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wait what's happening now?
just in broad strokes; some people are whining that buddie shippers dare to say that "there is no heterosexual explanation for this" as if that's not what every shipper has said about their ships ever and i really don't understand where this need comes from to "disprove" other shippers by writing lengthy pieces about other examples that don't actually have anything to do with the show, but whatever i'm tired of this...
on the other side; someone — who i presume to be no older than 19, so not worth my or anyone's time or energy, really — complained about how masc4masc ships are overdone (??) and basically saying they need all mlm ships to be heteronormative to be enjoyable (cuz yk some people can't project onto masc characters cuz of gender essentialism, but that's an entirely different convo) all this wrapped into a shiny ship war bow
this fandom is a sad joke atp
#when i say i'm tired...#like i am very thankful to have gotten my acc back and i would never give it up#but this type of shit is the reason why i spend most of my tumblr time on my alt acc where i have 911 muted#anyway#911#911 abc#ask#anon
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I want more female characters who are just so bad at comforting others. Not for lack of trying or caring, they just get so so awkward when someone's upset, and they try to repeat things they've heard even if it doesn't necessarily apply to the situation, or they accidentally say the wrong thing and make it worse. If someone cries they panic and throw every single comfort technique down at once and it only helps because it's such bizarre behaviour
This post is for all women including trans women and op loves trans women. Terfs kill yourselves
#Basically I'm tired of female characters having the inherent “good helper/wise advisor” trait just bc they're women#And I'm also tired of the faux progressive female characters who have no emotion whatsoever#People seem to think the opposite of being a good caretaker is just not caring#No no#The opposite of being a good caretaker is not knowing which care to take and when or how.#Throwing water onto an oil fire. Putting blankets over someone who is claustrophobic. Recommending family time to an orphan. Etc.#I want a female character who will be up with you until 3am because you're struggling#But she can't stop quoting Mister Rogers because she has NO idea what to say#Even if she's experienced the same things she just has no idea how to convey any wisdom through words#Etc
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Hot take and not to be a killjoy or the shipping police but people treating Viktor or Jinx's aroace headcanons as if they were canon is not the revolutionary take people think it is.
Headcanons are always all right but we have to acknowledge that they are somehow damaging when they apply to stereotypes. It might not be the case for everyone but most of the time people unconsciously assume that disability/mental illness=asexuality. These headcanons erase the freedom of attraction from people who are already seen as unable to have sexual/romantic experiences/desires, when it's completely untrue and harmful.
You can headcanon Viktor and Jinx as aroace, but I have seen people changing their minds once Viktor is no longer disabled (s2 with all of his other forms) and Jinx is no longer as mentally ill (alternate universe Powder). And it speaks wonders of how people see these characters.
"I never thought about Jinx being able to feel romantic/sexual attraction until s2!" To believe she's actually only capable of that when she's not "damaged" is incredibly disturbing. Especially since Jinx has always had a bit of a flirty personality too.
"I've always seen Viktor as asexual, I don't know why!" That's fine. You can headcanon him as ace. But I believe there is a reason behind it, most of the time, if for some inexplicable reason the "vibes" of the disabled character are making you think he's ace.
I say all of this being aroaspec myself, by the way. Headcanon all you want but going to people's posts commenting how "it's weird for you that they have romantic/sexual plots when they're clearly aroace" is not a win at all. It's a headcanon, after all, and it should be treated as such, and that's fine. But it also is damaging to spread stereotypes like these.
Of course the disabled character is asexual. Of course the mentally ill character is aromantic. It's not as revolutionary as you might think, tbh.
Fandom is not activism and it's all right to have any headcanons you want BUT some of them are filled with damaging stuff and perhaps we should look into ourselves more before treating these assumptions as something canon.
