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my personal headcanon is the vees were unremarkable nobodies when they were alive. i just love it as a thematic throughline for them. they love to let the public of hell speculate on them being famed and acclaimed since before death, but the the truth is they were a d-list failed influencer that got by on cheap controversey and scamming, a broke junkie who burned every shaky bridge he ever had, and a worn-out broadcast production assistant with more rejected auditions and tossed out script pitches than he could count. nobody missed them when they were gone, nobody cared who they were until they were dead.
#because villains who didn't start off supremely powerful are more interesting to me#vees#it's not that they CAN'T be better. or that they're simply ignorant of the ways they fuck up others lives#they actually all do have that knowledge of being the underdog. and it's made them all the more shitty#because they never want to be those people again#narratives about people who make each other worse <3#to be clear they were still shitty people in life. manipulative. consumed by greed and envy. all their individual flaws etc etc#but hell made them into the absolute worst versions of themselves#of course what their Worst Self is and the journey/length of time/initial reaction to being in hell varies#like val sees hell as a continuation of the things happening in life. just w/ the power dynamics always privileging him#it's the same drugs and violence. except the violence isn't just survival anymore but the chance to indulge his deeply sadistic desires#vox has completely dissociated from his time alive. that person is dead and he's reinvented himself 1000 times over since then#90% of the time he has those memory files shoveled into a hidden directory#he refuses to acknowledge that he's still haunted by some of the same insecurities from almost a century ago#val doesn't necessarily see his living self in a fond light but he does see that person as fundamentally him#velvette thinks life was full of people who weren't her demographic but fortunately that's been fixed by sinners!#they just couldn't Get Her and that was all their faults#the primary way they view their past selves can be summed up as: scorn (vox) apathy (valentino) and in denial (velvette)#sorry the bulk of the post was in the tags. i will be doing this again#the scorn is the coping mechanism for shame. of course
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The cast of Blades of Light and Shadow and their Perfect Match types
Ever since I did my Blades/Elementalists attunement crossover to mark the anniversary of the Blades series, I’ve known I wanted to do something like this to mark the wide release of book three, and I love me some Perfect Match and the types system, so what better way than by incorporating that into a piece?
So the match types you see here are based on what we’ve seen of these characters up to book two, so any character evolution they may undergo in book three is not accounted for. You might also notice that, when deciding each character’s type, I went off of the core four traits instead of the match name or description, unless I needed a tiebreaker.
Finally, MC’s type is pretty subjective, as I’m sure everyone has a different idea of what their MCs are like, so for the sake of this edit set, Raine’s type is based on which traits she displays most in canon.
So, are you swiping right?
#playchoices#blades of light and shadow#perfect match#choices pm#mal volari#nia ellarious#tyril starfury#imtura tal kaelen#aerin valleros#valax#quality edits? in THIS economy???#fun fact you know how I mentioned I went off of the four traits instead of titles/descriptions?#well in Aerin’s case without looking at the traits I would’ve pegged him as a Scholar type instead but the traits said otherwise#and I realized it does fit with how he canonically uses (dry) humor as a coping mechanism. just like Damien who is the canon Joker type LI#so the actual fun fact is that if you go off of the traits he displayed BEFORE he betrayed MC in b1? THAT’S the scholar type#I just thought it was interesting when I noticed that#other fun facts is that the only two ties were with Imtura and MC and that’s when I needed the type tiebreaker#I don’t remember now what exactly Adventurer was tied with for Imtura. maybe Champion for sincerity.#I just know that when I realized I was tied between whatever it was and Adventurer it was obvious to me she should be an Adventurer#I believe MC’s tie may have been with Best Friend for sweetness#but again—between Best Friend and jetsetting Diplomat it was a no-brainer for MC#final fun fact is that I was a bit shocked when Tyril and Valax yielded the same type but as soon as it sank in it felt so obvious#they’re both so driven with their causes to make the world a better place. the fact that they go about it differently doesn’t change that#anyway ramble over shoutout to anyone who got this far
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stacy is sooo interesting because she's in love with house but knows that they will never ever be able to have a healthy, stable, sane relationship because they're too similar so. she finds house-lite instead and marries him and. essentially moves on with her life! and is successful in this because she's a moderately well-adjusted person!
