#unorthodoxtherapy

[singlemamamarried]

Walking into #GeminiSeason like 🥰 And just like fine wine, I get better with age. #AskMyHusband Today is my birthday #May25, and it’s the first year I didn’t make a big deal out of it. I actually was thinking of what can I do special for my husband, our birthday is 3 days apart. But seriously.. I woke up to missed phones calls, texts, FT, DMs all wishing me a very happy birthday.. and let me just say.. EVERY #HappyBirthday matters. Birthdays are special, and it really made my day. I pray God continue to guide me and make me wiser, to remind me to use my heart over my mind, love authentically, share honestly, and give women hope with my story. My life is far from perfect but I was reminded today (From my husband) that I lived a lot of life, and I’m so happy to finally slow down and take this opportunity to live unapologetically. #ThisIs37 Click the link on my profile and join me free monthly on my virtual #safespace categorize in #Motherhood #Marriage #SingleLife #SingleMama and #ASDParenting #MotherOfThree #HotMomSummer #SingleMamaMarried #UnorthodoxTherapy #Mindfulness #LoveYourself #bombshellmommies #Mama #mamagothergrooveback (at Philadelphia, Pennsylvania) https://www.instagram.com/p/CPUnY3sgD40/?utm_medium=tumblr

[acrosc]

I hope you feel better soon

thank u  ♥

[broken-lycan]

Hi there! I love your blog, and I just finished watching Hannibal (*screams for more*) I was wondering if you had any recs on stuff related to the show if you are willing to share? Interviews, fics, metas, anything! Just obsessed w it rn and need some direction lol. Thank you either way!!

hi! :D (and thank you!)

eyyy welcome the fandom!!!! *throws confetti*

I’m not that active in the fandom anymore but I’ll see what I can scrape together! :D

I have a bookmark collection on ao3 with some cool fics I read. tho its Hannibal and Hannibal extended universe (a kind of parallel fandom where Mads’ and Hugh’s characters from all kinds of shows and films are being shipped with each other)

as for meta I can’t really remember much sadly. but here is the meta masterpost by @he-s-dead-jim

and while we’re on it @he-s-dead-jim also made some very good funny/cracky posts. there is the unreliable narrator series there’s also the some summary required series which is basically episode summaries but funny and a bit ironic

and if you’re looking for further light entertainment, funny stuff and crack and want still active blogs definitely follow @byk23 (makes the cannimal sanctuary comics) and @avegetariancannibal (makes brilliant crack posts and writes funny fic that will brighten your day)

some big blogs mainly moved to twitter (where I’m not really active) so idk what became of them

but for general blog recs (who might also be able to tell you more) there’s these: (They’re not all exclusively Hannibal but neither am I so *shrugs*) @hannibalism  @diemetzgermeisterin @mistikfir @victorineb @crisisoninfintefandoms @amatesura @strangestorys @h4nnibalism @fannibaling @licensetocannibalize @fuckyeahhannigram @fuckyeahhannibal @sofancydancy @strongwillgraham @idontfindyouthatinteresting @hanni-bunny-lecter @foyernormanchapel @graham-muffin @wtfannibal

and some artists: @wisesnail @tony-of-the-trees @jlsdrawings @hcnnibal @suii-ne @brokendeathangel @chiyo-lecter @pangaeastarseed @martinvampire @theseavoices @unorthodoxtherapy @artistlin8 @cherohero @limas-art @furiarossa 

@fannibalgallery (they reblog lots of fanart)

I hope this is helpful!

I quite possibly forgot some ppl. so if anyone wants to add on to this pls do!

[unorthodoxtherapy]

i told my friend that i was sick, so tomorrow he’s coming to my place and we’re going to watch movies together!! i’m happy :’D

[miasmatik]

FANNIBAL APPRECIATION DAY!

