#unwanted children cost money

[scottguy]

Women are willing to risk their lives to escape the life-altering, poverty causing, crushing responsibility of being a single mother for over 20 years, their entire youth.

Every child should be a wanted child. Unwanted children cause crime. They cost food stamps and welfare. Republicans hate those expenses. So, what you right-wingers will just let all the children you FORCED on women starve to death?

Jesus would weep over Republican cruelty.

Roe wasn’t the beginning of women having abortions

Roe was the end of women dying from abortions

[bethanydelleman]

One thing that bothers me so much is when a woman wants fertility treatment and people are like, "Just adopt." I don't think people realize that you cannot "just" adopt.

My aunt is an adoption social worker, she's my source here because I couldn't find official numbers. In the province of Ontario, there are barely any private adoptions per year (child adopted without CPS taking the kid away). Probably lower than 60 total and that's out of about 16 million people. Why? Because unwanted babies are either terminated (this post is not the place to talk about this debate, this is just a fact right now) or adopted by family (ie: teenage mom's baby is raised by grandma). There are no private adoptions to be had.

Foster to adopt? Not for everyone because the point of foster care is actually to return the children to their parents. You can have a child for 2 years only for them to return to their parents at the end instead. That would break some people. That would very reasonably be too much for some people to take, especially people who desperately want to be parents. Also, fostering can mean taking on a lot of medical and psychological issues that some people don't feel able to deal with, financially and personally. I have a ton of respect for foster parents and people who foster to adopt, but not being able to take this on isn't a moral crime. Also, less children available than you think, in 2022-23, only 456 adoptions happened in Ontario.

International adoption? Don't make me laugh. Just check the news and learn about how it's the shadiest thing in the world. Would you like to learn in 20 years that your child was stolen and has parents? It also tends to cost a lot of money, similar to fertility treatment.

The easiest way to acquire a human child is to make one yourself, that is a fact in high income countries in the 21st century. Stop shaming people for trying to use what really is the only option a lot of the time. And I won't even get into the social pressures that make a woman feel lesser if she can't produce her own children or if you happen to have a criminal record and therefore cannot adopt at all.

[thepenguinweeb]

HeyyyyyyaaaAHHHHHHH! AHHHHHHHH! AHHH. Thank you for responding to my blatant begging for a Wamuu matchup.

Personality: I'm a very calm, patient person, and I try at all costs to not become angry or frustrated easily. I really just hate the feeling of being angry or frustrated, and I try to be sensitive and gentle with people instead of blunt or too forward. I can come off as quiet, even shy, but warm up to people quickly and will talk and or listen to someone for hours. I generally am very attentive and supportive of the people I care for, and one of my biggest dreams is to be married one day, though I don't want children. I think a downside of my personality is that I can be a little insecure, and the second I feel unwanted by someone in any way I close myself off completely and become cold, even if I really liked them. I also have a tendency to become very absorbed/intense about whatever thing I'm currently obsessed with. I consider myself very intelligent, especially in the traditional/academic sense, but am not as worldly or as experienced as I'd wish to be, since I've had a somewhat sheltered life in a small town.

I tend to stay in the background in social situations, wether I want to or not, and have always had many, but loose friends that I always kind end up drifting away from, and not many close relationships with anybody besides my family. I don't find it difficult to make friends, it actually comes very naturally to me, but I always seem to stay in that school/work friend dynamic, and never can really break that barrier into really being a close friend.

Hobbies: I am a huge classic literature fan, and read constantly, especially anything from the 1700's or 1800's, though I also particularly love Shakespeare, Jane Austen and the Brönte sisters. I'd say I always love a good story, no matter what medium it is in.

I also really love to bake, though I'm not much of a cook. But I love just baking some cookies or something with an old disney movie on in the background. I love horror movies, unless they're gory, and I read a ton of comics, especially the original runs of characters like Thor or Ironman by Stan Lee and Jack Kirby.

And I love love love to shop, at malls, thrift stores or antique stores, and especially bookstores, where I always spend too much money.

Looks: As for looks I'd say I'd be considered generally attractive, and have a very feminine look. I have very long, curly brown hair, brown eyes, and I'm narcissistically proud of my lips. I am also incredibly proud of my hair, and tend to it very diligently lol. I tend to dress in a casual but chic style, and always accessorize with jewelry, and wear lots of greens and browns.

[ ♡ Wamuu matchup for @undercover-monsterlover <3 ]

[ ♡ Notes: so happy to make more jjba content rahh!! Wamuu's my fav pillarman actually idc what anyone says. Alsoo go check out the lovely requester, they're a writer too and I think they deserve more recognition!! ]

First of all - Wamuu would really appreciate your calm personality. He himself isn't a very loud person (or.. Pillar Man) most of the time, so I think he'd actually prefer someone who's similar. You're quiet, and he likes that.

ON THAT NOTE, he absolutely adores if you cheer him on when he's fighting someone. He likes people cheering for him in general - but if that's you, it's as if he becomes better at things. More focused, more skilled. If anyone asked, he'd say you're his 'good luck charm'.

He's totally fine with you not wanting children. I don't imagine he'd be the type to want any, either. However, since he knows how big of a dream it is for you to get married, he would go all out on a proposal/wedding. Like, he buys you the most expensive ring he can (or, alternatively, steals it), makes sure everyone treats you well when the big day eventually comes, and chooses a spot he knows you love for your honeymoon.

I think he'd find your intelligence to be a very attractive trait. He equates it with nobility, and I imagine that was how you 'proved your worth' in his eyes. He doesn't say it out loud, but he loves when you teach him new things, especially concerning the modern age.. because, let's be honest, his old ass needs to learn a LOT about that.

He's lived a pretty sheltered life in his own way - I mean, basically the only people he has a good relationship with are Kars and Esidisi. So, he wouldn't mind at all that you don't have many close friends. Hey, he might consider that a bonus - after all, that means he gets to spend more time with you, right?

He loves when you talk about literature with him. He might be a brute who loves fighting, but I think he'd appreciate a good book every once in a while. If he sees you really getting into a specific book/comic, he might ask to borrow and read it, just so he could connect with you better trough it. Might flex that he's met some of the classic authors (I don't think that lines up with the timeline but it's funny, so).

Wamuu isn't exactly a movie guy. He doesn't understand why humans enjoy it so much, but for you, he makes an exception and sits down occasionally to watch one - even if only to see your face light up when you start talking about it in the end.

He likes to accompany you on your shopping trips. It's very rare that he buys a single thing for himself, but I think he'd be the type to buy something for you if he catches you eyeing it a little too much. He especially enjoys going to antique shops.

The man loves your hair, and he loves how proud you are of it. He will offer to brush it for you, if you let him, of course. He takes great care of it and tries to be as careful as possible.. though, it isn't always easy. Since he's fond of jewelry himself, he has no problem spending money to buy you some every other week. He loves to see you wear the jewelry he'd gotten for you. He will also offer to share his, even though they're a little too big for you.

Bonus: surprise smau muhahaha (it's not good but i tried 😭)

[2000sangel]

Omg high I saw your post for Adam headcannons and would totally love one! Ty!!!

Personality: I'm generally a very calm, patient person, and I try at all costs to not become angry or frustrated easily. I really just hate the feeling of being angry or frustrated, and I try to be sensitive and gentle with people I stead of blunt or too forward. I can come off as quiet, even shy, but warm up to people quickly and will talk and or listen to someone for hours. I generally am very attentive and supportive of the people I care for, and one of my biggest dreams is to be married one day, though I don't want children. I think a downside of my personality is that I can be a little insecure, and the second I feel unwanted by someone in any way I close myself off completely and become cold, even if I really liked them. I also have a tendency to become very absorbed/intense about whatever thing I'm currently obsessed with. I consider myself very intelligent, especially in the traditional/academic sense, but am not as worldly or as experienced as I'd wish to be, since I've had a somewhat sheltered life in a small town.

