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bioware those are all wack responses to someone's crisis of faith.
#wheres the 'our cultures and customs can still be important to us no matter what ghilan'nain and elgarnan do' option.#why is the only decent dialogue option a flirt.#why does bellara say she thinks people are right to be afraid of your indigenous coded people why why WHY#WHY DOES THE CORE PREMISE OF YOUR GAME SUCK SO FUCKING BAD#dragon age veilguard spoilers
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rune misconceptions
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Learning and studying runes is no small task, and there's a lot of misinformation and misconceptions out there! We are also limited on historical sources of magical uses for runes, so reconstructing how to use runes often requires some creative liberties. Modern interpretations of the runes absolutely have their place, but understanding what we do and don't know about runes for historical sources can help you discern where information is coming from.
Blank Rune
The blank rune isn't a rune! Ralph Blum's "Book of Runes", published in 1983, is responsible for the creation of the blank rune. He preferred a 5x5 grid system over the 3 aettir sets, so adding a blank rune was convenient for this purpose. Additionally, the blank rune can be considered redundant. The blank rune is associated with wyrd and that you are not meant to know the answer, which is a meaning I've also seen many attribute to the rune Pertho.
Rune Spreads
While rune spreads can absolutely be useful in modern witchcraft/divination, we don't actually know that rune spreads have a historical basis. Our knowledge on the potential of rune casting in old customs comes primarily from Tacitus in "Germania" (not written by a practitioner, only an observer), who writes:
"They attach the highest importance to the taking of auspices and casting lots. Their usual procedure with the lot is simple. They cut off a branch from a nut-bearing tree and slice it into strips these they mark with different signs and throw them at random onto a white cloth. Then the state's priest, if it is an official consultation, or the father of the family, in a private one, offers prayer to the gods and looking up towards heaven picks up three strips, one at a time, and, according to which sign they have previously been marked with, makes his interpretation. If the lots forbid an undertaking, there is no deliberation that day about the matter in question. If they allow it, further confirmation is required by taking auspices."
However, this still doesn't necessarily indicate that the runes were the symbols in question, so whether runes were used for divination is still disputed! If rune castings and spreads work for you, keep at it! My only advice is to recognize that runes aren't just Norse tarot cards, respect their differences and treat them as separate. But be wary of sources that claim that their rune spreads or methods of casting are based in ancient practice - we know very little about divinatory uses of runes!
Origins
I've heard a few different stories on the origin of runes (mythologically speaking). Some claim that Oden created the runes and therefore belong to him. Others claim that Freja is responsible for teaching Oden the runes. While Oden is heavily associated with the runes and Freja did teach Oden magic (specifically sejd/seidr), the runes were revealed to Oden when he sacrificed himself on Yggdrasil and waited nine days and nights.
Learning the Runes
"Runes none should grave ever Who knows not to read them; Of dark spell full many The meaning may miss. Ten spell-words writ wrongly On whale-bone were graven: Whence to leek-tending maiden, Long sorrow and pain."
Egil's Saga warns people to not use the runes if you do not know them well. This isn't meant to fear-monger or discourage people away from learning the runes, but take your time learning them! Reflect on their meanings, understand how they fit into their mythological/cultural context.
References
http://whispersofyggdrasil.blogspot.com/2012/04/wyrd-blank-rune.html?m=1
https://www.groveandgrotto.com/blogs/articles/whats-up-with-the-blank-rune-how-and-whether-to-read-it
https://norse-mythology.org/runes/runic-philosophy-and-magic/
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Runic_magic
"Germania" by Tacitus
Egil's Saga
https://norse-mythology.org/tales/odins-discovery-of-the-runes/
#witch#witchcraft#witchblr#norse paganism#norse witch#heathenry#paganism#pagan#runes#beginner witch#baby witch#paganblr
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Hi. I have a bit of a problem regarding my appearance.
You see, for a long time I was a vessel for a greater deity. But, recently, that deity has left me. Usually, this isn’t supposed to happen. But, The Great One will do as She desires, so I was left behind.
The problem is, while She was inhabiting me, She made a few adjustments to my appearance. Horns, ear piercings, tattoos, etc.
When She left, the horns and scales disappeared. But the piercings and tattoos stayed. Honestly, I don’t mind them. I find them very stylish and have grown accustomed to them.
But it’s not exactly my call. You see, I am Sapio. Without The Great One using my form, I’m about the most average Sapio out there. But the markings and piercings adorning my body are symbolic of the devine-folk genetically related to The Great One. Which I am not. So, naturally, me having these markings is seen as incredibly appropriative.
So, what do I do? I can’t remove them, they’ve been divinely protected beyond belief. I can’t cover them either, they’re everywhere, and bundling up in the middle of Arizona summer isn’t exactly a wise choice for me.
So, how do I get people to realize that I’m not trying to be offensive? Or at least, how do I stop being offensive?
Unfortunately, reader, there's nothing you can do to ensure people don't misinterpret your physical appearance. It would make life a great deal easier if we could transmit our good intentions and mitigating contexts into the minds of others at a whim.
But even if we could, that's no guarantee others would take the time to actually listen before forming an opinion – or even that, after hearing our reasoned defences, that they would agree with us.
I think it's important to emphasise that you aren't actually being offensive here. Cultural appropriation is a very real issue, but you haven't appropriated anything. You were fully and sincerely part of the culture to which these adornments and markings belong.
In fact, I would strongly argue that you have every right still to identify with this culture, if you so wished. 'The most average sapio out there' has never been a vessel for a great deity. That experience doesn't stop being part of your story just because it is now in the past tense rather than the present.
However, you may still wish to avoid the stares and snap judgements your appearance might draw. In practical terms, you might consider using a glamour to subtly alter your appearance, or at least to draw attention away from your more controversial features.
Any reputable, licensed practitioner should be able to supply you with such workings, and many offer discounts if you're buying bulk. Glamours can be expensive though, so you'll likely want to reserve them for situations where they'll be most effective.
If you're just popping to the shops or taking a walk round the park, your best defence is a shift in mind-set. You don't need strangers to understand you. You know who you are, and you can share that with people who take the time to actually engage with you.
Otherwise, keep your head high, and concentrate on the opinions that matter – your own, and those of the people who love you.
Alternatively, you might consider getting some custom t-shirts made. 'I Was A Vessel To An Elder God And All I Got Were These Lousy Piercings' has a certain ring to it.
[For more creaturely advice, check out Monstrous Agonies on your podcast platform of choice, or visit monstrousproductions.org for more info]
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𝟏𝟗𝟔𝟖.
𝓝𝓸𝓽 𝓐 𝓛𝓲𝓽𝓽𝓵𝓮 𝓚𝓲𝓭 𝓐𝓷𝔂𝓶𝓸𝓻𝓮
𝙎𝘼𝘾𝙍𝙄𝙁𝘼𝙈𝙀 𝙎𝙀𝙍𝙄𝙀𝙎
George’s Notes
We were in India. Another place. Far from home. Enjoying meditation. Having fun.
This was my passion! In 1966. I brought the sitar and Julia loved it! Or John. Whatever. She used it in her “Norwegian Wood”. I always liked to talk about Ravi to them whenever I got the chance and all of them knew how much I liked Indian culture. So this getaway to our “ideological savior” seemed like a great way to relax ourselves. And for me, a great way to attract the writing pair’s attention! They always put Ringo and me down, even when they don’t necessarily mean it.
But the most important thing to me is that we all cleared our heads. Ritch left first. I felt sad, he and I hang out a lot, so the fact of him leaving first hit hard. Also, I understood why he did, he had bad allergies and the food here was upsetting for him.
The two that were left gave me a hard time, each in their own way. They talked to each other from time to time. Haven’t seen them talk normally for a while. Paul would be prissy and make stupid comments, while John was unbearlably fucking around with the idea of the religion. Paul was a bit too conservative for this so he left next. He tried out all the things this place had to offer, and I must say, maybe he explored this place the best. Linda was fine too… She is a nice gal. Like Cynthia, who I had the biggest crush on for a very long time. She fit in fine, and only seemed to care about two things; relaxing and John. John decided to stay however long I wanted to stay. Of course, we are quite similar, she was starry eyed too. Pattie and I had a lot of fun together, just hanging about and talking about the most basic stuff. It became a lot quieter since Paul left. John made some jokes but her-or his-or goddamn it, I’ve known this for six years and still can’t get it right! John’s attention was elsewhere.
What I didn’t expect was that Cynthia and Pattie became close and started to hang out on their own leaving us two behind. This was the chance to sell to John my idea for songs. Although, John looked more spaced out than usual. Offhanded comments here and there. Something about the sun, or nature, or the feel of the wind. John got poetic fast. And now, John and I are sitting here, on the beach. “Geo, do you really believe this small guru?”, oh… This is serious. It’s not really John when it’s serious.
“Yes, why?”
“Hum.”, she took a biscuit.
“Julia, why do you say that?”
“I think he is doing some fraudulent activities. Paul found something while he was scavenging.”
“And you still trust Paul?”, oh no, she is mad. Or no… Dissapointed.
She chuckled.
“Geo, he is still my songwriting partner. And here you are.”
She handed me the paper. It had a complete description of some customers' orders and the amount they charge. There was the order and then a tipping mechanism where they took 50% from people.
“I felt like Maharishi was a good little guru. Always setting up people. Making you bite.”, what the fuck are you saying Lennon!
