at it again fr fr)
Ayaka and Yoimiya are often referred to as "Lumi's Bad Influences" by Kaeya, b/c Yoimiya is feral and Ayaka is an enabler (b/c she likes to feel included) and they both rope Lumine into their shenanigans
Paimon demands to play Hot Pot almost every night and Lumine is this close to grabbing every Jueyun Chili she can find and scarring Paimon for life.
occasionally, Bennett would come hang out w/ the Traveler Trio, but at some point he almost got YEETED by one of the Thundering Sakuras so Lumine disallows him from traveling w/ them to the Inazuma wilds specifically.
Yae Miko likes to fuck w/ Lumine like 10x more ever since Lumine pointed a sword at her (dw abt it, it's a thing that happens in one of the fics)
at some point, Yoimiya introduces Lumine and Ayaka to several different Light Novel series, and Lumine discovers an adoration for the crazy ass stories that the people of Teyvat read.
Lumine is really good at Onikabuto fights, but Kaeya's even better. Paimon kinda hates him for it b/c she has NO IDEA how his Onikabuto keep beating her ass. Paimon and Itto are always sore losers abt it.
Watatsumi Island, in the opinion of the Traveler Trio, is the best island because it's the least stressful. Lumi still misses the fuck out of Teppei, tho. That was her homie, man.
they don't talk abt Tsurumi Island. Lumi was fucked up for days after they finally cleared the fog.
Kaeya doesn't want to admit it but he does his best to steer them clear of Yashiori Island. Yes, they cleared the lightning storms, but listen the memories there are still ROUGH.
Lumi feels guilty as shit about it, but she keeps count of all the work that needs to be done for Inazuma to be OK without them, and she plans on AVOIDING this place like the PLAGUE the moment she feels like she's helped them to her fullest.
She feels so bad about it though. like so bad. she likes her friends here, but she's so fucked up from this place. bisexual japan is scary
Lumi and Kaeya have so many scars from this place. the conversation with Zhongli whenever they come back to Liyue is gonna be ✦INTERESTING✦
#genshin headcanons#lumine genshin impact#kaeya genshin impact#brain worms#kaeya headcanons#lumine headcanons#kaelumi headcanons#inazuma headcanons#Caelestium#i feel like there's good stuff in Inazuma#i just really don't like it#i'm not sure if it's the story as a whole or just my experience w/ it#or if it's like both#but the only way i feel like i can appreciate Inazuma is like#to make it a source of trauma/angst?#which sucks!#b/c there are good characters in Inazuma#and i love talking abt them#especially yoimiya and Itto???#in a weird way tho#i kinda am glad that this is how i'm working with Inazuma#cuz like#it makes it interesting#how they interact with the friends they made there#and how the friends perceive what the Traveling Trio went through#like Lumi feels guilty about not visiting Inazuma#especially when they later run into Yoimiya in Sumeru#and Ayaka in Fontaine#and Kaeya also feels this guilt#but almost all of their friends kind of understand
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Literally just calling anything "genocide" now, aren't we?
#a homeless camp was cleared in my city#which sucks!#but this one was done with a lot of community organizer and social worker support#and had no violence#and people were accusing the mayor (who does suck) of genocide#and by all means accuse him of being hapless and not having a plan#even cruel#but genocide?
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at the office bc working in my apartment is no longer viable
#the floor is extremely mcfucked so I can’t work at my reg desk anymore#and working from my art desk is not ideal and uncomfortable#idk whenever I work from home my productivity is absolute shit#which sucks!
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*has several debilitating disorders* idk maybe i'm just lazy
#cancelled my psychiatrist appt because i just couldn't get up and i felt i couldn't face her#she's probably mad with me now :/ she already talked to me about missing appointments but i just couldn't do it today#i fucking suck lol im disappointed in myself. my depression has gotten really bad lately which is all the more reason to talk to her but.#idk i've kind of given up also. i stopped therapy months ago. i dont think she was gonna really help me anyway tbh
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All that said: congratulations to Oscar on his first win. And McLaren 1-2.
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I've adopted the unknown into my personal canon except the unknown is actually just all the other people who live in my head. they're just freaky shadow guys who live in the walls of my chocolate factory now.
#this is a joke! I love my headmates!#even when the actively try to suppress me.#which sucks!#pluralgang#actually plural#plural system
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Person 1: Not to complain about capitalism again and obv wear sunscreen, but most skin care products really just seem like snake oil.
Person 2 (there is somehow ALWAYS a person 2): So true! People go so overboard! You really only need about 20 products! Here's a 50 part thread explaining my daily process!
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I have had these thoughts bubbling away in my head for like...eighteen months or so now (it will become very obvious why shortly) but the discussion in this post has pushed me to write them down: I think societally we HUGELY underestimate how motherhood for primary caregivers, particularly first-time motherhood, can be a source of vulnerability to radicalisation.
