#was just reminded of the time an anon asked me if I was a 'terf' because they thought it meant...womby...as in 'womb'...and I...

[wombywoo]

how did you come up with wombywoo for your online handle?

it's the nickname my husband gave me 🥹 according to him, I look like a wombat (affectionate) so he exclusively calls me womby all the time 🥰

[dirk-daily]

you know what, fuck that anon. you should give dirk boobs more often. that trans man deserves it. and then give him top surgery if said trans man wants it.

Thank you anon. Hope you don't mind me using your ask as a place to think piece but I am. Idk man. I just think the homestuck fandom has a big problem with not being accepting or receptive to other peoples headcanons. Everyone needs to be right all the time and it just makes things very toxic and not really fun. Also, just a reminder. Bigots aren't allowed here. Terfs aren't allowed here. I'm here to have fun.

[2sgf]

Solstice ☀️ Sol ☀️ Sunny

he/him ⭐ they/them ⭐ she/her

28 years old ; tme two-spirit first nations wo/man

@mermen is my moonlight 🌙

★ minors do not follow or interact thank you

☆ white supremacists, transmisogynists, sex bioessentiallists, TERFs, and anyone who follow these kinds of beliefs will be blocked

★ if you notice i've interacted with anyone who follows the above ideology or they have interacted with me, please let me know! i might have not noticed

☆ feel free to dm me any donation posts or anything else you need boosted. i will do my best to boost it during the day.

★ i always read abouts, carrds, rentrys, & pinned posts! i might forget to like posts after, or might unlike them after some time to keep my likes clean

☆ i try to keep others' blacklists in mind but if i forgot to tag something, feel free to send me an ask or a message! i will do my best to remember but the dissociation might fuck with me so if it's something important but niche you need tagged, i might need multiple reminders so just unfollow if you're worried about it...

★ disabled, neurodivergent polyfrag system

☆ remade on july 18th 2024

art blog: @solsunbeam

more about under the cut! ^^ not necessary to read

☀ my socio-political beliefs: land back, pro palestine, anti-colonization, harm reductionist, anti-canada and anti-usa, anti capitalism, defund & dismantle the police, prison abolitionist, anti child family services, pro family reunification, better funding for social services, pro universal healthcare (including mental health resources, optometry, AND dentistry), antipsychiatry, pro universal basic income, decriminalize drugs, sex bioessentialism is rooted in white supremacy, and may all the catholic churches burn down thank you

☼ i don't 'debate' any of the above with anon asks. if you want more info on why i hold these beliefs, you can ask me privately via message. though, i may block you if your vibes are bad. if you deeply disagree with the above, then i rather you block me than try to convince me otherwise. i'll save us both the time and just block you.

☀ in general i block whenever i feel i need to

☼ i occasionally post about the above, but this blog will also contain a mish-mash of my interests, personal posts, fashion pictures, nature pics, and like.... idk whatever ✌🏽

☀ mutuals this is your sign to ASK FOR MY DISCORD! come. enter my dms. let me send you pictures of my cats.

☼ interests: poetry, art, films, fashion, video games, animation, plants, comics, child welfare, trauma recovery, disability rights, tarot, witchcraft, the occult, linguistics, lolita fashion, and all kinds of other stuff

☀ video games: kingdom hearts, fire emblem, legend of zelda, animal crossing, final fantasy, supergiant's hades, minecraft, mario bros, pokemon (mostly gens 1-5), sonic the hedgehog, undertale, deltarune, // anime/manga: witch hat atelier, dungeon meshi, sailor moon, revolutionary girl utena, yugioh duel monsters, card captor sakura, madoka magica, hunter x hunter, ghibli movies, and other stuff lol

☼ alters may or might not tag their posts as [alter name].txt feel free to refer to them as their name! but we all respond to the collective name as well <3

☀ my final message...... peas and lov on planet erth....... goodnight

[velvetvexations]

I'm being stalked by someone who screams that I can't stop talking about her despite her having it made it clear she wants "no contact" and then screenshots my blog to spread more lies about me in spite of the fact that I have her blocked and block evading is supposed to be one of my grievous sins

like literally the most I have talked about her recently was with a coded name that doesn't even reference her URL in response to her taking a screenshot of my post and calling me pro-American because memes are hilarious but IRL seriously I would have preferred 9/11 not have happened

I am still not using her URL or her fucking name while she goes around saying VELVET VEXATIONS SHOULD DRINK BLEACH BECAUSE SHE SAID DONALD TRUMP DOESN'T BELIEVE TRANS WOMEN ARE WOMEN NOW EXCUSE ME I SAW MY LEAST FAVORITE COLOR AND NEED TO COMPOSE A MELINCHOLY POEM TO PROCESS THE GRIEF IT'S CAUSED ME

every time a transradfem equates discussing how transphobes feel about us is the same as misgendering other trans people, that's fucking pathetic assuming it's a genuine belief and not just something to performatively break into tears over as intoxicatingly self-righteous justification for thinking only the people they fetishize should be allowed to exist

but apparently! this person has another stalker who sends her posts to other people! and that's really interesting to me, you know, because the only post of her's I've ever received from an anon was one in which she was talking about me! And when that person came off anon to say it was them that sent it, she took a screenshot of that admission but did not include me telling them off for stirring shit

too bad I decided to delete the admission due them using her name and can't prove I gave them that dressing down, clearly I shouldn't have fucking bothered since innocence itself is no protection