Since it’s #FANNIBALAPPRECIATIONDAY, here’s a few peeps that I am thankful for!!! ((This is by no means a complete list, all of y’all are amazing & I have a terrible memory & there are people I can’t remember the urls of LOL))

WARNING: Some sappy feels under the cut XD

@lovecrimemp3 -- You were my first friend in the fandom :) Thanks for always being so supportive and for sharing your talented self with us thru your writings as well!! #CryptidCrusaders4Lyfe and we will write that suburban mom hannibal fic someday

@le-wendigogo -- As a zombie, “SOFT FLOWER BOYS <3″ is not really a thing I ever thought I would be saying, but your art makes me do it every time. Thanks for bein so sweet & talented & for drawing great smut ;) 

@punkrockaryastark -- I hope one day you will post more amazing art of your own, but keep being cool and I’m glad to know ya! <3

@carrioncrowned -- Stop being so amazing all the time jfc

@felidfannibal -- Your talent for lighting and dramatic painting makes me cry also tag me if you draw more Will in bondage at any point, no pressure

@pangaeastarseed -- I love your colors always!!!! And once I’m less distracted by real life, I’d love to talk more <33

@granpappy-winchester -- You were one of the first artists I saw Hannibal fan art from, and your unique and graphic style drew me in!! 

@kerushi-fanart -- Keep doing what you’re doing! I love your style(s) :))

@donutdraws -- I love your work & had a blast with our collab!! :)

@edge-o-matic -- RAVENPUDU SAVED MY LIFE

@desperatelyseekingcannibals -- I love what fics of yours I’ve read so far, but also thank you for being the first person to reach out to me about my fan art!! Just that small lil message you sent me a few months ago made me feel super inspired & eager to keep contributing to the fandom, so thanks so much :’)

@funkyracoon -- I love my online zombie boyfriend + your art and fics, you talented lil nocturnal creature

@apocalypsis-marexus -- LOVE YOU BRO, omw to visit you in post-commie grain land

@vulcanplomeeksoup -- I love you even though you said you’re gonna be mean to me now :) i know it’s just bc you’re afraid of the intense emotional bond we share and are afraid of drunk tweeting me your feelings

@redfivewritingby -- I miss you & I still can’t wait to read your Jaws AU fic!!! But thanks for being super cool & supportive & for knowing the good bars ;P

@the-winnowing-wind -- Thanks for welcoming me to the fandom (and back to NYC) with open arms!! Kaiba 4 lyfe

@sunshinegrahams & @sourwolf -- My love for y’all is queer culture. Can’t wait to see you again <333

@nim-lock -- GAAAAAYYYYYYYYYY <33333

And a few other talented peeps I haven’t actually talked to much, but I always love to see work from and/or get excited when you pop up in my notes haha: @fragile-teacup @theseavoices @mxpopsiclestix @thisismydesignhannibal @thenecronon @nephila-clavipes @hannigram-hell @mindyoursugarlevels @postmortemdesign @allionne @moku-youbi @emungere @octovenin @victorineb @fuckinberzerk @beatricenius @pragnificent @transylvanianshipper @apoptoses @meduszoa @dark-will-graham @sirenja-and-the-stag @unorthodoxtherapy

[kyaramaya]

@unorthodoxtherapy proof

[singlemamamarried]

Who else has changed their logo over 5 different times? Since inception of #UnorthodoxTherapy I’ve changed the logo like 10 different time, redesigned the website like 5 different times because I just want something that will stick to me.. welp this is it y’all. I’m done redesigning my logo and given we are now officially a community a #NonProfitOrganization I can’t keep changing it haha.. Who else struggle with their #SmallBusiness design? #communityovercompetition #phillyMentalHelarh #PhillyNonProfit #communitylove #Organization #nonprofitsofinstagram #NonProfit #nonprofitlife #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealthmatters #mentalhealth #womenMentalhealth #womensupportingwomen #womeninbusiness #womenempowerment #womenownedbusiness #philly #soulphilly #phillytherapy (at Philadelphia, Pennsylvania) https://www.instagram.com/p/CHwVYWjADb3/?igshid=fii20wg6jr74

[pka42]

Getting To Know You Meme

I got tagged by the lovely @bonearenaofmyskull. Thank you! <3

1. Are you named after someone? Named after the daughter of a former neighbor. My Mom just liked the name. My Dad wanted to call me Oxana, so I’m glad I ended up with something different.

2. When was the last time you cried? I cried a lot of tears when I listened to this a few days ago:

Man, I just love Final Fantasy VIII so much.

3. Do you like your handwriting? I like it, no one else does. People have a hard time reading it. It’s not particularly feminine, but very twirly.