Hobbies: I am a huge classic literature fan, and read constantly, especially anything from the 1700's or 1800's, though I also particularly love Shakespeare, Jane Austen and the Brönte sisters. I'd say I always love a good story, no matter what medium it is in.

I also really love to bake, though I'm not much of a cook. But I love just baking some cookies or something with an old disney movie on in the background. I love horror movies, unless they're gory, and I read a ton of comics, especially the original runs of characters like Thor or Ironman by Stan Lee and Jack Kirby.

I like video games as well, but am embarrassingly bad at them. Like I always put them on the easiest difficulty level possible, and my only strategy consists of doing side quests and random bullshit until I'm so overpowered for the main storyline that I can finish a bossfight on the first try.

And I love love love to shop, at malls, thrift stores or antique stores, and especially bookstores, where I always spend too much money.

I also write smut for people online so there's that.

Hello there !! Thank you so much for requesting, and I hope you have a fun time reading!! ^_^ I had an annoying day so I couldn’t wait to get home and write some of these AHAHA

Warnings for : ...long. It's long!!! Divider Credit : strangergraphics

. * Adam x You Headcanons * .

The first thing that I thought of while reading your personality’s rundown is that you never have to worry about feeling unwanted by Adam, ever. You’re this man’s everything, and he’s not shy to show or admit that he wants your attention constantly. He’s a clingy lover, the only thing he might be closed off about could be whenever he’s feeling down because he’s a bit proud, but he either looks completely fine on the surface if it’s something small or he’s very fucking dramatic about it, so you can tell he’s not ignoring you on purpose. He’s got this slightly attractive habit of telling you outright that he wants to do something together or he just wants you to be close to him;

“What do you mean you have to get up...? I want you by my side, babe...” “Come sit. Want you here while I beat these guys’ asses on this new videogame I bought.”

Adam doesn’t mind you being more on the quiet side, it just means he gets to talk more about whatever’s happening when he sees Sera and how boring it is, about how that one restaurant you guys recently went to sucks ass at making ribs compared to the one before that, about this new awesome idea he’s had for a song... well, let’s just say he’s got quite a few arguments both for you two and to bring out around friends or strangers if you feel uncomfortable coming up with one yourself. He also loves listening to your own rants about things that you love or you’ve learned about, especially when you’re in bed or on the couch in the evening: he will start out half asleep, but get more and more into it by the minute and have very dramatic reactions about whatever you’re talking about, and ask a ton of questions as he’s not the best at immediately retaining information.

One of Adam’s favorite hobbies is teasing you, especially about the fact that you’re bad at videogames and can’t handle gory movies. He plays every game on the max difficulty and he’s the literal leader of the Exorcists! Of course he doesn’t mind some fake gore on a screen. Though he’s super eager to help you with videogames and hug your side with his wing while you watch anything with gore in it, every single time. He’s smug at first, but will eventually pull you into his lap and just enjoy whatever you two are doing in the moment.

 Adam’s also pretty lazy on days where he doesn’t have anything planned...but sure, he will accompany you if you decide to visit a store, whatever kind it is. He’s not too enthusiastic when it comes to bookstores, he will look more at the random things they sell on the side than at the actual books, but he doesn’t mind thrifting and antique stores. At first he was a bit bored, but everything changed when one day the two of you managed to go back home with a black Fender Stratocaster 1979, what he considers one of the best and most unique pieces in his electric guitar collection. Of course, he’s not knowledgeable in the history of most objects that reside in antique stores...but he now gets your fascination towards them and he’s got something to look for as well!

Overall Adam enjoys how many things he gets to learn every day while in a relationship with you. He also considers you very intelligent, and won’t shy away from telling you horrible pickup lines that are related to either how smart you are or something you know a lot about... he mostly does it jokingly and expects a cute or funny reaction from you, but he does mean the words he says.

I kept this for last because I thought it would be sweet; Adam is scared of marriage, hell, he was scared of getting in a relationship with you in the first place because he was not used to receiving that kind of love and attention every day anymore. So it takes a while and multiple conversations to get to a point where he’s comfortable with this, and you have to be patient, but eventually he does realize that you’re in fact not itching to leave him for another man and that reassures him greatly. So one time when you bring it up again, instead of having a full-on conversation about it, he just listens to you and eventually grabs your hands and smiles at you, the sincerest smile you’ve probably ever seen on him, or on a man for that matter. He’s ready.

Adam sucks at keeping secrets and doing things discreetly, but he tries his damn best to organize the perfect proposal because you deserve him doing this as much as he deserves you loving him. The idea of doing it during one of his concerts crosses his mind, but he surprises himself by scrapping it in favour of something more intimate: you wake up puzzled one day, your shared bed lacking the presence of your anything-but-early-riser partner.

It doesn’t take you much to figure out where he is though; the smell of something burning and the sound of his voice cursing Hell and all of its Sinners  immediately guide you into the kitchen, where he’s clumsily trying to make you breakfast...that was...supposed to be in bed. You giggle from behind him, and clearly see his ears going red at the sound of your snickering.

“Ugh...whatever, never trying to be romantic again, fuck...”

You sit at the already set table and enjoy something you manage to bake together after  a bit though, and he does laugh at your jokes, but he’s also a bit quieter than usual...which makes you start to overthink. The voices in your head quiet down however when he gets up and offers to wash the dishes, something he’s always hated doing, and tells you to not worry your little head about anything; he knows that look on your face by now.

Once he’s done he joins you on the terrace of your penthouse, where you’re pondering his overly sweet behaviour. One hug from behind and he makes his presence known to you.

He mumbles something...that you can’t quite catch at first, against your shoulder. Once you ask him to repeat that it surprises you even more how cheesy he sounds, telling you that he loves you more than anything, and that you’re the first thing that has made him truly feel like he’s residing in Heaven. He goes on and on about how sweet, talented and understanding you are, always making him feel like he’s worth something. And of course, how stunning; it’s mainstream to only talk about your facial features though, he decides, and so he moves on to how beautifully tender your hands are when you’re holding him and such.

You’re worried about him, at this point; so you turn around to face him...

...and he gets down on one knee.

[lovemelikerealpeopledo]

Lucius Spriggs is a nobleman HC

my personal hc which i love with all my heart and soul and which seems so real to me is that he is from a noble family. my judgments are based on the behavior of the character in certain situations, and i hope that there are those who also think so.

first of all, let's remember that Lucius knows how to write, can read, and draw beautifully (whatever his drawings are). as far as I know, not everyone could get an education at the beginning of the 18th century (when the series takes place). the ordinary working class had no access to education, and the ordinary family never had books, and no one exchanged letters. even clerical work was available only to those who had money or connections (most often family). for example, in the Russian empire (I am from Ukraine and studied its history), only the children of wealthy citizens or nobles could become clerical officials and any other workers that were in any way connected with writing and papers. to get such an education, one had to either hire personal teachers or attend boarding schools (lyceums), where education costs a lot of money.

the working class never had access to education and even those who lived in the cities rarely knew how to read. such luxury was available only to wealthy merchants, family business owners or doctors, who also did not come from ordinary families. education needs money. much money. and so it has always been.

even if we assume that Lucius learned to write, read, and draw on his own, it still seems unlikely. how? tell me how many of you learned this on your own. to start reading, you must at least learn how letters are read. if his parents are ordinary workers, then they most likely could not even write their own name (they would not need to). and Lucius was able and very legible.

second, his behavior. Lucius is squeamish about blood, does not like to work, and most likely simply does not even know how to do any difficult work. looking at him, I see a man who has never worked and never did anything himself. even household chores seem to him incomprehensible labor. it seems that he will not survive on the street for a week if suddenly he does not have a penny in his pocket. it’s just that a boy from a working-class district cannot be such a kid glove, because in those days children were attracted to real work from the age of 10 (sometimes even earlier). if so, then a Lucius who is at least 17 should be able to do a lot of menial work, and not shirk even the simplest task.

i would also like to remember that Lucius is not inclined to communicate only in obscenities and simple sentences. he can speak in hints, express his thoughts, and formulate sentences. he understands people well, and even with his free attitude to love and sex, he fucks anyone just for the sake of sex. this and much more speaks volumes about his level of education.

also, let's remember how back in the first episodes he was able to tell where to go based on his knowledge of the weather. believe me, a cat man has never been to school and has not been to the sea, he will not know this. to understand such things one needs knowledge in geography, biology, and astronomy. such knowledge is given only in lyceums or colleges.