she seriously can't stop calling me a TERF while actual no-bullshit TERFs are openly calling on one another to email publishers trying to get me canceled for writing a fanfic where it's briefly mentioned a trans teenager wore her sister's clothes without asking, what the fuck does any transradfem know about TERFs when I'm dealing with actual TERFs and all they are to them is an abstract concept used to bludgeon trans men and non-binary people with

these fucking people do not experience actual fucking problems, they do not have any conception of what an actual problem is, they sit around lying about the traitorous Queen of Tee Em Eees, puppet of the completely fictional AFAB patriarchy, because they do not have real problems and have never had one in their entire lives, like all fucking people who can't go five seconds without reminding you they're a communist because they think it's cool and trendy and makes them sound smart to say things like dialetic materialist epistemology transubstantiating within the imperial core of the glocal northsouth without actually engaging in any of the actual ideals that make communism laudable and worthy of sincere pursuit

the temptation is to say that transradfems do it because they feel powerless to do anything about actual social issues on any level and lash out at anyone they can feel good taking a swing at, but I don't give a fuck, I'm not willing to give them that they're just misguided, I don't think there's a single atom in the being of even one transradfem that cares about about anything beyond the clout they can extract from it, at best everything they whine about is less than a fourteen year old on Livejournal writing about how unfair it is when their parents won't let them get a tattoo except usually the the fourteen year old would be relaying actual events that actually happened

and I straight up do not fucking believe anyone gets hate mail over interactions I've had with them either, I fucking do not believe those obviously bullshit lies while I still get anons calling me zipperits and trying to trigger dysphoria on the assumption that works on me for saying I think transmascs aren't cis men

in fact, I kinna half-joked about it before, but I think I now just fully believe it one hundred percent was a fucking trans rad fem - probably even this one in particular! - who sent my published work to that TERF the other day, because I haven't had that pinned or brought it up in months and I've never gotten attention from TERFs before this month outside of one or two comments that went nowhere

motherfucking hellsite

fucking internet

fucking stupid motherfuckers

[maul-of-shame]

TW: Some asshole called Hikari a cunt on anon that she posted and people are saying y'all are lying about anon hate? Last December a terf in that fandom posted a screenshot tweet that said it's woke of trop to make Halbrand look like a 'biracial POC illegal immigrant' before he turned into annatar. Or that 'moral ocd' ableism post from yesterday. People actually liked these posts. Tell us again about how vile shit isn't said on anon when this is posted publicaly.

First and foremost, my absolute love and support go out to everyone affected by this vile, nasty behavior. No one should have to deal with this kind of targeted harassment, and the fact that it keeps happening—whether through anonymous asks or blatantly public posts—is absolutely disgusting. Hikari (I think you meant @hikarielizabethbloom anon?) and everyone else who’s been on the receiving end of this bullshit, you deserve so much better. You’re valued, you’re talented, and you have a community here that sees and supports you.🫂🫂🫂🩵🩵🩵🩵

And this? This is exactly why I speak out. Why I refuse to just let it slide or pretend it’s not happening. Because people are awful. Some of them thrive off of making others feel small, of policing what’s "acceptable" to enjoy, of twisting narratives just to justify their own prejudices. And then, when we dare to call it out, suddenly it’s us who are lying? Who are overreacting? Who are making things up? The gaslighting is unreal.

What really gets me is that this isn’t just about "ship discourse" or "petty fandom drama." This is real, tangible hate. TERFs throwing around racist, anti-immigrant rhetoric and calling it "critique." Ableism being openly paraded around as if it’s an insightful take. People using slurs and gendered insults just to tear someone down. And the worst part? These aren’t just anonymous trolls lurking in the shadows. These are people saying this publicly. They feel safe and justified in doing so because they know that others will quietly agree, like, reblog, and keep the toxicity going.

So tell me again how “vile shit isn’t said on anon”. Tell me again how we’re "just making it up". Because every single time something like this happens, it proves exactly why I, and others, won’t shut up about it. Why I will keep calling it out. This behavior doesn’t deserve to be buried or swept under the rug, and it especially doesn’t deserve to be normalized.

I'm not speaking out to be some sort of martyr. I don’t do this for attention or to paint myself as some fandom warrior. I speak out because I love this fandom—the joyful, creative, happy, open-minded part of it. The people who pour their hearts into their art, their writing, their edits, their passion. The ones who just want to enjoy their favorite stories, engage with each other, and share in something they love. They deserve everything and more.

And I refuse to let a handful of bad apples sour the whole damn orchard. Because some people in this fandom? They’re good people. They are. Not to sound like the damn optimistic girlie, but they are here. They exist. The ones who uplift each other, who encourage creativity, who remind you why fandom can be such a special and transformative space.

We need to communicate. We need to support each other. And we need to call out the hate when we see it—because letting it fester in silence just gives the worst people more power.

This fandom, this ship, this community—it deserves better than that.

And as long as I have a voice, I’m going to use it.

To everyone affected—I'm so sorry you’re dealing with this. You shouldn’t have to. And you’re not alone in it. You have people who stand with you, who see what’s happening, and who won’t let it slide. Sending love and strength!!!💛

Also, very important note: I just want to say thank you to all the Haladriels calling this out. Thank you to each and every one of you who is reaching out, supporting, and standing up for what’s right. Your strength and kindness are so appreciated. It’s because of people like you that we keep this community a place of love, creativity, and respect. Seriously, I see you, and I’m so grateful to have you all in this space. Thank you, truly. 💛

[detentiontrack]

welcome to my blog!

