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arthursfuckinghat · 7 months ago

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Do you think about Arthur reuniting with his family in the afterlife. Sorry do you think about Arthur being together with everyone he lost and no longer being in pain. Do you think about Arthur getting to see his son again. Do you think about it.

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infiniteorangethethird · 1 year ago

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maybe unpopular opinion but probably one of the least useful pieces of advice I've ever got as an auDHD person to the question of "how tf does one make friends" was to go and join clubs/groups that do hobbies I enjoy. Not only does this not actually answer the question of how to make friends (yknow, how to approach people, how to start a conversation, how to appear friendly enough that they don't immediately reject you for existing, how to actually keep them as friends later on, etc), but also the chance of me choosing to force myself into the discomfort of "making smalltalk with random strangers" is absolutely nonexistent when the alternative of engaging with a hyperfixation is not only socially acceptable but even encouraged

#autistic #autism #actually autistic #adhd #actually adhd #neurodivergent #actually neurodivergent #one time a friend of mine took me to a knitting club #she kept telling me beforehand how nice everyone was and #i shouldn't be anxious cuz they are all nice ppl #when we got there the social anxiety got to me #so to calm myself i took out my project of the time #i then proceeded to hyperfocus on knitting for the rest of #the two hours that we spent there #ignoring everyone else and not talking whatsoever #and since they didn't approach me either i just sat there in silence #she obviously couldn't pass up the opportunity to make fun of me afterwards #needless to say i never went back there again #cuz i mean if i wanna knit i'm gonna to it in the safety of my home #i don't need the added stress of masking in front of others #i still don't know how to make friends

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cator99 · 4 months ago

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out of curiosity, would you consider yourself butch?

used to be a blonde underweight twink and now I'm a based jock still got the chanel bag and the sick albeit matured mind of a suckpig to prove it so I'm gonna let you decide whether you wanna call me that word just cuz I got a pussy and short hair. I promise you that there have been enough advancements made in the art of lesbian sexual dynamics in the past 50 years to broaden the vocabulary used to describe the plethora of types of masculine females.

#being called butch just reminds me of how much males have the freedom to navigate between male archetypes and how people pay attention to #the distinguishing features of these varying masculinities #but when a female is seen as masculine it all gets lumped under the “butch” category #her masculinity is seen as unnatural and therefore incapable of being considered genuine or taken at face value as it is with males.#its always brought into question instead of taken in consideration with the rest of the woman's life and experiences and her particularities #Hence... Butch is still being treated as though its a huge lesbian cultural phenomena instead of a specific niche thing #also i dont mean to invite the “you dont pass!!” anons again bc that idiot is missing my point entirely (which is that im truly not trying)#but the fact is that for the past 3 years i have found myself increasingly navigating the male social world #and discovering what it means to me as a female to have access to the ability to take my “masculinity” for granted... relax #forget about it #etc #i think thats entirely antithetical to the Butch thing which seems to rest on the tension of other peoples expectations of her #people broadly are more surprised to find out that im interested in women just as much as they're surprised that im a gym queen iykwim...#ive worked hard for this and now that ive gotten the Woman Social Role thing pretty much entirely out of the way i am living the dream #i think a large part of that is learning as a dyke to appropriate the language of gay men theres a reason their terminology had #staying power even when their scene was *literally* dying meanwhile all that seemed to survive from dyke spaces was butch n femme ??#its because theirs didnt necessitate the building and maintenance of a scene in order for the subculture to hold its head above water #their labels *largely* weren't predicated on their relationships to gender roles and its telling that for dykes it was #their labels rested on the need to simply show up anonymous n be able to easily flag whether they were looking to fuck or be fucked #alongside the set of circumstances under which they would be fucking or getting fucked or what have you #it all comes back to the restrictions of female social blah blah blah and i think the sooner we collectively set down what we see as our #responsibility as lesbians and as feminists to Be A Woman the sooner we can step outside of that #n start thinking clearly about our individual circumstances and the necessity of putting on your own oxygen mask first before helping others

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splootdoolies · 5 months ago

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pspspspsps hello kanamafu nation