“Me? We all bit it!”
“You bit it first.”
“Lord, Jules… Could be fake for all I know, or could be I dunno repurposed.”
“George. I’m not exaggerating aaaaand I’m not letting you spend any more money on this SCUM.”
“I know how to handle money! Sometimes better than you! Always better than John!”
“You don’t involve John in this! This is about you!”, Julia.
“Jules, I am not that fifteen year old anymore! I’m twenty five! I can make the right decisions on my own!”
Julia was distraught. But I told her the truth!
“Look, I know you are responsible, sometimes even more responsible than I am, but you are naive! You think everything can be resolved-”
“OF COURSE IT CAN! Julia, you could’ve made it known at any moment that you are a woman and it wouldn’t matter! We are on the toppermost of the poppermost Jules! You wanted to be there, remember!”, think woman, think!
Julia got angry, but not Julia angry but John angry, which was much scarier.
“We are there because people presume we are all men! And you never know what problems would arise should I do that! What if I put myself in danger? No, you in danger! I still don’t know why we’re on top. I know people dislike some of our music and want to see us fail! Half of the time I think our music is pure shite that won’t last a fucking day after if we hadn’t had such good marketing!”
“You must really hate yourself, Julia, if this trip couldn’t get you out of your mindset.”
“Georgie. Was it ever a secret?”, Jules laughed.
That woman drives me insane. I… This whole trip, the reason John was spaced out was because Julia was monitoring what I do! Lord, John or Jules always kept tabs on me! And I wonder how sometimes I could be lucky that Brian didn’t find out something or that Paul didn’t shout at me. Julia had my back!
“Jules! You should let me fight for myself! Goddamn it! Fuck you! I… Can’t stand you sometimes. I can’t stand that you…”
Push me and want me to write more, sing more, play more? Then as John put me down and snuff out my confidence.
“I cannot let you fuck yourself up because of some unimprotant man and his cult! I can’t let anyone scream at you because of something stupid that happened. George, I do that for Ritch also, though Ritch doesn’t get into sticky situations that much.”
“Stop helping me in the worst possible way. I have to face the consequences! I have to see it for myself.”
“But what if you never figure it out?”, Julia hugged me, “What if you continue believing in your delusion and it costs you everything?”
“JULIA, that is the thing I’M TRYING TO TELL YOU!”, I hugged her.
“What?”
“You have to stop! Paul gave up on you. He married Linda, because he couldn’t marry you! You destroy yourself with drugs. You drift away more often.”
She was speechless.
“You hurt Cynthia, Ritch and I as John because of the stress and misuse of drugs! You are not yourself anymore.”
“You can’t say that you don’t use drugs too…”
“I don’t use them as much as you do. Our mommy’s death broke us. It broke you two the most.”
“Shut up, George.”
And here is John.
“John is becoming his own thing and I don’t think you can even see when you are the one or the-”
“JOHN ISN’T A REAL PERSON!”, he covered his mouth.
“He isn’t a person, he is just a device, an idea!”, he flailed his hands around.
“I can do everything and I don’t need your stupid advice. I came here to tell you and try to get you out of this cult, not to be lectured by some pussy.”
I sighed.
“George, I am going. Enjoy the view. I cannot anymore. I don’t even see properly without me glasses, so what did I even see in this place? Don’t think I didn’t get hopeful when I got here! I did. I was hopeful I would relax. I didn’t. I was scared half of the time someone would fuck up and with any interaction with Paul and other half of the time I was questioning this place. I am restless, and suppose I will be, for the rest of my life.”
“John, I told you what I meant. I am direct. Unlike you, just like Julia. I cannot watch you suffer any longer! I can’t watch people around me suffer! Just think about it! Just think!”
“I feel. I have to feel it’s right.”, John looked at me with teary eyes. Never seen Julia cry as John.
“Alright… I didn’t want to make you cry… Now it looks weird because you are still in that John getup of yours.”
Julia laughed.
“Getup, haha! Geo, you are getting more creative by the day.”
Julia lit up.
“Okay, if you want me to relax so much, I have an idea, juuuust look away for a… Couple of minutes.”
“Oh no, I have encouraged Julia Victoria Lennon to do something.”
She smiled and I turned away. I heard the sound of clothes moving around. Then bandages being taken down. Maybe even a hair tie being let down.
“Turn around!”
Oh, now it’s just Julia.
“Ta-da! Now I can relax.”, she spread herself on the sand.
“Wait- Don’t relax too much! I want to tell you about my songs!”
“Alright, Geo, what do you have in mind?”
I told her every minute detail about the songs I wrote. She listened to me! Yay! And she even approved some! And gave me some tips and tricks to work on my songs. It was really such a nice session of writing. I missed when she would give me some song attention instead of treating me like a little kid who can barely write and play.
“That’s great, I’m so proud of you!”, Julia scratched my head, “Baby George!”
“Augh, I thought you said you’ll stop calling me that!”
“Well, John said that, I didn’t.”
“You can’t get away with this!”
She calmed down.
“But seriously, continue working on this, it will sound better and better. Maybe I could get Paul to approve it-”
“No, I’ll show it to him just like I’ve shown you! Don’t do anything Lennon, I beg of ya!”
“I won’t then.”, she wistfully smiled.
You could sense the feeling of satisfaction coming from her.
“Maybe you aren’t so fragile and small like you were Georgie. But enough about that, I’m going for a swim!”
“Not without me!”
We jumped into the ocean and played around. Julia loved to swim, she was fast on foot, and she was a fast swimmer. She swam almost half a kilometer away in just 12 minutes. How does she do that with our clunky clothes? I followed her but I didn't like the chance of getting an ache and I went back to the shore. I was happy for her. This is the first time she looked naturally relaxed during this entire trip! She swam back after 20 minutes.
“I wonder how you can swim so far and not get scared? Or any aches?”
“I got aches. I just ignore them and paddle my way back, simple as that!”
“You are so weird sometimes!”, I chuckled, “And capable!”
“Um, that’s my job as your leader, dummy!”, she knocked my head.
I laughed.
“I wish I could relax like this everyday!”
“Well, that isn’t happening. But, I have a mystery to debunk, and that is Maharishi’s history. I’ll have fun.”
“You are still on about what Paul said? How about you stop thinking about him and just think about hm…”
“No, I’m doing more as a fuck you to cultists then because of Paul. I’m angry at Paul. I’m miserable because of him.”
“Glad you understand basic human emotions.”
She giggled.
“Okay, Harrison. Tell ya if I find more evidence, but knowing these kinds of trickster buggers, you won't be waiting much!”
The sun was setting and we were gazing at the view. Until I heard some movement in the trees.
“Where did we end up? Are you sure both of them are here! Oh, look, there is George!”, Pattie! Darling!
“Come here! Missed you so much!”, I hugged her.
“Where’s John?”, Cynthia wondered.
Oh my Lord, where is Julia?
“Um, I dunno, he was just here with me.”
I searched with my eyes and found Julia hiding behind a rock all panic ridden.
“Why are there bandages on the floor?”, Pattie asked.
Cynthia realized what had happened.
“Just some trash we encountered, how awfully dirty the tourists here must be!”
“I’ll then find a rubbish bin suitable for them.”, Cynthia, thank you for taking care of John. I’m glad Julia chose to be with you and pretend than anyone else.
Julia looked at me. Her look was basically telling me: “What do we do? Should I go out or not? No, tell them to leave! Give Cynthia a sign to make them leave. I don’t want anyone else finding out.”
I scoffed.
“Where did you scoff at.”, Pattie said, “At that rock!”
Julia came out with her hands crossed.
Cyn was shocked but relieved to see her. She was waiting for what Julia would do.
“OH, it’s John, see Cyn we found him! Though I must say you look more frail than usual.”
“What can I say? This sun eats ya!”
We chuckled.
“And I had to see what Cyn’s relief looked like. Never expected such a big reaction from ya.”
“How can I not react that way when I love you so much!”, she ran towards Julia and hugged her as hard as possible, “I was already thinking I had to call the search party to search all over!”
“Don’t worry Cyn, I can handle a little labyrinth!”
“I don’t think so!”
“Alriiight.”, Julia sighed, smiling.
“Glad we are all here then! Let’s all go back together to our houses!”, Pattie was happy.
“Nah, I’d like to stay here a bit longer with Cyn.”, Julia disappointed me yet again.
“Oh- Oh, well have fun!”, Pattie waved them goodbye and I took her hand.
I sent another look to Julia. It meant “When are you going to stop lying!”
I figured Cyn helped Julia get bandaged up, because it was going to be dinner time soon. The rest of the day went normally. And the rest of the vacation was great, though it was cut short because of John’s investigation! He found out that Maharishi is a fraud, and really a fraud! So I dug deeper, and found the same, with more evidence! We united the evidence and presented it to the man, who said we were exaggerating and not understanding what it said!
“Look, you can’t deny your eyes and there are two of us claiming this against you! You lied to me!”, I began, “You lied to me that money wasn’t that important!”
“Well, I didn’t say that it was not necessary, you got to make a living!”
“By scamming others, not such a little good guru afterall! With this kind of behavior, I would’ve thought you would also pay flying carpet lessons!”
Maharishi chuckled.
