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"I don't like saying it/its for a person, it feels dehumanizing" okay, but have you considered: pretend we're all playing tag
#personal#gender#truly what is life but one big game of hide-and-seek#xD#this was a thought I had today#while playing tag#a thing that I do sometimes dw about it#also I don't use it/its pronouns so I'm not an expert#but I do think we should all just vibe and enjoy what we've got#and support each other and have fun with it#and sometimes having fun with it means using pronouns that people might not be familiar with or fully used to#I just think it's neat#sbs rambles
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Fascinating how Edward's response to distressing events is to immediately get a hand on his nearest fellow lieutenant. Almost like he's afraid they'll be taken away from him or something.
#Terror Lieutenants#The Terror#And then they were taken away from him! :)#hodglittle#nedving#Edward Little#hi everybody here's your weekly Lieutenant Throuple propaganda#Starky's Original Posts#We should make this more of a thing in fics. I know we write George as physically affectionate based on vibes and I always support that.#But we should also acknowledge The Handsy Groper over here.#Hodge gives the other two a billion cutesy pet names and tells them he loves them a trillion times a day.#Meanwhile Edward only ever calls them John and George but has a hand on at least one of them at all times.#John does neither of these things but they will each find a little drawing in their pockets later when they're alone#or they'll discover he did some task for them without them knowing.#did u know that um. love is real. just for these 3 weirdos though specifically.#OKAY thank you for suffering through my infantile loveydovey nonsense we can all get back to the usual violence and gore now
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I'm so so happy and proud seeing my artist friends be successful and recognized for their hard work and passion. Nothing feels better then cheering them on as they make their own personal projects which end up resonating with so many other people. :D
#personal#personal ramblings#need these good vibes in spite of the world being on fire#we should all want people to be happy and make the things they wanna make and root for them all the way#artists win when they support and lift each other up#it's not a competition of egos
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I'm an "AroAce Stereotype" I'm Romance averse/Repulsed> I'm Sex repulsed I'm non-partnering I hate the idea of marriage in all forms I don't want a QPR at all I'm loveless I'm someone who gets uncomfortable at sexual talk and sex jokes I'm someone who often has innuendos or sexual concept fly over my head. I'm someone who can't tell when someone is flirting with me I'm someone who can't pick up on romantic or sexual tension I'm someone who finds "shipping" to be annoying I'm someone who says "They just seem like friends to me" I'm someone who believed that attraction could be turned on or off I'm someone who can't make sense of romance at all and cant figure out what makes it different from every other relationship. I'm someone who thinks romance is stupid and sex is gross and I don't understand the big deal everyone makes about it I'm someone who never was upset to find out I was AroAce but rather relieved as I have a genuine fear of being stuck in a romantic relationship that i do not want. In all cases I am not an AroAce who can be considered "normal" by the standards of allo society.
I'm not just a stereotype for you to shit on. I'm not the reason aphobes are aphobic I'm not a problem that you need to erase and refute to be accepted by allos. I'm not an experience that you and ignore as "not really how aspec people are" just because You are not part of it. Stop leaving us behind. Stop throwing us under the bus. We deserve support too. We deserve to not be demonized and shunned because we're an "stereotype". We are not the problem. We are not a problem to be fixed. start fighting aphobes on their logic instead of trying to make up for our existence.
#text#ace#aro#asexual#aromantic#aroace#arospec#acespec#aspec#mostly talking abt aroace experience because thats me#but this can go for other aspec identities too#aphobia#im just tired of other aspec people agreeing with the oppressors that certain experiences are wrong#and promising that THEY aren't like that THEY are normal and shouldn't be ridiculed#but never do anything to protect the rest of us from ridicule#because really they just want to protect their experience they dont care about the wider community#and it's frustrating#because we should all be supporting each other because thats how things get better#if we tell aphobes there are exceptions then suddenly all aspec people can become an exception#because they dont care about us being socially acceptable aspecs they care about us not being aspec period#they dont want us to exist because then they have to question their world view and that dont like doing that#so they'll play nice with the ones they can pretend are normal before they decide that you're not good enough either
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PLEASE STOP HARASSING DECK NINE DEVS AND LIS PLAYERS WHO DON'T AGREE WITH YOU.
