#violet harmon irl

[vi0l3tluvsu]

Jimmy Darling Headcanons!

SFW!

-> He never learned how to properly read and instead just sounds out the letters until it forms what could be a word

-> As a kid he really thought he was going to make it into the professional music industry

-> Uses his hands as chopsticks

-> Cannot read sheet music but can learn through listening

-> Makes dinner at least twice a week for everyone

-> Jimmy wears two layers of clothes at all times, not because he's a naturally cold person but due to a fear of staining one layer so having another as back up

-> Didn't know anything was wrong with him until he got older and people ridiculed him for his looks

-> Biggest Elvis Presly fan in the world

-> Loves cold weather because it means he can wear gloves

-> Would misuse slang but in a very unironic way and smile afterwards

-> Prefers tea to coffee but if asked would always say coffee

[tiffysdeath]

the lomllll <33333

[violetspillss]

🦇⋆ 𐙚 ⊹ ໋.

[irl-tatelangdon]

[taintedarabesque]

my grandma used to have this old Victorian house that was huge and they got it pretty cheap and I’m sure it was haunted they had like drawings randomly appear on the wall and I almost drowned there was really living the real life murder house experience

[xvioletharmonx]

Finally got cigs. Being violet Harmon irl is so difficult smh

[mlissyou]

The Violet Harmon fans on here are immature. Not saying that in a bad way. Most of the girls in this fandom are 13 - 19 year old girls. When ur immature and you get hate you blow it out of proportion and get others involved for no really good reason.

These girls have the right to be upset about getting hate and negative attention. In fact I am not judging them for that because that’s exactly what I did just a couple days ago.

But the more you blow things out of proportion, the more the community with become known for being toxic and annoying. If someone says something weird or politically incorrect on here instead of making a post or targeting them GO TO DMS. Lots of us have our moments where we say something wrong on the internet. A hate campaign is not needed.

Also these teenage girls are trying to find who they are and what they wanna be. That’s why lots of them consider themselves “taissa lookalikes” or “Violet Harmon irls” if these girls attack you for looking/wanting to be like her, ignore them. They will learn one day that life doesn’t revolve around who looks more like an actress and truely no one cares.

Everyone knows the Violet fans are sometimes very petty, but like I said they don’t know what else to do and I didn’t for a while also. Especially when the hate is so intense. Lots of girls in this community need to learn how to deal with things (same with me I am not perfect.) but in the end talking it out with someone or turning off anons can be a great solution to the problem.

This is kinda a blog going over what @cxndiedvi0lets said and I completely agree with her on how this fandom has gone to shit over the last couple months.

(I am not hating on the whole of the fandom, there’s some good and some bad. I am just talking about what I have seen on here.)

[ciggiestash]

Which of your moots give off the most Violet Harmon energy ^^

I have a few!! @taintedarabesque @irl-violetharmon

I would add @mlissyou but she’s more of a victorian ghost vibe recently

also @necroseviolet even though we haven’t messaged recently she’s so vi coded

[hauntedrose555]

thank you sm for the tag @lostreverb @mistysconcilium:)

🪽three ships- Klaus Mikaelson and Caroline Forbes, Tate Langdon and Violet Harmon (I know they’re toxic sorry😭) andddd me and my bf<3

🪽first ship- I can’t remember but probably something to do with Harry Potter lol

🪽last song- apocalypse by cigarettes after sex

🪽last tv show- skins

🪽currently reading- englands dreaming: sex pistols and punk rock by Jon Savage

🪽currently watching- skins also

🪽currently eating- the last thing I ate was a cookie I think

🪽currently craving- a hug from my puppy but she’s sleeping aargh

tags- @lesly1234 @irl-marlenemckinnon @punk1nl0v333 @y0urfav0r1te-emo @foreverviolets

[mazzystarxx]

How do you relate to violet Harmon? What inspired you to make a blog about her?

Some of my moots inspired me to make a violet Harmon based blog when I saw they had one. 🖤

I already answered a question like this in another post from a while ago, here is the link :)

[vi0l3tluvsu]

The ahs community is so welcoming :(

despite most of you being insane about Evan peters

I’ve found more comfort here than any other fandom I’ve interacted with🖤🖤love you guys

[naturalbornluvr]

tysm 4 the tags @oceanblvdbabe @morbidbambi @dollyswan <333

wannabe: effy stonem (but with a personality)

irl: cal gabriel & violet harmon

my life as a movie/tv show title: girl, interrupted

tags: @natural-bornangel @dangeroustaintedflawed @kissingyourcoffin i totally 4got a ton of ppl so just all of my moots too obvi 💕

If you could be a character from any movie/TV show who would it be and what character are u irl and give your life a title from a movie/TV show name (u can pass the game)

Yay thx love this smarty ♡♡

Me as a wannabe character: Alison dilaurentis and Serena van Der woodsen

Me as irl character : babydoll from sucker punch, lux Lisbon .