-> sage/august! 19, lesbian, he/she, white (dutch/mexican)

-> undergraduate psychology major (associates obtained, going for my bachelor's now). hoping to become a licensed therapist or a psychologist

-> media interests: amphibia, inside out & inside out 2, the owl house, gravity falls, the magnus archives

-> general interests: clinical and abnormal psychology, neuroscience, baking, writing

-> auDHD, bipolar 1, OSDD system

-> chronically ill, physically disabled, part time cane user

-> fanfiction writer, ao3: springbreaksloose

-> side blogs:

studyblr: strawrings

silly blog for my silly cat: ranchkitty

personal side blog: just ask for the url! i'll give it out to anyone

-> tagging system

triggers: tw thing

all main/common triggers are tagged, but feel free to ask for anything else you need tagged!

asks: asks

anon: anon

general life things: silly little life

posts about my kitty: the beast

system posts and information: system stuff or the accident factory

mental health: mental health tag

physical health: health tag

talking: sage speaks

-> boundaries:

asks: anon is usually on! i love getting asks feel free to send as many asks as you want! i have a busy life however, so it may take a while for me to answer. i promise i'm not ignoring your ask. if it's been a while and i haven't responded, feel free to send it again or remind me!

messages: same as asks! i love getting messages. just be aware that it may take a while for me to respond.

tags: LOVE being tagged in things!

gendered terms: masc and fem terms and compliments are both a-okay!

questions: i love yapping and oversharing and educating on mental and physical health through my experiences! ask anything you'd like! if i don't want to answer, i'll just be vague

seeking advice or guidance: i love giving advice and helping others, if you have a problem and want to talk about it, please DM me or send it to my inbox <3

minors: minors can follow! just please be aware that i am an adult and will sometimes post about that, so please block/filter the tags minors dni & nsft ! (i don't ever post or reblog heavy NSFW, all things tagged as that will likely just be references to my currently non existent dating life in non graphic detail)

triggering topics: i don't have any triggers :)

-> DNI: homophobia, transphobia, racism, TERFs, ableism, fake claiming, etc. just don't be nasty

-> this is a safe place for everyone! everyone is welcome! just be kind <3

ummmm i think that's it! enjoy these photos of my kitty :)

[nothinginthisworldbelongstome]

hi im rose!

just started this blog so i need to fix it up all nice and pretty but honestly idk when that might happen lol

Anons/asks and dms very welcome! i love talking and meeting new people!

just a reminder, bc sometimes people forget and treat me like im just one thing- I AM A SWITCH. that means i want to and enjoy BOTH domming and subbing, and i cant do just one all the time, it burns me out. that might be different for other people, but this is how it works for me. i need as close to 50/50 as i can get, 70/30 works too.

more about me under the cut!

i turned 19 aug 4th! she/her lesbian

men, terfs, bigots, any shitty people, and minors fuck off i will block u

im very switchy, will dom or sub whatever u need baby 😘

im more comfortable topping, and i loveeee bringing u pleasure, but it would be nice to have someone who desired me as much as i did them, even if im not yet comfortable receiving that attention lol

ive only been in 2 (long distance) relationships and never have even kissed anyone before, but ive been on nsfw tumblr for a while

i dont consider myself super femme but im definitely not masc/butch. and other people have told me im femme so 🤷‍♀️. i like jewelry and flowery clothes tho lol. i kinda just wear things and i dont think i have a super distinctive style. im mostly attracted to femmes but for me attraction usually comes from the face and personality, generally not style, if anyone cares lmao

im 5'7, i have brown hair and blue-green eyes, and im plus size, if any of that matters to yall

kinks:

praise praise praise. i love telling u how good ur doing for me and also i wanna be someones good girl

pretty girls telling me what to do hehe i love that

pet namessss ugh pet names. i use them SO much so if u dont like it let me know (but it will be so hard for me to stop ngl i fucking love pet names)

also call ME pet names and ill fall in love with u its so soft and sweettt ahhhh

anything that will bring you pleasure. when u tell me that turned u on/made u wet that turns me on sooo much

mommy kinkkkkk! call me mommy or let me call u mommy pretty girl

VOICESSS FUCKING VOICESS i have a hugeeee voice kink. make all ur pretty noises for me baby u sound so good

grindinggg i love grinding. yes bounce on my leg sweet thing

light pet play. like ill call u puppy/bunny/kitten, collars are hot, but not much more than that and im not a pet. no cages or anything more hardcore than that really

pulling my hairrr yes babygirl pull my hair while i eat u out

consensual somnophilia i love the idea of knowing someone trusts u enough to let u do whatever u want to them while theyre sleeping

MARKINGSSS ugh theyre so hot. ive veryyyy possessive i want u to be MINE if im into u. so yes marks are so hot. giving AND being given

also reciprocal possessiveness??? jesus christ sign me up. im urs and ur mine and now im in love

theres probably more but this is all i can think of right now

also even tho i dont personally enjoy something or dont have it in my likes, feel free to ask! im generally very open to trying things at least once. and some of the things i dont really care for/is not one of my kinks i dont mind doing if its something my partner wanted! communication is key <3

LIMITS

heavy degradation/humiliation and stuff like that. i dont like being really mean it makes me feel bad. i will however tease u until ur begging me to let u cum <3

also dont be mean at all in any way to me ill cry. light teasing is okay as long as im comfy with u and its done in a fond way, not a hateful way iykwim

rapeplay/kidnapping or anything nonconsensual like that it makes me feel bad

any terms like daddy/cock/dick. big turn off for me

anal/butt stuff

any bodily fluids other than cum gross me out sorry

feet. u can do whatever u want with mine ig but i dont like urs no thanks

send asks and dms!! i crave interaction

CLOSING REMARKS

idrk what else to say here. if u read all this u get a cookie ig lol

feel free to ask ANYTHING im an open book and will *probably* answer honestly lol

k love u bye! mwah!