“You know, this proves you’ll be absolutely the same as before if you leave. You, Lennon, have something to hide. Always look like that. You think you are clever, but you are not. You are empty, surrounded by enlightening remarks. But what is their purpose, you don’t know. For you, George Harrison, you will still be that insecure and childish egoist I met. Direct and naive; curious too. No wonder you dragged the whole group of you to-”
John was angry.
“You are not going to talk that way about us UNLESS I say what I think about you first! You are a snide, privacy breaking, yellow bellied, ass licking, greedy son of a bitch who likes to think he is so high and mighty! So it is just right to take away people’s hard earned cash like that!”
“The Beatles are basically the same thing!”
“We make good music.”, John replied.
“And we make good points? Explain the difference, Lennon, explain it! Oh, and haven’t seen this much emotion from you during your whole stay, I’m glad-”
“Because I didn’t get mad!”
“I’ll answer instead. We follow the regulations. We are not some other outside organization. We aren’t money grubbing. Maybe our producers are. And I know we will fix that when we find some inconsistencies.”, I jumped in to help.
“Maybe we are materialistic, but we aren’t putting other people in DEBT you whore! I checked multiple times.”, John continued.
“To check isn’t in character for John Lennon.”, Maharishi chuckled.
“It is if I think so. I don’t con people.”, John answered feeling confused on why Maharishi would say that. Then the guru scammer smiled.
“I’ll figure you out, Lennon. You have something to hide.”
John chuckled, “To hide is to survive? Isn’t that the principle of not getting caught in your scam?”
Maharishi got serious.
“You are feeling guilty of your scamming and blaming others, meanwhile I don’t have anything to declare.”, John stated with confidence.
“I know a deviant when I see them.”
“Oh, and now it’s John’s fault I have turned against you, isn’t it!”, I figured it out, “Trying to blame him for my complaint!”
Maharishi looked at me with some kind of disgust.
“Of course. Of course, we are leaving now. This instant.”, I got mad.
“Don’t go mad Georgie, this mister right here can use it against ya. You have to be relaxed and fulfilled, like he said. That’s how you get happiness, right?”, John joked.
I chuckled and calmed down.
“Yer right.”
“Well, mister, we loved the island and all, but you're a fraud and we have to go!”, John waved him goodbye and I followed. Maharishi pulled me back.
“Mr. Harrison, don’t listen to him!”, he told me, “He is a deviant, a snake, presenting himself as he isn’t!”
“And why would I not? He is one the lads! And you are the snake here.”
“No, no, that’s not a “lad” as you say, not a traditional lad, that’s a hijra.”
“A what now?”
“A… neither male nor female.”
I looked at him blankly. So he figured out the twin tale?
“You cannot trust someone who doesn’t know what they are. And this person, this “John Lennon” as they call itself, is absolutely not trustworthy. Always joking around, always monitoring you, always making inappropriate and underhanded comments. You want freedom and expression right?”
Lord, this slimy motherfucker.
“John is still one of my best friends and pals. You can’t make me stay here any longer. You just made me more angry and volatile. And you accuse John of such heinous acts with no evidence to support it.”
I began walking away towards John, who was packing with Cynthia and Pattie.
“Oh, I understand now. You know of Lennon’s decadency even before I even tell you! Both of you are flawed, go then! I don’t need a place for rude and deviant people like you!”
“Oh, where’s the “we welcome everyone to our family!” or “we are happy to accept any LOST soul”.”, John argued.
Maharishi smiled and walked up to John. He said something to him that made him shiver. Still John behaved cocky and said,
“Oh, I promise I’ll do that. For the chance to piss you off, I’ll continue doing that for as long as I want to!”
We boarded the boat. I looked at John perplexed.
“What happened for us to go earlier?”, Pattie wondered.
“John, what did you do?”, Cyn asked.
“Absolutely nothing that deserved that kind of send off! Accusing me of deviancy just because George and I handed in some damning evidence that Maharishi scams people!”
“That’s… Fun.”, Cynthia sighed, “Well, at least we’re in one piece and haven’t been held up by that con artist in any other way.”
“You are so smart, Cyn.”, John chuckled, “Yer right as ever.”
John proceeded to kiss her. Before that he gave her a small, not really noticeable sign. He always warned Cyn before kissing her. But I never really noticed Cyn tensing up before the act.
I kissed Pattie as well and whispered in her ear:
“I’m glad this hellish discussion is over and you have absolutely nothing to do with it!”
“I’m glad you’re okay, George.”
Pattie looked at Cynthia and John, “Let’s go inside, it’s getting a bit chilly in here.”
“Wait for us two inside then, I have to talk to John about this shit in private.”
The wives giggled.
“Alright then, George, we’ll be inside. If you need any advice or a shoulder to cry on, you know where to find us!”
“Pattie, sometimes you could be so funny!”, my sweet Pattie.
“And not always? The insolence of this young man! We are going inside, pronto!”, Cynthia pulled Pattie with her.
John rolled his eyes while chuckling.
“No wonder Cyn is my best female friend.”
“Well, a wife is a best friend too.”, I joked.
There was a small pause. We looked at the ocean and the waves splashing in the sun.
“John, what did that son of a bitch tell you?”
“There is something called a hijra in Indian or Southeastern culture. It is a person in drag, a person who identifies as the opposite gender… He told me that he figured out I was in drag. He told me I can’t keep it together and remain normal if I ever was. He told me I corrupted you… He told me I will drag the entire band into ruin. And even if I told everyone the truth that I would make everything the Beatles did worthless and meaningless.”
“What a freak!”, I couldn’t believe it. Maharishi was today very awful towards us, especially towards John. Was he always a bit more awful to women? Now that I think about it, he didn’t talk that much with our wives. He focused on us four. What a scammer.
“I know that, but it does send shivers down my spine, y’know.”
“I’m just happy we had fun and we’re going home, Jules.”, ahh, fuck this man.
“Yeah, I’m happy too. Let’s go inside, Geo.”
“Yeah. Thanks for looking out for me… But please don’t do it as much anymore, Julia.”
“I’ll try not to. And… Perhaps, baby George is right about some things.”
I think some things are going to change in the Beatles and I hope for the better. The most important thing is that I have proven that I’m not a child anymore - I’m an adult who speaks his mind and deserves to be listened to. Perhaps, they will put more songs on the next album… Can’t wait to work with Ritch again…
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#classic rock#john lennon#paul mccartney#the beatles#beatles fanfiction#george harrison#ringo starr#cynthia lennon#maharishi mahesh yogi#hare krishna#sixties#1960s#mclennon#pattie boyd#george and pattie
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Whenever I say that emotions are shitty liars and we should spend less time Validating them and more time exposing their calumny, people always want to make the distinction that feelings are always valid, only your reaction to the feelings can be judged. And the problem is that's true if you're arguing about "validity" as a moral category, which I am not because I don't give a shit about that.
And that's in some sense a privileged position that I have! Not in the sense of privilege as institutional power, but just like -- good fortune. I was raised in the Free To Be You and Me era, by hippies with advanced psychology degrees and Mr. Rogers. I already know that it's "valid" to experience negative emotions, in the sense of "normal and inevitable" and also in the sense of "thought crime is fake." I know some people were acculturated into an extremely different belief system that prioritized pure thoughts and a pure heart. That sucks -- people lied to you and it fucked you up a little, or maybe a lot. If that's where you're currently at, I get it, and probably what you do really still need is some version of Mr. Rogers coaching you nonjudgmentally through what to do with the mad that you feel. That's a little basic when it comes to emotional literacy, but if you never mastered the basics, you gotta start sometime!
However, I'm not talking about that because it's boring to me. What's fascinating to me is that emotions feel real even when they are "invalid" in the sense of "based on literally fuckall." Like, you know what makes me blinding angry? The self-checkout machine telling me nine times to scan an item I just scanned. I wanna put my fucking fist through the thing! I want to kill it.
Now, the reality is that there is nothing happening in those moments that truly justifies my emotional reaction. I don't react like that to actual human beings, even the ones who are trying to hurt me on purpose! Certainly a little piece of machinery making my checkout experience longer by maybe ten seconds is -- like, it's not even a thing! The proportional emotional reaction to that is basically nothing. And being angry with something that has no volition is ridiculous, but how often do most of us do it? We're angry at the traffic lights or the security questions on our bank app or the fucking weather. It's such an ordinary experience, we bond over how angry these random little inconveniences make us. And by the way, the people who value purity of heart most keenly do seem to displace extremely aggressive anger onto inconveniences at a disproportionately high rate, which is how you get high-vibes yoga moms or good church deacons screaming like a lunatic about some problem with their Instacart order.
So, like. Obviously something else is going on. I'm not angry at this machine for wasting my valuable ten seconds. Not really. I'm angry because so much of my life is spent interfacing with automated systems and I resent all the million little ways I feel unseen as a human being. I'm angry because I was raised by a culture that taught me the one and only realm of my life where I was allowed to have unquestionable authority over my own experience is when it's my turn to be The Customer, so it feels especially violating when I'm helpless within my Paying Customer Experience. And I'm angry because I usually do my grocery shopping on the way home from work, and I'm tired and hungry and my animal brain is feeling increasingly desperate about this threatening situation.