Lucius, I think, left the house after learning that he was engaged to some noble lady or that his wedding was already planned. such marriages without the consent of the newlyweds themselves were not uncommon in those days among noble families who thought only about purity of blood, status, and wealth. for him, his own freedom is clearly higher than material wealth, therefore this is a completely expected step for him.

call me weird or challenge my headcanon but I can't shake the idea that Lucius Spriggs is a runaway aristocrat from an unwanted marriage.

[haro-whumps]

@ailesswhumptober day 4, "You're a monster" Also tagging @newbornwhumperfly

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Melody and Serena had been friends since they were both dumped in the same orphanage, unwanted children, one hated by her father for killing her mother, the other hated by everyone in general. Technically, an orphanage wasn’t really somewhere you were supposed to go if you still had a living parent, so Melody had gotten picked on by the other kids; their parents were dead, hers just hated her. Serena had stood up for her, knocking heads and leaving black eyes on the crying bullies, shouting at them that there was always more where that came from. It had cost her three baby teeth and plenty of black eyes over their time together, but it got the message across.

From then on, it was just them against the world. The two of them staying up late, scaring each other with stories of werewolves and vampires, always waiting just around the corner, ready to snatch up little orphan girls and turn them into monsters. They scared each other with less-real things, too, like ghosts and fairies and giant spiders the size of horses, but the plausibility of a werewolf or vampire snatching them up, stealing the unwanted orphans, always made the terror that much more real. They made each other peanut butter sandwiches and constructed wild stories out of sticks and handmedown dolls. They chased each other around the beat up, muddy grass that was more dirt than greenery, they switched clothes and stole their minders’ makeup, pretending at posh adults, they watched Little Orphan Annie on repeat, wishing for their own Daddy Warbucks and friendly dog.  

It wasn’t surprising, that when they were fifteen, hormonal, and curious, that they wound up being each other’s first kiss. Well, Serena had once kissed Jason behind the tree when she was six, but she’d been little and it had been a dare, so she didn’t count it. Melody was her first kiss, as far as she was concerned, the one that mattered. First girlfriends, first roommates, when they hit 18 and immediately got as far away from the shithole they’d grown up in as they could.

Serena dreamed of being an author. Of writing stories, the genre didn’t matter, horror, fantasy, slice of life, she dabbled in everything, stuck her toes in poetry and screenplays, did one atrociously bad standup comedy routine at a cafe’s open mic night that left the two of them giddy and laughing for reasons unrelated to her jokes, submitted short stories to zines and journals, threw longer pieces into the slush piles of publishing agencies, swore she’d make it by as a starving artist.

Melody, well. She’d never had anyone but Serena. And she’d never really had any aspirations of her own. She got a grueling job that paid well with long hours, and put every penny she’d earned into making sure Serena’s dream came true. She didn’t care about what happened to her, never had, never would, but Serena? She’d work twice her shit hours if it meant she could keep telling Serena “don’t worry about the money, baby, you just write your stories.”

Werewolf and vampirism were genetic conditions. The rumors that they could turn a human into one were just that: rumors. You were either born a were or vampire, or you were born a human, you had the genetic mutations or you didn’t. Simple as that. Easy.

Long held was the belief that procreation was impossible, between two people of different species. There was no mule equivalent of a half-were half-human, or a half-vampire half-were, or a half-human half-vampire. Unheard of that anyone would want to procreate with each other, their races locked in a multigenerational cold war that sometimes broke out in skirmishes that wound up with corpses on every side. To think otherwise would be impossible. And if you were a were, or a vampire, you knew from the day you were born, little fangs where milk teeth should be, fur across the back and shoulders as soft and downy as baby hair.

But Serena, at twenty five, was showing signs of—of being a werewolf.

The full moon had always made her a little twitchy, but now she could feel this thing inside her, this beast, a clawing, hungry thing that craved blood and meat and to run howling wild. Their apartment was small, carried by a single paycheck and occasional writing rewards, she and Melody shared a room, it was hard to hide from her girlfriend.

She could smell everything. Intense and distracting. She did dishes and cleaned up much more than she had, driven nuts by the smell of dust or soggy food stuck to plates or the general buildup that always favored showers and toilets. Melody smiled and kissed her and praised her for being such a responsible and impressive adult. Serena pretended she was just trying to pull her weight, the chemical smell of cleaner burning in her nose. 

She was growing hair on her arms. Hair on her chest, on her shoulders, on her back. The hair on her legs grew in thick and fast. She shaved everything, every day, relentless about her appearance like she had never, ever been before. Melody ran her hands over Serena’s skin and praised how smooth and soft she felt, now, how Melody had never expected this outta her but how fun it was to rub her hands up and down the length of her. Serena kissed her and kept the truth fully locked.

She desperately researched half-werewolves, latent werewolfcy, anything, anything that could explain what was happening to her. She told herself that if anyone asked, she could just say she was doing research for a story. It was perfectly in line. Melody would never search her computer anyway, but even so, she obsessively cleared her search history, just in case. 

It wasn’t enough.

It was never going to be enough. 

The truth was always going to come out eventually. 

“M-Melody,” she gasped, the too-sharp claws held out placatingly, hands up, fingers condemning.

“You—”

“Melody, it isn’t what it looks like,” she lied around fangs, the moonlight coming in behind her.

“You’re not human.”

“I—”

“You’re a werewolf.”

“Melody, no, it isn’t—”

“How long have you been lying to me!?” Melody demanded, disgust and fear and hatred on the face of the only woman that had ever loved her. 

“I, just a few months, I didn’t know what was happening to me, I still don’t, Melody please, trust me—”

“You slept in the same bed as me.”

“Melody, please—”

“On the full moon, for months, you’ve been sleeping in the same bed as me! All our lives!” 

“This didn’t happen to me all our lives! Please, Mel, I’m telling you the truth, it only recently started happening, and, and I don’t know what’s causing it and I, I, I’m scared, Mel, and I can’t stand to lose you, please, I don’t know what’s happening to me, I don’t want what’s happening to me, Melody please, please, don’t look at me, don’t look at me like—”

“You’re a monster.”

[beloved-darkness]

We live in a time where sex is free and love costs. Where losing your phone is more terrible than losing your morals. Where it's fashionable to smoke and get drunk and if you don't, you're an "old man" or a "boring woman".

Men cheat on their wives with girls and the other way around and if they don't cheat, the fear of being left dominates.

The bathroom became a photo studio. The virtual public presence to the normality. We live in a time when women are more afraid of an unwanted pregnancy than of the pregnancy itself. Where pizza delivery is faster than an ambulance.

Where clothes decide a person's "worth" and money has become more important than friends, even family. Where children are able to give up their parents for virtual love, where men and women want a non-committal relationship.

Where love has become a game in which you survive if you play with your head, and you lose if you feel with your heart.

What has this world become?

What has become of us?

[huntedhealer]

Daddy’s girl

TW: daddy issues

Dad,

I love you, but I can't have hateful people in my world. You and I have never seen eye to eye, and I have tried all my life to be tolerant of your beliefs and even to understand them, but I don't feel as though you've ever considered where I am coming from. You act like being a peaceful person makes me weak. You deny that you have ever caused me harm. You have done nothing but reject me since the day I was born and yet I'm meant to keep making efforts to include you in my life? Take a minute and consider why I might not want to do that. Really think about it. I'm tired of being the unwanted child.

I have so many people that genuinely light up whenever I walk into a room; and you should have been first in that line.