[goblin-social]

Well, friends, this is a reminder you can request a goblin.band invite using this form:

It may take some time (I just sent another batch of invites, but I just take a look once per week or so), but if you get yourself in there, you probably will get a message from me (well, from @jv) with an invite sooner or later.

Also, an important clarification: that's ok if you don't want to share your tumblr address, but in that case I would like to be able to check any fediverse site or anything: Keep in mind, this is my own server, and I'm not (at least at this point) willing to let anyone sign up without a very basic check that I'm not letting anyone terrible in our litte goblin tower. So while I understand the desire to remain 100% anon, I just ask you to see another place where you have been already 100% anon so I can check you are not TERF, Fash, or similar.

[ragingwaters]

🌊INTRO POST🌊

Hey everyone! Nessa here, Hulbury gym leader and part-time fashion model!

Heard some of my favorite blokes were on here, so I figured I’d join in on the fun as well as keep everyone updated with my day-to-day life. 

Water-type pokemon are my passion, and I’m gonna show the world how turbulent they can be!

Now, let’s get the basics outta the way, shall we?

Name: Nessa (obv)

Age: 23

Height: 5’8” (6’0” in heels~)

Pronouns: She/Her (Cisgender)

Sexuality: Lesbian (and happily taken💙)

Pokemon Team:

♀Drednaw (GMAX) - Kaimana

♂Golisopod - Hama

♂Quagsire - Kano

♂Pelipper - Fjord

♀Barraskewda - Hali

♀Seaking - Calypso

♂Toxapek - Hoku

(//OOC: PLEASE READ BELOW BEFORE INTERACTING)

DNI: PRO-SHIPPERS, TERFS RAD/LIBFEMS, TRANSPHOBES, RACISTS, ETC. NO NSFW POSTS/RPS ALLOWED (If you do nsfw, keep it off my blog thank you.)

Hey, mun Nova, here 30+ years old and I use he/they pronouns!

If you have any questions don't be afraid to contact me, my DMs are always open! Also this is an rp blog that takes place in the pokemon universe, so pls keep in mind I will be RPing as such! Also I will be using A LOT of personal HCs, so if you don't like them err... sorry?

>Friendly reminder that if you try to engage in a plot with me without at least discussing it with me first, then I will likely not respond. Even if you do approach me with a plot in mind, there is no guarantee I will agree.

I AM A-OKAY INTERACTING WITH OCS. This involves: Fallers, Eebydeebies, sentient pokemon, hybrids, etc. If you're not sure just ask! I promise I do not bite <3

If you are looking to interact with my muse, and your muse is tied to some potentially triggering topics, I would prefer if you discussed potential interactions with me first. This is for my own comfort, so please keep this in mind.

This is a side blog, so I'll usually send asks on anon and sign off with “-@RagingWaters”

I follow back from my main @galactic-mermaid

IF YOU READ THIS ENTIRE THING, PLS SEND (DM or Ask) THE PHRASE "Sink or Swim" TO ME AS CONFIRMATION.

Check out my other Pokemon RP blogs!:

@piers-official (Piers/Marnie RP blog)

@ghostly-groundskeeper (Pokemon OC)

@darkpunkrocker (Sidney E4 RP Blog)

@thetravelingymleader (Pokemon OC)

@krazy-for-klara (Klara RP blog)

@a-gastly-trio (Pokemon Gijinka OCs) ((HIATUS))

[whimsyfemme]

hi all!! you can call me fleur or whimsy 🫶🏾!

꩜ .ᐟ nineteen yrs of age + black + nonbinary femme lesbian. any prns (pronoun indifferent/any compliments) + bpd & autism diagnosed + aries sun, pisces moon, libra rising + infp 2w1.

꩜ .ᐟ single womp womp + femme4butch/stud + ambiamorous. battle axe lesbian + stud & butch protector + manbeater + alternative + irl fairy.

this blog is my safe space to post about whatever whenever so a reminder!

BYF: this blog is 18+ i make and reblog nsfw posts from time to time, please don't follow if that makes you uncomfortable! i will sometimes mention that i smoke weed and do shrooms. this is a safe place for sapphics of all kinds, please don't come on here stirring up bullshit because i won't tolerate it. 

DNI: cishet men (i've already blocked a bunch of yall and i'll continue to do it), minors, ageless blogs, terfs (die), discriminatory towards ppl with personality disorders, complicit/support or have a "neutral stance" on the genocides that are currently occurring, edsh blogs, maps, ableists, transphobes, etc etc.

TAGS: talking/thoughts tag: yap yappy yap yap yap. posts with my pictures/face: me posting. 🍃 or 🍄 posts: faded than a ho. inbox tag: mail 4 whimsy.

my ask box and messages are always open! mooties can ask for my socials, discord, number, etc!

no anon emojis are currently taken at the moment!

if you want to get to know me a bit better here are some of my favorite things 🫶🏾

꩜ .ᐟ hobbies; writing + reading, sewing + embroidery, baking, dungeons & dragons, & perfumery.