#pjsk #kanade yoisaki #mafuyu asahina #kanamafu #n25 #my art ^^#I LOVE THEMMMM IAAAAAAHGHGHGHHGHGHHHHHHH #NO ONE TALKS ABT HOW MIRAGE OF LIGHT IS THE ONLY TIME EVER THAT WE SEE KANADE’S ROOM W THE LIGHTS ON AND THE SHEET MUSIC NOT ON THE BED #GIRLIE DIDN’T TURN THE LIGHT ON WHEN ICHIKA AND HONAMI CAME OVER LIKE DAMN OK GO WORK ON UR OWN IN THE DARK LIKE ME LOL #but when it comes to mafuyu she’s like anythin for u princess #gREAAAAAHHHHH KANAMAFUUUUUU #💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥💥#ALSO ALSO. THIS IS THE FIRST TIME WE SEE KANADE GET A PROPER NIGHT’S REST INSTEAD OF HER USUAL PASSING OUT ROUTINE

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speedlimit15 · 6 months ago

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i am really excited to see my family for a camping trip this long weekend. i am really not excited to inevitably get into an angry stalemate over palestine with at least one of my family members

#2003 when rachel corrie died i researched quite a bit on my own and had my first Are we the baddies moment #and ive been getting into passionate screaming matches ever since. the worst of it was right before i moved out in 2013 #it's going to go like this. one of us is going to mention gaza or israel in passing after a few days of no current events talk #my mom will try and corral us away from the subject but it will be too late. my father/brother/sister will already be telling me all about #the US's obligations to defend our allies from terrorism. they will start saying names i havent heard and discount anything i say because #im unfamiliar with their specific political analyst or podcast guy. and then i will cry and be mad for the rest of the trip #and they will chuckle at how Ridiculous and Sensitive and Radicalized i am

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fluffypotatey · 3 months ago

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y’all help i’ve got two hangster x twister aus haunting my brain and one is mostly silly and fun while the other is angsty Bradley character study

#the silly & fun one is Brad v Jake social media twisters au #both of them have a channel and are storm chasers (which i have made posts of before with the help of anons)#not to mention the betting pool made by Nat and Javy on when Jake and Bradley get together #and their audience also noticing the signs and believing they’re dating (but they’re only at the fwb stage much to Nat and Javy’s despair)#the OTHER!!!! follows the twisters movie a little closer but instead of college friends Bradley would lose like Kate did #Bradley loses Maverick and other og!top gun characters who have raised him since his father and mother’s passing #Ice would take Javi’s role and so it just adds to emotional avoidant behavior by both #all videos of Bradley’s old project would be Slider or Merlin recording it and then all hyping him up while teasing him #idk i just think it would be interesting since we could also add Mav and Bradley tension for drama reasons but Bradley and him #never get to truly reconcile & the last memory Bradley will ever have is Mav shielding him from the wind & tornado until Mav is ripped away #idk which characters would take the rest of storm Par’s role #maybe Cyclone in Scott’s role or something #obvi Bradley’s relationship with Mav and Ice are very different from the ones Kate had with Javi and Jeb but that’s fine bc it’s an au #but yeah #both of them haunt me #top gun maverick #tgm x twisters #hangster x twisters #hangster

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ratatatastic · 1 month ago

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local man haunts (me) open practise yet again more news at 11

