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I Am Not Too Much

Dear Therapists,

Here we are yet again, sitting on your couch, with our legs curled up underneath ourselves. You're sitting in your comfy La-Z-Boy chair with your pen poised over your clipboard and we’re staring off into space, refusing to speak to you. What ever made you want to join this profession? Why did you choose to be here, on that side of the coffee table?

You’re our sixth therapist now. The first one, nice as she was, had no idea what was happening with us. The second just got frustrated and threw words out at us like borderline, histrionic, and manipulative. The third terminated after a handful of sessions with little explanation. The fourth only gave us one session. The fifth was nice, but canceled a lot and sometimes forgot to show at the appointed time.

We figured out what was going on all by ourselves while we were tossed about like the hot potato no one wanted to get stuck with. So here we are with you and now we’re terrified you will also have some excuse or reason to not see us anymore too. It was bad enough to have experienced abandonment as a child, but to experience with the very profession that professes to heal trauma was far more traumatic than the childhood event.

I did not believe you, no matter how much reassurance you gave me. I could not allow myself that luxury of belief in order to prevent myself from feeling the pain of being abandoned once again, because surely it was just a matter of time before my neediness would push you beyond your limits. How long before you realized that I was too complex, too disordered, and too far gone to be helped? Yet, I had to try with you just one more time. I cannot keep living this way.

And you were true to your word. You answered every text, every email, and even the accidental phone call. You showed up for every appointment, every single time. Not once did you complain. Not once did you sound annoyed. Not once did you tell us we were too much. You explained your boundaries clearly. You explained your expectations clearly. Every trauma response was met with compassion. You squeezed me in for emergency sessions when I requested them. You took your vacations and did your self-care and had a plan for us to get through those times when you went away. And you always came back. You were true to your word. You saw me through the worst struggles I had and now you get to see me graduate with my Master’s and go on to do the same work.

Here I am now, looking around at others who are not so lucky to have someone like you. We are still denied care under the excuse that dissociative identity disorder is simply too advanced for me to treat. The signs and websites and social media accounts tout their trauma-informed ways and claim to treat all the things except for dissociative identity disorder. I am sorry, I cannot help you, DID is out of my scope. Our friends have been lied to, terminated, and turned away over and over again. They are often forced to drive hours in order to see a therapist willing to work with DID. I had to fly out of state to receive appropriate care. Not everyone is so fortunate to be able to do that. At the time, I knew of four residential trauma treatment centers that specialized in DID. Now there are three, because a new CEO took over where I had received care shortly after I left and he did not believe in DID. Seriously?

We are not fake, nor are we rare. We are everywhere and we need care and treatment. We need you to not be afraid of us. To be trauma-informed is to be dissociation-informed. Who else can we turn to if not a trauma therapist or a trauma treatment program? We might arrive with severe attachment wounds, struggle with unsafe behaviors, and a slew of trauma responses, but we are capable of healing. We are capable of learning how to develop a secure attachment. We are capable of turning our distress of dissociation into a superpower to navigate the world. We are successful teachers, lawyers, financial advisors, and therapists ourselves! Include us in your care and treatment.

When a client sits across from me and asks me why I became a therapist, it is because of you. It is because you showed up for me when no one else would. You were a rock in my storm. Our field needs more dissociation-informed rocks. Get the training. Teach others. Stretch and grow beyond your comfort zone. You are desperately needed because we truly want to heal. We are not too much. I am not too much. You are not too much. We hope you get the joy of joining us for our healing journey.

Sincerely,

Your client

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Resiliency is our inherent capacity to see beauty, find connection, commune with something larger than ourselves, and create- even in or after horrendous experiences

Staci K. Haines 

Staci Haines is the author of “The Politics of Trauma: Somatics, Healing and Social Justice.” She is the founder of generationFIVE and the co-founder of generative somatics.

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Therapy For Trauma In Oakland Park, FL

You are not what happened to you but you sure have been suffering because of it.

I’m sure you didn’t want to find out how resilient you are through the painful experiences you have had. Trauma is what happens inside of our bodies when we experience situations that leave us feeling helpless.