#i hope i didn't sound rude btw i am saying this respectfully and this is directed to the ones who push these hcs as canon#if you have your own theories and know abt aroace stereotypes but are respectful abt it this is not for you keep scrolling#i actually think showing jinx (who has been dehumanized by the fandom A LOT) in a romantic relationship is good for her character#and viktor letting himself be free and loving what he considered imperfections thanks to jayce at the end c'monnn they need to make love#tired of disabled characters being treated as babies and always hc them as aroace let them fuck#this being said i am aware there are more terms inside aroace etc etc etc and there are more ways of considering them aroace etc etc etc#this is NOT about that it's about being aware of how 'mmm it's the vibes!' argument does NOT work when it's stereotypes#it's like saying 'wow this robotic character is giving me autistic vibes idk why' LIKE CMON NOW WEFNEWLFNL YOU KNOW WHY#please don't cancel me i am giving my humble opinion as someone aroaspec#at the end of the day you can do whatever the fuck you want tbh#i'm not the shipping police here#arcane#viktor arcane#jinx arcane#jayvik#timebomb
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Learning to celebrate the little wins!
#fersona#While I don't have the capacity to do Hourly Comics Day#I did journal my day hour-by-hour and the sheer difference in my self-care and routines is *staggering*.#Honestly both Feb 1 2024 and 2025 were rough days...but this year I had a far better outlook on it all.#The funny part is that when I drew this a few days ago I actually *was* celebrating not crying.#Might have still cried on Feb 1st. A meagre 4 times. But I also had lot of good moments!#January is a very hard month for me and frankly I've been in a fugue state for most of it.#Drawing helped me pull through these last 2 years but this year I've been finding myself so upset at how I can't seem to focus anymore.#So updates and posts have been slow. I'm just slow. I'm tired and burnt out from work and grieving.#But you know what? The days I do manage to post; I'm never shamed for how long it took. You're all just as excited and kind.#I'm coming home and eating better and sleeping more and spending time with loved ones.#This is all to say; you can be a lot happier when you realize that life can be taken a little slower.#I'm more grateful that words can possibly convey.#If you related to the mindset of constantly feeling like you've 'failed' the day; please know you have done more than you realize.#I'm struggling with it everyday! I'm in the trenches with you!#Life is too short and painful to not celebrate what you *do* accomplish! It's hard work but it is worth it!#Bit by bit...we will learn to live. *Really* live. And enjoy it!
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Danny was tired, like 'I feel it in my bones and soul' tired. And he didn't want sleep at home because there's only so many nights, he could spend lying awake making sure his heart was beating in case his parents checked on him.
Currently he was flying aimlessly not really taking in his surroundings, but he could neither sleep while flying or fly forever. Normally he'd sleep over at Sam or Tucker's, but the Mansons had made it clear that he wasn't welcome at their house anymore and Tucker was grounded. Both would sneak him in if he asked, but he didn't want them to get in trouble for him. Which leads him to decide between his two choices, sleeping in a graveyard, or sleeping in a forest.
The graveyard was a little crowded with all the ghosts that called it home but he could probably find a quiet spot to sleep. The forest had a great view of the stars but was filled with traps from both his parents and the GIW after tracking his ecto-signature. Both options weren't appealing, but he wasn't about to chance sleeping on the roof of his house again. There were too many ghost detecting guns attached to it now. Danny sighed, graveyard it was, at least the ecto from all the shades/ghosts would hide him well enough. Decision made, now all he had to do was make his way over there. But first, where the heck was he? Danny looked around at the unfamiliar grey sky and gargoyles littered around and realized he had no clue where he was. He must have flown too far away from Amity without noticing...Again. It was really becoming a bad habit. Danny stared down at the city's inhabitants that were going home or heading to nightshifts or whatever and dreaded the long flight back to his town. And maybe it was ghost instinct, or maybe it was just his exhaustion. But his brain suggested 'What if I just possess someone?' And to him that seemed like a perfectly logical train of thought. He wouldn't control their body or anything, just sleep in their skin...That did not make it sound better at all. Before he could think twice, someone left a general store, arms filled with stuff and somehow projecting an aura of safety. The two thoughts of 'They look comfy' and 'screw it' clashed together in his head as he made the very stupid decision of performing a swan drive right into the someone. "WHAT THE-" "Don't worry, I'll be gone by morning I just need to sleep" Danny cut off the persons freakout-he should really get their name at some point- he would have explained more but the sleep gods had already done their job. This left one very confused, scared, and freaked out Batkid.