#txt #what an experience #i didnt go alone this time which means shenanigans heightened by 20 #and by that i mean we were by the glass drinking mate (that security thankfully let us bring in)#and ___ kept going (lifts mate up to the glass) quieres? to all the players that skated by #and i had to just go STOP THAT #and they went they dont want our mate hmph what do they know about mate and i went. well thats the thing. they dont 😭😭#theres was a bunch of kids next to me which meant a lot players over to our side and ekky trucked over #and knocked the glass w his stick on a driveby and scared the shit out of me I ALMOST DROPPED MY MATE he had this shit eating grin #maffhew also kept doing little toodle-loo waves at the kids behind him it was so cute 😭😭😭#but anyways i think its so funny ___ kept focusing on ekky too and i didnt realise why until they just drop the bombshell of #“they remind me of your brother” and i went “DONT FUCKING SAY THAT WHAT THE FUCK MAN DONT SAY SUCH SACRILEGE”#the rest of the convo was in spanish and i dont know how to like fully convey 🇦🇷 banter in eng but it roughly went #“no he does. he has the same dumb face when he starts shit (because he kept bodily bumping into boqy and forsy)#the same 'was that me? did i do that?' troublemaker face. hes a shit stirrer but never answers to it. hes sleazy in that way.#he has the same beard too dont you see it“#and then i promptly spent the whole time going god he is just like my older brother oh this is a horrifying revelation oh god #anyways they kept saying look at his dumb face look at it just like your brother the whole time in spanish when he crept near #and i had to go SHUT UP PLEASE HE CAN HEAR YOU to which they snorted and went you said its fine if we spoke spanish here theyre not gonna #understand us and i was like OKAY BUT IM SURE 11 YEARS HERE HES GONNA PICK UP #SOMETHING AND WE KEEP CURSING SO FOR MY SAKE CAN YOU SHUT UP #mikksy and schmidty were super playful with eo. tuomo ruutu kept messing w mikksy. and ekky was like a damn bumper car bumpin everyone #maffhew ofc was very dramatic when he couldnt get a goal in against knighter and he did the horse headshake in front of us #and i went “you can tell whos number 19 because hes the most dramatic person on the ice always”#ekky was super vocal i know he wanted to practise against the empty net but aj was practising tipins and he goes #MOVE OUT OF THE WAY. MOVE OUT OF THE WAY. and aj so confused just moves like ???#and ekky notches one in goes over to him and waves his glove at him to move #also dmen + lundy were practising on my side of the ice afterwards (lundy ekky uvis kuli. kuli was practising solo. lundy was feeding ekky #for some slapshots uvis got some passes in with them) and anyways i did not fucking realise swaggy was still out because i was so focused on #the dmen until he shot a puck straight at my face and like man i know its not personal but damn did it feel personal with the lookback

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elizabethrobertajones · 10 months ago

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My dad's writing advice: when you've finished a draft, start a fresh one and print out the old one and re-type it completely to see it all with new eyes.

What words came out of his mouth to me, an impressionable young writer who'd just given him what I thus far considered my magnum opus: You need to re-write every sentence in this.

#rest in peace #We did all the messy grieving at new year when we visited #mostly just empty and vague now that we got the call that he passed today

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puppyeared · 8 months ago

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Atla live action 😐

#thats my honest reaction 😐#to be fair ive only seen 20 minutes of the s1 finale bc my parents are watching it but. mmmmm kinda mid #like. the casting is definitely an improvement since the last time they tried a live action but it feels like the writing falls flat #or maybe im being harsh bc ive only heard negative criticism on it beforehand. but fr anytime u bring up the original its already #good and not just because its the original. so much fucking detail went into it to the point of someone noticing azula wielding mai's knive #to how well thought out irohs character is used as a way of uniting the cast especially as zukos foil #i heard that sokkas sexism was toned down and i have to agree that feels like a cheap move. like i get WHY they think it would be better #but its not about how that reflects on real world its about how it affects the story. sokka starts out as a misogynistic asshole because #it makes it that much more impactful when he changes. toning that down makes it flatter and makes his character development weak #and someone pointed out they didnt even make him wear the kyoshi warrior uniform and i know it feels like such a small detail but #come on man. they did that in the original because not only does it help him really walk in their shoes - wearing 'feminine' clothing and #makeup and having suki explain its significance but it also ties in with the shows theme of harmony and intersectionality #i was also disappointed when they had the fire sages explain how the water tribe draws power from the moon because in the original it was #IROH who explained it to aang and everyone else BECAUSE we as the audience is under the impression hes with the 'bad guys'#and it builds up to how he learned from the other nations which reconciles his past as a war general and his character overall #AND its an excellent starting point for the cast and audience to understand how the nations arent as closed off as you would think #plus you would think its only fire nation doing propaganda but they expanded on that with earth kingdom censorship and it WORKS #a lot of things in the live action also feel arbitrary like. they gave momo a near death experience for 5 minutes for no reason #im firmly on the stance of bringing back filler moments instead of putting major events right after each other so that u give your #audience a sense of time passing and to really absorb the story. but i think thats more like shock value than filler and yeah its a small #thing to gripe about but those things build up and its really annoying. the thing abt avatar filler moments is that however small #its at least meaningful. hell even the beach episode emphasizes how isolated zuko and his friends are as child soldiers #i also swore to never watch the first live action since it was that bad but i really liked the stylized tattoos they used for aang #anyway. those arejust my thoughts. im not gonna watch the rest because im a ride or die for the original aftr growing up and #rewatching it at least 20 times as a kid. but theres definitely room for improvement and i wish ppl wouldnt take it as 'better' just cuz #netflix is adapting it. i wouldve killed for them to just reanimate the entire avatar series and touch NOTHING ELSE no redub #no changes to the story. just reanimate the thing and leave the rest alone and youd make easy money just the same #ALSO its very jarring not hearing jack desena and dante basco voicing sokka and zuko cause their voices were the most recognizable to me #i get that its because its live action but im allowed to feel a little sad abt that. and uncle irohs accent was really soothing #yapping

