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Btw idm spam liking, if anything it makes me happy :)
#just wanted to mention cuz ive seen some people say they’ll block for it#which is like fine#but i def wont#ill be sending u virtual kisses#muah muah#marsipain speaks
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I went to get some highlights and I’m not happy about them so I’m going to have to go to my regular hairdresser and tell her I cheated on the salon during my vacation 🥹
#i feel like a terrible husband#it was the heat of the moment I didn’t mean it#please can we fix this#anyway I said I wanted some natural sun kissed highlights#and I got the ones I had in 2004#which is like fine#but not what I wanted#also I said I didn’t want a cold blond#so she did a patina#and now I look like Goldilocks#also she gave me fading roots#which again fine#but a bit too blunt#Elena will fix it ❤️
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it's a very silly thing to turn your nose up at something just to be ~different~ but all the same I will continue to refuse to wear button up t-shirts.
#monster noises#I'm trying to figure out how to make my summer wardrobe more Interesting#particularly for being at work#cause like at home I have plenty of fun tank tops and band shirts and other stuff that make me happy#but I can't wear those to work sadly so I'm kinda stuck with... plain black t's#which is like Fine#but it's not Fun#and I it doesn't make me Happy#so I need to find a way to craft a work friendly summer wardrobe#with the same vibe as my fanciful dress shirts#whimsical embroidered vests#and brilliant colourful cardigans#so I can hit the hardware store looking like a Hot Weather Wizard#and sadly the Easiest solution for whimsical summer wear is the booming button up t-shirt industry frequented by my trans-masc peers#but alas I have a long held refusal to partake in the tradition for reasons not fully known to me and also I don't think I'd look good#but I'm Also not thrilled by the thought of patterned Regular t-shirts cause that's some Average Joe type stuff#unless I can hunt down some Radical Prints#so I think I'm gunna go the route of seeking out weird shorts/pants I can make into shorts and keep the plain tops#but we shall have to see..#also to be clear I'm basically working on clearing out and replacing parts of my wardrobe#lots of my stuff isn't necessarily Old as it Could Be but it is From Another Time#if you know what I mean#and I'd like to bring it up to where I'm at#They're all Milo clothes and I'm Bartholomew now#y'get me?#anyway yeah if anyone has suggestions I'm open to em!
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you know it IS important to remember that the people who push these tend to very strongly believe that these are inherent differences (given by god usually) and will not listen to anyone who says otherwise.
“If a society puts half its children into short skirts and warns them not to move in ways that reveal their panties, while putting the other half into jeans and overalls and encouraging them to climb trees, play ball, and participate in other vigorous outdoor games; if later, during adolescence, the children who have been wearing trousers are urged to “eat like growing boys,” while the children in skirts are warned to watch their weight and not get fat; if the half in jeans runs around in sneakers or boots, while the half in skirts totters about on spike heels, then these two groups of people will be biologically as well as socially different. Their muscles will be different, as will their reflexes, posture, arms, legs and feet, hand-eye coordination, and so on. Similarly, people who spend eight hours a day in an office working at a typewriter or a visual display terminal will be biologically different from those who work on construction jobs. There is no way to sort the biological and social components that produce these differences. We cannot sort nature from nurture when we confront group differences in societies in which people from different races, classes, and sexes do not have equal access to resources and power, and therefore live in different environments. Sex-typed generalizations, such as that men are heavier, taller, or stronger than women, obscure the diversity among women and among men and the extensive overlaps between them… Most women and men fall within the same range of heights, weights, and strengths, three variables that depend a great deal on how we have grown up and live. We all know that first-generation Americans, on average, are taller than their immigrant parents and that men who do physical labor, on average, are stronger than male college professors. But we forget to look for the obvious reasons for differences when confronted with assertions like ‘Men are stronger than women.’ We should be asking: ‘Which men?’ and ‘What do they do?’ There may be biologically based average differences between women and men, but these are interwoven with a host of social differences from which we cannot disentangle them.”