#dpxdc#dcxdp#dp x dc#dc x dp#I don't know which batkid it should be#I'm thinking Dick or maybe Stephenie#I feel like Steph would be the most chill about a ghost using her body as a sleeping bag#Cass and her just straight up adopt the tired ghost boy who talks in his sleep and says the most distressing things#Bruce didn't even have a chance#Danny is gonna be so confused when he wakes up
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COWBOYSSSS YIPPEEEEE
#rassfanart#fanart#twst#twisted wonderland#idikei#idia shroud#cater diamond#I have alot of things to say but I am far too tired so I'm just gonna leave it at this AHAHAA#Me when I can't shut the fuck up ever when it comes to these two OKAY now I shut up BYE
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tmnt fandom tries to be normal and just block people that make them uncomfortable [!!! IMPOSSIBLE EDITION !!!]]
#sorry i've been giggling a bit at all the call-out post nonsense today#guys that is so obviously not the way to handle this shit#it's hostile and uncalled for.#there's nothing wrong with feeling discomfort towards certain things.. but discomfort doesn't inherently mean immoral :/#getting up on your high horse and proclaiming that all of these people are “so problematic and harmful” to the fandom is the issue#that alongside vehemently saying you don't want to receive harassment as though a whole ass call-out post ISN'T harassment???#don't miscontrue my saying all this as like. defending tcesters-#i'm just really getting sick and tired of the persistent division and hostility within the fandom#cancel culture is stupid as shit and shouldn't have a place in the joy and whimsy of fandom#sorry to rant- ik i don't usually get involved when the fandom implodes.. but this one was especially wild to me#okay that's all :3
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how's the other guy holding up
#submas#emmet#sketches#//#submas angst#this JUST in you can draw fanart .#THEY DON'T TELL YOU THIS BUT YOU REALLY CAN JUST POST LIKE. MOSTLY UNFINISHED DRAWINGS THAT ONLY CONVEY SOME OF WHAT YOU MEAN. AT 4 AM !#see it's very hard for me because i have a lot of serious THOUGHTS about these characters but#not the patience for the necessary care that would go into drawing them properly. or writing fanfiction long enough to get the point across#either way#i have a lot of thoughts on pretty much every aspect of how i think everything happens for SOME reason but I PERSONALLY#i personally think that emmet would take leave from work#maybe i will make a proper post about this another time but i was like#thinking just about. as much as he loves his job. he loved it when he was doing half a job built for 2 people. and the other person#was one of his favourites in the world#i don't think it would really bring him any sense of normalcy. to go do his job alone#and i don't think that keeping gear station in optimal working condition ''for when ingo gets back'' would necessarily be his top priority#the priority rather would be to try and get him back LOL#and it's important to ME that emmet actually succeeds in this#for a variety of reasons. but it's 4:30 am and i'm a little too tired to get into the intricacies of my imaginary reunion scenario#this is unrelated to that but i have also been thinking about like. i bet emmet would hate condolences#my friend said something that made me think about this a while ago but y'know#''i'm sorry for your loss'' do you literally not know that he likes winning more than anything else 🙄#anyways that's enough of that. i have more to say but maybe not in the tags. and another time
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Bumblebee is definitely the crazy cat equivalent of a Cybertronian when it comes to humans. He has had like six different humans already? So imagine them all existing at the same time.
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Optimus: Bee don't do it.
Bumblebee slowly reaching for Raf: (ㆁωㆁ)
Optimus: Put him back you already have five humans already.
*Bumblebee grabs Raf and speeds off with him*
Optimus: Sigh.
Ratchet: We need to have an intervention that boy is addicted.