PTSD is a severe form of anxiety resulting from traumatic situations. Our brains tend to reorganize the way it functions after a traumatic event to keep us safe. When this happens, our brains may begin to prioritize protection over connection, which may manifest in the following ways:

Intense emotions

Flashback or replaying of the traumatic event

Mistrust of others/Paranoia

Isolation/social withdrawal

Feelings of worthlessness/ hopelessness

Constantly feeling misunderstood

Suicidal thoughts

Chronic medical issues/physical symptoms

Gut issues

Whether the source of your trauma is due to abuse, grief, a broken relationship, or a medical issue, traditional talk therapy may not be sufficient.

However, healing is possible and the path to recovering from PTSD/trauma is via a holistic approach that address the source of your symptoms using a mind-body-spirit techniques.

At Emergent Counseling, we don’t just say we are trauma therapists, we are experts in trauma recovery and are intentional about enhancing our competence through continued trainings and coaching.

We utilize techniques that have been proven to produce positive results, and we are intentional about:

Providing a nurturing, and welcoming environment

Providing safety and clarity about expectations for our therapeutic relationship.

Providing support that is tailored to our client individuals needs

Providing guidance to help our clients make life changes, and acquire balance and heal.

It is our commitment to partner with our clients, and help them to discover a liberated authentic version of who they are meant to be.

Healing is the other side of suffering.

If you’re interested in scheduling an appointment or you’d like more information, please contact us.

About Us

We offer individual, family, couples and group counseling.

Our Vision is to normalize trauma, anxiety, depression, PTSD and other mental health disorders as the body’s way of communicating distress, and help our clients heal by teaching them how to tap into their bodies organic intelligence."

Our Services

At Emergent Counseling & Consulting LLC, services are person-centered, culturally sensitive, stigma-free, holistic and strengths-based.

Our services are tailored to meet your needs and help you develop the skills needed to get rid of anxiety and depression, and enhance your quality of life. Our methods are non-invasive, short-term evidenced-based techniques such as Brainspotting, and Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT Tapping), which simple and focused on reducing the intensity of distress associated with anxiety and depression.

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Email : inquiry@dare2emerge.com

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Trauma Therapist in Richmond

Ever felt that sudden rush of emotion, anxiety, or fear seemingly out of nowhere? 🤔

Trauma has a way of coming back as a reaction, not just a memory, almost like an echo from the past. Learning to recognize that these reactions are normal is an essential part of beginning to heal. It’s crucial to approach ourselves and others with empathy and understanding.

If your ready understand your reactions and heal from your trauma, consider meeting with a trauma-informed therapist. Click the link in our bio to find the scheduling tool to connect with a therapist here a Life By Design Therapy.

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Empowering Healing: Women's and Childhood Trauma Therapy in Boca Raton

Healing from trauma is a courageous journey, and in Boca Raton, it's a path paved with empowerment and support. In this blog post, we'll explore the world of women's and childhood trauma therapy in Boca Raton, shedding light on the empowering strategies and resources available to help survivors of trauma find strength and resilience.

The What: Understanding Trauma Therapy

Imagine that dealing with trauma was like trying to take down Bruce Lee. You wouldn't just run at him flailing your arms around, would you? Heck no. You'd need a strategy. Trauma therapy is that strategy. One time, my friend had a boxing match with an inflated giant wife-mic device (don't ask), and I gave him a revolutionary strategy - dodge, duck, dip, dive and... dodge. It's kind of like that with trauma, you need a plan of attack.

Undeniably, trauma therapy can be an emotionally-gargantuan endeavor and can take on many facets. Be it cognitive behavioral therapy, EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) or even the expressive therapies like music and art; all have found myriad places in the arena of trauma therapy. I mean, New Beginning Healing Institute to help people across the state achieve better women's and childhood trauma therapy in Boca Raton. Keisha Henry is the best trauma therapist. Contact our office today

The Where: Boca Raton & Trauma Therapy

New Beginning Healing Institute in Boca Raton has become quite the focal point for trauma therapy, especially for women and children. Now, why is Boca Raton important? Well, for starters, in this picturesque slice of Florida, therapists are going above and beyond to create genuinely empathetic and supportive environments which are akin to diving into a pile of puppies - warm, fuzzy, and oh-so-comforting!