꩜ .ᐟ artists; aespa, bikini kill, ethel cain, tyler the creator, red velvet, radiohead, mortician, dystopia, snow strippers, noname, newjeans, sophie, adrianne lenker, faye webster, loona, hole, sza, amaarae, fleshwater, & rico nasty.

꩜ .ᐟ games; the last of us, red dead redemption, baldurs gate, pokemon, harvest moon, persona 5, guilty gear, legend of zelda, final fantasy, cyberpunk, animal crossing, dragons dogma, elden ring, & assassin's creed valhalla & odyssey.

what i am into/kinks

i am versatile with a bottom dominate lean, can and will be submissive. learning/exploring topping. butches and studs obvi! im just starting to get more comfortable with more taboo kinks (that i'm into) after being exposed to that shit at a young age.

🫶🏾: mommy/daddy kink (as titles), breath play, face sitting, bondage, oral fixation, impact play, manhandling, praise, primal play, mutual marking, somnophilia, guided masturbation, breeding, public play, strapons, drug use/intox, & dry humping.

🙅🏾: race play (of ANY kind, cannot believe i have to elaborate on that), extreme cnc, bodily waste, feet, armpits, anal play, age play, weapon play, anything thats extremely taboo or extreme.

₊˚ᓚᘏᗢ ᶻ 𝗓 𐰁₊✧ ﾟ

[inchidentally]

I've got a few asks that are all actually roughly under the same umbrella in terms of my replies - and be aware I've had to get way more serious then usual so pls skip if you're not here for that <3

mmmmm yea you can feel as you want anon but I personally am not going to want to parallel that relationship with Oscar and Lily's. my main cause when it comes to wives and girlfriends is that they all deserve to be protected against rampant, casual misogyny in fandom spaces. but also to not to project any reflected good will onto her boyfriend or husband simply because he's the boyfriend or husband. and there's so much about the 2000s drivers that makes me hope that at least some of their behavior isn't being carried on with the current younger guys on the grid :///

also just as a reminder: I was raised by intersectional feminists and I've witnessed what even supposedly "loving" het relationships can do to people who identify as women* - so I'm never going to be rooting for heterosexual relationships as far as women are concerned. I'm not overly prejudiced and I fully support any woman's choices for herself - and I don't have the smallest delusion that I have a right to an opinion on those choices <3 but equally I'm not going to lie to myself that women don't statistically always lose or sacrifice something of themselves when they become a partner to a man and that the man loses and sacrifices nothing - and if he makes the most basic effort he's praised as a god among men. especially not a man who's career has and will always take priority over his relationship and especially if the woman has to navigate or alter her life to deal with the man's profession, public image or his fanbase. I will always want women to pursue life on their own terms without men in any way dragging them down or altering their lives - that's just my opinion and it's fine if others disagree or hopefully project onto those relationships for any reason. so far, to me, the only driver's relationships that seem at all truly balanced and not negatively affecting or requiring compromises of the women that the man doesn't have to repay, are Lily and Alex and Melissa and Nando - and while I don't know much about them probably Tiffany and Valtteri. those women were already fully adults when they met these guys and would be able to leave the relationships whenever they want without having their own individual lives and incomes affected or altered in any way. I do not see any excuse for a woman to be in a relationship in any other way or with any further sacrifice and especially not because of a man, who will always enjoy economic and social power above hers.

*I know this is a whole unique point but as far as I'm concerned identifying as a woman is how I'm referring to women at any time. TERFs DNI.

-

ok so I've heavily edited these next two bc my blog is not the place to get into All That and I don't want to bring stress and negativity to moots

I think the funniest part of this rumor is how everyone's been asking for a screen recording of this and absolutely no one can produce anything other than one screencap of Rebecca at one brief time offering subscription content with no explanation for what - and that was something all models and influencers did for a while to make some money when a bunch of platforms screwed over their engagement. everyone's just running with this as if it's anyting and wtfff you're saying all she was offering were 'pictures of Carlos from the back' LIKE BFFR what are y'all even saying here ??? who was being robbed what crime was committed how is this even worth remembering ??? the reach being rought!!

but on the serious side, I'm gonna need all of you to sit yourselves in a quiet place and start taking this spontaneous and erratic morality that magically shows up when women are involved and start actually applying it to your pookie bears in F1. because not only does Carlos and the rest of the grid exploit the media, fans and sponsorships for cash, gifts, engagement and popularity - they also endorse and personally directly fund and engage with entire companies and individuals who actively perpetuate and uphold the absolute gutter of amorality and social iniquity that is the foundation of this whole sport !!

like here you guys are hunting for any tiny scrap of something to further the prejudice that these wives and girlfiends are not your ideas of Perfect Pure Sainted Angels - meanwhile you're looking at hugely problematic words and actions from your favorite driver and literally assuming that they've suddenly "had a change of heart" or are "better people now" based on ???? nothing ???? and THEN you start hoping that the girlfriend or wife is "good for him" or that she won't "be bad for him" I feel like I'm losing my fucking mind since when does a girl or woman over the age of 15 think that rich, powerful white men in hugely problematic fields of work are the ones being cruelly corrupted by the women they personally choose to date ??? if these men are shitheads then they did it all on their own babes !!

and I have to assume that even die hard Carlos fans on here are aware of how he's very much not perfect and that anyone sensible has to admit that unless he made the decision to publicly and loudly make a statement to the contrary then all of his opinions and affiliations are the same. you can absolutely compartmentalize these guys - we all do! - in order to like certain things about them or engage in content about them, but nobody should be out here so woman-hating as to take nothing of substance and use it to award these men virtues that have no foundation in reality. all while vilifying their wives and girlfriends over literally the smallest thing or making the most tenuous of connections to try and prove why they shouldn't be with your fave guy. or because while the men can fuck and cheat all they want, you've decided the women they date or marry have to conform to regressive ideas of female purity.