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b4kuch1n · 8 months ago

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tdov was like a week ago already but I just wanna say when I came over to vacation slash help my sworn brother move flat he told me, "ever since you said you wanted to get top surgery I've been thinking about it. it's straight up number two on my bucket list"

#bakuspeech #number one is a house bc obviously. if u can own a house wouldnt u #he was very drunk at that time of the evening. I was not bc I have the constitution of a hot air balloon and any stimulant will blow me up #(relatively new development. france fucked me up big time turns out)#we held hand on his bed for like the whole evening. it was honestly very funny in hindsight but we were extremely earnest in the moment #and Im like. working on this thing as well. I dont got meds or therapy lmao Im bootstrappin here #but yeah early last year his bf offered to get me meds and I... turned it down... I think I was worried abt like. idk. something #but one year past looking back Im fully like that was a stupid move you shouldve gotten meds. youve once again fucked urself baku #but yeah with that kinda realization Ive also come to realized I've somewhat? accepted. that I'm just gonna be. like this #this in light of a number of likely chronic stuff too (hence my balloon-like constitution lmao) and #that's kinda bled into the rest of me without me really noticing #but him bringing that up fully unprompted... kinda jolted me out of it #its just. really incredibly sweet. that someone doesn't want me to settle for what I make do with #and like. preps for that work. just kinda held my hand and told me it's possible to do this actually #I didn't really express how I felt very well in that moment I think my brain is very bad and I process emotions with like a day of delay #but. well. Im thinking abt it Right Now. so yknow thats the kind of impact that had on me lol #not super sure why I wrote all this down here really. I think I just want a good n nice reminder that object permanence is real #and I exist in my friends' life even when Im going insane in a hole by myself #and with the power of friendship we can alter the universe's plan for ourselves and also kill god #that's that. anyways I eat lunch now and then pass out probably. last night was... eventful lmao #but!! very good things on the horizon hopefully. well manifestly we hold hammers and we use them #have a good day lads. let's go out and slay monsters under a highway

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minglana · 19 days ago

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im so so so so fucking done w having to hear about american politics. today i woke up MAD bc i knew everyone (including me) would be talking abt them. why cant we ignore that shitass country

#obviously we dont ignore them bc of the impact they have on the rest of the world but god how i wish we could #and the fact ive seen so many of my friends care about gaza and palestine overall all to so proudly go vote #its like they dont realize. truly they ignore everything the democrats are doing RIGHT NOW. its crazy #theyre pretending they will 'keep their rights' if harris wins. when w biden 10 states have passed anti-trans bills #z xarre

