#vent and advice

[ilovecatfr]

[sugaglos]

How do I stop existing without kms

[ilovecatfr]

[ninttendogs]

maybe its just me but does anyone else experience a sense of guilt for having more then one theriotype ?

i keep subconsciously forcing down the possibility of having a secondary theriotype because im afraid im not Truly my species. an internal fear that im being unfaithful to my identity, or that ive been lying about my species as a whole solely because i may be More then one canine

[littlemissshifter]

so when are we gonna talk about chatgpt being a mirror of collective consciousness or are we just going to ignore that?

[hhowell12]

When someone complains about their long-distance relationship but my boyfriend lives in another fucking universe and I miss him so much

[ilovecatfr]

me reconnecting with shifting after anything bad happens in this reality

[questionableadvice]

~ The Gentlemen’s Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness; Being a Complete Guide for a Gentleman’s Conduct in all his Relations Towards Society, by Cecil B. Hartley, 1860

[husk-says-no]

Hey, Husk here. This is my blog.

Somehow you ended up in my corner of the internet. Poor choice or divine intervention—jury’s still out. Either way, I ain’t your therapist, but I’ve got time, booze, and a bad attitude, and nothing better to do,so feel free to:

Ask for advice, vent your soul, cry over your situationship, beg for approval, debate stuff, etc. Hell, ask me if your demon crush likes you back. (Spoiler: they don’t. Move on.)

You need opinions? I got ‘em. Need a roast? I’ll flay you with words and a smirk. Emotional support? I’ve got a scratchy voice and a semi-functional moral compass. Good enough. Just don't cry if I hurt your feelings. You'll get over it.

Bar's open. Ashtray’s full. Lay it on me.

♠︎♡◆♧♠︎♡◆♧

[sunriseprongs]

You know what gets me? Merlin’s utter DEVOTION to Arthur. There is nothing Merlin wouldn’t do, wouldn’t sacrifice, no line he wouldn’t cross, no moral or belief he wouldn’t abandon for Arthur.

Very quickly, his actions become less about fulfilling his destiny and more about protecting Arthur, by any means necessary. He loved Arthur more than he cared about destiny or duty or magic, even his own people.

I think in no scene is this more apparent than when he tells Arthur that there “can be no place for magic in Camelot”. He was willing to give up the chance to bring magic back to Camelot (which would be part of fulfilling his destiny), something he has always wanted and his people needed, in a desperate attempt to protect Arthur from Mordred.

He failed his destiny bc he loved Arthur so much, that he would do anything to protect and save him. Even give up bringing magic back to Camelot, and in doing so, doom Arthur to die by Mordred’s hand.

and idk if this is just me, but his loving Arthur so much, it ultimately killed him, is giving Orpheus and Eurydice. Merlin would look back because he loves him so much. To not turn, would be to love Arthur less, and if he loved Arthur less, he would not be Merlin at all.

[ilovecatfr]

[unknownn-girl]

i’m so sad whenever i think of my friend that starts dating this guy i liked. (not mad at her at all btw she’s an angel!!!!) not even bc of the guy bc he’s an absolute asshole but aside from him as a person he’s like my ideal type yk? and whenever he texts me now it’s abt my friend and it kinda feels like he’s rubbing it in? idk how to explain it. it’s just really hard seeing someone you’ve always been sort of jealous of her everything you’ve ever wanted. she’s beautiful, has a lot of friends, smart, good style, easy to talk to, and lives somewhere i miss living and her life is just so aesthetic. i feel like such a bad person whenever i think abt it but i’m so happy for her she deserves it! but it really is frustrating to see someone get all the things you’ve ever wanted. it makes me feel like i’m not good enough like why is it so easy for some people and so hard for me? sorry this is so long i just need to get this off my chest.

[11-asher-11]

Friendly reminder that shifting is not religion.

Shifting and religions are two different things.

You don't have to believe in a God in the sky or any religion just bcs u are a shifter and u can still hate religions for what they did.

Peace ✌🏻

[aro-culture-is]

Aro culture is being ashamed of being aro because you desperately want a romantic relationship

hey, anon? this is a normal fear and shame in an amatonormative culture. you will grow to be proud in time. If you can, I really recommend taking some time to evaluate who and what in your life tells you what messages about romance, and if you can balance them to be more healthy in your life right now.

I feel like it's a comparison not often discussed, which is a little odd, but - the same way a gay person raised in a homophobic family often feels ashamed of not being straight, an aro person raised in amatonormativity will often feel ashamed of not being alloromantic. It's okay.

Things do get better - and I think it's worthwhile to say that I hated that phrase before things got better. The thing is - there are some things you can't control, and I'm not asking you to do that. I'm asking you to look at yourself now, and ask, what can I do to help myself? What can I change? Is there someone who never, ever shuts up about how much being single sucks in my life? Can I politely say, "hey, I understand this is important to you, but I'd really like to talk about something else. If we can't do that, I need to do something less depressing right now, and that can't involve you."

You will become proud in time. I promise you. You will gain more power in your life, and learn to use that power to change the messages you are forced to hear. When you aren't constantly hearing things that tell you to be ashamed of who you are, it's amazing how much it changes your life.