#when it is entirely a non-issue

[simstationdance]

if i could change one and only one thing about the sims 2 it would be to remove the heavily implied supernatural racism in its entirety and make it impossible for sims to roll "turn supernatural neighbor into a fucking normie" wants

i hate it when there are multiple witches or plantsims or zombies or werewolves or vampires or whatever the fuck in the neighborhood and all of their normie bitch neighbors have entire wants panels dedicated to wanting to Cure them and it's the only fucking want they ever roll ever again so if you don't do it they'll never be happy as long as their neighbor is a fucking plant zombie vampire or whatever.

like this dumb shit makes me actually SO fucking angry every time i think about it. shout out to the people who play entirely supernatural hoods idk how yall put up with this shit and/or get 'no cure sim wants' mods to work because i refuse to accept the supernatural racism as a part of the gameplay and i have never been able to get mods like that to work.

[witches-come]

I don't like genital preference discourse because 99 percent of the time it's a cis person who made up a hypothetical pro trans argument and got mad at it.

[explodingstarlight]

sharing silly discord doodles because honestly their antics give me sm serotonin

i'll do silent tags this time as not to clog notifications, but for reference:

Sagittarius belongs to @/west-brooke & Xor belongs to @/snailsnaps 😌

[icewindandboringhorror]

recent things

[databent]

why the fuck is it that some people cant seem to acknowledge that people can just... be disabled. not through any fault of their own, not because something "happened" to them, just because, you know, sometimes people have disabilities. like, come on

[varjopeura]

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[queerhawkeyes]

still hung up in this work thing. I went back and checked my fellowship proposal and the first line literally says I will be doing individual representation through the mlp. this is the proposal that my org agreed to and that I got funding to fulfill. and now they are telling me I never intended to be an mlp project or to expand services in [city] but that's literally what the agreed upon proposal states.

[desperatecheesecubes]

Every time I see a post making fun of people being afraid to get into comics I think about how when I was first getting into comics I thought it would be fun to read Infinite Crisis because it was a HUGE event and it would give me an idea of what a whole slew of runs and characters were like. I made a post about some panel pretty early into the event (I think it was a build up comic that wasn't even officially part of the Road To Infinite Crisis so EARLY early) and some blog I didn't know made fun of me for not knowing the greater context of the panel I was commenting on. And while I was naively typing up a quick little 'ah sorry I'm new to comics and didn't know that. Thanks for the context!' they had gone through my blog and started doing the same for a bunch of other comics I'd read, and then mocked me for reading IC when I clearly new so little about comics.

Now, obviously, that behavior is ridiculous, and I just blocked them, but it did stick with me. It was one of my earliest interactions with comic fandom and I never forgot it. Most of the people I've intereacted with have been lovely. Even when I have gotten comic cannon wrong corrections are normally very kind. But not all of them are, and the ones who aren't are so vocal about it.

So i actually don't think it's the comics themselves that make getting into comics an unappealing prospect.

[nitroish]

sorry if this is in bad taste but the wording of your last post makes it seem like someone thought u and quirkle were both link irl and were upset at the idea of two real life people dating which is hysterical to me

anon you quite literally hit the nail on the head. they saw me go by legend, saw me call quirks my partner, and called our Real Life Relationship ( that is ENTIRELY Platonic by the way !!!! ) linkcest. it blew my fucking mind.

its hysterical tho ur right. moving from the fact quirks and i arent even Dating nor are we romantic and therefor cant be considered linkcest by default, can you imagine their reaction to my two partners that i Do kiss gayly? my boyfriend and my partner that i Do kiss ??? woof . they called the wrong relationship i have linkcest if they want to be loud and weird about me being Gay and kissing someone behind a dennys

[echidnana]

and he's constantly pushing us to be xtian! as if he hasn't done enough already.

[freakinator]

i think one of the key differences in shipping at least between asian and northwestern countries is the fact that familial terms arent necessarily used for family only and you can say things like kuya (big brother) even to ppl you have a certain attraction to

[hiddenbeks]

OH also more kotorposting bc i remembered i havent talked abt hk-47 yet. hes hilarious i love him

[zemnarihah]

my best friend has been very distant w me lately and i asked today if she wanted to hang out and she said she probably couldn't bc it's her brothers birthday but she would let me know if she could and i have her location and i just looked and she's at her boyfriends house rn....

[redysetdare]

I hope the ppl who miss the entire point of that aspec post step on a lego. how can you read my post which basically says "Don't respond to ppl saying we're freaks with things that basically boil down to 'not all of us are freaks tho some of us are normal!'" and still think saying "but aro ppl who fall in love and ace ppl who have sex -" LIKE DID U NOT READ THE FUCKING POST??? No where in the post did i say those were invalid experiences. I specifically said they should not be the only valid experiences. they should not be used as a response to aphobic rhetoric. When you respond to an aphobe saying "asexuals are just sad virgins" with "Some ace people have sex" you are still giving aphobes the ability to be aphobic, just towards the ace people who don't have sex. by only reponding with "some ace people have sex" you are saying "WE aren't sad virgins! we have sex!" you do nothing to de-stigmatize the ace ppl who are virgins. you do nothing to protect the ace ppl who are virgins from aphobia. you are only saying "SOME ace people are sad virgins but NOT US!!!!" This is the same when it comes to responding with "Some aro ppl fall in love" and "Aro people can still love! they just feel platonic love!!!!" like.... you are still saying it is ok to attack the people who DONT feel love. you are saying you are an acception. you are not doing ANYTHINg to protect other aspec people who do fit under the aphobes idea of an invalid identity.

Yes, Favorable ppl have issues from inside the aspec community on feeling forced out by some members. No one is saying that they don't. But that post was not about that. that post was not about them. that post was about how wording those responses to aphobic rhetoric in such ways harms other aspec people because it ignores the core problem with what aphobes are saying. it's not helping anyone. the post literally acknlowedged favorable experiences but it was NOT ABOUT THEIR EXPERIENCES. it was about how we as a community need to start fighting against aphobic rhetoric by actually fighting back against what the aphobes are saying instead of getting upset over "not every ace/aro" shit. saying "not every ace/aro" doesn't reach the core issue. We need to kill aphobia at the source and only fighting against the generalizing of the community is NOT doing that.

[icewindandboringhorror]

mentally ill people who for whatever reason end up wearing the same exact clothing so many days in a row that it begins to disintegrate and will still not stop wearing it until it’s literally just scraps of fabric VS. those weird shitty rich people who ‘’can’t be seen in the same outfit twice’’ human dichotomy 

[fortune-maiden]

I am so torn on Fire Emblem Engage

some aspects of it look really cool but it just doesn’t feel like the Fire Emblem series I fell in love with