(just to clarify, the stuff I'm referring to "men" or "drivers" as doing is not specifically referring to Carlos or one man in particular but about the wider issue of double standards between drivers and their girlfriends and wives)

so a wife or gf of a man with an all-consuming career that involves her altering her life and plans to go all over the world just to be with him, decides to do exactly what he does and utilize a fanbase and popularity for gain? suddenly she's an evil conniving witch capable of manipulating and controlling poor widdle rich, white, powerful, influential man !! even though he dumps women and cheats on women whenever he wants and doesn't face a single bit of criticism for fans' perceptions of problems in his relationships but oh he's just a helpless hard-working victim who is nobly doing his dream job that his one percenter family and/or social status and/or race and gender made completely effortless for him and how DARE his wife or girlfriend get any of the financial benefit from a field of sports where women are so hated that even the most powerful woman is publicly accused by the highest authority in the sport of collusion based on nothing more than one gossip columnists lie !!

I could go so fucking far about how the women these men date and marry have been socially groomed from birth to be beautiful and silently supportive of their man and told they're not good enough or smart enough to succeed in a "serious" business environment - and that the drivers conveniently always end up with beautiful women who suffer at the hands of his fans who blame women for how men treat them all while he says nothing so as not to upset his base of support - then fuck it, let them all sell you people subscriptions for pictures of the drivers! let them scrape even a tiny fraction off the top of this imbalanced and unfair socioeconomic dynamic compared to the huge, unearned kickbacks and handshakes that make these men so effortlessly successful and rich. you can see those subscriptions as payment on your part for spreading rumors and hate about women and using double standards.

the rich famous man will NOT change his life to either fit your rpf ship - or to stay single so that you can continue your parasocial relationship with him uninterrupted - or choose a woman based on who you deem to be an appropriate self-insert. no matter how many rumors you believe or spread or how often you post content hating on his partner, his choice will not be affected by you. so keep those delusions and misogyny to yourself - or at least away from my blog and inbox !

honestly anon, I've already known the content of all of your messages over the past few months and I'm choosing the least offensive one for a reason to post (edited ofc so no one can accuse me of slander or whatever)

listen: if I was at all saying that Carlos is unproblematic or publicly promoting him in any way then I'd absolutely deserve what you're saying. but for myself personally, Carlos is part of am f1blr specific hyperfixation where I stay on my blog and write stupid narratives using drivers for fun. I'm not contributing anything to his overall fanbase or giving him any of my financial or personal support. I stick to fandom spaces only and not any platform that the drivers or anyone in wider F1 circles use.

and the thing is that not only would it be putting the burden of his problematicness on me if I were to post your asks bc I alone would have to answer for them, it would also probably just be informing people of what's fully and easily available to find elsewhere. everyone I mutually follow and most people I see are fully aware that we're taking these men and for the most part using them for our own fanon rather than their actual reality. so for me to pick one driver and say look at these awful realities then I'd have to do that with all of them, including the drivers who are at all friendly with known problematic drivers and people. so while I totally understand if someone wants to kick all of F1 out of their fandom experience bc Men then jfc absolutely go for it. I'm not at all pretending that what I'm doing on my blog is worth the smallest shit! but me deciding to pick one driver out of all of them to put on blast would do nothing but make me a hypocrite and rightfully have people asking me why I don't talk about this or that driver too.

and quite frankly unless someone never supports with any male-majority content and solely focuses all of their time to intersectional feminist content then there ain't a leg to stand on to blast any other fanbase or focus on one particular person. it's fully fair to be critical! but not to get on a high horse if there's even one cishet man in your list of fandom things. honestly that could even be broadened in some cases to one cis man.

absolutely, take the truth to people who are out there on public platforms trying to claim that any of these drivers are saints and perfect humans where they could potentially be recruiting to a fanbase using false narratives and covering up problematic behavior. but ask yourself if you're time is best spent mostly attacking women and girls in fanbases over this or going right to the comments and tags that squarely target the men themselves.

but on here I've got to kind of assume we all know what the score is and nobody's in denial that these are mere Rich Powerful Men and none of them deserves our actual serious allegiance yk ??? I feel like we're all aware this is us having fun and we're all accepting that while we can block and blacklist tags based on personal preferences, none of us in f1blr who likes a male driver can pretend to be superior to liking a different one. at best they're better at keeping their mouths shut but they also permit and overlook a LOT. and yes, that includes Lewis even though my god he has a gigantic lead on the rest in terms of progressive actions and deeds compared to any other man in F1. and that while he still has unaddressed problematic associations and behavior, all of us white fans need to be fucking vigilant of going after him if we're not fully going ten times harder on the white drivers.