Let me paint this scene for you: You're walking through a beautiful palm-lined street in Boca Raton. The sun sets in the distance, painting the clear blue sky with hues of pink and orange. You enter a quaint clinic filled with warm smiles, calming music, and an aroma of fresh lavender calming the nerves. This comforting haven is nothing like the sterile, cold and intimidating clinical settings that would make even Wolverine queasy. Love that about Boca, really! Putting the 'human' in 'human services', you see.

A Focus on Women: Empowering The Empowered

In the realm of trauma therapy, special attention is often given to women. Not without good reason, though! Women are known to be more susceptible to certain types of trauma, particularly those resulting from interpersonal violence. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm not branding women as victims here. In fact, one of my favorite sayings is "Women are like teabags. You don't know how strong they are until you put them in hot water". And boy, those ladies in Boca Raton are brewing a strong cuppa!

There's a reason why trauma therapy for women in Boca Raton is gaining momentum, and it has everything to do with the city's innovative, holistic treatment approaches. Boca Raton's trauma therapists don't just focus on overcoming the past traumas, they go one-up on that - they aim to empower women, enabling them to navigate the world confidently, without fear.

Prioritize The Young Ones: Advocating For Childhood Trauma Therapy

Ah, the kiddos. They are the most vulnerable to trauma, and it's a responsibility we bear to protect them and nurture their mental health. Childhood trauma isn't a 'one size fits all' Godzilla situation. No siree, it isn't!

Childhood trauma therapy in Boca Raton New Beginning Healing Institute takes a customized approach. There's no cookie-cutter regimen! Each child’s story is given due respect, and the therapy is designed around their unique experiences and healing pace.

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Trauma Therapy & Therapist Near Me Texas

If you're searching for a trauma therapist near me in Texas, look no further. Paige Bartholomew’s trauma therapy provides compassionate support and healing for trauma survivors.

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10 Steps to Finding the Right Trauma Therapist in San Francisco and Bay Area

Finding the right trauma therapist in San Francisco and the Bay Area involves careful research and consideration. Here are 10 steps to help you in your search:

Understand your needs: Begin by gaining clarity on your specific trauma-related needs. Consider the type of trauma you've experienced, any specific therapeutic approaches you're interested in, and any other factors that are important to you in a therapist.

Seek referrals: Reach out to trusted friends, family members, or healthcare professionals for recommendations. They may have firsthand experience with trauma therapists in the area or know someone who does.

Utilize online directories: Use online directories specifically designed to help you find therapists in your area. Websites like Psychology Today, GoodTherapy, and TherapyDen allow you to filter results based on location, specialty, and other criteria.

Research therapists' credentials: Once you've identified potential therapists, research their credentials and background. Look for therapists who are licensed, experienced in trauma therapy, and preferably have additional certifications or training in evidence-based trauma treatments.

Read therapist profiles: Carefully read the profiles and biographies of therapists to learn more about their approaches, specialties, and areas of expertise. Look for therapists who specifically mention trauma therapy and describe their experience working with trauma survivors.

Check for compatibility: Assess whether the therapist's approach aligns with your preferences and needs. Consider factors such as gender, cultural sensitivity, and therapeutic orientation. If a therapist offers a free initial consultation, take advantage of it to assess compatibility.

Consider logistics: Take into account logistical factors such as location, availability, and fees. Ensure the therapist's office is easily accessible and their schedule matches yours. If cost is a concern, inquire about sliding scale fees or whether they accept insurance.

Read client reviews: Look for client reviews or testimonials on the therapist's website, online directories, or other platforms. While individual experiences may vary, reading reviews can provide insights into the therapist's effectiveness and client satisfaction.

Contact potential therapists: Reach out to the therapists on your shortlist and schedule an initial phone call or consultation. Use this opportunity to ask questions about their experience, approach, and how they typically work with trauma survivors.

Trust your instincts: Finally, trust your gut feeling when making a decision. Pay attention to how comfortable you feel during the consultation, and whether the therapist seems understanding, empathetic, and supportive. Ultimately, choose a therapist with whom you feel safe and understood.

Remember, finding the right therapist is a personal process, and it may take time and multiple consultations before you find the best fit. Don't hesitate to explore different options until you feel confident in your choice.

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We Are Not Crazy or Disordered; We are Just a We.