Death threats are not okay.
Telling people to kill themselves is not okay.
Harassing people over fictional ships is not okay.
Harassing people over their opinion of a game is not okay.
Harassing already overstressed, overworked employees is not okay. ESPECIALLY since it's been documented they've been working under discriminatory and predatory management, been through multiple crunches, and have an unidentified neo-Nazi on their team who management did not properly address and fire.
You can still be critical of a game and not harass the people who made it. Hell, you can absolutely hate a game and still be respectful to the people who made it. I'm sure the creators are far more likely to listen to the fans if we give constructive criticism than if we irresponsibly and cruelly send threats.
I know most people who see this haven't sent hate, and to those people: this post isn't about you. I massively respect you for maintaining your rationality and empathy. But for those who have sent hate or are thinking of doing so, please reconsider. Sending hate isn't going to change anything; it'll only break the fandom even further apart and stress out overworked employees. If you're going to be mad, be mad at the higher-ups at Square Enix for turning the franchise into a cash cow and at the upper management at Deck Nine for overworking and alienating their employees. (Also be mad at that 1 neo-Nazi because seriously, WTF!?)
But please, even to the worst of the worst, do not send death threats or harass people.
#in other news instead of fighting each other i think pricefielders grahamfielders marshfielders and all other shippers should come together#to say that de did a major disservice to their characters#and advocate for better writing and representation and working conditions in their next game#because i seriously feel bad for the employees who received hate after years of trying to create a good game#while dealing with awful working conditions and a discriminatory work environment#also this isn't about lis but I just have to say it:#i am so so sorry to all my fellow americans out there#i will continue to post LGBTQIA+ content here#and be supportive of poc and immigrants (legal and undocumented) and women and everyone else too#the upper class may have failed us but we will not succumb to hate#not incorrect quotes
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As long as you're not a cdream apologist/dreblr you're OK in my books i guess /not prev anon
dreblr isn’t some secret evil coven, it’s just a loose collection of c!dream fans with a wide variety of differing (and sometimes contradictory) opinions on the lore.
i’m not a c!dream apologist but i’m def a part of dreblr! tbh it’s been one of the best fandom experiences i’ve ever had. ppl are super welcoming and kind, and there are tons of great writers and artists. i’m happy to be here.
#asks#like…we don’t even all agree with each other about c!dream stuff#but we keep it chill y’know#EDIT: i think another thing i should maybe also mention is that I'm not involved in dtblr or any other CC-focused spaces#i don't support cc!dream (<- personal decision of mine that's not up for debate)
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as a self-identified adrienette girlie....kinda miss them, ngl.
#miraculous ladybug#ml#mlb#wish we got a bit of post reveal pre relationship#been thinking about this lately#they dropped each other rather quickly???#rewatching the eps has given me whiplash#there still exists a fondness of course#but something's not the same#upon reflection I've always written/characterized adrienette as ladynoir with a coat of adrienette paint#prpr my beloved#seeing marinette heal from past relationship trauma is wonderful and all#and adrien has been very sweet and supportive#but ladynoir was always the heart of the show#a playful tenderness#there was something unique to them#the depth of their bond#shouldering burdens teenagers should not#like the new york sewer scene#chat blanc was a ladynoir episode at its core#ladrien...adrienette..marichat#HER chaton#HIS lady#all roads kinda lead to ladynoir#I really wanted that post reveal build up#learning to trust one another again after their identities are recontextualized#the friendship and banter#ladynoir#cough chatonnoir is correct imo cough
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not to beat a dead horse but there's something kind of illuminating and warmie yet sad about the fact that Taylor's parents are attending Travis' game with her and regularly. I know the "you never saw--" joke is old, but the idea that [redacted]'s family did actually occasionally attend events with Taylor (including at what it seems may have been a difficult time), but after a certain point she herself didn't/couldn't attend his in turn, never mind her family, and it's just a testament to how different things are now, how different her life is, and frankly how integrated their family life has become. Idk I'm just really happy for popstar bestie because I feel like this is probably everything she ever wanted and didn't know she could have at one point.