[inter-sex]

hey I'm not intersex but I have an intersex friend who I've shown some of your posts to. I appreciate the work you're doing to tell intersex people they're welcome and I'm sorry someone is trying to tell you you aren't. I promise they're wrong and you will have opportunities to surround yourself with people who treat you with the respect you deserve. hang in there

Thank you so so much! I'm really happy your friend likes the blog, and I'm so happy that people are supporting me what with all the nasty asks...

I'd also like to take this time to remind people that TERFs are not welcome here! I'm trans myself, for God's sake! (This is not directed at the anon, I'm just happy to know I can say this and people will back me up still. :D)

[a-gastly-trio]

Hello there nice to meet you~

In case you didn't know we are:

Gage the Gastly

Damien the Haunter

Raven the Gengar

We're siblings (if that wasn't apparent) and we all live together in an old family home in Lavender City! We are also -what some of you humans call in your dimension- Gijinkas.

Unsurprisingly, we have ghost-like abilities and powers, so if you're thinking of messing with us-

We advise you DON'T. :)

Being "Pokemon" or 'Mons as we call ourselves in our world, we have move-sets all the same -we even battle each other (although it's more of an MMA style...)! Also despite being form an alternate dimension, we are VERY aware of dimensions other than our own.

If you would like to learn more about us, you can do so here:

Gage, Damien, and Raven (UPDATED: 8/8/23)

(PLEASE READ BEFORE INTERACTING)

NOTE: Sometimes two other muses show up, these are Kendra (a Banette) and Xiang (A Houndoom) They are friends of the siblings~ Their text colors are as shown here.

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DNI: PRO-SHIPPERS, TERFS RAD/LIBFEMS, TRANSPHOBES, RACISTS, ETC. NO NSFW POSTS/RPS ALLOWED (If you do nsfw, fine, but keep it OFF my blog thank you.)

Mun: I'm Nova, 30+ years old and I use he/they pronouns!

If you have any questions don't be afraid to contact me, my DMs are always open! Also this is an rp blog that takes place in the pokemon universe, so pls keep in mind I will be RPing as such! Also I will be using A LOT of personal HCs, so if you don't like them err... sorry?

>Friendly reminder that if you try to engage a plot with me without at least discussing it with me first, then I will likely not respond. Even if you do approach me with a plot in mind, there is no guarantee I will agree. If you are looking to interact with my muse, and your muse is tied to some potentially triggering topics, I would prefer if you discussed potential interactions with me first. This is for my own comfort, so please keep this in mind.

This is a side blog, so I'll usually send asks on anon and sign off with "-@a-gastly-trio". Please also specify which muse you wish to speak to, or it'll be dealer's choice~

I follow back from my main @galactic-mermaid

IF YOU READ THIS ENTIRE THING, PLS SEND (DM or Ask) THE PHRASE "Ghost with the most" TO ME AS CONFIRMATION.

Check out my other Pokemon RP Blogs!

@thetravelingymleader: Nox is a budding gym leader from Sinnoh who will eventually take over his Aunt Fantina’s gym! But before that he’s traveling the world to become a better person and trainer. (Pokemon OC blog)

@piers-official: Now that he's retired from being a gym leader, he finally has time to work on music, repair Spikemuth and do fuck all! -Or does he? (Yea he does) Say Hullo to Galar's favorite rockstar! (Piers IRL/RP blog)

@darkpunkrocker: Who's that troublemaker? Oh, it's just Sidney, don't worry too much. Part of Hoenn's E4 and master of Dark-types, this bastard (affectionate) is now on rotumblr! (Sidney IRL/RP Blog)

@ragingwaters Galar’s favorite fashion Model and Water-type gym leader is here! Nessa’s ready to bring the storm and answer all your questions! Just don’t get too close, Drednaw (and Sonia) might get a little jealous~

[wisteriawilliowboulevard]

‼️PLEASE READ BEFORE INTERACTING WITH THIS BLOG!‼️

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●Welcome To Wisteria Boulevard!

●Name: Wisteria Willow

●Age: Mid 20s.

•Bisexual

●My main/reblogging tumblr blog: @wisteriaawillow

● Sun: Pisces

●Moon: Leo

●Rising: Pisces

●SFW interactions only!

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What exactly is this blog about?

♡ I am making this blog to show people that bigger people can be fashionable, trendy and it's okay to shop at afforadble places and still find cute clothes.

♡So if you guys want any tips I am here to give the best advice I can give to you guys. Just send it in an ask! (When they are open)

♡But I will also post other things like diys, adventures, and other things that I find neat and want to show on here.

♡This blog is open and kind to everyone and anyone as long as you are not homophobic, racist, or anything along those lines. Just don't be a major dickhead is all I am asking.

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I block people that are:

■ Phobics (homophobic, fat phobic, bi phobic, or anything else under the line racist, terfs, etc.)

■creepy men. ( The well behaved ones are always accepted)

■ fat fetish/feeder/feedee blogs(not trying to kink shame but I don't want any one projecting their kinks and sexual fantasies onto me. I just find it very creepy. )

■ jerks/haters: instead of bitching about my blog just unfollow and or block me, stop wasting yours/my time and do that instead of complaining to me about it. 🙄

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👍Do's and 🚫Dont's on this blog:

👍DO be kind on my blog!

🚫DON'T be disrespectful to me or anyone on this blog!

👍DO respectfully ask for other socials.

🚫DON'T ask me if I sell 18+ content or have an only fans. The answer is no. I don't have one and I don't plan on it.

👍 Do be kind and respectful while anon is on.

