#tw mention of death threats

[yourlocalbadgerscales]

Isn’t it weird that I, who follows every Jegulus related tag there is and countless Jegulus obsessed people and their blogs, can’t seem to find the toxic side of the Jegulus shippers? Like, ANYWHERE? I haven’t seen a single toxic Jegulus shipper yet. I HAVE, however, seen TONS of Jily shippers being toxic and even going so far as telling Jegulus shippers to go die. And although I love Jily too, I don’t follow any Jily tag at all (at closer thought, maybe I should. Anyways-).

So tell me, Jegulus haters… if you hate it so much, why aren’t you blocking the tags and moving tf on? How come you find all the “toxic Jegulus shippers”, and I find NONE?

Not denying that there might be some tho, just saying it’s really ODD…

Edit: Anti-jegulus ppl do be finding more and better fanart, fics and headcannons than me… how the hell are you doing it?? Teach me your waysss

[shotapiss]

Being an antishipper has fucked up my life more than I would like honestly

I don't want to know how people can live while harassing others for the sake of morality

Saying stuff like "KILL YOURSELF" or "YOU DESERVE WHAT HAPPENED TO YOU" to fucking people who are either minors or just doesn't enjoy problematic stuff but still doesn't want censorship for it

Like god can y'all for once realize that these are actual human you are talking with rather than a humanless ai with no feelings

It makes me fucking uncomfortable when someone mentions me having "sexual thoughts" for my family members in a fucking stupid argument

The fact that people could say this without a second thoughts is crazy

The fact that people can desensitize their humanity for the sake of protecting fictional characters is just batshit insane

I don't know how you can live while saying all of this to an actual human being WITHOUT feeling remorse

What do you get from this honestly??

Do you get happy at the fact that you made another teenager fear their thoughts and think they are "not fitted" to be an anti???

Do you get fucking joy from harassing people???

Do you feel sadness at the fact that you made another proshipper kill themselves??

Or do you feel better that you get rid of the "bad evil groomer who enjoys PROBLEMATIC FICTION"??

[jarofmoonz]

I took a mini hiatus from tumblr sorry !!!! I kept on getting d* ath th*eats in my inbox from being myself and how ugly my art was-

but I am back!!!! I’m turning anon off for now for my own safety <3

[that-cunning-witch]

im sorry people are being cunts to you on the taylor post, if it helps your response was very well said and youre right (and it made me follow you)

aw, thank you! <3

i'm not so much upset about people disagreeing with me so much as their default argument being "taylor should kill herself" or "you should kill yourself", instead of, y'know, actual criticism, or better yet just ignoring the artist and their music and moving on...?

anyways, thanks again! glad to know i'm not crazy for thinking it's stupid to base if someone's "actually gay" or not on their music taste :)

[outivv]

Hey guys!! Don’t use my request inbox to send death threats. That would be like super cool!! Thanks!!

[bakudanma]

No cause this kid in my class wonders why I hate and feel uncomfortable around him when he:

1. calls me stupid on a daily basis

2. misgenders me

3. hates women/fem presenting peeps like myself (legit said he hated women and insults anyone who is fem presenting)

4. Posted explicit death threats on yt and bragged about it

[notverycolonthreeofyou]

Happy I hate fireworks day 🥳

[soljierpg]

Asking some of ggst faves for help

[proshipconfessions]

This has been said before, but I won’t be shy about saying it again. (Tw for mention of death threats and anti bullshit)

I’m getting kinda tired of proshippers repeatedly reposting screenshots of antis’ vicious and violent threats to us and making some shallow, matter-of-fact comebacks to them that the antis will never listen to anyways.

I don’t wanna be seeing constant reminders of how much antis hate me and want me dead or “converted” when I’m just trying to go through the proship tags. Especially not from OTHER PROSHIPPERS. We should have each other’s backs…

I even see people neglect to trigger tag these posts, or choose to tag them as “proship positivity” just because they slapped an affirmation below some anti’s Pinterest caption about victim blaming a minor for writing icky fanfiction.

I know it’s easy to do, and makes you feel affirmed, and fun in some way. But we need to be mindful when we do shit like this— and we need to take breaks from constantly engaging with Anti shit.

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[draw-the-squad-like-this]

Draw your... characters...?

[yourlocalbadgerscales]

Fellow Jegulus shippers!

If you like Jegulus and you’re not in the mood to receive death threats for it, please block @jilyserrr immediately <333 Love you all! Stay safe 🫶

To prove that my accusations aren’t false:

‼️⚠️TW‼️: Death threats, cursewords.

Lemme know if I forgot anything, loves! 🫶

[waywardsunlight]

Dadrius Week- Day One- Puppet Special thanks to @badgirlcoven-official for helping with Belos's dialogue!! For @sergeantsporks's dadrius week!!

Bonus…

[furiousgoldfish]

I have an update about this situation, which if you didn't read it, was about me finding out that my parents are searching for me, going door to door and asking people on the street if they know me, even asking with my fake name. They found someone who did know me, and they chatted, and this person later called me and told me what had happened, to which I freaked out, asked them not to share any details about me, and explained that I had ran away due to violence and that I'm terrified of these people.

Now knowing that my parents are out there looking for me, I spent the next few weeks locked in, afraid to go out, only going to work and back, and sometimes disguised so I wouldn't be recognized. I didn't run into anyone on the street, nobody came to my door, I didn't get any other phone calls, so I eventually relaxed and decided that it was okay to be outside, even if they are looking, unless they find me directly where I live, I could easily escape on bike, and they wouldn't know where I went.

