#turbovirgin nerds?

[heartshapedcreaturefromcriptoon]

@celestefox13. ...Okay ew, gross.

I literally got chewed out the day before by some boundaryless freaking dorks (much like yourself) for poking at fun at people not seeing the marthamayberry endgame a mile away and now my femme ass is being causally misgendered and talked down to, (again) this time by some fucking Marvel Geek who expects me to be able to immediately clock some obscure meme from tiktok coined by some mediocre man who sounds like freaking Dipper from Gravity Falls being quoted in text form by some rando with the most mediocre taste in Human Alastor design, and being harassed by another mediocre rando with a marvel blog in my notes right now, for mistaking that as some form of Kinkphobia in a fandom that's intended for adults, but filled with minors on like, the most Daddy/Mommy/Caregiver/Little KinkPhobic website imaginable! In June ...Oh, Deer Mommy, Deer Mommy, Mommy Deerest! I am woe. Woe is me. I'm such a bully! Whatever shall I do?!

Maybe, I should throw my Classic White Milkshake brought to me by Little Miss Marvel Icon right back at her over here cause maybe she's the one who needs to learn how to chill the fuck out and use the block button if her keyboard isn't too sticky, because what Miss Marvel Dorkis is doing right now is called White Knighting and she's gotta know that's not cool! 🤓

What I was doing is called vague blogging (not) involving a lovely person who fulfilled a request for something that I just spent money on for them, not "coming for the neck of the person who insulted one of my faves bruh! 🤪"

I really wish obnoxious idiots on this website with no boundaries would stop talking at me like stinky misogynistic unwashed surfer dudes and learn to use the block function when they come across a woman they don't like, instead of being the actual nerd here with no chill and a Marvel Icon deciding to play the White Night for a person that I already have blocked, because now I'm about to block them too! <3

(Also, I never thought they were "flaming" the entire piece, I mistook a shitty meme made by a main, that does not translate well into text to begin with, with no context, as the person being judgemental of the artists motivation and comment, I'm so sorry for making and apparently tiktok your entire personality has bread such low media literacy skills for you! 😔 </3 )

@firebreathingduck Uh yes and what's not clicking? Are you kink shaming the artist of a piece I just requested to be made available to buy during Pride Month because of that tagline and they were kind enough to put it up for me and I just brought one and now everyone can buy one if they want to? Are you an adult? Should you be in this fandom? You seem very annoying on your main @java-dragon so I'm going to block you now. Don't try to block evade and run your mouth!

[doecrossing]

i dont consider myself to be idk like a folk music purist at all bc idk how that would even work bc folk music is inherently transformative but. i think the world has enough power metal covers of folk songs in it like we can stop now.

[raven]

I love being a normie dyke

[thedevotionaltour]

I'm proving to the world you can have the most ultimate turbovirgin nerd interests and be predisposed to a life of never feeling the love and warmth of a woman and still have women want to give you love and let you feel their warmth. The only catch is you do have to be gay for it to work.

[ask-homonationalist]

What are your thoughts on the omegaverse?

Sorry the what??? Listen I'm too fucking gay to have seen a marvel movie is you fucking turbovirgin keep that nerd shit outta here I watch actual propaganda videos and ship those characters cmon now 🌈💥😾🤮

[an-evolved-dinosaur]

Gifted kid discourse is telling to me because I was in the gifted class at highschool and after the first few years the only person I remember who brought it up to do anything other than “haha yeah I was a huge nerd/turbovirgin” was super annoying and entitled so, like, I don’t trust anyone who develops a complex about it.

[enriquemzn262]

Look up “Isekai Ojisan”, the one unique isekai story that deals with the ran over turbovirgin nerd AFTER he returns from his journey, it’s a really fun ride that’s basically “what if Isekai wasn’t just escapism for loners?”

Also I have a big bias against Isekai, hence why I describe it like that hehe.

I’d like there to be an isekai where the person summoned/sent to another world isn’t sent there to be a world saving hero or something. 

Where the ruler is like “Yeah, so we need a good middle management type person around here. … Want to be a lord/lady with your own land?”

[winterywitch]

@noc10 thats the way i felt about it too like... the problem is the derailing, i have said this MANY times but i have never believed that ace issues are just “someone online called me a pure acey turbovirgin arobot”, but since afaik there’s no ace camps like the gay camps in russia, it’s not really unfair of me to treat them as two separate issues that deserve separate posts, and a post about gay men in russia being fucking killed and tortured should not be derailed with “op is an aphobe.” like yes. ok. we’ll address that in a post regarding ace discourse, when op makes some stupid post about how asexuals are nerds who have an oppression kink (and they likely will) then yeah call them out. but the context of this is someone derailed a post about strength in the face of violent murderous oppression coming from someone who is part of the group facing that oppression and made it about ace discourse.