Those are emotions that are important, in the sense of needing to be validated and understood, but you can't even get to them until you you recognize that what feels enormously real right now -- that I hate this specific machine and long for the opportunity to break it -- is in fact false. The truth is, this doesn't matter, and I won't care about it five seconds after I walk out. The truth is, I wouldn't feel better if I broke the machine; it wouldn't solve any problem I have, and I'd just feel like a dumbass. The truth is, telling myself it's normal and healthy and valid to hate self-checkout machines obscures the actual powerful clarity I can achieve when I stop and think, what's the true thing that I can't focus on while I'm being angry about this fake thing? The emotion itself (I'm going to kill this fucking machine!) is a maladaptive response, even though I never actually act on it. The emotion itself is part of a set of lies I tell myself about my life and how I feel about it. It's not immoral, but it's an obstacle, the same way uncritically accepting any false thing is an obstacle to my ultimate goal, which is to live a life as unburdened by lies as possible.
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Martell’s stans pretending that they’re representatives of Global South in ASOIAF where instead they’re a region who’s constantly in clash with their neighbours cause they can’t stop looting and raiding the Stormlands and the Reach.
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I haven't come across a Martell stan yet, in all my 7-month life here on Tumblr. But I already wrote a post on why the Martells aren't exactly PoCs (because race, as Americans and modern peoples know the thing, doesn't exist in this fictional universe) so much as "Others" are seen as ethnically different but not enough for there to be concern over "miscegenation" or "dirtying the blood" or losing actual social privileges the Martells still had like other "white", nonDornish nobles.
Ethnicity doesn't equal race, and "people of color" denotes "non-white" people, and "white"/"PoC" are racial terms.
Nationality also does not equal race, nor does it equal ethnicity, though in some racial hierarchies it def gives whatever racial meaning of black/poc the society in question has. "Race"--as in just the practical applications of their real modern realities and economic and social structures as a result--is not accurate or a paltry thing the further you go back in time. There were definitely racializations, racial & ethnic biases, and ethnic & racial tensions/violence, but religion and/or language more often defined a person's belonging and identity within a different hegemony until maybe the late 14th to 15th centuries.
The Rhoynish would definitely be considered PoC in our modern American & British racial categorization; in the world itself, yes they were a "foreign" and literally foreign people and a different ethnicity from First Men and Andal.
However, ONE -- Dorne is not progressive in terms of class, not at all, and TWO -- these two are both Essosi in origin while several of their original cultural aspects [the Faith, the symbols, chivalry, court culture, oaths, the kin slaying taboo, the importance placed on swords, guest rights, etc.] still exist in the main events of ASoIaF right now. These didn't change or get lost upon their arrival to the Westerosi continent.
Dorne, by virtue of the fact that their succession customs are equal gender, will inevitably be Othered and thus they have that sense of "not white-ness" but this doesn't really pin them down as "PoC" bc the emphasis of why the Dornish are Othered is much more about there being less misogyny than religion, region, etc. and the Martells still independently/non-coercively share Andal cultural aspects then they do Rhoynish. Because, how can the whites (nonDornishmen) racialize a region based on skin color or principles of "purity" seen through the outside (as this has been used to create current racial categories) with people with different skin colors?
The First Men are not Andals, the Andals and FM fought several times in past history, come from different regions of Essos, have different religions and both typically have paler skin. Both have misogynist practices and are more stringent about male primogeniture and able-bodiedness mattering to leadership.
The "salty" Martells and other Dornish--even those who are "sandy" or "stony" as Daeron I categorized them--are more analogues of both Welsh vs. the Anglo-Saxons or Normans (all "racially white" ) because of their constant wars with Reach people and Stormlanders. AND Spaniards (European people, so racially white) because Spain has a history of Moor, Hebrew/Jew, and pre-Moor Spaniards having intermarriages and other types of exchange or interaction LONG before King Ferdinand and Queen Isabella expelled the Jewish and Muslim peoples. Even then, she and her King husband were not at first the rulers of all of "Spain", but of the kingdoms of Aragon and Castile freshly uniting these to develop and become what we know as "Spain". Like how England used to be Kent, East Anglia, Essex, Mercia, Northumbria, Sussex, Wessex, the Welsh peoples (a Celtic people) before the Normans arrived (Northmen/Scandinavian/Swedish/Danish/Viking originated) and conquered the English islands.
Once again, do we consider Spain a "white" country, or not?
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The Hotdog: a lesson in extravagant hospitality and humility.
I got home late last night and was perusing TikTok when I came across this video. I’d just left our Small Group Ministry Taskforce meeting, and I was really struck by how applicable this short video and the lessons it contains are to our ministry. A few observations:
1. Be in the room. He was bussing a table, quietly and unobtrusively serving his customers when all of this went down. If we’re going to serve others, we have to show up and get close. It’s also important to note that he was the owner- and yet he was still in the room clearing plates.
2. Pay attention & really listen. He could’ve zoned out and just done his job. But he was actively observing his customers, looking for cues, and reallly paying attention to their needs. He was engaged and actively looking for ways to serve.
3. Keep looking for ways to exceed expectations. Presumably, these guests were being served the best of the best. But there was more! One more thing! We love those, “but wait, there’s more” moments.
4. Meet a need. At the end of the day, they knew their mission was meeting needs. The same is true of us. Don’t let anyone leave hungry.
5. Think outside the box/restaurant/church. Was it incomprehensible that the best restaurant in the world would serve a street dog? Obviously not. Sometimes, we have to consider options that are NOT on the table.
6. Know the culture/your community. He knew exactly where to get a hotdog. He knew how to order it and get it inside his own kitchen quickly. He knew the resources of the community outside his doors.
7. Be authentic. He procured an authentic New York City street hotdog. Even though they were serving someone else’s hotdog, they took it into their own kitchen, cut it up, and applied their own condiments with their own signature flair. They made it their own and stayed true to their values and culture.
8. Make it seamless. We can control for this. Do everything we do with excellence and precision. We love Ina and Martha because they make hospitality look easy.
9. Keep pursuing. The meal was over. The job had been done. And yet, they didn’t stop.
10. Keep our pride in check. No matter what we’re serving, sometimes people just want a hotdog.
11. Make the main thing the main thing: He realized he wasn’t just serving food. It wasn’t just a dining experience. It was making people feel seen, welcomed, and to give them a sense of belonging. Hospitality is the business of human connection. We take that a step further: through extravagant hospitality we offer a picture of the kingdom of God where ALL are welcome and embraced as beloved.
Each person in the pews is a consumer. What are we feeding them? Are we satisfying their hunger? Not just superficially but the deepest needs of their soul? What about those outside our doors? They are owed the same extravagant hospitality as the insiders.
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WHAT KATE SAW IN YOUR MIND THE FRONT
You just know someone knows something, and that's pretty easy with digital content. The danger here is that new founders, looking at existing founders, will think that they're supermen that one couldn't possibly equal oneself. I use to check mail or browse the web, I become much more engaging, and even then you don't make much from it, because a toll has to be for multiple millions of dollars. It's like Google's Don't be evil has been good for Google. And lately hackers have sensed a change in the atmosphere. But so would any VC. If I was any good, why didn't I have the easy confidence winners are supposed to be covered in the termsheet.
We're not depending just on technical tricks. As well as being smarter, they tend to operate in secret. Almost every form of publishing has been organized as if the medium was what they were selling, and the latter because the whole culture cares about design will be sailing upwind. A position on the ladder. Some founders say Who needs investors? You can't just sit there. You can still see evidence of that if you look for it.1 If you fire or avoid toxic customers, you can figure out some hack that will at least conceal the problem. The reason VCs want a strong brand is not to draw in more business plans over the transom, but so that they can advise you, but we may change our minds if it looks like you're taking off. Otherwise you're probably just postponing the problem, and that is exactly the kind VCs won't touch.2 A while ago an eminent VC firm offered a series A round. There's nothing like living abroad to teach you that.
It was like watching a car you're chasing turn down a street that you know has no outlet.3 This trend is compounded by the obsession that the press has with founders.4 Now there's something any individual can do about this problem, without waiting for the government: ask companies where they stand. But it isn't working. So a wise person knows what to do in situations where few others could.5 But the major parties know so well which issues matter how much to how many voters, and adjust their message so precisely in response, that they tend to split the difference on the issues, leaving the election to be decided by the one factor they can't control: charisma. Clearly at some point. The way to do it, you'll miss out on most of the US.6 It has to set off alarms. You can probably take it as a cost of doing business. In those businesses, the designers though they're not generally called that have more power. This is understandable with angels; they invest on a smaller scale without moving.7
But you don't need them. It's particularly important to raise money from them. The company is now starting to read as a failure. It seems the clear winner for generating wealth and technical innovations which are practically the same thing. Someone like a judge or a military officer can in much of his work be guided by duty, but duty is no guide in making things. The reason Florence is famous is that in 1450, it was neither a success nor a failure; it was too early to ask. Note: The strategy described at the end of the spectrum are crack and meth.
The idea that a successful person should be happy has thousands of years of momentum behind it.8 In the movie Wall Street, Gordon Gekko ridicules a company overloaded with vice presidents. So you start working. That's a known danger sign, like drinking alone. Most people I know have problems with Internet addiction.9 If they did, it would be stupid to try the experiment and find out. And indeed, most startups that turn down acquisition offers ultimately do better. Most of the stuff I accumulated was worthless, because I didn't need it. We no longer admire the sage—not the way people did two thousand years ago. Whereas if a VC invested in a startup founded by three former banking executives in their 40s who planned to use the money to pay programmers to build their product for them. The reason I've been writing about existing forms is that I don't know what new forms will appear.10
Already most technology companies wouldn't sink to using patents on startups. Whereas hackers will move to the Bay Area to find investors. I'm talking about something more mundane. In US presidential elections, the more stuff they seem to have been a rejection. What bites them the second time is a confluence of three forces: The company is now starting to read as a failure. I don't know what new forms will appear. If you take VC money, you have to be a matter of days, and literally nothing has changed. But it is less of a change, financially, than one might think. Human problems are the most common type, so being good at solving those is key in achieving a high average outcome.11 At the very least, we can mitigate its effects. This trend is compounded by the obsession that the press has with founders. He was just more charismatic than George Bush or God help us Bob Dole.
