#which is not a backhanded compliment
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maximura · 2 months ago
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leescheyenne · 5 months ago
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Guildford complimenting Jane
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Bonus: Jane complimenting Guildford
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presiding · 1 year ago
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While browsing Vogue magazine, Sébastien Mitton found a photograph of Ruby Aldridge from the Céline Fall 2011 fashion show. He said, “Boom! We have the direction!” Her beauty and her unsettling gaze drove the first concept art for Emily.
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butteredfrogs · 20 days ago
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#so i posted earlier saying i wish i could ask people what makes me so dislikable#and i was referring to a situation which happened to me in the past#and how i wish i could say to these people like what about me is so dislikable that you had to react the way you did#(i would like to clarify i was not in the wrong in this situation i have asked multiple people#and they agree i wasnt in the wrong so im not just saying it)#and an anon decides to send me an ask saying#ngl its the desperation for validation but i think youre cool#and it made me so upset because its such a fucking back handed compliment#because like i am aware of the fact im a people pleaser and i want to be liked by people#like i know its a huge flaw and i am trying to do better and not worry about what other people think about me#but its not something that is going to happen overnight#and so to point that out when im already aware of it and then follow it up with a backhanded compliment#is honestly really hurtful and just kinda really upset me#also saying that i'm desperate for validation like is just so#idk it just was so unnecessary for them to say that and phrase it that way#anyway im sure no one is gonna read this and if they do it probably makes no sense or it just sounds like#im being a whiny bitch and probably more anons are gonna come call me attention seeking or#say im looking for validation#but i just wanted to rant about it bc like there's ways to say things nicely to people and that was not one of them#esp when its a flaw im already aware of and would like to work on more#but again its not gonna disappear overnight!#butter’s thoughts
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nonsensegnomes · 4 months ago
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i totally saw what you meant about the wheel / time running out in the green knight but it's so muddyyyyy why why why. but it's okay.
no yeah exactly muddy is the best word to describe it i think, like you really see where it falls apart if you compare it to say la chimera which is also trying for this unreal atmosphere, and where the meaning is also left murky & ambiguous BUT it never feels muddled or empty because the film ties it so strongly to what is going on with arthur (where he's going plot-wise & then his emotional state) and in fact his disorientation wrt descent into the earth is the Literal Point of the movie... so tgk has a lot of interesting things to say visually, but when you try to connect that to a Meaning? :/
sucks bc green knight was one of those covid-delayed releases i was anticipating sooooooo much, then it came out like a full 6 months later in my country than america so i'd already seen all the gifsets, and then when i finally got to watch it, well. 🙃 guess they really do mean it when they say a24 films feel like they were made by A 24-Year Old.......*
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finderseeker · 10 days ago
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Guys one day I’ll learn to stop sending anonymous asks full of gushing, well-meaning-but-inherently-odd-because-of who-I-am-as-a-person words, because one day I will actually remember that I cannot account for every potential misunderstanding or fact
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bonivers · 2 months ago
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sometimes u really have 2 look past the wording of what a child says 2 u. “why are u trying 2 look beautiful🤨” is just little cousin speak for I Think You Look Pretty Today
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h-awke-a · 8 months ago
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theo’s eyes are very dark brown, they’re not amber or chestnut or etc, they’re dark dark brown, almost black, when the light hits them you’ll get a liiiittle bit of chocolate there but in general just dark
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tciddaemina · 2 years ago
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sort of hate people who leave negative stuff in the bookmarks of a fic tbh. like sure yeah you have no obligation to write anything, but if you are going to write something why the fuck would you make it a bland as list of all the things you disliked about the work
like bro, you could just keep it in your head. say it out loud even. write it on a post it note if you must. but like damn why the fuck would you ever write a laundry of your shitty little peeves somewhere that the author is able to see it. authors can and do browse peoples comments in the bookmarks of their works bc people sometimes leave really touching heartwarming stuff there
just like. jesus fuck. if you have nothing nice to say then youre honestly free to shut the fuck up and move on
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darkfire359 · 2 years ago
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bunnyb34r · 2 years ago
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What's funny is that given the chance to go to like anime cons, I will GLADLY jump on the opportunity (as long as it's one day), but god forbid a friend spontaneously wants to go catch a movie
And at cons (when I used to go) I'm very extroverted and like a golden retriever I wanna meet and befriend EVERYBODY! but I wont go to family partys or work friends get togethers
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arodrwho · 2 years ago
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hey uh y'all
u know ppl can read ur bookmark notes on ao3 right? u know those arent automatically private?
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bansheesofinisherin2022 · 11 months ago
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you know what i hate? that my main motivation for accepting my big ass nose as it is and not even considering surgery for one single nano second is rebellion and "not doing what society wants me to do". but honestly... i don't like that i need to rebell. i don't wanna do a 'statement' by accepting my nose. i don't want to hear my mum say "look she's so unique and brave for keeping her big nose!" while trying to make feel better about my nose. i don't to be praised for being able to live with my natural body. i want no more comments of any kind. only ignorance and indifference...
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torchickentacos · 2 years ago
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Ok I get SUPER off topic in the tags because I usually write tags as a stream of consciousness type of thing (read tags for a more personal kind of rambling about this) but tldr interesting article on autistic women and the manic pixie dream girl trope. idk what's up with the description on the bottom?? I think it's saying that MPDG's are often the romantic cunterpart to sensitive asshole boys since a lot of the trope centers around 'I can fix him', rather than calling us sensitive assholes, which is NOT what the article is about. I just skimmed it but it's definitely interesting.
My sister genuinely, for real, met her girlfriend at a meet up for retyping poetry on vintage typewriters above a feminist bookstore, and I just want to say I’m thrilled the manic pixie dream girls of the world are moving on from whiny mediocre dudes and finding eachother instead.
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malaierba · 1 year ago
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I don't think it was the author's intention but I couldn't help but laugh, what s take
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alula · 1 year ago
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something u learn in a big discord server. is that some of you fucking suck at complimenting each other
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