[yourlocalviking]

I didn’t have the Eureka moment

Since it’s still asexual awareness week, I felt I could use this oppotunity to highlight how damaging bad representation can actually be.

Now I’ve seen a lot of awesome realization stories of people learning about being ace and what it is to them, where a common denominator is usually learning about the term asexual (or similar) for the very first time and having this Eureka moment where it finally starts to make sense.

Sadly, I did not have that thanks to some very early exposure to bad representation. Story time, I suppose!

When I was, say, 7 or 8 years old, the blissfull time of not getting or giving a shit about relationships (at least for me) my parents were watching the news while I was doing something else in the room. I can’t remember why I was drawn to the news story, but they ran a piece about asexual dating (ah the also blissfull time of the news being slow and not constant disasters...). Specifically, a news reporter was out talking to two asexual people about their experiences dating. A man and a woman.

From the get go, it was set up as a... funny piece. Something to chuckle at. Asexuality was never presented as anything but ‘not wanting to have sex’ and it was very specifically two awkward adults who talked about dating and how they only dated other asexuals (which just opens up a whole slew of other problems, but that’s a minor detail right now). The whole thing was just set up to be mocking. “See here these two old turbovirgins, so weird and different from us, look at how they date. Oh what a shame they found out they didn’t want a second date, let’s interview them now.”

For me as a kid, that was funny! Dating itself was weird, but look at those two weirder asexuel people, how strange. Yeah it kind of fucked me up. While others grew up and started talking about relationships, started caring about that, I just didn’t follow. To this day I still never felt like I hit my teenage years. I just skipped them and it isolated me a lot from my classmates. I went from having plenty of friends to having none in my own class (but thankfully one in another), because I just didn’t understand where people were heading. Add to that I was kind of nerdy, and I was just the weird one out. Thankfully I was never bullied (good on my school for tackling that before the teenage years), but I was ignored. As a teen, having forgotten about ‘asexual’, I just felt something was wrong with me. A lot of ace people can relate to this; I felt broken. I felt stupid for not getting the new social rules where appearence mattered because that’s how you got attention. I lost my last classmate friend when I said I liked it better when she had long hair, and she took it personal, rather than my awkward attempt at rekindling a conversation with a former best friend.

My way of dealing with this was to embrace the nerd. I saved my last strand of self confidence. But it never explained why I felt broken which haunted me well into my adult life.

This is where the news story comes back. When i was 21 or 22, just starting university, I started tumblr. Perhaps a year later, I got re-acquainted with the term ‘asexual’. Oh yeah, that was a thing. I dismissed it immediately. That wasn’t me! I had a faint idea that I wasn’t straight, but surely I couldn’t be that. I wasn’t (what I now know as) sex-repulsed. I just.. didn’t care to seek sex. I was probably bi, I didn’t have a preference. I wasn’t that turbo virgin who only wanted to awkwardly date other turbo virgins. (Obviously ace people aren’t turbovirgins but that’s the sort of internalized shit I had in my head)

It took me four years to accept that I was ace. I never sought out lgbt+ spaces, ace communities or anything similar. I just very, veeery slowly dealt with my misconception of asexuality and my personal hatred for that ‘broken’ part of myself. On my own. Because I couldn’t see ace being anything but what that News story had presented to me as a kid. Funny enough it was only myself I’d see as that mocking version of ace. The few other ace people I observed from a distance were just kind of mystical amazing people.

To conclude the story, I’m now 26. I am comfortably ace, but still deal with days where I wish I wasn’t. Where I have this warped idea of just wanting to be ‘normal’.

I’ve never really talked in length about this kinda stuff. Pretty much everyone  I’ve come out to (that’d be 7 or 8 IRL people) has accepted but never asked questions. I’ve never met face to face with another ace person. I’ve just never... talked about it. But I needed to get his off my chest.

Bad representation has, in short, messed me up. We gotta be careful with that shit.

[thedevotionaltour]

women love me for my turbovirgin nerd lifestyle

[winterywitch]

@laighlin okay, seriously. stop. i am asking questions after being gaslit and mocked into silence for months by weird popular blogger memes, do not approach me like i’m saying “heh >:3 turbovirgin nerds don’t understand true oppression!! uwu”