There is obviously huge cultural variance here, but for a lot of cis women becoming primary caregiver to an infant in a capitalist Western society represents a time of immense vulnerability because in general you are:
Incredibly sleep-deprived (which has well-documented knock-on effects for your judgement, mental health, etc)
If you gave birth, recovering from a significant challenge to your physical health (even in the best-case scenario)
Isolated from your previous networks and communities of people in full-time work
Completely separated from the context of your prior career goals and achievements
Under huge amounts of stress to learn how to care for an infant (don't get me started on breastfeeding)
And on top of this, you are also be experiencing a huge amount of messaging about how all this is natural, wonderful, something you're meant to do, something you should love doing, and something that you must do for the welfare of their child. It's a huge amount of pressure and life change even when everything goes right and there's very little cultural space to express negative feelings about it.
Any group of people who offer community, support, and affirmation to cis women in this situation are going to have a really good shot at radicalising them into some very weird and dangerous headspaces and in fact we see this happen all the time - think antivaxxers and TERFs. It flies under the radar because of the hazy positive glow that associates with motherhood and babies and also because we don't take the radicalisation of women seriously I guess because they rarely shoot anybody, but...yeah. It is such a vulnerable time!
#people who do not see themselves in the cishetero stereotype#are obviously going to have some separation from this & therefore protection#full confession: obviously in the last year and a half I have done a LOT of midnight Googling about Baby Things#and you know what. very often the top hits are Mumsnet forum threads#which...often contain useful and sympathetic advice#I can so easily see how people get sucked into that#they're not getting people with TERFy shit they're getting them with 'tips for getting your four month old to nap better'#which is the MOST IMPORTANT THING IN THE WORLD when your kid is four months old#and then the TERFy nonsense presumably comes later#because that's how radicalisation works
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being in pet owner groups sucks because you can be like “my dog is reactive due to past negative experiences with other dogs” and someone with a dog named Woodchips that’s eaten three floorboards and part of an interior wall and is a threat to society will tell you how you’ve failed to manage your dog and clearly you don’t understand training 💕
#for context that statement does apply to my dog#reactivity is not a sign of poor training#it’s a lot more like doggie PTSD which SUCKS.#my dog is GREAT with cats#kids#you name it!#but she does not like other dogs#and that does not make her mean
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i hate how sometimes people make out rachel to be this tragic heartbroken mess. WELL FRIENDLY REMINDER THAT
she was the one who dumped percy in the first place
and the scene after that she said "I don't have to tell you what you have to do now, right?" with the next scene being percy confessing to annabeth
she genuinely CHOSE to be the oracle, if she was really serious about percy she would have not have gone along with the whole thing without being a tiny bit sad about not dating percy
she flat out admitted percy was just a vehicle for her to be involved with the greek world
she is not august by taylor swift. she is not driver's license by olivia rodrigo. she did not care less about percy once he didn't reciprocate pls 😭
#percy was more disappointed than rachel which is saying something since his reaction was just “oh ok that sucks"#they were just two friends who impulsively tried something new with their friendship and were like “yeah no thanks”#so STOP writing fics about rachel trying to get percy back or still yearning for percy so that annabeth can come beat her up#percy jackson#pjo#rick riordan#pjo fandom#annabeth chase#percy jackon and the olympians#heroes of olympus#percabeth#percy and rachel#platonic perachel#percy and annabeth#percyjackson#percy pjo#percy series#the last olympian#pjo headcanons#percy jackson fandom#rachel pjo#rachel elizabeth dare
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love the amount of posts im seeing abt Cas' interests and moving them away from common fanon interpretation
#vinny types#its giving me a lot of fun ideas for my upcoming fic#not that fanon interp is always bad it's just refreshing to see some new ideas#that and i do think of the three Cas is usually the easiest to mischaracterize#do i think bee keeper Cas is a misreading of what canon was intending with that motif? yes#am i going to keep it for my pd au? ...yes#listen i don't think it's the worst misinterp in the world + it blends pd and spn canon together well + i have fun plans with it#it is tough tho bc since the show itself has winchester derangement syndrome we really dont get to see a lot of what characters are like#or up to or interested in outside of whats relevant to the current storyline/relevant to the brothers#which sucks!#like i totally understand fandom kind of clinging onto this idea of Cas liking bees bc. well. we dont see a lot of other things he likes#and once again in the same way Cas is usually mocked by the show for not being archetypically masculine and not understanding social contex#i feel like him enjoying trash tv is in many ways kind of the butt of that same joke in canon#not that it means that's not an interesting trait of his! I quite like it
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My furnace broke this morning and I managed to get a repair guy in right away. I called to remember that Vice has an inexplicable phobia of furnace repairmen.
I've spent the last 45 minutes looking for Vice and was literally starting to worry that he'd somehow made it outside or into the walls somehow. In a last ditch effort to communicate to him that the world had not ended and it was safe to come out, I climbed into bed, knowing that he never misses an opportunity to cuddle, even when it's far from the usual time for it.
Five minutes later...



I still don't know where he's been. I swear he can dematerialize.
#furnace repair is either going to be very expensive or require outright replacement which. sucks. and meanwhile no heat#vice please stop turning into smoke
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