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If not, greater accessibility. And you can charge for. Eighteen months later Google paid 1. When you're starting a company changes people.
The former is obviously a better user experience. I was writing this, I would be to advertise, and more pervasive though. Yes, I was a refinement that made steam engines dramatically more efficient, it could hose the whole venture business would work to have done and try selling it.
As Paul Buchheit for the future.
I had no idea whether this would be enough to invest at any valuation the founders of Hewlett Packard said it first, but definitely monotonically. If he's bad at it, because a unless your last funding round usually reflects some other contribution by the financial controls of World War II had become so common that their explicit goal at Y Combinator was a strong local component and b not allow them to tell how serious potential investors are also exempt. The tipping point for me to put it this way. Prose lets you be more precise, and earns the right thing, while they tried to shift back.
Monroeville Mall was at Harvard is significantly better than the valuation of the rest have mostly raised money at first, but they seem to have to disclose the threat to potential speakers. The hardest kind of gestures you use the wrong target. But the question is only half a religious one; there is something in the last step is to get all the investors talking to you; you're too early for a monitor. Whereas the value of a problem this will help you along by promising to invest more.
You're investing your own time, because there are those that made them register. I would take another startup to be memorized. Com/spam.
They want so much better that it had no idea how much they liked the outdoors?
Sometimes a competitor will deliberately affect more interest than they expected and they would implement it and creates a rationalization for doing so because otherwise you'd be undercapitalized. Someone proofreading a manuscript could probably starve the trolls of the river among the bear gardens and whorehouses. I was insane—they could to help SCO sue them.
When investors can't make up startup ideas is to raise their kids won't listen to God. Viaweb, and suddenly they need them to ignore these clauses, because the ordering system, the jet engine, but we are only about 2% of the potential magnitude of the Daddy Model and reality is the odds are slightly worse. It's possible that companies like Google and Facebook are driven by people trying to upgrade an existing university, or b to get something for a couple years. So if you make, which either desperately tries to munge what I've said into something that conforms with their companies took off?
Software companies can afford that.
This is one of their upbringing in their graphic design.
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610: Practical Applications Of A Must-Read Book Into Your Small Business
This Podcast Is Episode 610, And It's About Practical Applications Of A Must-Read Book Into Your Small Business
It's amazing how some books stand the test of time. We usually refer to one of our most recommended, Stephen Covey's The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, when we mentor our contractor clients and employees. Although it was first published three decades ago, its lessons are still incredibly relevant for business owners. You might wonder – how these habits fit into today's landscape of changing trends, tight deadlines, and constant distractions. The short answer is that they're timeless because they focus on principles that help you stay grounded while growing your construction business.
Below, we'll break down some of Covey's key habits and explore how you can bring them to life in your business today. Think of this as your blueprint for thriving in the chaos, not just surviving it.
1. Be proactive – the power of owning your choices
Covey's first habit, "Be Proactive," is about owning your life and decisions. For business owners, this means focusing on what you can control instead of stressing about what you can't.
Here's the thing about being reactive—it's debilitating. Complaining about a slow economy or frustrated customers doesn't solve anything, but switching to a proactive mindset is a game changer.
Anticipate potential challenges before they become disasters. For instance, if team morale starts to dip, address it early with open communication or team-building initiatives.
Focus on solutions, not problems. Instead of dwelling on a client who backed out, consider what adjustments in your sales process could improve retention.
Teach your team the same mindset. An empowered team that problem-solves proactively is a considerable asset.
Proactive leadership doesn't just keep you afloat; it helps you adapt and innovate in a competitive landscape.
2. "Begin with the end in mind" - set clear goals
This one often hits deep because how many rush into a workday without a clear direction? Covey's second habit reminds us to define our goals before taking action.
If you're running a business, you have to think long-term. What kind of company culture are you building? What legacy do you want to leave behind? Once you're clear on those things, aligning your daily tasks and decisions with the bigger picture becomes easier.
Create a vision statement that both you and your team can rally behind.
Before launching a new service, ask, "What does success look like?" and "How does this align with our core mission?"
Use goal-setting frameworks like OKRs (Objectives and Key Results) to ensure everyone in the business knows where they're headed.
Think of this habit as your compass. Without it, you're likely to work hard but still feel lost.
3. Put first things first – manage your time
Quick question – how often do you find yourself buried in "urgent" tasks, only to acknowledge at the end of the day that you didn't touch what's important? That's where Covey's third habit, "Put First Things First," shines. It's all about distinguishing between urgent and truly important, then acting accordingly.
Use Covey's Time Management Matrix. Focus on tasks that fall into Quadrant II – essential but not urgent (strategic planning, team development, or building new partnerships).
Delegate or eliminate tasks that don't move the needle. Not everything deserves your attention.
Start each day by asking yourself, What's my biggest priority? If I do nothing else today, what task absolutely must get done?
When you focus on what truly matters, you'll feel less like you're playing catch-up and more like you're moving forward.
4. Think win-win – building mutually beneficial relationships
Business isn't a zero-sum game. Covey's fourth habit, "Think Win-Win," pushes us to find solutions that benefit everyone involved—clients, employees, and business partners. It's the foundation of trust and collaboration.
Negotiate with empathy. During discussions, consider the other party's needs and goals and find a compromise that works for everyone.
For your team, create opportunities where employees feel empowered and valued. A win-win work culture keeps talent engaged.
Innovate with your customers in mind. Ask how you can provide more value to them – and watch how that mindset leads to loyalty and referrals.
Win-win isn't always the easiest route, but it pays off in the long run.
5. Seek first to understand, then to be understood – empathetic communication
Have you ever been in a meeting where everyone is talking, but no one is actually listening? Covey nailed it when he discussed the importance of understanding others before getting your point across.
Empathetic communication is one of the most valuable tools for construction business owners. Whether with a frustrated client or a team member struggling with workload, truly listening builds trust and clarity.
Pause during tough conversations and fully grasp the other person's perspective before responding.
Use active listening techniques like paraphrasing or asking thoughtful follow-up questions.
Encourage this habit in your team to strengthen collaboration and reduce misunderstandings.
The better your communication, the stronger your relationships – and a thriving business is built on great relationships.
6. Synergize
Combine the strengths of diverse team members to achieve innovative solutions. In construction, this can mean leveraging the unique skills of various trades to enhance project efficiency. Encourage collaboration through joint problem-solving sessions, where team members can share ideas and work together on challenges. The combined efforts of a well-coordinated team can lead to exceptional results.
7. Sharpen the Saw
Invest in the ongoing development of yourself and your team. This includes professional training, certifications, and wellness initiatives to ensure everyone functions at their best. Encourage a culture of continuous improvement through workshops and skill-building exercises. Regularly reassessing and refining processes keeps your business adaptive and innovative in a competitive market.
What makes "The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People" priceless for construction business owners today? Its focus is on principles over trends. Trends come and go, but these habits ground you in what truly works – proactive leadership, clear goals, thoughtful planning, and fostering meaningful relationships.
Adapting these habits to your daily life won't happen overnight, but even small shifts can create momentum. Pick one habit to focus on this week, cultivate a proactive, goal-oriented, collaborative environment, and see how it transforms your leadership and business growth.
Remember, no matter how fast the business world moves, the principles in this book will always hold relevance. They don't just make you more effective – they make you a better leader, decision-maker, and collaborator. So whether you need an excellent book or a knowledgeable bookkeeper, we are here to help.
About The Author:
Sharie DeHart, QPA, is the co-founder of Business Consulting And Accounting in Lynnwood, Washington. She is the leading expert in managing outsourced construction bookkeeping and accounting services companies and cash management accounting for small construction companies across the USA. She encourages Contractors and Construction Company Owners to stay current on their tax obligations and offers insights on managing the remaining cash flow to operate and grow their construction company sales and profits so they can put more money in the bank. Call 1-800-361-1770 or [email protected]
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The Importance of Photography Services in Today's Visual World
In a world where images dominate our everyday lives, photography services have become indispensable for preserving moments, telling stories, and evoking emotions. Whether for personal or professional purposes, the role of photography in capturing memories and creating lasting impressions has never been more vital. In this article, we’ll explore the significance of photography services, the various types available, and how both businesses and individuals benefit from professional photography.
The Growth of Photography Services
Photography has evolved dramatically over the years. From the early days of film photography to today's digital age, advancements in technology have revolutionized the art form. With the rise of social media and smartphones equipped with high-quality cameras, capturing photos has become easier than ever. However, despite the accessibility of amateur photography, there is still a strong demand for professional services. Skilled photographers bring expertise, creativity, and technical precision that go far beyond what can be achieved with a mobile phone.