Dear Therapists,

These voices I hear in my head are no delusion, I know that now. I used to worry that I was crazy and did my best to ignore them. I tried to shut them out. The inner critic only grew louder the more I suppressed it. I attempted to drown it out with positive affirmations and speak over its words.

Only the voices we heard were not your typical inner critic. Nor were they hallucinations that could be silenced with drugs. They were actual people. They had their own autonomy inside and only fought harder and harder to be heard. They demanded my attention.

I had no other choice but to face them head on and engage with them. I had to listen and hear them out. They needed validation and compassion and reassurance. They were me and I was them and we all were we. They had their own opinions, beliefs, and experiences and they were stuck in my body. It was our body. There were so many of us all together and we were sharing just one body and one life.

Who was I? I was one of them. I was just the one who carried on for the world to see and interact with. I was the one to show up to fit in and appear normal when everything about our life was abnormal.

Who was the voice? She was more than just a voice. This was Jenny. Jenny was the one inside keeping all the secrets as secret as she could. She knew about the unspeakable things and protected all of us from the knowledge of horrors that would break our spirit and soul. What a burden for one so young and so small! How could we not see her? How could we not hear her? Was she any less important than I?

I’m not the only one she needs to talk to. She needs you, our therapist, too! She has her story to tell and she deserves to tell it with her own voice. She deserves to see through the eyes and discover a world with corrective experiences and know that it is 2024, not 1984 or 85 or 86. We will not deny her voice nor abandon her in the same way our perpetrators did.

The more we all talked to each other, the quieter our mind grew. The more we shared our body and our life together, the more we remembered together. We all agreed to be a team and to work together. We negotiated and compromised and included everyone in our decisions and the result is we are now living our best life together.

We’re not crazy or disordered. We are just a we. We are doing it differently. And that’s okay.

Sincerely,

Your client

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Trauma Therapy in Santa Barbara, CA

Most people tend to connect Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) and the word "trauma" with soldiers that have gone to war or with victims of violent assault. In reality, trauma is any deeply distressing event that exceeds your ability to cope and disrupts your sense of wellbeing. We all have experienced some degree of trauma in our lives. Trauma can be losing a loved one, a painful breakup, or experiencing family conflict. You can even experience secondary trauma when someone close to you shares their traumatic story.

Trauma can look like:

Upsetting and unwanted memories or "flashbacks"

Negative thoughts about yourself and the world

Fear of people, places, or situations that remind you of the trauma

Decreased interest in spending time on the activities you used to enjoy

Becoming disconnected in your relationships

Difficulty sleeping

Being on edge or jittery

Irritability and angry outbursts

Engaging in risky behaviors

I can help you recognize how trauma may be impacting you and hurting your life. You'll learn strategies to calm your body and your mind so that you can get back to the old you and experience calm again.

In effectively dealing with your trauma, instead of trying to push it away, you will be able to move forward and leave it in the past where it belongs. Your relationships will improve and you'll feel more positively connected to yourself, your loved ones, and the world around you.

Don't Let Your Past Hijack Your Future

None of us escape life without experiencing pain and unexpected events but you don’t need to suffer from trauma. Make an appointment and start feeling better today.

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Therapist for Trauma in NYC

Ramneek is an Indian/Punjabi American born to two immigrant parents in a diverse community in Queens, NY. She soon found herself relocated to a suburban area in Long Island. This shift in location alone taught her immensely regarding the importance of cultural relevancy. Her work is derived from a multitude of disciplines, ranging from biology, trauma, mindset, and culture. Her passion for learning and personal development goes hand in hand with her intentions to enrich communities while helping individuals move out of a state of languishing and struggle to that of flourishing and strength. She utilizes modalities such as trauma-informed and narrative-based therapy to understand, collaborate, and reflect on what the next steps are for an individual.

Ramneek received her BS in Biology from Long Island University and her MA in Mental Health and Wellness from NYU. She completed her graduate internship at an assisted living center as well as foster care homes in Long Island. She has had the opportunity to counsel individuals from various ethnic backgrounds and traumas. Her interest in research revolves around the biology of trauma as well as the science and practice of flourishing. Her clinical work includes working with individuals that are seeking support and guidance in dealing with issues involving intergenerational conflict, vocational/education planning, personal/generational trauma, and languishing that dulls out the beauty of life.

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