Optimus: No-
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*Bumblebee cuddling with all his humans*
Prowl: Ugh.
Bumblebee: You wanna go bitch? I won't hesitate to blast your fragging face off.
Prowl: Primus calm down.
Bumblebee: That's what I thought. Jealous fragger....
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Optimus: Primus give me strength.
Arcree: What's he doing now?
Optimus: Apparently buying matching Christmas sweaters for him and his charges.
Arcree: The human holiday? Isn't that five cycles away?
Ratchet: That's what I said!
Ratchet: You know an intervention is still on the table.
Optimus I'm too tired for this bs: Stop.
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If you're wondering how everyone rides in bee: Charlie gets driver seat privileges, Raf has shock gun, Spike is in the truck, Russell is wedged between Alex and Sari in the back, with Sam on the roof.
#bumblebee shaking: just one more than I'm done#the autobots: I'm going to hold your servo when I say this#bumblebee#tfp#rafael esquivel#alex malto#sari sumdac#tfa#tfe#charlie watson#spike witwicky#Optimus prime#sam witwicky#transformers animated#transformers earthspark#tf g1#prowl#feral bumblebee#arcree#tired dad Optimus#extremely tired#addict bumblebee#rid#robots in disguise#russell clay
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if you're an american commenting on a post asking people to take political action and you say something along the lines of "what's even the point? it won't do anything" while offering no realistic alternative, please know that reacting to the current situation by rolling over and treating it as inevitable and unfixable makes you no better than any of the invertebrates in congress who are allowing it. you need to do at least a little bit of the easiest kind of pushing back. I'm done being nice. if you can't grow up and start doing the bare minimum required of an adult in a democratic society, then at the very least shut up and be useless in silence. I'm completely serious.
#I don't know your life and I can't decide for you what you have the capacity to do#but I can tell you this#no one 50 years from now will sympathize when you say you never so much as called your congressperson because there was ''no point''#if I'm being honest they probably won't think much of you saying you were too stressed or tired either#because as much as I understand that and feel the same way#friend we have not scratched the surface of how much these fucks can stress and exhaust you
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Both Kabu and Larry have resting grump faces but they're misleading! Kabu's very friendly and laughs easily, and Larry is polite (if very tired) and even treats you to a meal after you beat his gym. It's just very cute to me.
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#pokemon#pokemon swsh#pokemon sv#kabu#larry#z art#z comic#i'm sorry they're eating my brain right now i can't predict these things#i guess this technically isn't larrykabu but i was THINKING it#larry is just quietly puzzled when you say you like him#he's not rude or grumpy! he's just tired and complains about his work at times#kabu in comparison is very passionate but also can be very thoughtful and nice#understanding! gentle! he uses boku for himself which is also cute
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#squid game spoilers#squidgameedit#squidgamegif#seong gihun#the way nothing about this was ok and my heart shatters over again each time i see the little tear fall#it was SO beautifully shot though god especially this episode it was GORGEOUS#cinematography and acting doing a lot of heavy lifting in s3 imo#ljj facial muscles should be studied like paganini's hands#i have more gifs i want to make and more things i want to say but i am SO TIRED and i still havent eaten#and lbr suffering is only beautiful when characters do it so i'm gonna force some self-care on myself#ily squid game#ily squid game fandom#ily seong gihun forever#balgif
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XPapyrus:"Sans-"
The Bad Sanses & Stars Sanses:"his name is Cross!"

Couldn't resist drawing this (as fast as I could cause it's kinda uhh late on the clock- almost 3 AM) The whole multiverse has Cross' back 🙏💞
#mmelask#mmelart#utmv#literally was speedrunning this and when I say it's messy IT IS VERY MESSY#getting more comfortable posting doodles that I made on a whim yayy#I've been a little tired and busy lately btw so I'm slow with asks ty for your patience- <3
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One of my first digital pieces (2010) versus one of my recent ones (2024)
We all start somewhere!