You never wanted a daughter.

You never wanted me.

Why does it suddenly matter to you that we speak? You never showed up for me. Not once. Every over-achieving task I burdened myself with in high school was to prove to you that I'm a good child, a good person, that I was good enough. And I was always those things, it was you that convinced me otherwise. I would love to have you in my life. I would love to see you love my children. I have been a mother for 14 and a half years. You saw my son once at the hospital. You've never even met my beautiful daughter. I don't think you realize just how much you lost when you decided not to love me.

I'm an incredible person. I love everyone so hard that sometimes it is to my own detriment. I have sought your approval since I learned to walk. You never gave it to me. I don't need it anymore. I'm approving myself. I am who I am in spite of you. I love where you hate. I heal what you harmed. You can spend the rest of your life trying to convince yourself that I'm the asshole, but I remember everything. I remember dancing on your feet but I also remember reaching for your hand and you literally shaking your arm to get me off of you like some kind of vermin. You never knew how to love me, and I don't even think that's your fault, but it is your responsibility to heal your wounds and learn how to love in ways that don't hurt. You have no idea how many times a day my mind plays the soundtrack of my childhood. "You're gonna end up 16 and pregnant just like your mother". "I never met someone who talked so much and says so little", "I hate you, you ruin everything".

And the funny thing is, even with all the hate and vitriol you aimed at me as a helpless child, in spite of your constant rejection of my very existence, the part that hurts the most is that you never even tried. Not once.

Not a track meet or an ROTC drill meet. Not one brain bowl or one homecoming. Not one honor roll ceremony. I’ve never heard the word “proud” come out of your mouth.

I tried so hard to make you love me, and when you didn't, I spent years trying to find someone who would. I didn't know what love was meant to feel like because you were the only example I had. I thought love screamed and hit and hated, so I loved men who did those things. It almost cost me my life.

It ended a life. You would never know, because how could you? You’ve never asked how I am. You never cared what I’m doing as long as it didn’t cost you time or money. How would you know that I’m a mother of angels? You couldn’t know. You weren’t there when I cried so hard I threw up.

You weren’t there when I made a makeshift memorial in my backyard. You weren’t there for the days that followed. Pretending to be ok for my son. You weren’t there.

And now I have a precious daughter. The most beautiful girl on earth. Her daddy loves her. He reads her stories every night and tells her that she's beautiful and strong and capable. She is all the things you stole from me. You were given such an incredible and precious gift, and you did everything you can think of to destroy it. You only destroyed my need for your presence in my life.

I'm almost certain that I will never see you again, and I have made my peace with that. I have grieved for the father I never had all my life. I have never stopped loving you. Not one moment of my life, but I have stopped begging you to love me back. You are getting old and you are realizing now that you need someone who loves you more than ever. You need help and care and support that I just can't give you.

I refuse to tear open the wounds I've healed in your absence for your benefit. All you ever had to do was to keep me safe, to keep me warm; and you couldn't.

You didn't.

You chose WRONG.

You kicked a child out in favor of your wife. You knew she lied about me and chose to side with her anyway, and when she said "it's me or her"; you chose wrong.

You took me away from my brother. My dog. My home. You threw me away. You didn't even have the decency to keep up with our "daddy daughter dates" once a week while I lived with your brother; who is a good, kind, patient and loving person. You ruined me. Why on Earth would I want you in my life? I'm not a masochist. I have suffered enough.

You have a choice.

You can continue to blame me for everything and the decline of our relationship at the age of 11; or you can take responsibility for your wrongs and fight to prove you deserve to be in my life.

I already know which path you will take, but it doesn't stop me hoping you will prove me wrong.

I knew you for 13 years.

I haven't known you for 23.

You've become a stranger; one filled with hate.

Love overflows and fills every cup, hate has left you an empty husk.

I love you. Goodbye dad.

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Reading this with the CJtheX book club.

Chunk one includes the below writings, and here are my partially digested thoughts on each essay in this chunk.

Skywoman falling

"they could not even imagine what beneficial relations between their species and others might look like?"

I don't blame her for approaching the creation narrative in Genesis with this take, but it doesn't sound at all like Eve was banished just for tasting the fruit. The biblical scholars from whom I have learned have always maintained that this was the only fruit she couldn't have, and that she was tricked into it, and that not trusting God and his word was the sin. But Eve had been placed in the garden not just to be banished, but originally to be a gardener herself.

And then when she was later an exile, it didn't seem like it wasn't still gardening that she was supposed to do - it was just now a more unpleasant gardening.

This all reminds me of the Make Gifts for People advice that John Green gave in his one video a while ago.

I saw a video that then pushed me to a Ted talk about how we all can learn from indigenous people, but the speaker also said that being indigenous was not the thing that the descendants of colonizers should aim for. And I was confused by that, but accepted it as a consequence for the sins of those who came before me and whose actions I now benefit from, at a cost to others' ancestors.

For all of us, becoming indigenous to a place means living as if your children's future mattered, to take care of the land as if our lives, both material and spiritual, depended on it.

So when Kimmerer says this, I'm sort of lost. As a descendent of colonizers (or at least of white people who were favored after the Initial Colonizing),I don't really know what I'm supposed to do.

The council of pecans

Love the idea of mast fruiting. Interesting science there. I don't have much more thought on that particular essay though.

The gift of strawberries

For the plant to be sacred, it cannot be sold.

The connection between a gift and something sacred is category expanding for me. Will have to dig into why.

Hm. Ok. I recently received some birthday money in a card. I hate cards, and don't know how to handle them, because they are usually a decent paper and are sometimes quite pretty,but they have generic poems in them and I don't really want to keep a box of generic poem papers around just because they were once gifts. So when the money came and the cards came (and I had a shit birthday, but that wasn't important) I just grabbed the cash and recycled the cards, as has become my typical response to unwanted paper. And that felt shitty, but I didn't really know why. And I wanted to respond to my gift givers, but I didn't (and still don't) know how. This validated that conviction I had that it was shitty, and has me resolved to go call my grandparents.

The idea of a gift economy sounds like heaven. It feels like the early church's impromptu socialism, and like when I get to give lots of candy to kids on Halloween. It makes me sad that we don't practice it.

The Lewis Hyde quote about gift economies, where he notes that it is more in harmony with how nature itself behaves, it snagged my attention for a bit.

I struggle to understand how geese are offering their lives as a gift to us when they are shot down and hunted. It totally makes sense that she calls it a theft of the life of a chicken in a factory farmed cage, but is it not theft of life to kill and eat a wild goose? (Not a vegan out of lack of energy, but I totally understand how those with the executive function to be vegans would come to that conclusion. I can console myself that at least I don't eat a ton of meat myself, but it's not like that absolves me by any stretch.)

Much philosophy out there makes me think of what kind of World we have. This book has me thinking about what kind of World we should have cultivated, and has me more convicted than anything else, more aware of the need for justice and restoration. In light of this, it's hard to feel satisfied by any worldview that doesn't bring what we've done to our world back into line.

The commodity economy has been here on Turtle Island for four hundred years, eating up the white strawberries and everything else. But people have grown weary of the sour taste in their mouths.

An offering

The coffee feels like a tithe

The concept of ceremony bringing our attention to a part of reality is part of what has me still attending the Anglican church, even now, as I'm not certain whether I really believe in Christianity or if I just received it from our culture and assimilated to try to fit in. I could have forgone church entirely, but I was too frightened to totally do that, and anyway there's something about the ritual that feels Real in a way that the goddamn non-denominational church's worship didn't.

What else can you offer the earth, which has everything? What else can you give but something of yourself?

Asters and Goldenrod

I feel a parallel, in my autism and how I felt as a teen, to her experience of having her love of plants and desire for botanical knowledge get crushed because she didn't know the right words to communicate what she knew deeply. Something about that story and her emotion calls me back to wanting to study psychology because I care about people (when really I was lonely and wanted to understand them so I could not be lonely anymore. Also, special interest) and being told that wasn't a viable career option. Ugh.