#i should probably delete this lol#like-- he just wanted nothing to do with her in public#I know we've said it a million ways and it's more nuanced than that#and we know how hurtful that was *for her*#(again even though it was more nuanced than that on the page)#but I keep thinking of her parents in situations like this because they had to watch it happen#and now they've got a regular spot at their son in law's event and they're embraced in the fold idk#(shut up I'm using the term in a general sense miss me with the legalities bla bla bla)#(I'm sorry but that's what they all are to each other for all intents and purposes now)#like it goes both ways: it shows how serious she and [redacted] were and how much his family considered her one of their own#but by the same token how difficult it must have been for her to keep herself (and her family) so separate from anything having to do#with him in the name of propriety or rules or whatever the fuck else#like the breakup is obviously the two people involved but it's also breaking up an entire support system idk
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Anytime I see discourse meant to divide the trans and queer community I look up trans art and queer art and I'm reminded of how many people create art to express themselves and create beautiful art and I'm reminded that the entire queer experience is vast and there's less people that want to divide and endlessly fight than there are people who are spreading art and joy and work to help make real changes.
A lot of times it feels like people think it's more important to endlessly debate terms and deciding who experiences what oppression or privileges instead of deciding to listen to each other and learn how to fight against these oppressive systems together and do the way more boring work of getting involved locally. You need to be able to listen to other people's experiences to be able to work together to defeat the system. Everyone who wants the queer community gone only benefits when we're divided.
Heres some resources to check out if you're in the US. A lot of organizations right now are dealing with way more people needing help with the upcoming Trump presidency.
Rainbow passage helps queer people move from environments that aren't safe
#any time i see discourse i just go into the art tag to be reminded how cool humanity can be#resources#transandrophobia#i think transandraphobia is real and we should listen to peoples experiences#and men also face unique oppression based on their gender the patriarchy comes for everyone#every type of oppression is connected#that we all have to work on together#is the goal to just label oppression or to fight against it?#isnt it the feds tactic to argue over words endlessly we shouldnt take notes from them#transmisogny is a big issue with our society that we have to work against too#we gotta support each other
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Dear merchant, as an Airfryer shipper, please forgive my fellow shipper if they ever attack you for shipping Pitayafire.
Also, *cough cough* "it's dark in my imagination" next chapter?
I have no idea what Airfryer is, but thank you for your kindness anyway 🫡 no one has given me trouble for shipping PitayaFire (yet), thankfully. (Sometimes I wonder why? Never got too much trouble for shipping BurningCheese and Beast x Ancient, either. Maybe it's because I'm pretty unknown? 700-ish followers isn't much in the grand scheme of things. I suppose being such a small fry is a blessing in disguise.) I don't intend to pay them any mind if they ever do. Best not to bother with people like that. "Do what you want and be happy" is the way to go about things, I think. And I've got thick skin and more important things to worry about than internet randos bashing me for wanting the fire man to kiss+fuck the dragon lol
(as for It's Dark In My Imagination... Soon 👀 I'm sorry that's so late, I never meant for it to be. I've had a lot to deal with irl the past couple of months (major crisis of confidence + legitimate emergencies, like the scare with my dog) and it took me away from writing. But I'm trying to get back on the saddle! I'm about 4k words into the final draft, chapter 3 should be posted in the next day or two hopefully! I didn't abandon the fic, I promise! Chapter 3 exists and you'll see it soon!)
#ngl I'm kind of impressed that no one has come to harass me about shipping PitayaFire so far#it's so common in the fandom... majority of the Western fans just decided that the parent/child dynamic was canon-#-and anyone who interprets them differently should be persecuted lol. Cookie Run fans always had issues with forcing ideas onto others#and just refusing to respect others' ideas and headcanons in general#it's always the immediate lobbing of harmful terms and accusations at anyone who deviates even slightly#look at the Beast x Ancient shippers. apparently we're all abusers and misogynists and we should all die lol#PitayaFire fans get accused of supporting incest usually. which is wild because they're not related and don't view each other as family lol#cookie run fans are all mentally unstable and have no theory of mind#joke's on them PitayaFire is decently popular in the Asian fandom lmaooo#setting that aside. i genuinely am sorry about chapter 3 being so late. feels like I'm letting people down haha#i get a lot of comments asking where chapter 3 is. it's coming I promise. i didn't abandon the story. never will#pitayafire#merchant asks
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YALL KNOW WHAT TIME IT IS!!!! MORE SCREENSHOTS FOR EVERYBODY!
