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what the actual fuck y'all
#drama /#negative /#>> TBD.#>> OUT.#i am genuinely so confused#where is the anger coming from#are we in high school... why the spite why the pettiness#why the 'especially someone i considered a friend' evolving into 'isn't even a friend'#a thirdhand connection to someone shitty & one vent post warrants an entire dni campaign? like. why. esp when u Also make those posts#???? i just do not get it.#whatevs man. i guess ppl are just gonna keep dropping me for an extremely petty reason and i cant control that! so. im gonna go touch grass#tbd tbd i wont harp on this too much i'm just very confused and upset
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Something on your mind, Sonic?
#eyestrain#anxiety inducing#<- potentially! just wanna play it safe#ask to tag#sonic au#sth#sonic the hedgehog#I was a Teenage Werehog#IWATW#the werehog is different this time.what eggman infected sonic with is different.#(this is where that metal virus inspo comes from hah)#it takes ahold of the anger and negativity sonic always holds inside and tries to force it out.#or somth like that idk#art from the den#artists on tumblr
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Lauren / The Destructress screenshots because she's awesome and I love her
#hng lauren#the destructress#lauren the destructress#hamster and gretel#hng#hng spoilers#currently being very normal about her#I love her so much#I hope she gets all the good things#easily my second favorite character in the whole show behind Fred (who is very likely never gonna lose the number 1 spot)#(the person whose favorite MLP G4 character is Sunset Shimmer likes Lauren? Wow how shocking /s)#also I'm 100% convinced her and Lyle's parents are bad parents#it would certainly explain where their obvious and concerning aggressive tendencies and anger issues come from
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I want to hold your hand I don't want to hurt you
More of @fiestylittlebeetle's Malether propaganda they have been parasitising off my brain especially now that I've drawn then once have more hand language *grins*
#malware#malware ben 10#aether#oc#ben 10 oc#ben 10#oc x canon#fanart#i also literally have a headcold#so since i'm plagued with human malware i might as well pay tribute to the character malware as well#also i know i did the same fucking border thing i did with them the last time but shhhh this time i gave it narrative purpose#sent this one to my group chat and as always had to guess if this was ben 10 related (they were right)#immediately clocked as gay don't know if it's just track record or something specifically in the image but#verrry accurate#i like hand emotions they are so fun#i was gonna say 'as always' as if i've more consistently drawn them but 'as i have started doing' is more accurate#as i have started doing (don't know if this is accurate) but i make mal's hand emotions kinda more blatant than aether's#his face or rather optic ring isn't NOT expressive but he defaults to anger a lot- his hands are easier to read#mostly because of the veiled threat of bared claws or when those claws relax- or rn when those claws turn inward#ball into a fist with all the desire TO touch yet filled with the heightened urge to PREVENT touch#terrified that if he clings on to dear bloody life- sticks his claws in with all the want and need for contact mal is starved of#that it'll be his worst mistake#in comparison i made aether's hand emotions less emotive- this is where the 'don't know if that's right' comes in#instead of flinching into a retreat like i made him do in the previous art his hand just flattens into the non-descript surface#mal already having fled from his already loose 'grasp' that he doesn't need to back off much#rather he keeps his hand nearby- not holding out impatiently waiting for their 'moment' to come back#but sitting with mal and still being close enough that if he's still in the mood he can just- place his hand next to his#maybe the touching is over and that's okay- aether isn't 'waiting on the perfect scene'- he's giving him space#and THAT makes it a 'perfect moment' because :P#or whatever that's the intended hand language
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lmao seven is so fucking short

#that’s where his anger comes from. It’s because he’s so small.#bro everyone is taller than him#it’s hilarious#cat rambles#ultraman#tokusatsu#ultraseven
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I want ccDonnie to snap and get angry as fuck. He deserves it
technically he did in chapter 10! right before one of the most traumatic experiences of his life LMAO
#ask#canary continuity#i suppose he did in falling skyward as well. he was NOT happy with mikey for doing that#got drowned out by mikey being a Lot angrier than him though#he finds his anger ... embarrassing nowadays. and that's primarily the internalized ableism#cause like god forbid he ''tweaks out'' because he's upset or overwhelmed by something#or throw. what did cl!leo call them. dumb tantrums? christ#might make it more satisfying when he lets loose a little#i just think he's more scared of being laughed at than anything else#honestly i think donnie desperately needs to have a moment where he goes ''stop SMOTHERING me'' and doesnt back down#because i think the fact that he seems completely incapable of anger is a big reason they're#so#like#you know.#there's a lot of speaking for him. assuming his needs when he struggles to express them#it shines a lot through how leo *continues* to act even all the way to ote. this inherent fear that he cant handle himself#they trust him so much and they trust him with so little#there are a lot of ways to explore that messy dynamic and i do want to get into it#big reason why i wanted to explore the idea of romance with him... more interested in the affect it has on his fam than the romance itself#as satisfying as it is when they go absolutely apeshit on his behalf it does come from this feeling that he cant ever handle himself#tbh donnie should get to go apeshit on THEIR behalf. at least once
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I feel like people dont lean into just how complicated dick and jasons relationship could and should be.