4. What is your favorite lunch meat? I don’t eat meat.

5. Do you have kids? Yes:

I don’t really want any human children.

6. If you were another person, would you be friends with you? Probably not. I never reach out first unless I want something, I’m awkward around others, pretty egoistic... I’m not a good friend, in general, I’d say.

7. Do you use sarcasm? Not as often as I used too, but yeah.

8. Do you still have your tonsils? Yes.

9. Would you bungee jump? I would, but it’ll probably be like most thrill rides: I won’t be allowed because of my weight.

10. What is your favorite kind of cereal?

There’s nothing healthy about this, at all, but it’s sooooo good.

11. Do you untie your shoes when you take them off? Only if I have to.

12. Do you think you’re a strong person? Emotionally, probably, because I don’t often feel stuff and can stay very calm in stressful situations. Physically? No.

13. What is your favorite ice cream? Ben & Jerry’s Cookie Dough. The one and only. Apart from that, I’ll kill for good bubblegum ice cream, but most of it is horrible.

14. What is the first thing you notice about people? I honestly don’t know? Most people I meet, I meet online, so the first thing I notice is their use of punctuation and emoticons.

15. What is the least favorite physical thing you like about yourself? I have those weird lappets next to my eyes that make it impossible to apply decent make-up. No idea what they are called.

Other than that, my weight.

16. What color pants and shoes are you wearing now? Blue jeans and no shoes (who wears shoes at home?).

17. What are you listening to right now? The video from question 2.

18. If you were a crayon, what color would you be? Black. Maybe purple, if I’m lucky.

19. Favorite smell? My ex ex-boyfriend. My nose generally falls in love first and I dig human smells. My nose isn’t very sensitive, though.

20. Who was the last person you spoke to on the phone? My mom, to answer question 1. Before that, I watched the two latest episodes of the Path with a friend over Skype.

21. Favorite sport to watch? Wrestling! Well, I used to watch it. Now I watch no sports anymore.

22. Hair color? Dark brown. I was blonde as a kid, but my hair just gets darker and darker.

23. Eye color? Blue-grey-green, as my ID says. It depends on who I ask, and on the light conditions.

24. Do you wear contacts? No.

25. Favorite food to eat?

I really like chocolate, okay?

26. Scary movies or comedy? Don’t really like either. Scary if I have to choose. I don’t get scared by movies, but horror video games are really bad for me.

27. Last movie you watched? *checks Letterboxd* Lion! It was pretty meh, but God, if Dev Patel isn’t the cutest.

28. What color of shirt are you wearing? Dark blue top and blue-teal-white plaid shirt. (Will would be proud.)

29. Summer or winter? Winter. I love snow, I hate hot summers.

30. Hugs or kisses? Kisses!

31. What book are you currently reading? I’m working my way through Lynn Flewelling’s Casket of Souls. I have been doing so for a year now. I really liked the first three books in the Nightrunner Series, but I’ve lost interest over time. I don’t really read much anymore, and if I do, it’s mostly fanfic.

32. Who do you miss right now? No one. Pretty content, overall. I’d like to go back to RDC though, just to have a chance to talk to more Fannibals!

33. What is on your mouse pad? I don’t have mouse pad. I use my desk chair as my mouse pad, because I’m operating my PC from the couch. : D

34. What is the last TV program you watched? I don’t watch TV! If Netflix counts, it’s House, M.D.

35. What is the best sound? Birds singing? Mads Mikkelsen talking? My cat purring (which he never does)? I just don’t know.

36. Rolling Stones or The Beatles? The Beatles.

37. What is the furthest you have ever traveled? Germany to Cyprus, when I was three years old. I think my trip to RDC3 was the longest distance I have traveled on my own.

38. Do you have a special talent? I don’t think so?

39. Where were you born? I could tell you, but you could also listen to this song that everybody in Germany knows and that basically gives you the answer.

You are welcome.

I’m tagging @cervolina and @unorthodoxtherapy and @vi0lentquiche . And @ter0rr because they post the weirdest shit on my dash and I want to know more about the person behind it!