Science as a way of knowing is too narrow for the task... I should have been told that my questions were bigger than science could touch.

I feel like this essay speaks to my thirst for understanding and concrete foundational truths about religion and worldview. Science is too narrow for it, but also I needed a time of testing what science (or I suppose, skeptical philosophy) is capable of doing for us in the area of worldview, and it has also been a great new environment in which to be absorbed.

I received some Goldenrod in my garden last year just by random chance. This has me wanting to put asters in as well, replacing the invasive honeysuckle bush that threatens to overgrow every few months.

Learning the grammar of animacy

The idea of scientists naming things has always brought my mind back to the Eden narrative, where Adam is assigned the task of naming the animals. Naming and gardening were the two things we were asked to do. It makes sense that science and art would be so captivating to us.

What lies beyond our grasp remains unnamed.

The boarding schools thing has me, a very left human, feeling like we need less government so they can never do something like that again. (But I know that's an emotional reaction - not really a solid national plan.)

I envy her ability to teach herself a language so important to her.

Fuckin love that Yawe means "to be" and sounds like Yahweh - "I am".

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have you seen LEYLA KAPLAN around the crash site? we’re trying to make sure they’re still alive after the crash! according to the manifesto SHE is a 30 year old CIS WOMAN. i hear they’re known being a PRIVATE INVESTIGATOR (independent). LEYLA is also known to be TENACIOUS yet also SUSPICIOUS at times. we have a couple questions for LEYLA when we find HER, we heard something about a secret they might have? such as SHE’S BEEN LIVING IN THE USA UNDER FALSIFIED DOCUMENTS! 

basics.

full name: leyla kaplan

gender & pronouns: cis woman, she/her

age & dob: 30 years old / december 17th, 1970

birthplace: istanbul, türkiye

orientation: bisexual

occupation: private investigator

face claim: melisa pamuk

character study.

alignment: true neutral

personality type: istp-a

temperament: choleric

zodiac: sagittarius

history.

If her birth parents ever particularly cared for her, Leyla doesn't know. She has no memory of them at all, her early life spent in the halls of a cold orphanage. A runaway by the age of eight, most of her adolescence was spent on the streets of Istanbul along with the other unwanted children. It was a rough childhood, but it taught Leyla survival, something that would suit her well as she grew.

Being quick, observant and clever made for opportunity; what started out as simple tail jobs, a little spy in all but name for some jealous lover or greedy rival, blossomed into what would eventually become Leyla's career. She had a knack for it, that ability to squeeze herself in exactly where she wasn't wanted, even against the odds of those that did not want to be found. It was good money — or good enough, at least, to no longer live on the street. While an official job title was never taken, those who had information they wanted ferreted out would often find themselves standing at Leyla's door.

It was at the age of twenty-five that the brunette turned her attention abroad. While Türkiye had always been her home, Istanbul seemed more of a cage than a welcome, the memories attached to the city bittersweet. It had taken years to accrue the money for relocation, official immigration or VISA application was out of the question for an orphan girl with no real documents to confirm her existence. But her line of work had put her into contacts with a less than upstanding side of the city, including a forger capable of creating documentation that could get her into the United States — at a hefty cost. It was one Leyla agreed to pay, though, setting her sights on the California coast as her site of a fresh beginning.

It was a rough go at the beginning, but Leyla was no stranger to survival by the skin of her teeth. Putting the skills she had learnt in Istanbul to use, she slowly began to build a new life for herself, eventually even obtaining a small office space for official inquiries. The apartment she rented was shitty and small, but it was hers, and more importantly, it felt like home. It was a life she was proud of, until the day it was suddenly ripped away through her fingers.

present day.

It was her job ultimately that drew Leyla onto the fateful Flight 78. A wealthy spouse, intent on proving her husband's infidelity, certain his business trip to Sydney was actually a cover to go meet his lover had hired her services. Leyla was meant to follow him there — being on the same flight was a matter of convenience, that there would be no time for him to slip away at the airport gates — and collect proof of his cheating liaisons in order for her client to use in the inevitable divorce. If only she'd known the ramifications of what taking that job would be.

skills.

Though it has been some time since her days on the streets of Istanbul, Leyla has not forgotten what it felt like to have an empty belly. She knows how to ration supplies, is not too proud to eat what others would turn their nose up to. There's a wariness to her nature that never fully trusts, always sleeps with one eye open, and is well-versed with lack of typical comforts. At her core, she is a survivalist first.

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Swimming Pool Domes: An Innovative Solution for Pool Protection

As pool owners, protecting your pool from the elements is crucial for maintaining its cleanliness, water quality, and overall longevity. With unpredictable weather patterns, fallen debris, and seasonal changes, outdoor pools can become hard to maintain. This is where the swimming pool dome steps in as a perfect solution. Offering year-round protection from environmental factors, a pool dome enhances the pool experience by ensuring cleaner, safer, and more energy-efficient swimming. In this article, we will delve into the benefits, functionality, and cost-effectiveness of a dome.

What Is a Swimming Pool Dome?

A swimming pool dome is a protective cover designed to enclose a pool, offering shelter from weather-related elements such as rain, snow, and debris. Made from durable materials like polycarbonate or acrylic, these domes are transparent, allowing sunlight to enter while still shielding the pool from contaminants. There are two common types of pool domes: retractable and permanent.

Retractable domes offer flexibility, allowing users to open or close the dome as needed based on the weather.

Permanent domes remain fixed over the pool, offering constant protection, regardless of external conditions.

Both designs effectively enhance the overall pool experience and maintenance.

Key Benefits of a Swimming Pool Dome

A swimming pool dome offers multiple advantages, including protection from the elements, energy efficiency, extended swimming seasons, and enhanced safety. Here are the key benefits,

1. Protection from Environmental Elements

A pool dome acts as a barrier between the pool and its external environment. Whether it’s debris from trees, dust, or contaminants in the air, a pool dome keeps unwanted particles out of the pool. Moreover, the dome also shields the pool from extreme weather conditions such as heavy rain, hail, or snow, which could potentially damage the pool and its equipment.

This protection saves time and money spent on cleaning and maintenance. Pool owners can enjoy a consistently clean pool with less frequent filtration or chemical adjustments.

2. Temperature Regulation and Energy Efficiency

One of the significant advantages of a dome is its ability to regulate water temperature. During cooler months, outdoor pools can become too cold to use. However, the dome's transparent material allows sunlight to naturally warm the pool water, reducing the need for additional heating systems. This passive solar heating minimizes the need for costly energy-consuming heaters, making pool management more energy-efficient.

By trapping heat inside, a dome keeps the pool water at a comfortable temperature, allowing for extended use throughout the year. This feature is especially valuable in regions with colder climates or during shoulder seasons like fall and spring.

3. Extended Swimming Season

For many pool owners, the swimming season typically ends when the weather gets colder. A dome eliminates this limitation by creating an environment that enables you to swim all year long. With the added warmth and protection, pool owners can enjoy their pools during the cooler months, extending the swimming season by several months.

Moreover, retractable domes offer flexibility in terms of opening up the dome during warmer months to let in fresh air or sunlight, making it ideal for both chilly and sunny days.

4. Safety and Security

In addition to protecting the pool from weather, a swimming pool dome can also offer enhanced safety. The dome provides a physical barrier, preventing children or pets from accidentally falling into the pool. This added safety feature can be especially valuable for families with young children or animals that have unsupervised access to the backyard.

Furthermore, some pool domes come equipped with locking mechanisms or secure access points to keep unauthorized individuals or animals from entering the pool area.

Cost Savings and Maintenance

While the initial investment in a pool dome may seem high, it can save money in the long run through reduced energy bills and fewer maintenance costs.

Energy Efficiency: As mentioned earlier, the dome helps regulate the pool's temperature by trapping heat, which reduces the reliance on pool heating systems. This significantly lowers the energy costs associated with heating the pool, particularly in colder regions.

