#which is not a backhanded compliment
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#sir? what is this....#park sunghoon#enhypen#enhypen sunghoon#enhypenet#that first shot in particular is really striking#he has a great face for commercial media#which is not a backhanded compliment#even if it sounds like one#ni-ki for example is definitely only for art aesthetics or high fashion
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Guildford complimenting Jane
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Bonus: Jane complimenting Guildford
#myladyjaneedit#myladyjanecentral#perioddramaedit#perioddramagif#adaptationsdaily#my lady jane#lady jane grey#guildford dudley#jane x guildford#my lady jane spoilers#my gifs#just guildford being a supportive green flag husband 🟩#there were some backhanded compliments in the first few eps which I didn't include obviously 😅#let me know if I missed any
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While browsing Vogue magazine, Sébastien Mitton found a photograph of Ruby Aldridge from the Céline Fall 2011 fashion show. He said, “Boom! We have the direction!” Her beauty and her unsettling gaze drove the first concept art for Emily.
#dishonored#emily kaldwin#arkane studios#ruby alridge#i thought this was pretty interesting in terms of backstory#esp compared to some of the earlier sketches#especially given how little they deviated from that silhouette and hair!#even her final character face is barely different#i hope someone's like. thanked ruby alridge for this at least#i've had a pic of me used as art reference for a large public thing before without my consent lmao its like. THE backhanded-est compliment#anyway frustratingly when I try to add proper links in here tumblr has glitched. but the quote is from the bethesda site#Celine pics from Vogue#and the gorgeous pic of aldridge from an article about her band diet choke which I will try to link tomorrow. Tumblr why
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#so i posted earlier saying i wish i could ask people what makes me so dislikable#and i was referring to a situation which happened to me in the past#and how i wish i could say to these people like what about me is so dislikable that you had to react the way you did#(i would like to clarify i was not in the wrong in this situation i have asked multiple people#and they agree i wasnt in the wrong so im not just saying it)#and an anon decides to send me an ask saying#ngl its the desperation for validation but i think youre cool#and it made me so upset because its such a fucking back handed compliment#because like i am aware of the fact im a people pleaser and i want to be liked by people#like i know its a huge flaw and i am trying to do better and not worry about what other people think about me#but its not something that is going to happen overnight#and so to point that out when im already aware of it and then follow it up with a backhanded compliment#is honestly really hurtful and just kinda really upset me#also saying that i'm desperate for validation like is just so#idk it just was so unnecessary for them to say that and phrase it that way#anyway im sure no one is gonna read this and if they do it probably makes no sense or it just sounds like#im being a whiny bitch and probably more anons are gonna come call me attention seeking or#say im looking for validation#but i just wanted to rant about it bc like there's ways to say things nicely to people and that was not one of them#esp when its a flaw im already aware of and would like to work on more#but again its not gonna disappear overnight!#butter’s thoughts
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i totally saw what you meant about the wheel / time running out in the green knight but it's so muddyyyyy why why why. but it's okay.
no yeah exactly muddy is the best word to describe it i think, like you really see where it falls apart if you compare it to say la chimera which is also trying for this unreal atmosphere, and where the meaning is also left murky & ambiguous BUT it never feels muddled or empty because the film ties it so strongly to what is going on with arthur (where he's going plot-wise & then his emotional state) and in fact his disorientation wrt descent into the earth is the Literal Point of the movie... so tgk has a lot of interesting things to say visually, but when you try to connect that to a Meaning? :/
sucks bc green knight was one of those covid-delayed releases i was anticipating sooooooo much, then it came out like a full 6 months later in my country than america so i'd already seen all the gifsets, and then when i finally got to watch it, well. 🙃 guess they really do mean it when they say a24 films feel like they were made by A 24-Year Old.......*
#*which can be a compliment!! sometimes you see things & you go woah i did not know A 24-Year Old had the saviness to make this!#(well okay a backhanded compliment)#asks#senso1954#the green knight#anyway you say all this better in your post but like. i'm just puzzling through the comparisons myself here y'know
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Guys one day I’ll learn to stop sending anonymous asks full of gushing, well-meaning-but-inherently-odd-because-of who-I-am-as-a-person words, because one day I will actually remember that I cannot account for every potential misunderstanding or fact
#delete later#seeker talks#at least this time I didn’t accidentally spread misinformation and get corrected by a famous person#and my shame didn’t get circulated tumblr for several days.#no. if that happened to me a second time I’d delete my blog#haha no instead I managed to word a compliment so poorly it was taken as a backhanded insult#I mean. I sent another ask apologizing and clarifying what I meant (and the person was very cool and nice) but#gah#see. see I like communicating in text because I can express myself better and more clearly#(autism)#writing feels like I can avoid all the misunderstandings that come with speaking.#BUT I GET COCKY. IT GOES TO MY HEAD#‘Seeker you’re SO long-winded and SO given to over-explaining that you will ALWAYS be understood correctly’#AND THAT’S! WRONG!!!!!#IT’S VERY UNTRUE!#Except see. I’m so used to succeeding that failure in this case feels very alien and particularly discouraging#which is a hell of an arrogant thing for me to say but it’s true. I’ve worked very very very hard to be able to express myself clearly.#and anyway. maybe one day I’ll remember that I am not immune to Still Being Very Autistic just because I’m writing online.