wilson, in contrast, never manages to escape the inevitable, in spite of his best efforts to find a house-lite of his very own, because he's an absolute fucking freak and ends up glued to house to the bitter. bitter end
#yeah im too sleepy to revise this. UNFILTERED posting wooahh#some may b shocked but i do actually read thru most of my posts several times to make sure i didnt accidentally write mein kampfe 2#recently ive come to the realization that i am in fact not an incredibly chill person#and that the constant paranoia and fear in which i live my life is actually PROBABLY a symptom of severe anxiety#like damn. ive always known that im pretty prone to depression but ive preetty much always been aware of that#my mom is a chronic depressive so i know the symptoms i know the signs i have a pretty good arsenal of healthy coping mechanisms#UNFORTUNATELY mommy's mental health problems did not help her not abuse me as a child#so i ended up being a terribly anxious kid who was constantly being screamed at and told i was overreacting (because i was. because i had#a severe anxiety problem that was making me react irrationally.) to everything all the time#which is you know. it is VERY difficult to deal with a mental health problem when you arent aware you have a problem!#its incredible how much. better. my life has gotten since i figured this out and started actively trying to work out what triggers it#and being able to like. realize 'oookay. there is an Issue here and it needs to be overcome'#instead of just beating on myself constantly for not being able to do things without feeling sick or getting breathing problems!#anyways. trauma dumping in tags is over now!#house md#hilson#greg house#james wilson#stacy warner
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Yknow what yeah maybe Bianca didn’t actually have to raise Nico after their mom died because they were put in the Casino where they were both looked after and were only there a week then immediately got put in a military school where they would’ve been separated and looked after anyway. But maybe they were also born into 1940s Italy where men are coddled and women are mummified from birth and she would have felt the pressure to look after him anyway. Maybe she worried about him like a mother, and felt that worry grow after their mother died, and maybe she was scared of it because she knew she would let it become her if she stayed near him. And she wasn’t ready for that, so she did the only thing she could think of. She ran.
#sry i just see ppl say well actually her being a mother figure isn’t accurate for a reason for her to join the hunters bc-#SHUT UP SHUT UP SHUT UP#do u know what it’s like for italian women in their families? i PROMISE she has enough shit around raising her brother already to justify#wanting to leave. even if it was selfish#also let’s remember SHE WAS THIRTEEN#why r we treating her like her logic was that of a grown up omfg#pjo#percy jackson and the olympians#bianca di angelo#nico di angelo#hades pjo#lotus casino#idk man maybe the 13 yr old has bad coping mechanisms#i got an ed when i was 13 so she’s still doing better than me can we give her a break now
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"hi love you need better coping mechanisms and also maybe to leave the city sometimes because its stuffy and putting you on edge so will you come burn some marshmallows with me in the woods"
@naffeclipse I continue <3
*self insert is not a girl (he/ she)
og detective au by sunnys-aesthetic!
#post let luce#dcamv#sleuth jesters#bloodstain fool#apropos i still need to reblog the chapter link - focus#naffeclipse#my art#something something fuel to the brainrot fire#shakes him and his coping mechanisms#im only more insane about him after the second chapter came out#i also apologize for my marshmallow crimes#im unfortunately the person who burns half my 'mallows#i finally got to experiment with flame painter tho!!#bought it last year during the rebelle sale and didnt have the opportunity to try it before gfhdjs#what better trial than burning marshmallows <3#menace4menace
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just scrolling looking at what the crunchyroll algorithm would spit out at me tonight when I came across this category and uh
... the best huh? Aaare you sure???
Are you really, really sure about that crunchyroll???
#this is absolutely not shiro slander dont get me wrong but uh... my man sure did fuck up some kids didnt he?#blue exorcist#blue exorcist anime#ao no exorcist#aoex#like he did his best and for the most part he was a GOOD dad but... the best???#i wouldn't quite go that far when he recruited one of his kids to be a child soldier and his brothers keeper at age 8#instilling a deep anxiety about living up to expectations and an even deeper resentment for his brother who's protection he was saddled with#and the other that he allowed to grow up thinking he was just a freak of nature destined to destroy everything he touched#when explaining what he was could have come with better coping mechanisms tools and skills to help him live in a world not made for him#& would have definitely helped him not have a mental breakdown when he inevitably found out what he was & was thrust into a whole new world#oh and would have helped him understand why he was being tossed out of the only home he knew now that he was “suddenly” not human#i may or may not have some feelings about how the Okumera boys were raised#ough the tragedy of a parent doing their absolute best they could have but their best not being enough#*takes a drag off a cigarette* poetic cinema