[winterfalconx]

Happy birthday

Thank you, ilu (◕‿◕✿)

[goodbyedrivethru]

to be honest, when I get really sad or extremely upset I just go onto YouTube and watch countless hours of Bob Ross' The Joy of Painting. Bob Ross is my hero.

[unorthodoxtherapy]

lol silly question but did you change your url recently?

aah, it’s not silly, don’t worry i imagine this must be because of my drawings’ signatures?i didn’t change this blog’s url*, i’ve just been signing with my artblog’s name (mokeia) because i’m too lazy to write “unorthodoxtherapy” on every drawing, bfasjkdhashvdjahs*i did change my artblog’s url once though (unorthodoxartist -> mokeia) but that was a while ago

[mahalo831]

We wanna #hookah bout it #lowkey on bday night for @apizz33 3⃣rd wheelin 🚗🚗🚗 tho #hookahsesh #unorthodoxtherapy #dimepieces (at The Olive Mediterranean Grill and Hookah Lounge)

[kyaramaya]

tagged thingy!

I got tagged by the lovely @unorthodoxtherapy ! I love your art btw!!!! Sorry it's late =...=

Alright, let's get right into this! So...

Rules: Tag 9 people you want to get to know better! 

@unorthodoxtherapy (does that count if I got tagged by u lol) @jadebots @sensualthoughtsofstevebuscemi (yes u too babe) @obviousvirus (anD U TOO) @thescyfychannel @bobabird @masked-singer @galactibun @thatsthat24 (lol why not I love him)

1. What's your age? 16!

2. What's your current job? I'm just a student but I've been thinking of applying for a job at a father-and-son run ice cream shop by my house and/or opening commissions.... but I'd have to improve my art first TT^TT art improvement is hard 

3. What are you talented at? Um..??? Idk if I'm good enough at anything to be called talented? I'm pretty ok at writing, and I sing and dance a lot... I'm in musical theatre so that's gotta count for something, right? And my art is pretty ok too? And  i just started a PURELY ART art blog so follow me @kyarairo if you can?

4. What big goal are you working toward? I want to write and publish a book by the end of the year! I already have a few chapters done and most of the book planned, but I haven't been able to make myself write in a long time... aye.. I'd also like to improve my voice and my art! I started a YouTube channel for me to translate and make my own translyrics and sing them, but when I made it my voice was really gross and when I heard my own voice I just shut it down... maybe soon I’ll post something not disgusting??

5. What is your aesthetic? X-Files, blurry photos of cryptids, smokey pictures... but I also love grandiose ballrooms and gowns and anything with pearls! But I also like dreamy and psychedelic stuff too... I actually have a suggestion blog based off that lol it's @phantasmagoricalsuggestions hmu there

6. Do you collect anything? I have a bunch of fabric I haven't used and a lot of books I can't bear to throw away...oh and anything Labyrinth, be it copies of the movie, soundtrack, art, or books, I have it all... I can see 2 pieces of Labyrinth merch from where I'm sitting~ ❤️

7. What is a topic you're always up to talk about? Human rights, especially women's and lgbtq+, Hannibal, witch and tarot, writing/literature, Mystic Messenger, art, fanfiction, hunter x hunter, vocaloid

8. What’s a pet peeve of yours? I really hate it when I say something and someone just ignores me, talks over me, or says the same thing I do and takes all the credit for it.... it happens a lot and it’s terrible :/

9. Good advice to give? Try to go to bed at a reasonable hour, I never get enough sleep ;v; also try to get three meals a day! I do bad with this too

10. Recommended 3 songs? (Sorry they’re all vocaloid... i just grabbed them off my vocaloid playlist bc i cant choose just ONE [or three] David Bowie songs  and I’m terrible at decision making--)

All I Need Are Things That I Like (https://youtu.be/d_kPtSNW0ts)

A Palette Full Of You (https://youtu.be/6HZHo07_V6Y)

My R (English, rachie cover) https://youtu.be/AOV2c0TiPpI

[singlemamamarried]