#picked these cause they're in a similar pose lol. i mean not at all. but sort of... more than my other art at least...#oh fuck im so tired im saving this to drafts and coming back later#my anxiety meds wipe me the fuck out so im trying not to take them in the day#and they're like legit borderline a sleeping med for me. i take one and in 30 mins im OUT.#so I'm. i mean i was already only taking 1-2 in the day and then 2-3 at night#anyways it makes me sad when people say they dont have an artistic bone in their body#and especially when they say they could never draw like me :(#dont put yourself down to lift me up! i don't want my art to be used for you to be mean to yourself!!!#lots of experiences of people comparing themselves to me and being mean to themself...#feels bad. it's okay if you're slow it's okay to be learning it's okay!!!#I'm me and you're you and we're here to learn from each other. i just wanna hang out..#y'know what I'm just gonna post without saying anything i WILL forget I made a draft#i have so many things i intend to post and then forget#it's a wonder I post anything#i only do it when i get bored. and run out of stuff to scroll through#like whelp. guess if i want a post I have to make one myself.#also the second one is really good idc that it's a study i still drew it#art growth#this was in 2010 btw#i started highschool in 2011#I've grown a lot and you can too.#also I've never really been one to dislike my old art. like idk I was trying... if it's bad I just won't look at it whatever#like i wouldn't be mean to someone else who made that so i don't get a free pass to be mean just cause it's to me#man my thoughts are bungled. okay sleep time#if my phone made typos you didn't see it
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Max about the baby and vacation, GP Abu Dhabi, 2024
#1. giedo was in the studio and laughed loudly at chiel's slow joke at his expense while max was so serious about it 😭#2. maybe it's just me but max if you don't want people to think you're retiring maybe don't do that weird pause and nod when chiel says 'se#when chiel says 'see you in bahrein'#wtf? not once did i think he was going to retire but then this made me go 'uh...' despite him having said he won't#idk maybe i'm too tired and will probably look at it differently tomorrow?#anyway#DAD MAX!#3. thanks chiel for putting that mental image of max putting his ear to kelly's belly to listen to the baby in my head 🥺🥺🥺#the little lion shirt ♥#f1#max verstappen#max in dutch#my post
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I wish people could understand that both Babe and Charlie are two emotionally-stunted people who grew up without love, who both are in their first romantic relationship and have zero idea what the fuck they're doing. They don't have parental models for how to show love, how to foster trust, or how to communicate openly and effectively.
Babe's dad made a mistake and decided the best way to deal with it would be to fake his death and never talk to his son again. Charlie was literally locked in a room for most of his childhood.
Babe triggered Charlie's childhood trauma by joking about moving onto someone else. Charlie triggered Babe's childhood trauma by faking his death.
Their relationship has been volatile from the very beginning. They broke up like three times in the first season ffs. They have both hurt each other, and they are both going to keep hurting each other, because their story is about two deeply imperfect people trying to make it work without any idea of what "making it work" looks like.
I don't know why parts of the audience are so insistent on finding someone to blame, instead of just trying to understand where these characters are coming from. Like I'll be honest with y'all, I'm not a CharlieBabe shipper, I have little emotional investment in them, but I think their story is such a good example of ways that trauma can inform our actions and our words beyond "hyperventilating in the fetal position," and I wish ppl cared more about that than about who deserves to be cancelled.
I've said it once and I'll say it a hundred times, there is more to media criticism than just saying what you dislike, and someone offering an explanation for a character's actions isn't "shutting down criticism," it's just them expecting you to care more about character analysis than making zingy one-liners.
#people really out calling babe slurs... because what? he wasn't showy enough when he shoved willy off of him?#can't even say the word with your whole chest either lmfao you gotta act like this is tiktok#also this is not about whatever ppl are saying on other social sites bc i am not touching that shit with a ten foot pole#i do not even want to look bc ppl on twitter already made up their mind about the situation three fucking months ago#anyways it's only been three days and i'm already tired so i need to be flexing that block button more...#pit babe#pit babe the series#pit babe 2#em post#fandom things
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