Give me these two boys who were thrown together, who didn't really fit together or get along, whose age gap was just a little too big for them to fully understand each other when they met, forced into this role of brothers even when they didnt feel that way.
Give me a young jason todd, so confused and annoyed that the guy who's supposed to be his big brother, his mentor won't even come home once a week to have dinner, who doesn't talk to him, and ignores everything he does.
Give me a hurt dick grayson, who is so angry with bruce and pissed off at the idea of being replaced that he just cant look at his new brother, even though he doesn't blame him.
Give me a dick grayson who never fully saw jason todd as his brother until it was too late.
#jason todd#dick grayson#batfam#nightwing#red hood#robin#two halves of one whole thrown together and called brothers#dick doesnt see jason as his brother until hes gone and that leaves him with this huge amount of regret#and so when tim comes along dick feels this need to compensate for what he didnt do with jason#and thats where the figure of older brother dick who is kind of overbearing comes from#its because he didnt do that with jason and look what happened#and thats a huge part of the anger jason feels when he comes back to gotham#the mentality of 'why wasnt i good enough for that. what does this kid have that i didnt. why does he get what i deserved'#im rambling#i just love them so much#batfamily#batbrothers#batman#a death in the family
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Oh wait is it a toxic family when the father refuses to take accountability and instead blames the kids for his mistakes? And as a result the kids are unwillingly shoehorned into roles where one is the golden perfectionistic never allowed to criticise the family child, and the other is the black sheep difficult selfish disobedient child?
And the golden child is about to explode because he’s never allowed to have his own opinions and so when he feels real frustration at his father, he can’t land the blame there and so he’s conditioned to blame his sibling instead?
And the black sheep child just takes the criticism and the blame and learns to become overly defensive, because he’s learned no one will watch his back but himself, not even his sibling?
Oh wait it’s not a toxic family.
It’s Scuderia Ferrari
#take all the misplaced anger between Charlos and direct it at Fred Vasseur#may Charles and Carlos both realise this#look this post is parasocial and I take that#but it’s literally a toxic family dynamic#it’s a situation where each party becomes more and more entrenched because those patterns are the only way they can defend themselves#Charles is in a pattern where he thinks if you just respect what the team says it will all be okay#because it must be okay? right? right?#Carlos is in a pattern where he has lost all trust in the pit wall and needs to start strategising for himself#and almost seems to accept that Charles will come out of the car angry#and it’s all rooted in Fred Vasseur and the team’s absolute lack of accountability#how hard is it to say to your drivers ‘we messed up your strategy’#‘Carlos should not have been parallel to you on pit exit’#‘we should have pitted Carlos earlier’#but no. Ferrari won’t. and I know they haven’t because there’s not been a lick of accountability publicly#here’s the thing. I have my own opinions about whether Carlos or Charles’s reactions to media after the race were appropriate or not#but what I am convinced of is that those reactions of frustration and defensiveness come from this exact team culture#and the pattern reinforces itself again and again#charles leclerc#f1#carlos sainz#las vegas gp 2024
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Here to share Hien thoughts today.
One thing that defines her is that she’s very capable. She’s the highest ranking in the squad after Maizuru so her confidence is in part because she does have that senior coworker &/ leader authority to her, confidence which is very much earned.
If I had to dig deeper at her beyond just what we’re shown I’d go with the angle that… She was born into the Nakamoto household and being a ninja servant, she grew up there, she doesn’t know anything else beyond the job, and it’s a job she does well, traines to get there. She’s here to do her work and she’s content with her life being how it is, not that she knows anything else. I don’t think she’d be self-aware about it all? Both because this really is pretty normal for Wa and it’s her normal, and because, while she doesn’t fold her spine or care for things like cosmetics, she does mold her attitude to be both capable and respectable. Her home, the Nakamoto household, is simultaneously a professional setting, it’s a 24/7 thing.