🚫DON'T be creepy or say crazy shit on anon because if you do you will get either a very sarcastic rude reply or I will just completely ignore you and delete your ask. IF I GET TOO MANY OF THESE ASKS I WILL TURN OFF ANON COMPLETELY!

▪︎You can compliment me, call me beauitful, gorgeous, etc (because I know I am hehe) or say anything nice to me but Don't project any of your creepy fantasies onto me. I will not respond well to them and don't get mad about it either.

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‼️Other reminders‼️

■I can be a very blunt person and "abrasive" so if I say something that is "too harsh" or "too real" then take what I say with a grain of salt. (Or don't, I don't really care.)

■Even though this blog is sfw I just don't want minors to interact with me. So if you aren't 18+ then go away.

▫️The block button will always be my best friend!!!

▫️My dms are currently closed not sure when I will open them.

■Please do not fetishiszed or sexualize me in any way. This is not a NSFW blog. This is a blog for Fashion, and inspiration for my plus sized peeps, and other just fashion lovers in general!

■Even though I am open and accepting to everyone, if you act like a major bitch to me no matter the race, gender, sexualty, etc I will act one to you back. What goes around comes around. Don't get mad if I get smart with you I am nice to people who are nice to me. It's just that simple.

▫️This blog is made by me for me so if there is anything that I post or reblog on here that you don't like then don't complain to me and just unfollow. It's free to do that.

■ All the selfies are pre-taken weeks in advance. It helps with me posting atleast once weekly on this blog.

■Most importantly, LEARN HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN BEFORE APPROACHING ME!

▫️If you have any questions, or comments then you can dm me or send in ask when they are open.

♡♡Thank you for reading this post and interacting with this blog. ♡♡

■All images (except my selfie) came from Google images.

[askthehardrockcrusher]

⟪ 🏔️ ⟫ 🢒🢒🢒 RULES.

Please read rules before interacting with this blog!

⯈ The canon for this blog is set after the post-game of Pokémon Sword. I try to stay relatively canon-compliant, but there are some minor details I may change up here or there. A lot of my characterization of Gordie is headcanon-based, please keep that in mind! ⯈ This blog will cover some heavier topics, including mentions of domestic abuse, absentee birth parents, strained family relationships, and low self-esteem. Any possible triggers will be tagged as [ tw : trigger ] ⯈ No rude or vitriolic asks, they will be deleted automatically (unless I feel the need to address anything said in them.) I'm well aware that Gordie is not a fan favorite, you do not need to remind me. ⯈ I will also not answer any asks that try to mischaracterize Gordie as bigoted, (a.k.a. racist, sexist, homophobic, etc.) I don't think it's really appropriate to joke about those topics and I refuse to entertain that characterization of him. ⯈ Fatphobia will not be tolerated, either. A lot of the hate Gordie gets is generally steeped in fatphobia and that shit's not cool, you will be blocked if you try to bring that energy to this blog. ⯈ No NS4W asks! While I do headcanon Gordie as an adult, Pokémon is primarily a franchise targeted towards kids and I don't think it's appropriate to post NS4W content of it in public spaces online. Mildly suggestive or thirst asks are fine, just as long as they don't go too far. ⯈ While I appreciate every ask I get, I am selective with the ones I choose to answer. Please don't be upset if I don't answer your ask or spam the same question. ⯈ Replies to asks will generally include art drawn by the mun, but it isn't always a guarantee. I will reply with only text whenever I think it's appropriate. ⯈ Please be patient with me! Art can take some time to make and I don't always have the energy to draw, especially on days that I have work irl. ⯈ Asks from other muses are totally okay, just as long as it's clear who your character is and has a visual reference that I can easily find (if necessary.) ⯈ Mun/OOC asks are also okay! ⯈ I will accept Magic Anons, but I will be selective when doing so. ⯈ Please don't use any art from this blog without explicit permission! ⯈ DO NOT INTERACT IF YOU ARE : Racist, Homophobic, Transphobic, Ableist, Fatphobic, Proship/Anti-Anti, MAP/NOMAP, Zoophiles/Poképhiles, TERFs, Gender Critical

MUN INFO : Mj ( @wildflowercryptid ) • 24 years old • They / Them + Ae / Aer • EST

[olderthannetfic]

That "no one will want to be friends with you" ask reminds me of the time someone found my writing, saw my characted had a small, small level of internalized homophobia from canonically being an unsocial recluse (and also having toxic homophobic parents), which they didn't even act on because they knew it was judt lack of experience with other people, and this anon sent my mutual messages saying I was a TERF, and all this other shit that wasn't true. My mutual bit back so hard. They told them: "do you really think this was going to work? You drop unsubstantiated BS in my inbox, then I just drop everything and go "okay, sure, I believe you just like that?", and I laughed so hard, because when they did that, they effectively called out the anon for projecting hardcore about what THEY do when they read unsubstantiated things. The anon did, all the time, as an anti, what they expected my mutual to do. It wasn't a good look for anon lol, but I continue to feel guilty as fuck that my mutual was even bothered with that shit in the first place. The TERF and -phobe accusations also kinda fucked me up, and still are, because I've always been trans, and I'm a really kind and accepting person. It reminded me of scapegoating shit from my childhood where I was accused of all sorts of things I never did and gaslit, so it was... Yeah.

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This type of abusive jackass wants you to feel like them bothering your mutuals is your fault.

The whole point is to isolate the target.