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mishy-mashy · 5 months ago

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#LOOK AT HIMMMM #i feel like im the only person going rabid over this guy #look at him hes so cute #hes so cute but also really hot too #look at that lip. THAT SMILE. HES CUTEE #the most normal guy on the vestige lineup bc everyone who wields ofa is crazy somewhere in them #meanwhile bruce could actually have been collateral damage with kudos OFA time #figuring out how it works? bruce come here. pass it back and forth. oops. you got your factor absorbed into this one #tho bruce did pass it on so really. even tho hes collateral he did end up holding it at the end #everyone with ofa can have some screws loose but bruce is just a normal guy #[my common sense] vs [Leader's rabid willpower and ideas] became [the last thing Leader left and entrusted to me before his death]#and its the embodiment of yoichis will. now its yoichi and kudos combined will #spoilers #bnha #boku no hero academia #my hero academia #mha #bruce #meme #bruce is normal but also crazy in some places too. he just acts and looks normal and we didnt get to see him enough to have it visible #bc bruce had immovable will himself and acted suicidal whenever kudo got involved #[Oh im gonna fight AFO in this closed sewer when i know i have no chance bc Leader is shocked and too close]#mister [Leader and the rest of the resistance is dead. i must fight AFO myself]#sir im pretty sure there was some suicidal feelings involved in that decision #man kills your friends so you pass on what Leader left you so you can go find that guy and try fighting him too?#SHINOMORI ADMITTED HE KNEW THE MOMENT HE GOT THE FACTOR HE STOOD NO CHANCE. IMAGINE BRUCE WITH HIS WEAKER VERSION OF OFA #AND HE STILL RAN OUT TO FIGHT THE STRONGEST MAN IN THE WORLD WITH MAYBE 2 FRIENDS #HE WAS CRYING THEN. BRUCE HAD TO HAVE BEEN SOME BROKEN MAN OR SOMETHING #he was the probably the last one to survive in the resistance. imagine being him. id feel suicidal too #maybe bruce was just out with the last members and AFO found them in search of the Factor. or while erasing everything kudo left behind

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brainrot-stitch · 4 months ago

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How 2 do well in school, which is starting soon, no glue no borax

#i think im smart. maybe. cuz my finals last uear were aparently AWESOME for some fucking reason #i was failing allll my classes tho #except like. gym. but the rest were legit all Fs #idk how i passed.....#im just godly #but fr ive gyat no motivation to do anything ever and honestly id rather kms than be there BUT i have a gf now and also the convergence ->#-> reboot hasnt come out so i cant die yet #ive lost most motivation for my hobbies at this point and now i gotta go back to that freakshow #SIGH #the ppl there are MEAN and some of the things they tey to teach us with suck ASS #PLEASE. IM SUPPOSED TO BE GOOD AT ENGLISH. IT USED TO BE MY BEST SUBJECT #😭😭😭😭😭#the thing we have to do stuff on tho SUCKS bc i can barely ever finish it in class cuz theres not enough time and i dont have the motivation #to do it at home so eventually i just stopped bothering with it #like i just stopped #honestly halfway through last year i just gave tf up in general 😭💀and they literally pulled me away and were like “r u ok....”#i dont remember where i was going with this #im eepy everything hurrts i dont wanna go back #i wanna be silly i wanna make straight As and Bs like when i was an little kid i want to make the ppl that care about me happy but.augh #vent post #I GUESS #mother get me tested + medicated challeng e level IMPOSSIBLE😭😭😭😭😭#ganvg im starting to think i may have smth besides the adhd.... hmmm.......

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rubenesque-as-fuck · 3 months ago

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Anyway I got notified that I'll be getting a nice $$ bonus from work today and I wish that I could celebrate with someone in a way that didn't just feel like obnoxious bragging. Like beyond the financial aspect, it's just nice to be recognized for good work and I actually feel... good?? about this job??

But it feels so silly to say I want to celebrate when I just got back from what felt like my first real vacation in a very long time and am doing cool comic con stuff this weekend and am scheduled for a new tattoo next weekend. I am already doing lots of things to try to make myself feel good! It feels selfish to want more!

But I guess even with all of that, there's just still a hunger for external validation from trusted sources. Will I ever grow out of wanting someone to be proud of me?