Different Types of Photography Services
Photography services are diverse and cater to a broad spectrum of needs. Here are some of the most common types:
Wedding Photography: Arguably one of the most popular photography services, wedding photography captures the emotion and beauty of a couple’s special day. Professional photographers are adept at capturing not only the key moments but also candid emotions, ensuring the day’s memories are preserved in stunning images.
Portrait Photography: Portrait photography focuses on capturing the personality and essence of an individual or group. Whether for personal use, family portraits, or business headshots, professional photographers ensure that lighting, posing, and background elements enhance the subject, resulting in flattering and memorable photographs.
Event Photography: Whether it’s a corporate event, party, or conference, event photography is essential for documenting important moments. A professional photographer knows how to move quickly through a crowd, capturing candid moments while still staying out of sight. This service results in a comprehensive visual story of the event.
Commercial Photography: Commercial photography includes product photos, food photography, and advertisements. High-quality images are crucial for marketing and branding, as they visually communicate the essence of a business's offerings. Photographers skilled in commercial work know how to create images that attract customers and convey a brand’s identity.
Real Estate Photography: Professional real estate photography is vital for showcasing properties. High-quality images of homes and commercial buildings help attract potential buyers and renters by emphasizing the property’s best features. In addition to interior shots, many real estate photographers use drone photography and virtual tours to enhance the listing.
Fine Art Photography: Fine art photography is about creating images for artistic purposes rather than for commercial or documentary use. These photographers focus on composition, lighting, and emotion to produce images that have aesthetic value and can be displayed in galleries or purchased as collectible pieces.
Travel Photography: Travel photographers capture breathtaking landscapes, exotic locations, and diverse cultures. These photographers often work on assignments for tourism boards, magazines, and websites, creating visually striking images that inspire exploration and curiosity.
Why Professional Photography Matters
Although smartphone cameras have made it easier to take photos, there are several reasons why hiring a professional photographer remains a valuable investment:
Expertise and Skill: Professional photographers have extensive experience and training, which allows them to capture images with precision and artistry. They understand how to use lighting, composition, and various camera settings to create stunning visuals.
Creative Vision: Photographers bring a unique creative perspective to their work. They don’t just take pictures—they craft images that tell a story or evoke emotions, making your photos stand out in a sea of ordinary snapshots.
Quality Equipment: Professional photographers use advanced equipment that delivers high-quality images, from cameras and lenses to lighting tools and editing software. Their gear enables them to shoot in difficult conditions, such as low light or fast-moving situations, without compromising the image quality.
Post-Processing Expertise: After capturing the photos, professional photographers use editing software like Adobe Lightroom or Photoshop to enhance their images. Post-production allows for color correction, retouching, and other adjustments to ensure that the final product is polished and visually appealing.
Time-Saving: Hiring a photographer saves you time and effort. Whether you're hosting an event or need professional portraits, a photographer takes care of the technical details so you can focus on what matters most.
Tailored Experience: Professional photographers work with you to understand your vision and preferences. They can customize the shoot to meet your needs, ensuring that the final photos align with your expectations, whether you want a classic or contemporary look.
How to Choose the Right Photography Service
When hiring a photographer, there are several factors to keep in mind to ensure you get the best possible service:
Portfolio: Always review a photographer’s portfolio before making a decision. Their past work will give you a sense of their style and the quality of images they produce. It will help you determine if their aesthetic aligns with what you’re looking for.
Specialization: Some photographers specialize in specific areas, such as weddings, commercial photography, or fine art. Choose a photographer whose expertise matches the type of photography you need.
Budget: Photography services come in a wide range of prices. Establish your budget beforehand and find a photographer who offers services within your price range. Remember that you’re investing in quality, so find a balance between cost and value.
Reviews and Recommendations: Check reviews and ask for recommendations from past clients. A reputable photographer will have positive feedback and a strong track record of delivering excellent results.
Personality and Communication: The best results come from a collaborative relationship. Choose a photographer with whom you feel comfortable, as a good rapport will ensure that you’re relaxed and confident during the shoot, resulting in natural and beautiful photos.
Conclusion
Photography services play a vital role in documenting the important moments of our lives. From weddings to commercial advertisements, real estate listings to fine art creations, skilled photographers bring invaluable expertise and creativity to every project. While smartphones have made taking photos easier, professional photographers still provide unmatched quality and artistry that elevate any occasion or business venture. Investing in professional photography services ensures that your memories are captured beautifully and with precision, leaving you with timeless images to cherish for years to come.
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Dheeraj Pandey, CEO and Co-founder of DevRev – Interview Series
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Dheeraj Pandey, CEO and Co-founder of DevRev – Interview Series
Dheeraj Pandey, CEO and co-founder of DevRev, is also the former CEO and founder of Nutanix and a current board member of Adobe. Along with co-founder Manoj Agarwal, Pandey launched DevRev to transform how developers (Dev) connect with revenue-generating customers (Rev).
DevRev’s mission is to embed customer-centricity into the core of product development, turning it into a cultural foundation rather than a departmental focus. By leveraging data, AI, and design, the platform empowers developers to directly impact business outcomes, streamline workflows, and accelerate innovation. Backed by one of the largest seed fundings in Silicon Valley history, DevRev is redefining customer-focused product development with its Product-Led Growth (PLG) model.
What inspired you to found DevRev after your successful tenure with Nutanix, and how did your experience there shape the vision for DevRev?
While building Nutanix during the era of Enterprise SaaS 1.0, I learned that enterprise software often turns into a maze of fragmented tools, each tackling just a piece of a broader problem. Many products in the market are really just features packaged as full solutions. This experience fueled my desire to build a platform that could truly unify and simplify complex workflows, helping businesses focus on what really matters: their customers. DevRev was born from this idea of doing fewer things but doing them better—integrating functions seamlessly to build more customer-centric companies.”
DevRev is described as being built “from a blank page in the AI era.” Can you elaborate on what this means, and why it was important to start fresh rather than build on existing SaaS systems?
Starting DevRev from scratch in today’s AI-driven world allowed us to create a fundamentally different product without legacy constraints. AI is undergoing what I like to call a ‘Goldilocks moment’—a balance where technology, demand, and tools like neural networks are just right for transformation. Building from a blank page meant we could leverage these advances to rethink what SaaS could be and place customers and products at the center rather than adapting old systems to new demands.
You have emphasized creating a customer-centric platform at DevRev. How do you ensure that AI-driven processes still keep human needs at the forefront of operations?
Our approach is to make AI an enabler, not a replacement. We prioritize interactions that align with real customer needs by integrating human insights into the heart of DevRev’s AI and knowledge graph—a powerful, unified system that ties together product, customer, and operational data to provide rich context for AI interactions. This means the AI can support teams by managing updates and simplifying processes, allowing companies to focus on real customer needs. The result is a platform that enhances human interactions by being collaborative and contextual, helping companies remain empathetic and responsive.
What were the biggest challenges you faced during the early days of DevRev, especially in terms of integrating AI and creating the knowledge graph that powers the platform?
One major challenge was avoiding the pitfalls of traditional project-centric systems. We wanted DevRev to be customer- and product-centric, which required a comprehensive knowledge graph from the start. Building this was complex, but it was essential to breaking down silos and integrating everything from customer feedback to engineering workflows into one seamless interface.
DevRev is positioned as an AI-native platform. How do you see AI evolving within the enterprise SaaS space, and what role does DevRev play in that transformation?
AI is the driving force behind what we see as SaaS 2.0—moving from static software to an adaptive, agent-driven experience. In this new model, AI is not just a tool but a foundational layer that learns and evolves alongside the business. DevRev leverages agentic AI to create a seamless, continuous learning environment, allowing companies to shift their focus from operational mechanics to deep customer engagement. Just as the cloud redefined infrastructure, AI is reshaping SaaS, enabling platforms like DevRev to drive richer, more responsive interactions across the entire enterprise.
How does DevRev’s knowledge graph differentiate it from traditional SaaS solutions? What value does it bring to businesses using your platform?
DevRev’s knowledge graph is built to unify product and customer data, creating a dynamic, integrated view across departments. Unlike traditional CRMs, which often emphasize sales transactions, our knowledge graph captures the full journey of a product and the customer’s interaction with it. This means businesses can better predict needs, resolve issues faster, and ultimately create a product that is continuously aligned with customer demands.
The new features in AgentOS, such as no-code custom AI agents and conversational search, aim to simplify work. Could you share specific examples of how these features have transformed operations for your clients?
With AgentOS, companies are finding they can streamline processes that once required multiple tools. For instance, no-code agents allow support teams to quickly build workflows that respond to unique customer needs without heavy IT involvement. One client used conversational search to reduce their response time by 30%, empowering support teams to focus more on customer satisfaction than backend coordination.
With major backers like Mayfield and Khosla Ventures, what was your approach to securing funding for DevRev, and how did you pitch the value of your AI-native platform to investors?
The pitch centered on a fresh approach to SaaS that would be purpose-built for the AI era. Investors recognized that the timing was right—AI, cloud, and customer expectations have all evolved. They saw DevRev as a platform that could integrate these elements into a unified solution, making enterprise software both more intelligent and more customer-centric.
DevRev is already seeing substantial time-saving impacts (e.g., reducing incident response times by 30%). What other areas of enterprise SaaS do you believe can benefit most from AI-driven efficiency?
AI can make an impact across functions, especially in areas that involve high-volume customer interactions, complex engineering processes, and frequent updates. DevRev is actively developing solutions that go beyond just time savings—helping companies cut down on operational costs while achieving a more agile, customer-driven approach.