— Ruth Hubbard, “The Political Nature of ‘Human Nature’“ (via gothhabiba)
Yes.
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the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again
#yeehaw#1k#5k#10k#posts that got cursed. blasted. im making these tag updates after... 19 hours?#also i have been told it should say speech loss bc nonverbal specifically refers to the permanent state. did not know that!#unfortunately i fear it is so far past containment that even if i edited it now it would do very little. but noted for future reference#edit 2: nvm enough ppl have come to rb it from me directly that i changed the wording a bit. hopefully this makes sense#also. in case anyone is curious. though i doubt anyone who is commenting these things will check the original tags#1) my friend did not do this on purpose in any way. it was not intended to distract me or to hit on me. im a lesbian hes a gay man. cmon now#he felt very bad about it afterwards. i thought it was hilarious but it was very embarrassed and apologetic#2) “why didn't he use 🫵🏼?” didn't exist yet. “why didn't he use 🆗?” dunno! we'd been using a lot of hand emojis. 👌🏼 is an ok sign#like it makes sense. it was just a silly mixup. also No i did not invent 👉🏼👌🏼 as a gesture meaning sex. do you live under a rock#3) nonspeaking episodes are a recurring thing in my life and have been since i was born. this is not a quirky one-time thing#it is a pervasive issue that is very frustrating to both myself and the people i am trying to communicate with. in which trying to speak is#extremely distressing and causes very genuine anguish. this post is not me making light of it it's just a funny thing that happened once#it's no different than if i post about a funny thing that happened in conjunction w a physical disability. it's just me talking abt my life#i don't mind character tags tho. those can be entertaining. i don't know what any of you are talking about#Except the ppl who have said this is pego/ryu or wang/xian. those people i understand and respect#if you use it as a writing prompt that's fine but send it to me. i want to see it#aaaand i think that's it. everyday im tempted to turn off rbs on it. it hasn't even been a week
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on the topic of summer heat, every time that season rolls around hotter than the last i get a longing for it to be socially acceptable for people with breasts to be allowed to be topless outside
#society still not being ready for free the nipple is one of the biggest disappointments to my teenage baby-social-justice self#i was fully aware it was a hot take when i said it when i was younger and it’s still a hot take now but i was fully correct#it’s just not fair that men can be outside doing yard work or going for a walk or What Ever and straight up not have to wear a shirt#but because i was born with Baby Feeding Anatomy that’s obscene sorry :/ cover your body :/#the closest thing a woman’s allowed to wear is like a sports bra or cropped tank top#which is like fine#but even that gets looked at as Sexually Provocative#and not just like. It’s Hot As Balls Outside#like just let women exist#And I will be real I’m all for dressing sexually provocatively I have nothing against that#but there’s a difference yknow?
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cannot stand this bizarre new age rebranding of gender essentialism popping up online lately. "he gives me space to be in my feminine energy 🥺🥺" babes I promise you can just say that man makes you horny. the Respectable Woman Brigade is not going to come to your house and shoot you. what are you saying.
#like girly hes not casting a magical spell on your ovaries#i think you maybe just wanna have weird sex with your partner#which is like fine
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finished this one recently (didn't realize I started this last february haha)
#rug hooking#fiber art#artists on tumblr#so it did snow and then it rained and everything's gone already jhfkj#I kinda wanna go find one of those big white boards just so there's no crinkling haha versus when I use paper#finished the horse rug hook as well :O 2 outta 5 done#edit: also tried one of those iron labels on the back? which...it looks fine but I kinda like the charm#and feel of a little tag sewn on/sticking out more#edit2: thank you craftingkarp for the blaze hahaha#(and tumblr staff for bonus)#edit: thank you tumblr staff for radar as well?? >:'D
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Probably a lot? Cause I got to the point of 50/50 granularity when I go one letter of the alphabet at a time, due to how my mods folder is structured, and I saw the issue with CAS not loading pop up in a few batches so I def have more than one and more than even 2. I also have a separate issue with I think one folder that makes relationship bars all turn into romance only and friendship vanishes (???) it's very odd. A is fine btw, only 26 (how many letters are there) to go. I tend to sort by mod author in individual folders for ease of update/finding, only CC is tossed all together for the most part, tho some of that is split for creators I have a lot of, and I generally consider CC to all be 'safe' (and it rarely isn't, the few times it's not I accidentally put a mod in one of the folders) so I never take it out (and plus it's nice not seeing naked bald sims when testing). I keep MCCC and WW in too as they always work and taking them out can fuck with the settings I made and FUCK I do not trust MCCC to not break my game like it has before if I take it out so it will stay always. Generally I blame my extra folder of 'random mods' as a culprit of any and all issues, as it holds all mods that I don't have other folders for. I am not making a folder for exactly one mod. But that means I often can't find it.