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#ok finally making a post about meds#I've not ever tried taking medication before. I was sorta raised with that classic 'dont rely on meds you have to learn to manage without'#I mean I was also raised with the idea that therapy is stupid unless you have 'real' trauma. and also like idk.#can't stay home from school unless your temp is over 100 or you're throwing up. etc. very suck it up mindset#so I was just really nervous to start. also of course worried about losing myself or whatever I know that's a silly fear but#it's also a common fear for a reason!!! anyways#so I finally was like 'I need to do something' when I realized I was so anxious I couldnt even get myself to go outside alone#like I just don't want to do ANYTHING alone to a detrimental effect. and it was butting into my ability to do my work...#for various reasons. but then ALSO adhd has been a constant issue with my work as well!#it is SO hard to write and draw on a weekly pace like I am without being able to focus#my whole life I've had these terrible nightmares constantly and I've always woken up constantly in the night#sleep has always been terrible so I've always dreaded going to bed.. ESPECIALLy because it didnt even make me less tired#it was more something that I just did because I had to.#but going to bed was always terrible. there have been times I was too scared to go to sleep for weeks on end...#I've been mitigating this for years of course. and recently I've been taking melatonin which has been helping too.#but I've also always struggled to get up. because I've always been EXTREMELY exhausted#but also anxious of what the day might bring... idk.#anyways it has all hit a point that I was like okay. I am doing as many coping mechanisms as I can. the psych said they were good too#but... it just has never been enough. it's never been enough to make me not tired it's never been enough to make me not scared#so I finally talked to the doc about it. and she was like youve def got smth wrong basically. which yah I know.. but yknow#anyways so I started taking wellbutrin. and I am so frustrated now. because it's WORKING#that constant looming sense of dread is gone. I'm excited to get up. I'm excited to go to bed BECAUSE I'm excited to get up#I feel like for years I've been holding on to the idea that I have to get up because I have to put something good out into the world#and I've been clinging to knowing that if nothing else. I am able to help other people feel better.#but now for the first time in my life I'm like. free of it. I didnt even know it was possible... and I'm so sad how much I've lost out on#and so frustrated how my whole life I've been told to put up with it and push through it. and treated like a failure for it being too much.#and just. It has only been 2 weeks. but the lack of anxiety is SO noticeable I'm so...#I'll never miss it. the adhd is still pretty present but like whatever. I can manage that better.#and I'm just crying because of all this combined.#I just. I hope I get to finally be the best I can be now. for myself but also for you guys!
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Ive been brewing a theory that people are obsessed with demanding media show them morally good things because we're replacing religion with tv shows and pop culture in general in our everyday life. From one story, one form of escapism that dictates our life and community seeking to another, humanity has always been the same. Or rather, there will always be forms of control to keep us occupied and distracted (at the same time it wouldn't be so effective if we weren't intrinsically wired to seek a distraction from reality, so i can't even blame people who "fall" for it. I think it's a natural instinct that helps people build a lens to approach reality through, to stay sane in a meaningless irrational world.)
#as always you know my stance that fiction does influence us remains. to think otherwise is denial#but i think it's better to engage with media that isnt 'perfect' while knowing its flaws than to pretend it didnt exist#and liking a character that does bad things doesnt make you an accessory in crime or smth#but to say oh no dont read x thing it features something bad...sure if youre only approaching things with the intent of blind worship#a bit off topic but im thinking of the people who would claim for anyone to hear they can reality shift to fictional worlds#literally whats the difference between that and dreaming messages from god or angels#i think youre all delusional but i recognize it as a powerful coping mechanism
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When all else is gone, you'll have me.
#what if Sukea was the only one Kakashi could turn to in his darkest times?#who better to love and loathe you than yourself#unhealthy coping mechanisms are better than none#hatake kakashi#Naruto fanart#Kakashi#Sukea#malifique art
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This is a random dark thing but I was looping Too Young again which is like The "fc!bf's negative emotions" song so idk why I'm surprised BFJQHDJ ANYWAY. A thing w fc!Pico is that he makes a lot of offhand jokes abt how like he Should be dead or making rly dark jokes about his near-death experiences just bc of the amount of shit he's been through and he doesn't really see a problem with it but I feel like after The Hanzou Incident BF starts saying similar shit and Pico's like woah hey wait a minute that's illegal you can't do that
#abrupt realization of Poor Coping Mechanisms through seeing someone you love do the same thing. or smth#its a touchy thing bc this sort of thing tends to be a cry for help but also an indicator that the person is like#Not emotionally ready to deal with it#idk. rotating in my mind how they would talk abt this in their mutual recovery process#... and also thinking abt rgbfverse scenarios bc its indulgent who better to snap u out of an unhealthy coping mechanism than Youdnajsk#💛#uhhh. i feel like this needs a trigger tag but idk what#fucking. angst tw dkqhdnajs#ask to tag#<- works for now
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still thinking about vergil more or less canonically haunting nero while ultimately being still alive… could be a fun idea to explore
#vergil becoming more and more conscious and trying to backseat drive nero’s brain is my general idea#neither of them have any godforsaken idea what’s happening#vergil pretends like he does#given the opportunity he would absolutely still commit mass murder it just isn’t really an option as a brain ghost in some 19 year olds#brain#dmc tag#** murder perhaps not the right word but there would be a body count there’s always a body count#oh vergil. please find better coping mechanisms.