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sometimes u really have 2 look past the wording of what a child says 2 u. “why are u trying 2 look beautiful🤨” is just little cousin speak for I Think You Look Pretty Today
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theo’s eyes are very dark brown, they’re not amber or chestnut or etc, they’re dark dark brown, almost black, when the light hits them you’ll get a liiiittle bit of chocolate there but in general just dark
#don’t worry! brown eyed boys exist!#also if you tell him his eyes are pretty he’ll 🥺 really?#if you tell him he’s pretty at all you get that#he knows he’s good looking but usually he gets#comments about it that are sort of backhanded compliments#implying that he’s a no good loverboy liar manipulator etc#none of which are true—he’s a GOOD loverboy liar#and yea he’s very handsome in his boyish crooked grin heartthrob way#the boy is simply not rugged#like yea he’s tall and strong#but he cannot grow a full beard to save his life#on this way my hawke is the anti-hawke he is just not hairy
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sort of hate people who leave negative stuff in the bookmarks of a fic tbh. like sure yeah you have no obligation to write anything, but if you are going to write something why the fuck would you make it a bland as list of all the things you disliked about the work
like bro, you could just keep it in your head. say it out loud even. write it on a post it note if you must. but like damn why the fuck would you ever write a laundry of your shitty little peeves somewhere that the author is able to see it. authors can and do browse peoples comments in the bookmarks of their works bc people sometimes leave really touching heartwarming stuff there
just like. jesus fuck. if you have nothing nice to say then youre honestly free to shut the fuck up and move on
#short#oh i suppose it was maybe alright#just fucking salty bc some asshole was like#*sips wine snootily* oh i suppose ot was fine but certainly nothing mindblowing of course#*squints at 110k of pure acts of service and glowing devotion* i see no romance here but maybe later#hmm i feel no connectoon between the characters at their first meeting i suppose the author cannot match canon#can you guess which fic im talking about?#bro why the fuck would you write this and leave it out there for me to see#also like fuck you a lot do you know how much fucking time goes into writing?#100k+ is not#bitch people call a 50k fic long#i just#urg#can you block people on ao3?#i literally just never want this person to be able to read one of my fics again#of if they do not be able to comment or write anything in their fucking bookmarks#like man i dont expect every person who reads a story to like it or to fall over themselves with compliments#but insulting a fic in a smarmy backhanded way of is just shitty#fuck that guy in particular#or girl#fuck them#no more fic for you#note in a box
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#izzy hands#edward teach#blackhands#edizzy#blackbeard#our flag means death#ofmd#Personally I like ‘Blackhands’ because it sounds like ‘backhand’#which refers to either slapping someone or an insulting compliment#and I love that for them#even if backhanded compliments are more of a Gentlehands/Stizzy thing
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What's funny is that given the chance to go to like anime cons, I will GLADLY jump on the opportunity (as long as it's one day), but god forbid a friend spontaneously wants to go catch a movie
And at cons (when I used to go) I'm very extroverted and like a golden retriever I wanna meet and befriend EVERYBODY! but I wont go to family partys or work friends get togethers
#my thing is that if it's strangers ill never see again (or likely will never see again) im free to unmask and be ME so i act#genuinely and let myself live but i hesitate telling my extended family ANYTHING or do anything genuine (by that i mean#genuinely ME. im not like backhanded complimenting them sgdgdgg i only do that to Ryan bc i hate him and he wont#take the fucking hint) like i dont want them to know im bi even though 2 of my cousins are lesbians and one is married to a woman#(one if not both of them might be trans though but no ones come out) and like only my mom knows ab me being nonbinary (which she#doesnt really GET but thats okay shes like um as long as youre happy) and it's not even like theres any relatives left that would give me#shit if i came out but still... and like i struggle even letting them know how disabled i am despite us all having chronic illnesses#anyway id be mortified to see someone i know at a con not bc im embarrassed but bc i dont want them to know ME ME#my uncle did think my link cosplay that i made when i was 13 was really cool though sgdgdgd#one time [relative coworker] was telling our coworker ab Bean and how i make him outfits and i was standing there mortified sgdgdggdgd#Truly the mortifying ordeal of being known#marquilla
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hey uh y'all
u know ppl can read ur bookmark notes on ao3 right? u know those arent automatically private?