Lower Maintenance Costs: By preventing debris from entering the pool and protecting the pool surface from weather-related damage, the dome minimizes the time and cost associated with cleaning and maintaining the pool. You will spend less on pool chemicals, cleaning supplies, and repairs due to reduced exposure to harsh weather conditions.

Considerations Before Installing a Dome

Before opting for a pool dome, there are a few considerations to keep in mind:

Size and Fit: Ensure that the dome is sized appropriately for your pool. Pool domes come in various sizes, so it’s important to measure your pool and select a dome that fits both your pool’s dimensions and the space around it.

Cost: The price of a pool dome can vary depending on the type (retractable vs. permanent) and materials used. It's essential to factor in installation costs, as well as the long-term savings the dome will provide in terms of energy and maintenance.

Durability: Look for a dome made of high-quality materials, as this will determine its lifespan and resistance to environmental factors. A durable dome will not only stand up to harsh weather but also save you from having to replace it frequently.

Maintenance: While pool domes are generally low-maintenance, it’s still necessary to keep them clean and in good condition. Consider the ease of cleaning and maintenance when selecting a dome for your pool.

Why Swimming Pool Domes Are Gaining Popularity

The increasing popularity of pool domes can be attributed to several factors, including:

Energy efficiency: With more people becoming environmentally conscious, the cost-saving aspect of pool domes has gained attention. Their ability to conserve energy and reduce heating costs is a big draw for pool owners looking for sustainable solutions.

Year-round use: Pool owners no longer have to close their pools during the colder months. A dome allows for extended use and enjoyment, making it a desirable investment for many.

Safety: Pool domes offer added security by preventing accidents. As safety continues to be a major concern for families, pool domes provide peace of mind.

Aesthetic appeal: With various designs and options available, pool domes can complement the look of your pool and backyard. They offer a sleek, modern appearance while providing all the benefits of protection.

Your Trusted Provider 

If you’re considering installing a swimming pool dome, Covers in Play is here to help. Specializing in high-quality, durable pool domes, Covers in Play offers a wide selection of models to suit different pool sizes and budgets. With a focus on customer satisfaction and expert installation, covers in play ensure that your pool remains protected and functional year-round. Their domes are made from UV-resistant, weatherproof materials, guaranteeing long-lasting protection and minimal maintenance.

Conclusion

In conclusion, swimming pool domes offer a range of benefits, from protecting your pool from weather conditions to extending the swimming season and enhancing safety. While the initial investment may seem significant, the long-term savings on energy bills and maintenance costs make pool domes a worthwhile investment. As pool owners seek more efficient, cost-effective, and practical ways to manage their pools, domes are becoming an increasingly popular solution. By investing in a pool dome, you can ensure that your pool remains clean, safe, and ready for use throughout the year.

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Residential Fence Solutions in Fairfield County: Expert Fence Installation & Repair

A residential fence is more than a boundary; it’s an important part of beautifying, securing and safeguarding your home. If you’re trying to keep your pets safe, protect your property, or simply elevate your curb appeal, you want to make sure you hire the right fencing company. Fairfield Fencing Company is the go to choice for all fencing needs for homeowners in Fairfield County, OH.

In this article, we will discuss the benefits of residential fencing, factors that determine the need for installation, and why Fairfield Fencing Company is the best choice for homeowners in Fairfield County.

Why a Residential Fence is Essential for Your Fairfield County Home

Fencing serves many purposes beyond marking property boundaries. Here are some reasons why installing a Residential fence in Fairfield County is a smart investment:

Fencing is for more than marking property boundaries. Here are some reasons why installing a residential fence is a smart investment:

1. Enhanced Security

A physical barrier, a sturdy fence, keeps unwanted intruders off your property. It also creates a children's and pets safe playground where you don’t have to fear they will wander off.

2. Increased Privacy

A well designed fence can give you the privacy you desire in your outdoor space. It’s particularly important for homes in areas where there’s a lot of comings and goings.

3. Boosted Curb Appeal

A good fence can improve how your property looks. Fairfield Fencing Company has a wide variety of materials and designs to choose from to match your home’s architectural style.

4. Property Value Addition

Installing a professionally installed fence can increase the value of your property dramatically. This feature your home has is a great one for potential buyers and, since this is such a competitive real estate market, it makes your home an attractive one for buyers.

Factors to Consider When Choosing a Residential Fence

Choosing the right fence for your Fairfield County home is important. Here’s what you should keep in mind:

1. Material

Fairfield Fencing Company offers a wide range of fencing materials, including:

Wood: Wood fences are creative and beautiful and as classic as they come.

Vinyl: Vinyl fences are durable and low maintenance so if you want something long lasting, vinyl fences are the way to go.

Aluminum: Aluminum fences are perfect for decorative purposes, they’re lightweight and rust resistant.

Chain-Link: If you want to fence off larger properties and you have to worry about money, chain links are an affordable and practical option.

2. Purpose

Find out why you need a fence. Is it for privacy, security, aesthetics or a combination of all three? Knowing what you want to achieve will help you pick the right design and material.

3. Local Regulations

Fairfield County has zoning laws and regulations relative to fence height, placement and materials. We know these rules and your fence will comply with local guidelines.

4. Budget

This will have a great deal to do with your budget. The team at Fairfield Fencing Company works with homeowners to help them find cost effective solutions without sacrificing quality.

Why Choose Fairfield Fencing Company in Fairfield County?

Fairfield Fencing Company has been in business for years in Fairfield County and has become known for top quality craftsmanship and excellent customer service. Here’s why homeowners trust them:

1. Professional Expertise

The Fairfield Fencing Company team works with a variety of materials and styles. They always know what to do, so every project they do is done to the best of standards.

2. Customized Solutions

They are no two homes and hence provide personalized fencing solutions that meet your needs and preferences. They can do classic picket fences or modern designs, in fact anything you want.

3. Affordable Pricing

Fairfield Fencing Company provides high quality work at competitive prices. Transparency is their middle name, they give you transparent quotes with no hidden fees, so you can make informed decisions.

4. Local Knowledge

Being a company from Fairfield County, they know what the local community needs. They’ve got you covered whether you’re working with uneven terrain or specific zoning regulations.

The Residential Fence Installation Process

When you work with Fairfield Fencing Company, you get a smooth experience. Here’s what to expect:

Consultation: It starts with a free consultation to discuss what you want, what you like and how much you want to spend.

Site Evaluation: A detailed estimate is provided by their team, who visit your property to assess the site.

Design and Material Selection: They help you choose the perfect fence design and material based on your input.

Installation: With their skilled team, their team uses state of the art equipment and techniques to install your fence with precision.

Final Inspection: When the job is finished, they hold a very thorough inspection to make sure everything has been done as you would expect.

Repair and Maintenance Services are provided.

Fairfield Fencing Company also provides full repair and maintenance services besides installation. Their team is there from fixing broken panels to reinforcing weak sections, so your fence stays in top condition for years to come.

Contact Fairfield Fencing Company Today!

If you are considering installing or repairing a residential fence in Fairfield County, Fairfield Fencing Company is ready to help. Homeowners in the area know that they are the top choice for quality, affordability and customer satisfaction.

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Why Professional Tree Stump Grinding Is Worth the Investment for Your Property

When a tree is removed from your property, the stump often remains behind, leaving an unsightly and potentially hazardous eyesore. While some homeowners may consider leaving the stump in place or attempting to remove it themselves, professional tree stump grinding offers numerous benefits that make it a wise investment for your property. From enhancing your landscape to preventing future issues, stump grinding is an essential step in maintaining a safe and beautiful yard.

Improved Aesthetics and Curb Appeal

One of the primary reasons homeowners opt for professional stump grinding Charlotte NC is to improve the overall appearance of their yard. A tree stump can be an eyesore, especially if it is in a visible area of your lawn or garden. Over time, stumps can become overrun with weeds, moss, or fungi, making them even more unattractive. By hiring experts for stump grinding, you can ensure that the stump is completely removed, leaving a smooth, level surface that can be reseeded or repurposed for landscaping purposes.