She’s critical of others, including her superiors and she doesn’t shy from it. Everyone shittalks Toshiro’s father regardless, but she also gets reprimanded by Maizuru for seeing Toshiro as vaguely unreliable, again likely influenced by their history as childhood friends, sasses Maizuru when she goes off into an anecdote again, etc. Even as a kid with Toshiro, doubtlessly after starting her ninja training already considering that Toshiro started his at ~5yo, she told him it was unbecoming of him to cry. She’s the one both with the job and the will to keep others in check, like when it comes to Izutsumi not doing her tasks, etc etc.



Her childhood friend relationship with Toshiro only grew more professional with time, to her surprise but seems to be more about the thought of it rather than it affecting her emotionally. With the way her extra comic lays it out, it seems she expected to become Toshiro’s mistress because of history repeating itself, in a "it is what it is" way more than anything, which is in line with the reading that she’s more go-with-the-flow and "anything that I’m tasked with I’ll accomplish, as a matter of course". She’s not really social, and keeps herself ready to act at beck and call. She’s not uptight but she’s hard-working. So yeah like, taking pride in your skills but also keeping your identity mostly molded for efficiency. She doesn’t really think about it all, she just is and she’s fine with things as they are, going from one task to the next.
I think it’d be neat to look at her relationship with her parents… They’re both servants at the Nakamotos’, so while maybe busy like Maizuru was at times while raising Toshiro but still taking the time to cook for him (which, parents that prioritize work over her would make sense with how she became how she is), I wonder what their relationship was like, how much time they spent together, how Hien feels like towards them… I assume they’re a part in molding what her definition of normal is, after all if they are longstanding servants of the Nakamotos she has that much less reason to question such a life. But like… Have they ever had hard-hitting discussions, or is she pretty distant even with them? Did they push her into working harder, or were more hands-off? Does Hien maybe want to earn recognition by being capable? Hien has a younger sister that she gets along "so-so" with…


Hien’s younger sister seems to smile more, be more social and a bit nonchalant, such and such. Could be a point of tension that points to the "so-so", that they’re dissimilar/Hien thinks she doesn’t behave right or takes things too lightly, that she’s "unreliable" maybe. Or it could also point to some difference in how they grew up… Like oh I bet there could be tasty angst with mertocracy and siblings favoritism with her family thrown in there… Having to earn the love, earn your keep, earn your spot in the hierarchy (in work and family both)
To me she shines best as a foil, like to Beni, but like. She’s got neat stuff going on If you’re wondering where I took half of what I referenced from I recommend looking at my masterpost on the Nakamoto party, info and extras are compiled






#Dungeon meshi#delicious in dungeon#Hien#Meta#character analysis#fumi rambles#Working on a lot of different things on top of my actual work so things r slower than i’d like lately… Have this Discord ramble as apology#Meanwhile Beni’s attitude is very subservient and submissive. It’s interesting how little and how much difference they have simultaneously#On that front. Like you can’t really say Hien isn’t like a bodyguard ornament in the bg even if she shows more personality#Hienbeni fic will get finished one day I prommy#We’ve never seen Hien stressed which I think is a feat. Teach me your ways (probably repression)#Hien girlboss compilation#Ok Hien sister jealousy plot where she doesn’t know where the anger is coming from so she assumes it’s out of principle bc h slacks off#Hienbeni repressed anger power couple truly#So hmmm 3w4 enneagram Hien…? 3w2? Beni I was thinking either 8w9 or 6w5… Maybe smth that becomes an 8 when stressed#You have to be pretty ballsy to specialize in explosives
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i wish all people who use others' art as a means for financial profit a very fucking kill yourself. i mean it.
#just found out that this one motherfucker was making my skk art into stickers on redbubble and selling them online? with success?#like they were actually making a fucking money from it? money that should be directed towards ME bc those were MY blood sweat and tears#that went into the work. MY talent and skill and experience that i have cultivated over the years to produce something#where does one get the fucking audacity to even COMPREHEND DOING this#i am literally bitter beyond words. absolutely seething with anger#i just. i have no words. this a new level of vile#bsd fandom is absolutely HORRID when it comes to miscrediting and stealing and just overall treating artists like SHIT#i NEVER had a reposting issue when i was in genshin. or persona. or anything else ever#but NOW i have to deal with every other ask in my inbox being like “oh lotus your art was reposted :(”#IM SO FUCKING SICK OF IT
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She's doing ALL OF THIS, including MURDERING HER FRIEND, BECAUSE SHE THOUGHT IT WAS UNFAIR THAT HER BACKSTORY WASNT TRAGIC?!
ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME?!?!?!
Yes, Rage god, sure, infected towards anger, BUT FROM THE BEGINING THOUGH?!
"Yeah, so because your dad died and the whole of you life has been bad, school should reflect that by making your life harder."
WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK
THIS IS THE HILL YOU DECIDED TO DIE ON?!
#fantasy high junior year#fantasy high#dimension 20#I thought for certain#Thar maybe the Bad Kids accidently killed someone#like it was a civilian causualty or something#NOT THE MOST INSANE JELOUSLY IVE EVER HEARD OF#I hate the implication that Kipperlily and Riz are the same#like I see where they are coming from#the frantic work they both probably put in?#sure#the anger at being “cheated”#okay yeah ill give you that#but Riz searched for the 7 out of a noble cause#Kipperlily just seems to he CRAZY petty#this is wild#also anyone else get the vibe that Oisin and Ivybare the real leaders?#they outvoted to change the name to Rat Griders#which seems odd#maybe thats why Oisin apologized to Adaine in the cafateria when Kipperlily lost it#he was trying to keep his “puppet” on course#they both seem to be good friends with eaxh other especially
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Organizing & contamination OCD Will Solace 🤝🏼 OCPD Annabeth Chase friendship forever in my head.
#🌞#See. The point is that I think Will has severe issues with anxiety-tied organization & possibly contamination OCD (as a stretch of being#a doctor) so his behaviors mostly include anxious overthinking of organization and attempts to quench the OCD need#with rituals and compulsions. But at its core it is an anxiety disorder and I do think it's pretty much canon that Will is an anxious guy#who has his shit together because he has healthy coping mechanisms (in his idea of healthy).#Meanwhile Annabeth seems to have a strong trauma surrounding the need to fend for herself and take care about herself since she comes#from a way more unstable and hectic household than Will does. Childhood neglect and parental issues with 'Beth could easily result in#anger-tied personality disorder such as OCPD. Where the need for perfectionism and 'JUST LET ME DO IT' come not out of irrational#anxiety but rather out of a existing traumagenic personality disorder that convinced you that YOU are the only person who can do#something right.#Ultimately Will is OKAY with others taking care of things but he gets anxious when he handles things bc he overthinks.#'Beth does not overthink but she cannot handle having others take care of things bc she fended for herself her whole life & is traumatized.#But yeah also they're friends.#I am definitely not projecting bc I have organization&contamination OCD and i know how it feels.#rrverse#pjo#will solace#annabeth chase
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Blaming KH2 Sora’s anger and aggression all on Roxas really downplays how ready to throw hands Sora is in KH1 and CoM.
#also ignores rage form in kh3 obviously#but I’m talking about sora pre-roxas#i see this take so much and I’m like convinced ppl don’t pay attention to sora in kh1 or com#or they just take what diz/ansem the wise says about sora needing more anger in his heart at face value#even though ATW never knows what tf he’s talking about#my man was wrong about everything in kh2 why would you believe him#sure roxas unsettled in sora’s heart probably played a part#but it’s not all on him be so serious now#anyway. ppl keep reblogging that post from me even though I’m not the op#keep seeing ‘sora wants to kill so bad’ too#and like#i don’t know how to break this to you but sora has killed already#that’s a pretty significant thing that happens in every game#like i understand where you’re coming from but sora very much has killed people
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ok. someone’s gonna have to come get my dad or i’m gonna tweak.