So excited to share with you all our next guest which will air next Wednesday! 11/25/2020 We’re going to take things down a notch and talk about #PostpartumDepression #Miscarriage #UnhealthyThoughts and how to survive 3 losses before getting her #RainbowBaby. You don’t want to miss 2 part series. If you find yourself experiencing something similar I highly suggest you tune in next Wednesday and listen to our special guess share her intimate story. #Motherhood #PregnancyLoss #IVF #MotherhoodThroughInstagram #Depression #Anxiety #Mama #NewEpisode #MentalHealth #NewPodcast #PhillyPodcast #Podcast #UnorthodoxTherapy #Therapy #TherapyIsntAlwaysClinical (at Philadelphia, Pennsylvania) https://www.instagram.com/p/CHqcawZgKw4/?igshid=k7e097xfy5h5

[singlemamamarried]

You would think because I planned this pregnancy, I would be happy. I am. I just can’t control my #depression. Right now... I started my #therapysession in August 2020. It was hard just finding the right therapist. But after shuffling through 3 different ones, I found one who I can talk to, a therapist who’s engaging, but also holding me accountable, challenging me to be better, helping me understand my condition but most importantly pinpointing key indicators to help me understand why I feel the way that I feel. I now see both a therapist and a psychiatrist and boy did that feel good to tell y’all that yes! I’m seeing a mental health dr because I need to figure out a way to channel these emotions. Especially with #Covid I see both my psychiatrist and therapist 2x a week and let me just tell y’all this shit helps man. Many of you don’t know but I lost a huge part of me earlier this year, and truthfully speaking I still haven’t really gotten pass it. I think I do a lot of ignoring. And living my day in and day out just not having to face the fact that the man I called father is no longer around. As I’m typing this I’m having a really hard time so I will stop here. I just want y’all to know that finding the right therapist or psychiatrist is no different than finding a guy you like to date. If you get lucky you may find your match the first go around. I challenge you to challenge your #therapist with questions to make sure they are good for you. The goal is to get out of seeing a therapist and a #psychiatrist so there’s should be actionable steps on how you can improve during each session. Just because you prayed for something, planned for something and things actually go your way but for whatever reason you don’t get this joy of relief, please don’t beat yourself up. It’s so much deeper than that. There’s a whole #mental battle you’re dealing with that you may not even know you’re going through... #Therapy #UnorthodoxTherapy #wellnessjourney #wellnesswednesday #wellnessthatworks #wellnesstherapy #wellness #Prenatal #PrenatalDepression #plannedpregnancy #postpartumdepression #postpartumjourney #pregnancy #pregnancydepressionisreal #pregnant (at Philadelphia, Pennsylvania) https://www.instagram.com/p/CHcRNlbATzD/?igshid=102ntabuvezot

[singlemamamarried]

Did you know??? Yassss hunnay! We are not only just a Podcast we are a whole organizational community committed to #WomenMentalHealth in an Unorthodox way... LetMeExplain Yes we have a Podcast and we use that platform to help introduce those who are reluctant to seek #ClinicalTherapy by sharing relatable stories from women who have healed from their journey or in the process of healing! But in addition to our podcast what truly makes us a #NonProfit is that we seek #GovernmentFunding and #LocalPartnership to introduce different outlet for women who needs supports outside of traditional #TalkTherapy such as #YogaTherapy #ReikiHealing #WomensCircle #safespace #WomensRetreat #WomensConference #Meditation #soundbathmeditation #Hiking #OutdoorActivities #Glamping #SpaDay and so much more! We seek events valued at $25 or less to promote, and events priced higher than that such as conference and retreats will be noted. But theres great news.. you may very well qualify to participate in these events at a fraction of the cost or free of charge! Yes FREE! Because money or insurance should not be the reason why you don’t take care of your #MentalHealth and #SelfCare and this is why we are a NonProfit in #Philly and why our name is #UnorthodoxTherapy StayTune for details on our process, how to qualify, when to apply for particular events that interest you.. etc.. meanwhile if you are a women in business in Philly or surrounding neighborhoods and would like to join me on this journey of healing women one story at a time please visit us and click on the link above! I can’t wait to share with you all the details coming 2021! #womensupportingwomen #womeninbusiness #womenmotivation #mentalhealthmatters #mentalhealthrecovery #phillynonprofit #phillypodcast #phillymentalhealth (at Philadelphia, Pennsylvania) https://www.instagram.com/p/CHyfjWjAv_j/?igshid=1jokxwj3a60ad