Safety Considerations

Tree stumps can pose a significant safety risk, particularly if they are located in high-traffic areas of your yard. They are easy to trip over, especially for children, elderly family members, or guests who may not be aware of the hazard. Stump grinding eliminates this risk by completely removing the stump and any exposed roots, creating a safer environment for everyone. If you're wondering about tree stump grinding near me, professional services can address these concerns quickly and efficiently.

Preventing Pest Infestations

A tree stump that is left to decay can attract a variety of pests, including termites, ants, and rodents. These pests can not only damage your property but also cause long-term structural issues if they spread to nearby trees or buildings. This proactive approach can save you from costly pest control treatments and property damage down the line.

Prevents New Growth

When a tree stump is left untreated, it can sometimes sprout new shoots or suckers. These shoots can quickly grow into new trees or shrubs, which may not be desirable for your landscape. Stump grinding completely removes the stump and its root system, preventing any new growth from occurring. This ensures that your yard remains free from unwanted vegetation.

Increased Property Value

A well-maintained yard can significantly increase your property’s value, and stump grinding plays an important role in this. An unsightly stump can detract from the overall appeal of your home, making it less attractive to potential buyers. If you’re considering selling in the future, a well-maintained landscape can make a big difference in how quickly your home sells.

Cost-Effective in the Long Run

While the cost of tree trimming cost near me or stump grinding may seem like an added expense, it is actually a cost-effective solution in the long run. By removing the stump, you are preventing potential issues such as pest infestations, new growth, and damage to lawn equipment. With professional help, you’ll save time, money, and effort while ensuring the job is done right.

Professional tree stump grinding is an investment that pays off in both the short and long term. Whether you're looking to increase your home’s value or simply create a safer, more attractive yard, stump grinding is a smart choice.

The author is a home improvement expert specializing in tree care and removal services. They provide expert advice on maintaining a safe and beautiful landscape. Visit https://aaatrees.net/stump-grinding/  for more details.

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Why Tree and Stump Removal on the Gold Coast is Essential for Your Property

Tree and stump removal is an important part of property maintenance on the tree and stump removal gold coast. Whether you’ve recently had a tree fall or need to clear a space for new landscaping, removing trees and stumps is essential for safety, aesthetics, and overall property health. Here’s why professional tree and stump removal is crucial for your Gold Coast property.

The Importance of Tree and Stump Removal on the Gold Coast

Enhance Your Property’s Appearance: A tree stump or even a fallen tree can quickly become an eyesore in your yard. For homeowners looking to create a beautiful landscape, removing trees and stumps is the first step in transforming the outdoor space. By eliminating these obstacles, you open up the possibility for planting new trees, adding gardens, or even installing outdoor structures.

Safety Concerns: Old or damaged trees can pose a serious safety risk to your home and family. Storms and strong winds, common on the Gold Coast, can cause trees to fall or damage existing trees. Stumps, on the other hand, can be a tripping hazard, especially for children and pets. Professional tree and stump removal ensures that any dangerous elements are removed, making your yard safer for everyone.

Preventing Pest Infestations: Both dead trees and tree stumps are prime habitats for pests such as termites, ants, and fungi. These insects can spread to other plants and even your home, causing damage. Tree and stump removal eliminates these potential breeding grounds, keeping your property safe from harmful infestations.

Avoid Unwanted Growth: Left unchecked, tree stumps can produce new shoots and roots, leading to unwanted growth. This can be frustrating for homeowners who are trying to maintain a neat and tidy yard. Stump removal is the best way to prevent new growth and ensure that your landscaping efforts are not hindered by regrowth from an old tree.

Benefits of Professional Tree and Stump Removal Services on the Gold Coast

While it may be tempting to try and remove a tree or stump yourself, professional services offer several distinct advantages:

Speed and Efficiency: Tree and stump removal is a labor-intensive process that requires specialized equipment. Professional tree removal services on the Gold Coast have the tools and expertise to complete the job quickly and efficiently, ensuring minimal disruption to your property.

Safety and Expertise: Removing a tree, especially a large one, requires knowledge of proper techniques and safety precautions. Professionals are trained to assess the risks, handle the job safely, and ensure the tree and stump are removed without causing damage to your home or landscaping.

Environmental Responsibility: Professionals are committed to environmentally responsible practices, such as recycling and disposing of tree debris properly. This ensures that your tree and stump removal is handled in a way that minimizes the impact on the environment.

Cost-Effective: Although hiring professionals might seem like an additional expense, it can save you money in the long run. DIY tree and stump removal can be dangerous and lead to costly mistakes. By hiring experts, you can avoid the risk of damage to your property or injury, ensuring the job is done correctly the first time.

Conclusion

Tree and stump removal on the Gold Coast is a crucial service for homeowners looking to maintain a beautiful, safe, and healthy property. Whether you need to remove a fallen tree, eliminate a stump, or prevent future growth, professional tree and stump removal services can help. Reach out to a trusted team today for a free quote and enjoy a cleaner, safer, and more beautiful yard.

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How Scrap Car Removal Helps Declutter Your Property

Having an old, unused car on your property can be more than just an eyesore—it can take up valuable space, attract pests, and even pose safety hazards. Fortunately, scrap car removal in Toronto offers an efficient and eco-friendly solution. These services help you clear out unwanted vehicles and bring several additional benefits. Here’s how scrap car removal helps declutter your property and improve your surroundings.

1. Freeing Up Valuable Space

An old car parked in your driveway, yard, or garage occupies space that could be used for other purposes. Removing a scrap vehicle creates room for parking, storage, or open space for outdoor activities.

Examples of Space Benefits:

Convert a cluttered garage into a workshop or home gym.

Open up your yard for landscaping or recreational use.

Free driveway space for new vehicles or visitors.

Reclaiming this area can make your property more functional and appealing.

2. Improving Aesthetics

A rusty, broken-down car doesn’t do any favors for the look of your property. Removing it can drastically enhance the overall look and feel of your home.

Visual Benefits:

Clean, uncluttered spaces make your property look well-maintained.

Boosts curb appeal, especially if you’re considering selling your home.

Prevents your property from becoming an eyesore in the neighborhood.

A tidy yard or driveway reflects positively on your property and makes it more inviting.

3. Enhancing Safety

Old vehicles left unused can pose safety risks. Rusted metal, sharp edges, or broken parts can cause injuries, if you have children or pets. Additionally, leaking fluids like oil or antifreeze can contaminate the soil and create hazards.

How Scrap Car Removal Enhances Safety:

Eliminates risks of accidental injuries.

Prevents toxic fluid leaks that could harm the environment and your health.

Reduces the chances of attracting pests or vermin that might make the vehicle their home.

Scrap car removal ensures your property is a safer place for everyone.

4. Reducing Environmental Impact

Leaving a scrap car on your property is inconvenient and can harm the environment. Rust, leaking fluids, and other contaminants can seep into the soil and groundwater causing pollution. Scrap car removal services handle vehicles in an eco-friendly way.

Environmental Benefits:

Recyclers properly dispose of hazardous materials, such as batteries and oils.

Usable parts are salvaged and reused, reducing waste.

Scrap metal is recycled, minimizing the need for new raw materials.

Choosing a professional scrap car removal service helps you contribute to a cleaner, greener environment.

5. Simplifying Maintenance

A neglected car can make your property untidy and disorganized. Grass and weeds may grow around it, pests might nest inside, and debris can accumulate in and around the vehicle. Scrap car removal reduces these maintenance hassles.

Maintenance Advantages:

More accessible lawn care and landscaping without obstacles in the way.

No need to clean up after pests or deal with accumulated debris.

Reduces the spread of rust or other decay to nearby objects or structures.

Simplifying your property’s upkeep is another reason to consider scrap car removal.

6. Financial Benefits

Many people don’t realize that removing a scrap car can be a source of extra cash. Professional scrap car removal services often pay you for the value of your vehicle, even if it’s no longer running.