Once again bringing up that I’m tired of seeing posts strictly for the female fans of the game. So here he is in all his glory, the absolute (bisexual??) icon of the franchise! Doesn’t matter if you’re a girl or a guy- or in my MCs case- something else, chances are he’s going to try his hand!
HAVE SOME FREE SEBASTIAN BECAUSE YOU DESERVE IT NO MATTER WHO YOU ARE❤️ PEACE AND LOVE ON PLANET EARTH
#You know the drill lads#Need I rant again#its incredibly frustrating how female mc oriented the fanbase is. To the point I just don’t reblog many f!mcs anymore unless its one I like#In this fandom we should be working together not against each other#Yet many of us are bullied and pushed out of the fanbase for being queer#The only real queer ship that gets popular is Sebinis and ive seen it get kind of used as a kink in ff? For some reason?#All for poly ships but come on#There other ships like prelow- which I don’t personally ship but certainly needs more space#And give it up for the female characters x female characters fans here bc gods theirs only like two#People don’t even give male mcs a chance#Only reason I’ve gotten as far as I have is because a few more popular moots have helped me#This series is both for your enjoyment and to raise awareness for queerphobia in the Hogwarts Legacy fanbase#So please reblog if you want to support my little one man cause#These screenshots are to fight HL queerphobia#Im tired of seeing my friends and mutuals bullied#I want them to be safe in this fandom#I want to be safe in this fandom#👏 please 👏 PEACEFULLY 👏 raise 👏 awareness 👏#Thank you.#hogwarts legacy#sebastian sallow#sebastian x mc#sebastian sallow screenshots
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why is nobody capable of originality it’s one thing to expand on ideas yeah with permission that’s very much what the community is there for but word for word taking things ?????
#i say expanding very lightly too#because so many people will plagiarise an og concept and assume it as their own just cause they’re writing for it themselves#but that’s still very much stealing…#why does this keep happening within dark content creators specifically#it’s a very niche part of the fandom we should all be supportive of each other but instead people are stealing ideas left and right
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does kabshiro have pet names or cute nicknames for each other or would they rather call each other by their regular names. Do they call each other stuff like Honey or Babe?
Kabru calls Toshiro by his name because it already feels intimate for both of them. Since most people in his life either address him as "Young Master" or "Shuro," "Toshiro" is arguably a pretty singular way to refer to him. Kabru definitely seems like he could be a pet name user, but I don't think he would be with Toshiro.
Toshiro also usually uses Kabru's name. He might use something old-fashioned like "dear" later on in their relationship. To other people, they would refer to each other by their names or depending on the time and context, "my partner/husband."
The DunMeshi characters all speak Japanese in the text, so we can assume that it's their equivalent of Common. Disclaimer that I'm not a Japanese speaker, so very sorry if this is an inaccurate usage of the word, but I could see Toshiro referring to Kabru as "anata" once they're married. From my understanding, "anata" is sometimes used by couples. It means "you," but it has a more deliberately intimate connotation in a close relationship, since you typically drop the second person pronoun when speaking directly to someone.