As DevRev continues to grow, how do you maintain the balance between rapid scaling and staying true to your mission of building customer-centric companies?
Staying customer-centric means continuously evolving with our clients and their needs. We are focused on scalable, high-impact features rather than overwhelming users with options. Our team is committed to balancing growth with the principle of ‘less is better,’ ensuring that every feature we roll out enhances the customer journey and aligns with DevRev’s core mission.
Thank you for the great interview, readers who wish to learn more should visit DevRev.
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The Art of Bindery: Elevating Print Craftsmanship in San Diego
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In today’s digital era, the allure of printed materials still holds a significant place in communication, marketing, and artistry. Whether it’s a beautifully bound book, a professional presentation, or a captivating portfolio, the art of bindery plays a crucial role in transforming printed sheets into polished, functional, and appealing final products. At Blend Supply, we take pride in offering premium bindery services to meet the needs of businesses, artists, and individuals in San Diego.
What Is Bindery?
Bindery refers to the processes involved in assembling, securing, and finishing printed materials. It’s the stage where loose sheets or printed pages are converted into cohesive, high-quality products. The bindery process can include a variety of techniques such as folding, cutting, stitching, gluing, or even embellishing with foil and embossing. Whether you’re creating an annual report, a wedding album, or marketing collateral, the right bindery service ensures a professional and durable result.
Why Bindery Services Matter
The importance of quality bindery cannot be overstated. Imagine handing out a brochure at a trade show or distributing workbooks for a corporate event. Poorly bound materials can detract from your message, leaving a negative impression on your audience. High-quality bindery, on the other hand, enhances readability, durability, and aesthetic appeal, leaving your clients or audience impressed and engaged.
A Local Touch in San Diego
San Diego, with its vibrant culture and thriving business environment, is a hub for creativity and enterprise. From innovative startups to established corporations, businesses in San Diego understand the importance of standing out in a competitive market. Blend Supply recognises this need and offers top-notch bindery services tailored to the local community.
Our commitment to excellence means that every project, no matter the size, is treated with meticulous attention to detail. Whether you’re in the hospitality industry looking for beautifully crafted menus or a local artist wanting a professional portfolio, we provide solutions that align with your vision.
Services Offered at Blend Supply
At Blend Supply, we specialise in a wide range of binding services, ensuring that your projects are not only functional but also visually stunning. Here’s a glimpse of what we offer:
1. Perfect Binding
Perfect for books, catalogs, and magazines, this binding style offers a sleek and professional look. It involves securing pages together with adhesive, resulting in a flat spine that can be printed on for additional branding.
2. Saddle Stitching
A cost-effective option for brochures, newsletters, and booklets, saddle stitching uses staples to bind pages together. It’s ideal for materials with fewer pages and offers a clean finish.
3. Spiral and Wire-O Binding
For projects like calendars, notebooks, or training manuals, spiral and Wire-O binding are durable and allow for easy flipping. These methods are practical while maintaining a polished look.
4. Laminating and Finishing
Adding lamination or UV coating enhances the longevity and appearance of your materials. Finishing touches such as die-cutting, embossing, or foil stamping further elevate the quality of your prints.
5. Custom Solutions
Have a unique project in mind? Our team collaborates closely with clients to create customised binding solutions that meet your specific requirements.
Why Choose Blend Supply for Bindery?
Blend Supply stands out for its dedication to quality, innovation, and customer satisfaction. Here’s why businesses and individuals in San Diego choose us:
Expert Craftsmanship: Our skilled team brings years of experience to every project, ensuring flawless results.
State-of-the-Art Equipment: We use advanced machinery to handle even the most complex bindery tasks efficiently.
Sustainable Practices: Committed to environmental responsibility, we use eco-friendly materials and processes wherever possible.
Personalized Service: From consultation to delivery, we prioritize your vision and provide tailored solutions.
Conclusion
The art of bindery is more than just assembling pages; it’s about crafting a tangible representation of your message, brand, or creativity. At Blend Supply, we bring passion and precision to every project, ensuring that your printed materials make a lasting impact. Whether you’re a business in need of professional collateral or an individual with a creative project, our bindery services in San Diego are designed to meet your needs.
Let us help you transform your ideas into beautifully bound realities. Contact Blend Supply today and experience the difference quality bindery can make!
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The Emergence of Fashion in Today's World: Classimonk as the Go-To Choice
The Emergence of Fashion in Today's World: Classimonk as the Go-To Choice
Fashion goes beyond just clothes; it shows who we are, mirrors our culture, and lets us express ourselves. From old favorites to new styles, fashion changes how we see the world and ourselves. Among the many fashion brands and stores out there, Classimonk has become a name that stands for style new ideas, and good prices changing how people experience fashion.
Why Is Fashion So Important?
Fashion has many uses going way past its basic job. While it keeps us comfy and safe, it has grown into a way for people to show their personality, dreams, and groups they belong to. The world's fashion business worth over $1.5 trillion, grows because people want to look and feel good.
In a world where how you look matters, fashion gives people the power to show confidence and class. Whether it's a smart suit for a work meeting or relaxed clothes for a weekend meal with friends, each outfit tells a story. Brands like Classimonk get this idea and make clothes for all kinds of tastes making sure everyone can find their style in the world of fashion.
The Appeal of Classimonk
Classimonk stands out among its rivals in the fashion scene. It mixes new-age looks with old-school skill to create a hand-picked range that many people like. The brand focuses on three key things: good quality nice style, and fair prices. These matter a lot to picky shoppers today.
What makes Classimonk special is how much it cares about the little things. Every item has a careful design to fit what today's person wants - stuff that looks good and works well. From smart suits to laid-back street clothes, Classimonk gives you options that still look classy. They use top-notch materials and come up with fresh ideas. This has made them the place to go for people who want fashion that's both classic and up-to-date.
Sustainability in Fashion
The fashion world now faces its effect on the environment making sustainability a main concern for innovative brands. Classimonk has taken on this task by using green practices. The brand shows it wants to protect the Earth while offering top-notch style by focusing on eco-friendly materials and ethical ways to produce.
Classimonk's plans include the use of organic fabrics cutting down on waste, and making sure workers are treated . These actions strike a chord with buyers who care about the environment and want their choices to match their beliefs. By doing this, Classimonk not sets a high bar for sustainable fashion but also pushes other brands to do the same.
Fashion Trends Defining the Times
The world of fashion, with the evolution in culture and technology, has brought about incessant changes. Some of the trends that are currently mainstream include:
Minimalist Chic: It is all about clean lines and tones, simplicity, and elegance defining everybody's wardrobe.
Streetwear Revolution: With comfort combined with style, streetwear has been making casual and high-fashion lines discreetly blur.
Gender-Neutral Styles: Unisex pieces gain popularity because of their inclusivity, as they break the traditional norms in dressing.
Eco-Conscious Fashion: This year sustainability has been the word on every consumer's lips. Thus, brands like Classimonk that look towards eco-friendly designs are preferred.
Classimonk keeps up with these trends by offering collections that keep with these evolving tastes while remaining true to its brand ethos.
Why Classimonk Should Be Your Next Fashion Stop
Among a myriad of fashion houses, Classimonk stands out as the epitome of innovation and reliability. Its varieties range from one occasion to another, meaning a customer never goes home empty-handed. Whether one is rekindling their wardrobe or looking for that perfect gift, quality and style best suit expectations.
Additionally, the affordability aspect of the brand makes fashion accessible to everyone while at the same time breaking the barriers that have been created between luxury and practicality. Buying Classimonk is therefore more than just a purchase of clothes, but an investment in an individualist, quality, and sustainability lifestyle.
Conclusion
That's because fashion will always be part of the human culture mirror the evolutionary trends in society and personal identity. In this ever-changing world, Classimonk could be one that plays a defining role in shaping how we live and practice fashion. Classimonk promotes quality, style, and sustainability; hence, it brings forth the best aspirations of fashion without being unreachable. Whether a trendsetter or a classicist, let Classimonk be your guide through your way to style.
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Elevate Your Gifting Experience with Stylish Money Envelopes
In a world where digital transactions dominate, the charm of giving and receiving physical money envelopes remains timeless. At Lemonade India, we understand that the essence of gifting goes beyond the mere exchange of currency; it’s about the thoughtfulness and presentation that come with it. Money envelopes are not just a means of transporting money; they are an integral part of celebrations, rituals, and cherished moments in life. In this blog, we will explore the significance of money envelopes and how they can enhance your gifting experience.
The Cultural Importance of Money Envelopes
Money envelopes hold a special place in various cultures around the world. In many Asian cultures, for instance, it is customary to give money as a gift during festivals, weddings, and other significant events. The tradition of gifting money envelopes is not just about the monetary value; it symbolizes good luck, prosperity, and blessings. In India, it’s common to give money in beautifully designed envelopes during occasions such as Diwali, weddings, and birthdays.
At Lemonade India, we celebrate this cultural richness by offering a variety of money envelopes that reflect elegance and creativity. Our collection showcases unique designs, vibrant colors, and intricate patterns that make every gifting moment memorable.
Choosing the Perfect Money Envelope
When selecting a money envelope, it’s essential to consider the occasion and the recipient. A well-chosen envelope can enhance the overall experience of giving. Here are a few tips to help you choose the perfect money envelope:
Occasion-Specific Designs: Different occasions call for different styles. For festive occasions like Diwali, opt for envelopes adorned with traditional motifs and bright colors. For weddings, choose elegant designs that complement the couple's theme.
