#wedding advice

[melodiesofmidnight]

People who have had weddings before (and even folks who are also only in the planning stages): what are your thoughts on this pricing & amenity list? This is a nicer venue in a mountainside forest.

[bookishbrigitta]

Started watching some wedding planning content while sick because it's mindless, why not? And anyway, I just had the best idea...

GATOR TOSS

Instead of the garter toss (which a lot of people find awkward, to each their own), the couple throws some kind of alligator-related object into the crowd -- a plushie, hard plastic figurine, live gator if you're marrying Florida Man.

[whynotfabulous]

You know that advice people give that's like "when you buy things for your wedding, don't tell them it's for a wedding and it'll cost less." Now that I work in the wedding industry...Jesus Christ do not do this.

It is incredibly annoying and STUPIDLY obvious. I promise we know EVERY TIME. You will get the same price or more than you would have paid otherwise and you may or may not get the special level of care that we give to wedding projects since we know it's a very important day.

Just tell them it's for your wedding. If the price is out of your budget, ask if they are at all flexible or what you can do to make the product/service less expensive without sacrificing too much. These vendors WANT to help you have a perfect day. And trying to be sneaky will just make you look dumb and piss them off.

[writing-n-memes]

Part 2 of last post. Sister said it’s not great to say sorry you feel that way instead of sorry I hurt you. I probably shouldn’t have used that line but I am sorry they feel that way but I also still don’t regret it at all. All I said back was sorry I hurt you and she hasn’t responded since. Like???? That’s what you wanted to hear I thought? I am sorry you feel bad but after knowing what I know now, I genuinely would not change my elopement. They would have been hurt either way

[summercreolefanfictioner]

my main takeaway for wedding planning: be a bridezilla; you'll get your dream wedding (trust me on this)

[pan-and-tired]

if you want to make a toast at a wedding, don’t tap your wine glass with a fork. that’s tacky and could break the glass. instead, you should stand on your chair and scream real loud. hope this helps!

[perfertweddinghub]

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[tracychamberlainhigginbotham]

(via Monday Motivation: "Perfection")

[mysticdragon3md3]

[solo-walker]

Mark. I have so many thoughts about Mark. A boy growing up with an alcoholic for a father (he still hasn't stopped. Perhaps he can't, thinks Mark. Or won't). He turns to the local priest, seeking solace, but finds more jibes. More ridicule. More reminders of the fateful day when he failed to stop his father from getting behind the steering wheel. It's his fault, isn't it? Who cares if he was seven, he was already holding the tattered household together, he should've been more forceful, should've scolded and fought and gently guided his reeling father back inside should've done more but he didn't. He couldn't. He failed them and all he had to show for it was a coffin and his father's racous voice calling his name and a scar he swore he'd never let anybody touch because he'd be damned if he let anybody ignore him the way his father had when he'd spoken up, asking him, pleading him, to get out of the car. He'd be damned if he ever let anybody make him feel that powerless and small ever again.

Mark is such a great character and such a great example of how one's childhood affects one's behaviour as an adult. I love how you can see the traces and effects of the incidents of his childhood and his upbringing in his behaviour in the play. I love how you can see him try to deal with his problems but in all the wrong ways. Because he needs to hear an apology. He just needs his father to own up and say “i'm sorry”, to say, “it wasn't your fault, it was mine”.

But he ends up seeking this sense of closure through Clarissa.

[prideprejudce]

I don’t think I’ve ever been so happy a scene was cut from a show

[grailknightmonty]

judge bdubs ideas for this cool little moss cape/stole thing around his neck (and cool horse ties)

also ethubs :D thinking about that one time the hermits were talkin about how judge man could do weddings too 👀

[writing-n-memes]

I eloped and two sisters are making it about them. I understand they wanted to be told and involved but we really didn’t want anyone to be there because we thought they’d be judging us for moving fast. We didn’t want drama but now I’m getting it anyway. They’re not exactly being mean but I feel like they’re trying to make me feel guilty. Why am I supposed to apologize for getting married how I want to?

[thepersonalwords]

They gave me a thousand reasons to leave you, but I found a thousand and one reasons to be with you.

Matshona Dhliwayo

[askjumblr]

I'm a goy, and planning to write an intermarriage wedding fic, and the guy is an agnostic Jew (so he isn't religious). I wonder if it's still alright if the couple decides to go with a Jewish wedding, and whether if there are any differences from a traditional Jewish wedding.

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[iirulancorrino]

FYI