I've come to think tho that maybe I should at least split UI mods from that into their own folder as they break at the drop of a hat. Oh and the main folder not IN folders is some general mods that I find too important to put IN folders or idk. Oh my game crashed, okay. I GUESS B IS BAD, it wasn't earlier but okay!
tl;dr I don't know how many letters there are in the english alphabet
There’s 26 letters in the alphabet 😭
#I have gameplay mods in their own folder and cas mods in my miscellaneous cas folder#some mods HAVE to be in the main mods folder#which is like fine#I also have folders for each cc creator#when I say I’m gonna organize my mods#I Organize My Mods#I have a minimum 7 folders for cas and BB each#I put different extras before each mod too#so all of my creator sorted mods are in [brackets]#my mods and the meshes that they need are in ~~whatever this is~~#and more that I can’t think of#I’m very particular 😞#neon answers#neon plays the sims#lightning plays the sims
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gonna be mildly petty in the tags but its not personal or anything
#i would sell my soul#to not be the only one creating deere content#and i know that like#its a rarepair#i should expect this#i'm hyperfixated on something most people dont like#or dont like as much as other things#but its just#tiring#i am in other fandoms and theres like. new content. or at least other people#and then i get to deere and its. like. 98% me#which is like fine#theres nothing i can do about it#but i know creating for an audience that isn't as into it as you are is hard#and creating in general is hard#but god i just want like... something#every once in a while#without having to be the one to initiate and feel like i'm making people do things for me#yknow#im gonna go pretend im not upset about this
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don't think I'm not still obsessing over 7-12
#art#twisted wonderland#twisted wonderland spoilers#twisted wonderland episode 7 spoilers#twisted wonderland book 7 spoilers#twisted wonderland episode 7 part 12 spoilers#twisted wonderland book 7 part 12 spoilers#sorry it's even scribblier than usual :') hopefully my chickenscratch is legible#anyway come here and join me in the corner where we go to be embarrassing about anime characters#just. between riddle and trey's dreams i've been thinking a lot about how#trey knew this kid for like two months when he was nine and then never really got over him or how their friendship ended#which. honestly. understandable given the circumstances#and then when they finally met again riddle acted like they'd never met before and neither he nor trey ever intended trey to be his vice#but every time riddle talks about his childhood post-incident it's basically#'oh yeah i constantly thought about trey and che'nya and fantasized about still being friends with them! this is fine and normal'#(there's a bit in one of his birthday cards where he talks about crossword puzzles and shit man that one got me)#idk. i can't put this into words very well#just...the implications that riddle was actively resisting trey's friendship#(presumably because it ended SUPER badly last time and he's learned that if he shows he wants something it gets taken away from him)#and trey had to work REALLY hard to just to get to the point they were at by the time canon starts#that was progress somehow#y'all can call him boring all you want but trey's defining feature really is that he keeps being like#'everything's fine :) this isn't a big deal :) i don't care that much'#(trey on the inside: THIS IS THE BIGGEST DEAL THAT I CARE SO MUCH ABOUT AND I WILL NEVER LET IT GO)#anyway i continue to be absolutely murdered by the timing of riddlepunzel directly after this#riddle's line about not wanting to keep standing in front of a door that's never going to open...#hey. hey silly gacha game about anime disney boys.#you are not actually allowed to do this to me#oh shit oh damn i'm out of tags and i haven't even talked about cater yet. NO BUT I HAVE LOTS OF FEELINGS THERE TOO --#(i am crushed under a falling safe looney tunes style)
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Just some more thoughts on that jayvik dbh au