#like it wasnt a Mean note but it was def like. a backhanded compliment#clearly intended as a note to self#so instead of u telling urself the story is very good even though x#u are also telling me! that u didnt like how x was done#which i dont think u meant to do#i wish more ppl knew how ao3 actually works#anyway. @bookmarker sorry i didnt cater to ur specific tastes but i didnt feel like shoehorning in a complete emotional resolution#that would have been unrealistic completely out of step with canon AND also not as fun for me personally#nor imo as emotionally impactful#little baby steps of emotional progress are so much tastier to me. my primary audience#thats why martins issues werent resolved#and were instead explored and addressed by the narrative with a minor breakthrough rather than a tidy little bow of perfect catharsis & etc#sticking my tongue out at u
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you know what i hate? that my main motivation for accepting my big ass nose as it is and not even considering surgery for one single nano second is rebellion and "not doing what society wants me to do". but honestly... i don't like that i need to rebell. i don't wanna do a 'statement' by accepting my nose. i don't want to hear my mum say "look she's so unique and brave for keeping her big nose!" while trying to make feel better about my nose. i don't to be praised for being able to live with my natural body. i want no more comments of any kind. only ignorance and indifference...
#this goes for every other body type/part too#every other part of your body that is the subject of some kind of body positivity movement etc etc#like don't get me wrong i love positivity posts and stuff#but i hate these kind of backhanded compliments#and the fact that positivity callout posts have to exist in the first place#idk sorry#we've got bigger problems i know#but i've noticed the same issue with fat bodies too#that suddenly ppl are getting praised for having a 'non-conventional' body or sth#like what? who says so? this is a normal body. why do u have to be brave to have a normal body? WHY DO WE HAVE TO BRAVE#cannot we not all treat us like we are? normal people with different bodies which makes it normal again?#maybe i'm spiraling sorry#p
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Ok I get SUPER off topic in the tags because I usually write tags as a stream of consciousness type of thing (read tags for a more personal kind of rambling about this) but tldr interesting article on autistic women and the manic pixie dream girl trope. idk what's up with the description on the bottom?? I think it's saying that MPDG's are often the romantic cunterpart to sensitive asshole boys since a lot of the trope centers around 'I can fix him', rather than calling us sensitive assholes, which is NOT what the article is about. I just skimmed it but it's definitely interesting.
My sister genuinely, for real, met her girlfriend at a meet up for retyping poetry on vintage typewriters above a feminist bookstore, and I just want to say I’m thrilled the manic pixie dream girls of the world are moving on from whiny mediocre dudes and finding eachother instead.
#in high school my friends called me a manic pixie dream girl and at the time i took it as a backhanded compliment#because i saw it as like. the romance 'i can fix him' trope and not as a personality thing#but if this is how yall see them then i'll take it#i think they said that about me because i was always very. in my own little world vibing with my ever-changing hair colors and knockoff doc#and i tried a million random hobbies because i was bored#so one week i'd be really into embroidering mushrooms on my backpack#and the next week was all about crystals and geology and stuff#and the week after that i would be into like. yoga or cryptids or something#which i think is just the autism. I'm still like this#FUCK WAIT MY MOM SENT ME AN ARTICLE ON THIS#on how manic pixie dream girl stereotypes are just like. autistic women#brb let me find it#ok can't find it and the articles I DO see all talk about how it's a negative association#but idk#one article puts it succinctly for me though:#it's less the characters themselves that are a bad autistic stereotype and more how they're used narrqtively#the manic pixie dream girl in herself is not a bad thing#but it is negative when she's used as a prop for a damaged sadboy#idk. interesting stuff#linked the article above
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I don't think it was the author's intention but I couldn't help but laugh, what s take
#i see what they mean though. it just came out as an unintentionally backhanded compliment which imo is very karamatsu/very iro#rambles#ososan rambles
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something u learn in a big discord server. is that some of you fucking suck at complimenting each other
#it feels like half of young(??? or at least less mature idk) people like do not know how to give a compliment#without it coming off incredibly backhanded or like it’s paining them to do so. Or making it about their mental illness somehow#which is insane! because it’s not hard to not do that Hello!!!!
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