My life as a title copied from movie/TV show: Alice in wonderland

Tags: @morbidbambi @ballerinainterrupted @naturalbornluvr @newwavesylviaplath @heavenswaif @vampyr3wife @fawnangel555 + any other mutual ♡

[heroinswan]

i wish i could be friends with violet harmon irl bc i h8 that shes only a character

[irl-tatelangdon]

So how exactly do you use this app? This is complicated

[renegains]

Bell Let’s Talk 2023– A Violet Revisitation

Kudos to Bell for bringing awareness and discussion toward mental health. While great progress has been made when it comes to the taboo of depression, there still exists a wide-ranging mental illnesses: some illnesses still fall on the wayside, hidden in a cloud of obscurity. Indeed, according to a study, “overall public stigma toward major depression significantly decreased in the 22 years of the study, whereas public stigma for schizophrenia or alcohol dependence remained unchanged” (Changes in Stigma Toward Serious Mental Illness Over the Past 20 Years). This blog post seeks to shed light on the still more stigmatized mental health disorders in our present day. While by no means a prescription nor a curative stance, I offer a way in which one can glean a different perspective on mental health throughout my work on the Violet spiritual program. It is namely inspired by Carl Jung and the ancients themselves.

The effect of social media on our mental health:

Jordan Peterson says in one of his podcasts that social media favours posts that promote divisiveness because it garners more engagement.

To stay away from the divisiveness of social media, I started journaling, listening to podcasts, and reading way more. I must’ve listened to about 140+ podcasts this past year by various YouTube spiritual podcast/long video channels like This Jungian Life, Plum Village, Eternalised, etc.

The effect I saw was more trust in others and in myself and better communication skills which resulted in much better mental health. When you develop your literacy and consciousness, many benefits are realized.

Social media is a way to face things you’re too afraid of facing IRL— e.g. good social skills on social media isn’t going to mean you’ll be just as suave IRL. Social media creates this artificial channel between you and the world. It’s a place where you remain in your comfort zone instead of doing the work outside of that.

I’ve also learned that real support groups do not come from social media. One of the ways in which they’re built is frequenting the places where you feel safe and comfortable— the gym, for example— and then creating lasting friendships. Social media provides a myriad of choice of people to interact with, but more often than not these do not create the depth and support people may need. People need a community, and with the advent of social media, a sense of community in people’s lives have been dissipating (The Negative Outcomes of a Changing Community and Social Media).

Mental Health and Education

Though many stereotypes exist around bipolar and other mood & dissociative disorders and which are not often explicitly represented in mental health activism, I have made it my goal to affirm that stigmas can also be broken for them as well. I strive to inspire others who are fighting similar challenges to see the strengths in themselves. To accomplish this, I have been continuously developing the Violet program which delves into each main energy centre of our bodies and works with the Dao in order to balance, harmonize, and heal our wounds which prevent full realization of our dreams.

“To fight stigma, it can be helpful to educate and inform others. Once people understand more about your medical condition, they will begin to see you realistically, rather than through the lens of their fears” (verywellmind).

Violet Revisitation - Some Written Pieces About Alchemy and the Realization of the Divine Self

A. For most, the unconscious is utterly unrecognizable and foreign to the person. They fear the dark and will engage in defence mechanisms against it. A rediscovery of one’s eternal Self is thus necessary. To remain conscious and to remember one’s eternal Self in the next realm is to do shadow work and to then to maintain harmony between one’s conscious and unconscious self, so that the two are working in harmonious unity.

Perhaps our old Self needs to die so that we realize this tenet. And that is part of life: the biggest challenge is dying our first death and being reborn: a truly Plutonic experience. I don’t mean literal death. Then the subsequent times won’t be as scary, it’s just a part of life so that we come to know our true Self and where it belongs in the world. We already have and are in that place in the world, we just need to see it. Within this illumination of our place in the world and a simultaneous alchemizing of the deadened parts into gold. It can be a process of letting go of attachments that no longer serve us and harmonizing our polar opposites to harmonize our mental health as we work to materialize our visions.

B. The Dao in Simple Terms

I like to think of it in terms of free-will of the Self (when our Dao is balanced) or of fate.

You see, when we can balance the rational and conscious side of our awareness (left-brain hemisphere) with the intuitive and unconscious side of it (right-brain hemisphere), then we are in complete in control of ourselves. Right equals left; conscious equals unconscious. This is akin to mathematical simplification.

When such balance is attained, there is no surprise in store. What we envision something to happen from our will, happens. This is called being irrevocably mindful and in the present moment, if you prefer— but on a much deeper and bullet-proof level.

But when our Dao is not balanced, consciousness does not equal unconsciousness, and we repress and develop fear towards the objects that we delegate to the Unconscious because they threaten our sense of Self. At its extreme, it can cause massive anxiety and dissociation: the dissociative contents transforming into a dreamlike state. That is why it is in dreams where one obtains the secrets to self-actualization and to the attainment of their goals.

Great authors to check out for further learning:

Liz Greene- to understand archetypes, mythology, and simultaneously, your psychology

Demetra George- same thing, a big part being the divine feminine and some parts discuss its relation to the Kundalini

Jordan Peterson- bravely discusses the challenges of our society and the wisdom that can be derived from them

Georg Feuerstein- writes about the Tantra and the deeper aspects of yoga

Donald Kalsched- wrote an amazing book called The Inner World of Trauma

Great podcasts to check out:

This Jungian Life

Jordan Peterson

Myths, Baby!

Joe Rogan

Doctor Snipes

Plum Village

Eternalised

Sources:

https://networkconference.netstudies.org/2022/csm/1319/the-negative-outcomes-of-a-changing-community-and-social-media/

[accidentally-overdosed]

sorry for inactivity, there was a fire by my house so i had to pack up my shit and leave, my mom went back into treatment and i’ve been struggling with substance abuse stuff like i don’t rlly have a clear thought pattern or sense of time.

i’m sober rn so i thought i’d come on and say hi! i have some pictures in my camera roll i’ll edit and try to post!

@tatesimper thank u for getting me through hard times. i love u!!