#no bc he does this fucking thing where he talks to me like a dog? it could be for any reason. any. sometimes i just walk into a room.#and i can’t even BEGIN to understand what he means by it; if he’s trying to belittle me or if he just.#doesnt know how to talk to me any other way. but it pisses me off to no end cus it ALWAYS feels like the first one.#take last night for example: it was my brother’s birthday; and none of us had expected him to be visiting around this time#this is especially important for my little sister; bc she planned a sleepover with her friends several months in advance—#—to celebrate some of them graduating and one of them moving away.#so all night she’d been trying to get away. my mom told her after cake; so that was the original goalpost;#but then my dad just kept ADDING THINGS. first it was “after cake” then “after this; after that”#and this thing just keeps getting pushed further and further back#then he said “it’s trash day. collect the trash first and then you can go” AND MIND YOU ITS LIKE 7 PM AT THIS POINT#I CAN JUST SEE HER GETTING SO UPSET so i step in; tell her “i’ll take care of it; lets just go.”#AND MY DAD. MY DAD. MY DAD. omg.#he goes “wow!! so good!! 😁😁” WITH THE SAME TONE THAT HE TALKS TO THE DOG. WHY. WHY.#look idk what he means by it; he could just be filling empty space for all im aware; me and my dad have weird communication skills#but the message that it sends me is “who the hell do you think you are helping her right now.”#and that. makes me angrier than anything.#who the hell do you think YOU are trying to keep her from her friends. who the hell do you think YOU are TALKING TO ME LIKE THAT.#and i swear he could see that in my eyes cus then he goes “want some icecream 🥺?”#so i tell him “i don’t know what you mean by that.” in the flattest voice i can give#and he just throws his hands up in the air and g r o a n s as if to say ‘HERE WE GO AGAIN’#and i just. bite my tongue and drive my sister to her friends house.#but i swear he does this all the time. he just uses different code words. an old one used to be “mom made curry!” (my favorite meal)#and he’d use it every time he had something negative to say to me. yk. the same way you’d tease a dog with a treat to get them all excited.#“positive sandwich” is what he’d call it. a positive; then a negative; then a positive to make the whole thing ok#but yk a sandwich is always gonna taste like what’s inside. and brother; i can taste the shit between your buns.#yes i know how that sounds.#but yea. as soon as i got home he asked me if i wanted ice cream again.#rubbing salt in the wound? or just trying to curb my anger? i’ll never know. but it drove me upstairs for the rest of the night.#but yea that’s my little rant. someone come get my dad.#stan’s forum
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🌦️&💤
on childhood best friends.
via ill give you the sun by jandy nelson // via the art of ponyo by hayao miyazaki // jack johnson, we're going to be friends // a message from my childhood best friend // mitski, i guess // via a little life by hanya yanagihara // adventure time, island song (come along with me) // via unknown // abba, chiquitita
#do you ever think about how momo was taught to weaponize her anger while mikan was taught to swallow his back. both as a means of survival#how momo probably admires mikans ability to hold it in. how mikan probably admires momos ability to release it all.#because i do. i think about it a lot#(BTW. IF YOU KNOW WHERE THE “let's go to the garden. let's be kids again. i'll chase you if you chase me.” IS FROM PLEEEASE LMK.)#the message is from the friend that inspired momo and mikan. btw she messaged me out of the blue and we chatted about our earliest memories#the whole “ohhh he came up to me offered me his hand and said you wanna go play with me because i was all alone” seems really unrealistic#BUT THATS. WHAT HAPPENED WITH US. WITH ME AND HER. i dont remember it very well which is funny and poetic in a sense. but SHE does... gugh#its because i was the one that went up to her... of course she remembers me offering her my hand because that meant the entire world to her#← OR SOMETHING. NEVER RUMINATE ON UR CHILDHOOD WORST MISTAKE OF MY LIFE its because my birthdays coming up im getting all weird. ugh#okay actual tags instead of my rambles...#web weaving#my wws#oc tag#momo tenki#mikan javier#on childhood friends#id in alt#nova noise#also hai sunny. (halo freak) one of these for kinzoku and gensou when. i will NEVER RECOVER#← silly slash lighthearted. i am just crazy over them you absolutely do not have to ^_^ i hope it doesnt come across that way
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Guys.
I don't think Kipperlily's great metatextual crime is level grinding.
Kipperlily Copperkettle's metatextual dungeons and dragons crime is metagaming
#kipperlilly copperkettle#fantasy high junior year spoilers#fantasy high junior year#fantasy high#guys#guys think about it#it's unfair how she found the rogue teacher#she Made Sure that Lucy Frostblaxe wasn't coming back#she's made herself untraceable by Most Every Method#she sneaks around with invisibility constantly#to get a leg up on everyone else and have access to information she is Not supposed to have access to#and then she believes she's just following the rules#it's not her fault she's better at it than everyone else#she only ever wants her way and THAT is where the anger issues come from#I'm making a whole other post in the tags at this point absjhskdbd
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