#stoned ramblings #life of faye #i swear I'm not as sad right now as this makes me sound just kinda lonely is all #work bonus #boss also said that if i wanted to take on more responsibility we could talk raises as well #and like most days I'm done by like 1 so it's not like I'm wildly overworked as it is #I'm going to set some aside for fun stuff and the rest is going in my savings #i am finally FINALLY trying to build up a savings again #it's probably a silly dream but I still want to save up for a house #so what else can i do but try and save?#rent's gone up so damned much everywhere that for somewhere halfway decent it costs about as a mortgage to rent anyway #the only reason my rent is semi-managable is because I've been here for 8 damn years so they haven't been able to drive it up as much #other apartments here start at hundreds more per month for new tenants #so i feel like I'm stuck here until i can afford a place #my one real hope is that I inherit enough from my midwest grandma when she passes to make a good down payment somewhere #sometimes to torture myself I like to go look at houses that I think are in my approximate realistic price range if i could cover the down #i want a yard for velma #i want to be able to open my blinds and/or windows and not feel like a whole apartment complex's worth of people can see me #i want a kitchen where all the burners work and I have enough counter space to work #i want a dryer system where my apartment doesn't get filled with warm wet air when the neighbors are doing their laundry #i want to do nude gardening #and have backyard bbqs with friends #i want enough dedicated space to do art that i don't constantly have to shuttle the easel around the living room and up and down the stairs #all pipe dreams i know #but hey the grandma did say that i was one of her three main inheritors in the will #so we'll see #just to be clear she has not passed but she's nearing 90 and keeps talking about it so it's hard not to think about you know?#anyway these are the sorts of things that i would talk about if I had someone to cuddle on the couch and talk to about my day #texts to nobody

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swordmaid · 10 months ago

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we managed to resolve the tiefling-goblin conflict before wyll turns into a devil (we’ve even recruited karlach too) and this is what he says in the party…! interesting I think

#only reason we managed to do that is that I’m very sure there’s a huge queue with the camp scenes lol #and the Karlach/wyll confrontation got pushed back #I want to see how florrick reacts to him tho #and I’m making sure we long rest frequently too lol #anyway we’re playing with the no party limit mod so the cliques are divided by:#shri’iia/astarion and wyll #then durge/karlach/shadowheart #and then Tav who looks like jaime/gale/lae’zel #and it’s actually pretty funny you get companion banters when the little teams pass by each other #anyway I so def wanna draw my trio loool just imagining wyll having the worst time ever getting stuck with these two little shits 😭😭#shut up about bg3.#bg3 spoilers

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thetimelordbatgirl · 1 year ago

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Zeb Wells I'm in your walls because what the actual fuck is this shit???

Because it definitely isn't something Spiderman whose gone out of his way to visit fans dying of cancer or other medical conditions or tried to save a homeless girl who was a fan of him only to be too late, would say.

#zeb wells #spiderman #the amazing spiderman #like not only is this an insult to the kid who collects spiderman #but its also one to an issue where spiderman is with another kid with lekumia #as hes playing spiderman with the kid as it was the kids wish #but when playtime is over and the hospital and parents say its time to go to bed #the kid refuses and spiderman learns its because the kid is afraid he wont wake up #causing spiderman to ask if the kid has a coat and we see why as he takes the kid for a swing across the city #giving the kid more time of being like spiderman #then there's the time he visited a wounded kid in hospital who is also a spidey fan and looked up to spiderman #and said kid figures out his identity and the two talk before sadly the kid has a caradiac rest and peter goes to his funeral #where his parents ask peter to give the kids home-made comics to spiderman and peter promises #let alone the comic leah where he finds a homeless girl also a fan dying and does try to save her via getting her to the hospital #but its sadly too late as the doctors cant do anything #meaning all spiderman can do is lift his mask a little and give her a forehead kiss #and wish her sweet dreams as we see her in dreams with all the heroes she admires #like long tags here but thats how much this 'joke' angers me #let alone even if you removed all of peters history WHY THE HELL IS THIS A 'JOKE' SOMEONE LET PASS-#no character should be doing that wtf

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