I don't really see them as the type of couple to express affection through pet names, and that might be influenced by the thought giving me mild psychic damage 😭 No hate at all if you like them having pet names for each other. This is just my cross to bear... But if anything, their pet names for each other would be to get the other's attention like "Hey, where are the keys?" or "Hey, can you do the dishes?" For me, Kabshiro, after they've been with each other for a few years, is about the intimacy of living a life together in a quietly familiar way <3
#kabru#toshiro nakamoto#shuro#kabshiro#kabushuro#dungeon meshi#tysm for the q!! i had to really ponder this one esp for toshiro#disclaimer tho that i obv support y'all if another interpretation of kabshiro is ur truth 🙏 we should all be free#i can't even sit here and pretend like i don't think they're a little insane in the romantic gestures department#even if they aren't busting out “darling” or “sweetheart”#bc i mean spoilers for my fic but they quite literally invent cross-ocean teleportation for each other#or more accurately marcille invents it for them lmfao#answered asks
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I still haven't recovered from Sydney actually oh my god. I went a little um. Crazy. On the snapshots. And I started trying to figure out which pose to do with who and if I should do something special with yooh because she's my ult bias but ultimately I was like well but I love them all. Hearts for everyone. So the first six were in Melbourne and genuinely every single one of them was magical and I don't regret a single bit of that money because I'm first of all so happy I got to thank all of them in person but also I'm going to treasure those pics forever but then Sydney was like. The Big one. You know. AND SHE PRANKED ME.
[I removed the image because I got Scared people who know me could see the image and realise it's me even with the blur lol. She's giving me bunny ears]
So now I have six hearts and yooh doing this which is better than I could have ever imagined 😭 the spike in my heartrate halfway back to the SVIP hitouch line when I opened my photos and realised....
#not roulette#yea i still have the crisis hair dw about it#see this is one of those moments where if i were attracted to women i would be COOKED#i didnt even realise it was possible to love her even more but somehow that concert experience managed to do it#like fuck. i get why some fans go crazy#to be front row and have them looking right at you is an experience i will never forget#but i mean. my most delulu thought ive ever had about her is that i think we could get lavender married and make it work#because i think we are kinda similar in a lot of aspects#e.g. her speech at melbourne hit me really hard because i felt like i would feel the same way in thwt circumstance#but thats kind of one of those delulu thoughts thats not really actionable#and as someone who is capable of romantic love the latter definitely just feels. more unhinged.#its just this crazy intense... nothing emotion#its kind of interesting being asexual with a romantic orientation because like. there are a lot of neural pathways in my brain which#feel like they should fire but just Dont#and how the point at which they dont nonetheless almost completely arbitrarily but reliably differs for men and women#there arent enough words in the english language for these things#its really frustrating#not to drop the asexual manifesto but so many things feel so different to each other and i really truly believe its not just the asexuality#but because sexuality is somewhat of the final boss of intense emotions there is not nearly as much urgency to unpack any of the rest of th#subleties if you can just use that as a yes/no barometer#but i LOVE her#in every way that i am capable#and im just so happy she is still here with us#like im having somewhat of a y/n moment rn but its not really about that im the end because im not usually the kind of fan who would even g#all in on the parasocial benefits but i just really did want to say thank you. partially out of the semi delusional belief i think it would#make a difference rn. i told her i would support her no matter what happens in the future. because its true#and that support has nothing to do with desperately needing to get back into that 1:1 snapshot in future although i would not say no#it was built on a genuine love for what the group has accomplished and all of the things they put out and i dont need anything from any of#them other than promising theyll do their best to keep going in the future#hey did you know in business class they ask what wine you want with your meal and then just keep filling the glass back up again
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Get yourself one or more friends you feel like you need to live next to and visit constantly and hang out with all the time. Get yourself one or more friends who you trade compliments with. Get yourself one or more friends you would cuddle with. It's good for you
#bedposting#you literally need friends it's so good to do that#they should invent friends i can be around and we all support each other and life is good and fun
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Got called bitter for pointing out that you don't need makeup, eyelash extensions, to find your "pink" (whatever that is), cute haircuts, etc. to be feminine.
But tell me again how all that is a personal choice, no societal pressures influencing that decision at all 🙄
#feminism#ugh#anyway this is the last straw with that group#supposed to be a positive group for vet techs to support each other#like celebrating first blood draws happy cases cute memes etc#but lately it's all promoting snake oil (have been dinged by the admins for being negative when politely advocating for evidence-based med)#how to treat your animal at home instead of going to a vet (this group is supposed to be for vet professionals only so...)#and now apparently we all have to be super girly *giggles*#and heavens forbid you so much as hint that title protection should be a thing#🙄🙄🙄
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