Personalization: Personalizing your money envelope adds a special touch. At Lemonade India, we offer options for custom designs, allowing you to add names, dates, or messages that make your gift unique.
Quality Matters: The quality of the envelope reflects the thoughtfulness behind the gift. Look for money envelopes made from high-quality materials that exude sophistication.
Size and Shape: Money envelopes come in various sizes and shapes. Consider the amount of money you plan to give and choose an envelope that fits comfortably without appearing too bulky.
Creative Ways to Use Money Envelopes
While money envelopes are often associated with gifting cash, there are numerous creative ways to utilize them that can enhance your gifting experience:
Gift Cards: Instead of cash, consider gifting a pre-loaded gift card in a stylish money envelope. This allows the recipient to choose what they want while still enjoying the thrill of receiving a physical gift.
Special Notes: Accompany your monetary gift with a heartfelt note or message inside the envelope. This personal touch can make the gift even more meaningful and memorable.
Themed Gift Sets: Combine your money envelope with other thoughtful gifts. For instance, pair it with a personalized travel mug or a unique ceramic cup from Lemonade India. This creates a cohesive theme and shows the recipient that you’ve put thought into their gift.
Creative Presentation: Go beyond the envelope by presenting it creatively. For example, you could attach it to a beautiful bouquet or place it inside a decorative box, enhancing the excitement of unwrapping.
Why Choose Lemonade India for Your Money Envelopes?
At Lemonade India, we pride ourselves on our commitment to quality and creativity. Here are a few reasons why you should choose us for your money envelope needs:
Diverse Selection: Our extensive range of money envelopes caters to various occasions and personal tastes. Whether you’re looking for traditional designs or modern aesthetics, we have something for everyone.
Sustainable Materials: We believe in sustainability. Our money envelopes are made from eco-friendly materials, ensuring that your gifting choices are kind to the planet.
Customizable Options: Our personalized money envelopes allow you to create something truly special. Whether it’s a wedding, birthday, or festival, we help you make your gift stand out.
Affordability: Quality doesn’t have to come at a high price. Our money envelopes are reasonably priced, making it easy for you to elevate your gifting experience without breaking the bank.
Conclusion
Money envelopes are more than just a vehicle for cash; they are a reflection of our culture, creativity, and thoughtfulness in gifting. At Lemonade India, we celebrate the art of giving with our stylish and customizable money envelopes that elevate every occasion. By choosing the perfect money envelope, you not only enhance the gifting experience but also create lasting memories for your loved ones.
So, the next time you plan a gift, remember the importance of presentation. Explore our beautiful collection of money envelopes at Lemonade India, and make your gifting moments truly special! Whether it’s a festival, wedding, or a simple gesture of love, our money envelopes will add that extra touch of elegance to your thoughtful gifts.
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Aquavida Pools
Staffing agencies have been around for a long time, so many Arizona businesses employ them for all of their pool restoration needs.
Professionals seldom use the word "AQUAVIDA" when talking about recently constructed pools. Apart from building pools, AQUAVIDA does not do anything else Commercial Pool Repair Whether or not they are representing the company, they maintain their objectivity.
Repairing and resurfacing pools for businesses has been Aquavida Pools' specialty for 30 years. Despite facing challenges, they were able to attain the highest level of their profession. If you want others to take notice of and benefit from your work, you need aim high. Every single Arizona hotel, resort, motel, and HOA has nothing but praise for our maintenance services. It is totally dependent on luck what happens to our firm. Many positive outcomes followed the completion of these programs. We were able to get a lot done because of these errands. Thanks to these tasks, we were able to make great strides. Our final destination was the picturesque mountain hamlet of Pinetop, which is not far from Phoenix, as our tour came to an end. The vast city is known by many names among Phoenix residents, but "Greater Phoenix Area" is by far the most popular. These two locations are undeniably a part of the Phoenix metro region, as appears to be universally acknowledged.
If you own a public or semi-public pool, our services can help you stay in compliance with all local, state, and federal laws. No municipal, state, or federal law applies to your pool. Rest assured, we have memorized all of your requests. Because we take every precaution, we guarantee that our pools and spas will never break any laws. Whatever importance you place on them, getting inspections and certificates before beginning for business is a must. It is imperative that we verify everyone's safety before moving forward Commercial Pool Contractor A separate county in Arizona might be in charge of this. This is where you can locate everything you need to finish the job.
Finding a good location to stay shouldn't be that hard once you begin searching.
We offer full-service pool repair and maintenance to Arizona hotel and motel owners. We hope that our research will help safeguard and enhance aquatic ecosystems in the long run. Our comprehensive support is aimed squarely at the hotel industry.
In order to fulfill the needs of its customers, Aquavida offers a comprehensive selection of building services, which includes pool resurfacing and maintenance. People who can multitask well and think on their feet are highly sought after in today's fast-paced business world. There was no change to its performance or market domination.
The warmth, variety of culture, and friendliness offered by these extraordinary locations make them cherished by people of all backgrounds.
Aquavida is the go-to company for pool resurfacing and repairs due to their wealth of experience in the field. They should have no trouble completing the task at hand considering their experience and the resources at their disposal. Their background and expertise make them ideal candidates for managerial positions in the resort or waterpark sectors. They are an ideal fit for the role due to their outstanding performance across the board.
Expert pool cleaners in Arizona may know about reliable vendors. Because of how expensive they are, many companies still can't afford these services. No matter how far we searched, we were unable to find another Arizona company that specializes in commercial pool restoration. Our organization has to make a strong statement now. The fact that no other company operates in this particular state just makes things worse.
Regardless of the size of the task, Aquavida Pools is up to the challenge. We greatly value your involvement in this undertaking. In an instant, I shall disappear. At this time, it does not appear that anyone's employment is at risk. We are capable of handling any task, no matter how large or small.
Using high-quality resources consistently is also crucial.
Many businesses in Arizona choose us to renovate their pools because of our high standards. From the day we opened our doors, we have been devoted to this responsibility.
Our thirty years of experience servicing hotels, resorts, and HOAs mean that you can trust us with the maintenance of your pool. We would want to invite you to a water event using the information you supplied, if that's okay with you. For three decades, we have provided pool maintenance services to business building owners and managers. If you want to win someone over, just be a good listener. Because of our extensive expertise, our coworkers hold us in high esteem and see us as pioneers in our field.
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Hi friends. Back from my forgetfulness of this app but I have another entry since this has become a public diary.
While this upcoming election is another life or death race, in both age and policies, I want everyone to think about something, and there are a few parts to this thought exercise.
The overarching message is, no matter the outcome, I’m not moving from the US no matter how bad it gets.
1: Our world is so connected
This seems obvious but let’s break this down. Throughout the Palestinian genocide, I and many many many others have learned about Palestinian culture, history, and small things like daily life and food. Ive also learned more about other Arab nation’s customs and cultures. The one thing I hear throughout my timeline is the sentiment of “this is my home.” It goes beyond, “this building is where I live and is my address,” it’s “this is a core part of my world.” I keep this statement close to me because I feel the same way. America is not a great country with many things wrong with it, but it’s still my home with all of my friends and family. The state that I live in is a huge part of my world that I’ve grown to love. I am very thankful I’m in a state that has my basic rights at the forefront of its policies, but I understand many states don’t. I’ll get into this later. The point is, I will take the lessons I’ve learned from listening to Palestinians and apply them to my community no matter the outcome. As Mansour said in his posts “we remain steadfast.”
2: we are stronger together
In real life, I am a working drag queen. Last year, it was really scary with the drag bans trying to be passed in the many state governments. I knew entertainers that were in Tennessee and Florida (the worst affected) and almost lost their income. However, during that pride, you could feel that energy of resistance that pride was built off of. Both entertainers and audience reignited that flame of disruption and stuck it to the public that this was not a popular policy and that we love drag. This signals to me that even a year later, as every single drag bill was struck down, that we are stronger and capable of accomplishing change together. We are still fighting against the transphobic policies that did get passed in places like Ohio and florida, and while maybe our government is ignoring us, the public understands that this is not a popular policy and that is as equally important. We as queer people are a strong and resilient community. We will make it together.
So why do I say this?
I hear a sentiment floating around again of “if trump gets elected I’m leaving the country.” Let me emphasis: It is up to you to decide what you need to be safe. I don’t want to shame people for fleeing for a multitude of reasons for safety. Im saying this out of a disappointment of those saying it in a defeating, giving up tone. I’ll say it, many cis gay men say it in this tone and it makes me upset because is this not your home? Are we not your family? I can tell you now that no matter what the election is and what happens, I’m going to stay here and fight for my queer family because this is my home. I’ve lived here for 20 years and I’m just now starting to live life. I can tell you I have found my queer family FINALLY after waiting for so long and I would never give up on them. I don’t like this attitude of giving up because the odds seem stacked against us. Failure is an option and we do have to be prepared for what happens next, NOT a give up and move scenario. That leaves everyone who cannot afford to leave in the dust and every little bit matters.
Please consider this, your family, your queer family, and your home the next time you feel like this is a lost cause scenario. We are strong as a community. We’ve been through some horrible shit and we will go through more, but we will do it together and come out stronger. Don’t you ever forget that.
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