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I already knew the things Calypso did to Odysseus but honestly just listening to Love In Paradise over and over really just finally had it click and I realize how much projection I've done onto Odysseus and how most of it is honestly true and could most likely be true
#chat…#i..#i hate Calypso#dude#literally#HES ME#HES FUCKING ME#im gonna cry#Odysseus deserved so much better#HE DIDNT FUCKING WANT IT#HE HAD NO CHOICE#HE LITERSLLY WANTED TO DIE#chat when when you project trauma and your horrible coping mechanism onto a thousand year old man#like#he's not thounds of years old#but his story is#epic the musical#epic#the odyssey#odysseus#tw sh implied#tw sa implied#tw suicide#tw ed implied#Not too implied#just.. would like y'all to be aware that's what's being implied#stay safe out there chat#sobs#Odys me#my post
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Aid
#art#my art#drawing#ace attorney#ace attorney fanart#miles edgeworth#phoenix wright#trucy wright#I've been sick lately so what's a better way to deal with it than to draw the characters you love going through the same stuff#what a weird coping mechanism#but hey it works#narumitsu#wrightworth#family#🥺
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Leonardo: Now, the recipe calls for 2 shots of vodka.
Dazai: *upends the bottle*
#ikevamp#ikemen vampire#ikevamp leonardo#ikevamp leo#ikevamp dazai#let it be known that#1. these two should never be left unsupervised#2. these two should never be left to gang up on poor mozart (rip amadi taken from us too soon by shenanigans)#3. these two should never. EVER. cook together#the result will either be the tastiest thing in the world#or something fit to send you to outer space (and i. do not mean the fun way i mean the 'what dimension are we in?????' way)#i also love how with this one i don't even see leo being mad that fker would be like#'finally none of that weak sauce two drops of alcohol. i wanna get TRASHED'#while everyone else (except maybe arthur) looks on in dismay#leonardo there's gotta be a better coping mechanism--no squeezing mc's ass like a stress ball is not a valid coping mechanism--#(she said. like a LIAR--)#also man can i just say after reaching Dazai's rt ch.15#upending a whole ass bottle of vodka is a hard MOOD#i feel like i always wondered why i struggled to see him as a bias and now im just like#'of course i know him. he's me' meme#there's only room for one evasive clown in this house and its ME#although to be fair i do think i qualify more as a jester#alas what can a mfer do but meme and be strong for mother (comte)#source: incorrect quote generator
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cole cassidy is an angry man. he's angry at the world, at himself, at the powers that be, at the factions that keep fucking up this shithole of a planet at every turn of the way. his rage is deep-seated and all consuming, it would be justifiable for him to be endlessly bitter at the world that failed him and many others, his case especially starting far too early with his beyond fucked up upbringing, but we keep only seeing glimpses of this anger in his present self. his refusal to forgive himself and soldier 76 for what they did in hanamura is such an outlier in his voicelines that it almost seems like it doesn't belong in his oft lighthearted exchanges with the other heroes. it makes you ask that if this is really the case, why do we never see him lash out? he's more than enough reason to after all.
well, he's seen what unrestrained wrath has done to those around him.
he witnessed ashe fall deeper and deeper into the viper pit, her rage soothed only by the sweet release of vengeance. he was angry during retribution, angry enough to question why they weren't killing antonio to begin with, but knew deep inside that it wasn't the right choice. when he watched gabriel kill antonio, he watched as his mentor and the world he found himself beginning to find comfort in burned down right in front of his eyes. nobody came out of it victorious, only assessing casualties and fallout.
so when cole feels that coiled snake in him start to rattle, baring its fangs and hissing, when he looks down at his mechanical arm and starts to clench his fist at the thought of everything that's been taken from him, he sees gabriel and ashe's faces in the back of his mind. he sees the inferno of wrath that took away the closest things he had to family and the thought slowly unfurls the knot in his throat. he can't let that happen again, he thinks, not to himself. so, he lets the rage cool down, slide off him like water off a duck's back, and pops another bottle of beer open.
#headcanons#hes suchh a compelling character#if only blizzard knew what to do w him#this is actually also why i think yeehan would make such a great pairing#he recognizes that rage in hanzo as well#hanzo just can't deal with it as well as he can#well not like cole's coping mechanisms are any better but#in this mutual understanding they can find peace and redemption#learning to forgive themselves by forgiving each other#overwatch#cole cassidy
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I’m pretty sure ajr just yoinked the lyric “I hope I made you smile, it’s all I’ve ever wanted” straight out of my brain bcz thats literally my mindset 24/7 365
#ajr#ajr brothers#I just hope my efforts actually work#I was put on this earth to make my friends feel even a little bit better#my goal is to hear the wonderful laughs of my friends#especially when they kinda feel like shit#I post on this hell site for two reason#1. because i like reading what you weirdos have to say#2. because sometimes I’ll see folks in my notes generally feeling joy over what I posted#with every silly key smash or little comment someone puts in the tags I know I succeeded in my constant goal#I’m glad humor is a popular coping mechanism in recent years#if it wasn’t I’d be lowkey cooked
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