#were u a brat!!!!!!!

[inkykeiji]

Touya nii said I was getting a punishment for lying im already loving this ✨😊💞

HEHEHEHE i hope you enjoyed the chat bb!! <333

[bioethicists]

it's very important to understand how a personality disorder diagnosis functions in the psychiatric system, even if you identify with the diagnosis or find it useful.

personality disorders on your medical record will be used to discredit anything you say or do. they indicate "don't bother listening to this person; apply treatment regardless of their wishes but also they're probably manipulating/attention-seeking so maybe don't bother treating them". needing support becomes attention-seeking. behaviors that would be treated + supported in someone without this diagnosis are ignored or treated as manipulative. providers are instructed to "withdraw warmth" (a real thing in the DBT provider's manual, btw) in response to self-injury or suicidal ideation.

if you have been dx'd with a personality disorder professionally, you likely understand this.

now, here's the important part: this is not an issue of 'stigma' against a politically neutral, pre-discursive True Disease which is being Unfairly Maligned. these diagnoses were formulated based on the idea that some patients cannot be trusted, that some patients seek care too much. they are applied to patient charts as a justification for withdrawing care or as a dismissal of someone "not getting better" fast enough. in the uk, they are often employed by the nhs to shame or problematize people who use large amounts of nhs resources, arguing that receiving a lot of care through the nhs is a negative behavior stemming from a disordered personality.

there are elements of personality disorders which resonate strongly with many people, including myself, but you need to be clear-eyed about the origins + functions of this diagnosis. as a whole, they were created + function as ways to discredit + mistreat noncompliant or "difficult" patients. 'reclaiming' them is not going to change how they function systematically- it is going to make it easier to engage in this systematic neglect by evoking 'ableism' or 'stigma!' when people question the utility or application of the diagnosis.

[fyllophobia]

hythades but they were little girls once

[fisheito]

inspired by a comment from phaerlax (who i shall not @ out of consideration for the lack of awooo in this pic 😂):

[batfambrainrotbeloved]

Tim is better than me because if I saw my ex flirting with someone right in front of me and they no longer remember our time together I’d crash out

Well because of my own personal headcanon (and the fact DC absolutely FUCKED up with writing Tim and Stephs whole "why our relationship ended"- also just lore implications)

They were eachother's beard. (not that they realized it at the time)

But if anything Tim is more heartbroken over seeing Steph so happy, just an arms length away and instead of being able to support her, offer advice, and enjoy his friends together- he will forever be "A friend of a friend" to her

[buccellato]

Vash is actually very lucky his brother is just regular evil and not Annoying Dumbass Sibling evil because he just has to deal with murder instead of having to finally give up and block his brother's phone number after a long and agonizing argument that stretched out over the past 6 months only for him to get on a bus the next day for a 14 hour ride and have everyone else's phones ding up with a message all at once which results in the other riders giving him A Look and the person sitting next to him going "erm, is this you? :/" and showing him this image

[vampireboba]

wanted to share this fic that i have been obsessing over day and night since i read it.. 🥹 i love it sososo much pls give it a read!!! ♡

[lezstat]

[heart-wit-strength]

lowkey think we sleep on the fact that the one time she displays behavior of a 13 year old in Newtopia resulted in very casual attitude towards discipline through physical violence

[itshomobirb]

if my parents keep talking to me im going to (remembers that suicide jokes are bad for mental health) go outside and dig a hole to narnia

[crossbackpoke-check]

yOu'Re gOiNg fOr a LiTeR? | "Habs react to Quebec Maple facts", 10.22.24

[curiosity-killed]

i love my sister and for the most part, we are very close and genuinely like each other a lot but the one place where i'd just really, really, really like to see inside her brain is the part where she is still incredibly comfortable and cheerful—and even thinks it's really funny—talking about how much she didn't like me as a child while I'm like. yes. I am and was aware. and it sucked so so so much

[sendmyresignation]

truly nothing on this earth is more foul than supernatural familial abuse discourse but specifically the discourse people have about if sam or dean "had it worse" like ok cool you have already missed the point of this show very hard.

[a-ikuoliver]

neeeeeeed to write more men calling their dicks brat breakers

[serenityofwitches]

me when i get to talk about how i really show my feelings in my appearance / hair color / hair cut

i was talking to my best friend about being bullied in middle school and how it shattered my spirit and i changed my looks because of it and i was going thru pics like. young kid to now and jesus you can really see when the light left my eyes. 😭 i hate talking about my childhood and family and stuff but it was so interesting to have a side by side comparison of me thru the years and how i changed my looks based on what was happening to me.

[opens-up-4-nobody]

:-P