How It Helps Financially:

Earn money for the car’s metal, parts, or scrap value.

Save on repair or maintenance costs for a vehicle you’re not using.

Avoid potential fines for abandoned vehicles or property code violations.

Instead of losing money on an unused vehicle, you can turn it into an asset.

7. Supporting a Cleaner Neighborhood

Removing scrap cars improves your property and the entire community. A cleaner neighbourhood benefits everyone and can even increase property values.

Community Impact:

Prevents the area from looking run-down.

Reduces potential environmental hazards that could affect neighbours.

Encourages others to declutter and maintain their properties.

Your proactive step can inspire a positive ripple effect in the community.

8. Convenient and Hassle-Free Process

One of the biggest advantages of scrap car removal services is how easy they make the process. Most services handle everything, from car towing to paperwork and recycling.

What You Can Expect:

No need to transport the car yourself—services come to you.

Quick removal, often completed in a single day.

Assistance with transferring ownership or deregistering the vehicle.

This convenience means you can declutter your property without stress or effort.

Conclusion

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The Importance of Professional Stump Grinding Services Near Me in Bensenville, IL by Traditional Tree Care

Professional stump grinding services in Bensenville, IL, are essential for maintaining a safe and attractive landscape. These services efficiently remove unwanted tree stumps, preventing hazards and promoting healthy growth.

Stump grinding is a crucial step in tree care. It eliminates unsightly stumps that can detract from your yard's appearance. Leaving stumps can lead to pest infestations and fungal growth, which may harm other plants. Professional services ensure that the grinding process is quick and safe, protecting your property from potential damage.

Local experts use specialized equipment to grind stumps below ground level, making them disappear without a trace. This not only enhances the beauty of your yard but also allows for easier landscaping options in the future. Choose professional stump grinding to ensure a clean and healthy outdoor space.

The Need For Professional Stump Grinding Services in Bensenville, IL

Professional Stump grinding services are essential for maintaining a safe and beautiful yard. Leftover tree stumps can create serious issues for homeowners. Removing these stumps improves the overall appearance of your landscape. It also eliminates potential hazards that can affect your family and guests.

Safety Hazards Of Leftover Stumps

Stumps can pose various safety risks. Here are some common hazards:

Tripping Hazards: Uneven ground can cause falls.

Pest Attraction: Stumps can attract termites and other pests.

Obstruction: Stumps can interfere with lawn maintenance.

Root Growth: New roots can damage underground utilities.

Removing stumps reduces the risk of injury. A clear yard allows for safe play areas for children and pets. Professional stump grinding ensures the job is done right, reducing future problems.

Aesthetic Benefits Of Stump Removal

Removing stumps greatly enhances your yard's appearance. A clean landscape looks well-maintained and inviting. Consider these aesthetic benefits:

Improved Curb Appeal: A neat yard attracts positive attention.

More Space: Stump removal frees up usable land.

Design Flexibility: A clear area allows for landscaping options.

Healthier Lawn: Stumps can hinder grass growth.

Professional stump grinding transforms your yard into a beautiful space. It removes unsightly stumps and promotes healthy plant growth. Enjoy your outdoor space without the clutter of leftover tree remnants.

Professional Vs. Diy Stump Removal

Choosing between professional stump grinding and DIY methods can be tough. Many homeowners in Bensenville, IL, want to save money. However, understanding the risks and benefits is crucial.

Risks Of Diy Methods

DIY stump removal may seem like a cost-effective solution. Yet, it comes with significant risks:

Injury Risk: Using heavy tools can lead to accidents.

Property Damage: Improper techniques may damage your yard.

Time-Consuming: Stump removal can take longer than expected.

Inadequate Results: DIY methods often leave roots behind.

Environmental Concerns: Chemicals can harm local plants and wildlife.

Advantages Of Hiring Professionals

Hiring a professional stump grinding service offers many benefits:

Benefit

Description

Expertise

Professionals know the best techniques for safe removal.

Proper Equipment

They use specialized tools for efficient stump grinding.

Time Efficiency

Experts complete the job quickly and effectively.

Root Removal

Professionals ensure all roots are removed, preventing regrowth.

Safety

They follow safety protocols to prevent injuries.

Professional stump grinding services in Bensenville, IL, offer peace of mind. Avoid risks and ensure a clean yard with expert help.

Traditional Tree Care: Your Local Expert

Professional Stump Grinding Services in Bensenville, IL

Finding the right stump grinding service is essential. In Bensenville, IL, Traditional Tree Care stands out. We offer expert solutions for your tree care needs. Our team is dedicated to providing top-notch service.

Qualifications And Experience

Our team possesses the right qualifications. We have trained professionals with years of experience. Here are some key points:

Certified arborists on staff

Specialized stump grinding equipment

Years of hands-on experience

Knowledge of local tree species

Understanding tree health is vital. Our experts assess each situation carefully. This ensures the best approach to stump grinding.

Customer Satisfaction Focus

Customer satisfaction is our top priority. We aim for happy clients at every job. Here’s how we achieve this:

Clear communication from start to finish

Timely service without compromising quality

Post-service clean-up for a tidy yard

Follow-up to ensure satisfaction

We listen to your needs and address any concerns. This builds trust and long-lasting relationships.

Choose Traditional Tree Care for your stump grinding needs. Experience the difference with our local expertise.

Stump Grinding Techniques

Professional stump grinding services in Bensenville, IL, offered by Traditional Tree Care, ensure safe and effective removal of unwanted tree stumps. Utilizing advanced techniques, they enhance your landscape's appearance while preventing potential hazards. Trusting experts saves time and effort, making your yard both beautiful and functional.

Stump grinding is a specialized process. It removes tree stumps efficiently. Professionals use advanced techniques for effective results. Understanding these techniques helps homeowners choose the right service.

Latest Equipment Used By Professionals

Professional stump grinders use modern equipment. This equipment ensures quick and safe stump removal. Here are some tools commonly used:

Stump Grinder: A powerful machine that grinds stumps into mulch.

Chainsaws: For cutting down large stumps before grinding.

Excavators: Used for larger stumps or roots.

Wood Chippers: Turns leftover wood into mulch.

Equipment

Purpose

Stump Grinder

Grinds stumps into small pieces.

Chainsaws

Removes large stumps before grinding.

Excavators

Dig out stumps and roots.

Wood Chippers

Creates mulch from leftover wood.

Eco-friendly Disposal Methods

Disposing of stump debris can be eco-friendly. Professionals use various methods to minimize waste. Here are some common practices:

Mulching: Turning stumps into mulch for gardens.

Composting: Decomposing wood into organic matter.

Recycling: Utilizing wood for other projects.

Choosing eco-friendly options helps the environment. It reduces landfill waste and promotes sustainability. Professional services prioritize these methods for a greener outcome.

Benefits Of Timely Stump Grinding

Timely stump grinding offers many advantages. It helps maintain your yard's beauty and health. Professional stump grinding services in Bensenville, IL, can transform your outdoor space. Here are the key benefits:

Preventing Infestations And Disease

Stumps can attract pests and diseases. Insects like termites and beetles love decaying wood. They can spread to healthy trees and plants. Stump grinding removes the decay and prevents infestations.

Reduces pest attraction

Minimizes risk of tree diseases

Protects surrounding plants

By grinding the stump, you eliminate hiding places for pests. This action keeps your yard safe and healthy.

Promoting Healthy Lawn Growth

Stumps take up valuable nutrients in the soil. They can block sunlight and water from reaching your grass. Grinding the stump allows grass and plants to flourish.

Benefits of promoting healthy lawn growth include:

Benefit

Description

Improved Aesthetics

Enhances the overall look of your yard.

Increased Space

Provides room for new plants or features.

Better Airflow

Allows better circulation for grass and plants.

Timely stump grinding promotes a vibrant, healthy lawn. It encourages growth and makes your yard inviting.

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