The other day I got the phone call from the person who talked to my parents, and they asked me to come over, to be gifted some extra clothing. I was scared, worried that it was a trap, that my parents somehow got this person to cooperate and to bring me to them, but I decided to be brave and go anyway, since the chance of this was very low, and on the phone they reassured me that I could forget that last situation. Still, when I got there I startedly looked around to see if anyone was in there, but it was all empty.

I got some extra details of what happened; it was my mother and a friend looking for me, my father was not present. This person admitted to actually knowing me, and where I live, so my parents know someone who is in contact with me right now. However the person didn't share my address with them, which is why I was still safe.

Then the person revealed they actually got a call from my mother later that day, and they had an argument over the phone. The person repeated what I had told them – that I ran because of violence, because I was forced to work to deserve to eat and sleep there, because of death threats, torture, neglect, and my mother responded angrily 'You don't know what kind of trouble they were causing me!'. Then my mother still tried to convince this person that she cares about me and is worried about me, but the person rebutted with 'you should have cared when they were younger', and when my mother wouldn't stop asking for information, the person said that if she calls again, the police will be called and hung up.

Now this was very interesting to me, firstly my mother getting a police threat upon trying to find me, that is extremely good, satisfying, reassuring, positive, made me so happy. I was in a good mood for the rest of the day just thinking about what kind of reality-check that must have been, to have other people threaten with police and stand in their way of getting to me. I feel it was the first time someone actively protected me and it feels like I've been waiting my whole life for that to happen, and I never thought it would.

Second thing is her 'you don't know what kind of trouble they were causing', because she wasn't even denying the accusations of violence and torture! She blatantly did admit that yes, I had to work to deserve to live as a child, I was beaten, neglected, I was threatened death, I was kept in sub-human conditions, but she just felt it was justified! Because I was 'causing trouble', which is a lie, I did everything she asked me when I was a kid. It's like she still thinks me standing up to her violent abusive husband was 'me causing trouble' excuse me why did you marry that thing, and then never stood up to it? I had more backbone as a child than she has as an adult and this was 'me causing trouble'. I stood up to him because it was the right thing to do, because he was attacking me and my siblings, what do you mean I was causing trouble defending rest of the family from violence and absorbing it so the rest of you wouldn't have to. Ungrateful lying coward.

And also her saying I was the awful troublemaker doesn't check out with the rest of her story; if I was such a menace why is she out there looking for me? Why is she not blessed that I am gone and she can finally enjoy your life? Would you actively seek out someone you have to control with death threats from how much trouble they're causing to you? The lie is falling apart.

This has me very calmed down and grateful that not all people are cowards and unwilling to stand up to abusers. I've never seen this before, in my experience, people were always ready to bow down to my parents and see me as an ungrateful horrid creature who needs to be put into their place. This person has known me enough to see that I'm honest, fair, hardworking, kind, accommodating, they even told me that they can see there's nothing twisted about me. They understood that my situation is one of a struggle and that I have to work hard to survive, and often expressed that I struggle too much compared to others. And this isn't someone I'm on constant contact with, we talk once a year. I was surprised they picked up on this much.

I'm feeling better about the situation now I understand I was defended, I'm not that afraid anymore. I did get upset that my mother is trying to convince people that I was just so bad I deserved all, but at least not everyone believes it. I mean, it's ridiculous for anyone to believe a child could possibly deserve this, but I know a lot of people who do believe that. I thought everyone would side with my parents forever. Feeling better knowing there's one person who sided with me, when it was crucial for my safety.

[a-sip-of-milo]

Ableist: You're not discriminated against! Stop trying to get sympathy

Also Ableist: *Sends death threats to cluster B's for the act of simply existing*

[feyres-divorce-lawyer]

“we’re the PEACEFUL AND RESPECTFUL ppl who actually love elain and would never ship HER with an abuser, wishing abuse on elain is DISGUSTING and so are you if you ship her with AN ABUSER”

oh that’s not…

[xitsensunmoon]

I've been thinking about sharing this here for a very long time and now it reached a point when I'm so upset I just can't be silent anymore.

Almost immediately after creating this account, the first thing I did was to put "Ukrainian artist" in my bio.

Shortly after that, I got a few asks with death threats, disturbing and just horrible words about my nation and culture. I was called a nazi, a fascist, and just a pig. Hating me just for being a Ukrainian, just for my existence. Not just on Tumblr, but on other social platforms too. If I were to guess, those were sent by russians or people who support the war.

Dca community made me feel the safest I've ever felt in any other community, up until that point.

After that, I put "russians DNI" in my bio and closed anons. Whoever was sending hate was not brave enough to say the same terrible things to me on their main pages. It felt a little bit safer that way, even if some of you will say it's not the right thing to do. Honestly, at that point, I was really ready to just leave Tumblr for good.

I can't stop people who are making me uncomfortable and making me feel unsafe from coming to my page and ignoring my very clear boundary of just not interacting with me.

It's my page. It's my art. It's my home. I have the right to decide who I want to have here, who I want to interact with me and my art, my hours of work. If you're taking away that right from me, do you really think you're a good person and my boundary doesn't apply to you?

I do not attack russians. I do not spread hate and toxicity, even though I have a right to be as angry as I can. I do not mass report their accounts and don't send death threat asks. I just ask to be left alone.

My question is, if a person, a russian, sees my bio that asks to not interact with me, but decides against it, ignoring my boundaries gets banned for it. Am I really in the wrong?

The point of this - if you don't agree with my actions please leave. Don't start a fight, just please leave. Because I will continue to block every russian who I encounter on my page. I really, really don't want people who just don't even want and try to understand the situation and just completely ignore how fucking terrible this is even WITHOUT me starting on the war context.