#I got a lot of people saying that Viktor should be the Android#which I did mention in the tags last time#but after thinking about it I just think that the human experience is such an integral part of viktor as a character#(aside from the fact that it makes every character ever)#his pain and suffering due to his illness and disability and class#like I can’t take that away from him#not that Jayce doesn’t go through his own things too#but I think Jayce’s naïveté from season one lends itself well to an Android in awe of human life#and a jaded but wise Viktor who still has a good heart and sense of humour#I mean this is just my version of the au and like I think I said in my tags last time im pretty sure I’ve seen a few around with android V#definitely got recommended some fics that I’m excited to check out!#sorry for rambling - this isn’t to discredit any other interpretations!! just kind of exploring my thought process behind it :)#oh also sorry that this is angsty lol#it’s fine#my art#arcane#jayvik#Jayce talis#jayce arcane#Viktor arcane#dbh#detroit become human#arcane au#noodles talks#(in the tags)
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i keep thinking about changing my name irl but its sooooooo scary like i cannot even begin to think about telling anyone
#jo rambles#and like#jo is a name i keep coming back to on here specifically#but it hasnt felt right in a while#more like a hat#unfortunately i do want to go by psyche#which is like fine#i just have to negate myself from whatever cringe was instilled in me years ago#about like picking your own name#its also complicated bc like#im not A Woman tm#but it doesnt feel right to refer to myself as trans in any capacity#emotions are hard for me#anyway
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The squad of all time has arrived on scene.
#dungeon meshi#mithrun#Cithis Ofri#Pattadol#Fleki#Lycion#Otta#Happy Canary Debut Day! These guys wont really get to be very present until the next season of Dungeon Meshi#But I can still be excited to see them animated!!!#Shout out to Pattadol - I also tend to occupy 'The Punchline' niche of the friendgroup.#The punchline differs from 'The Jester' who willingly absorbs the jokes. The punchline is often unwillingly the joke.#You are either the one no one likes or the well beloved little-sibiling-esque friend. Good luck figuring out which!#Yes it is canon that Otta is into Women. YES she dates younger women and dumps them when they age.#This isn't a fan made bit. It's real.#Dungeon Meshi has no romance but it does have canonically queer characters.#Shipping is fine and all but it is a running theme in the series than *everyone* who expresses romantic interest in someone -#-finds that love unrequited. Just something to be mindful of to measure your expectations of this series!#Ah! In other housekeeping notes; I'm going to *try* and add Alt Text to my dungeon meshi thurday posts going forwards.#I might not be able to do it day of but I will try to get it done within a week.
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Read two (2) books today yet struggled to get like any reading done for law school bc I kept falling asleep when doing so and having to go back to reading a like fiction book to wake up but then I’d get lost on the sauce and read like half the damn book before being like oh yeah lol home work. Smh. Curse u me. Like some of this si my meds making it so I can’t think good and my anxiety meds too strong so like don’t care about consequences as much but damn I thought I had more self control. Also the being able to read fiction but not stuff for school but also sometimes will still pass out while reading fiction so it’s really a roll of the dice if I will stay awake at any given time shit sucks.
#I was supposed to spend all day drawing cody and then doing work for my job which I will now have to do later tonight and then tomorrow#which is like fine#but ahhh I got so much to do
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replaying ace attorney 4
#ace attorney#phoenix wright#apollo justice#kristoph gavin#art#yeah so i was replaying ace attorney4#but it was a localization from my native language which came out like two months ago#this shit was wild#apollo's name is literally odoroki FINE#are u fine odoroki? IM FFFFIINNEEE like shut up boy#bllmak artwork
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