#transphoba

[abearinthewoods]

Randomly thinking about how jk Rowling coded it in to the HP universe that the stairs to the girls dorms had a spell to keep boys out but not the inverse. Even having a character explain to Ron that its because the founders viewed boys as less trustworthy.

In retrospect given that it really shouldn't have been a surprise when she harpooned on about "men in dresses trying to invade women's spaces". She clearly sees sexual deviancy as a distinctly male trait.

[thingstrumperssay]

Everything TwinkleTwinkleTruly said here is correct.

This comic has been going around, uncredited. So I don’t know who the artist is. I’d like to credit them properly for being so accurate in describing TERFs but for now I cannot.

I’ll edit this if I ever find out who the artist is, though.

[kittycathat]

when the TERFs start a literal war on one of your posts about A being for Ally, but at least you get a bunch of clout <3

[meowmeow127]

PIERCE THE VEIL

Helloooo!!! If you like pierce the veil, wanna get into it more, or just wanna know ppl who like it JOIN MY DISCORD!!!!! I have made a pisrce the veil discord server! Theres already 10-15 people in it since i posted it other places buti i forgot abt tumlr:3

the server is a safe place!! DNI homophobia transphoba ect, all ages so SFW content only!! Other rules and stuff in discord or dm me for more info!

link for if youre here in the first week: https://discord.gg/BM72EyZa

if the link is expired by the time you see this, dont fret!! Just dm me and ill get back to you as fast as possible as im not on tumblr as often as id like:( i promise ill get back to you tho!

[sumplysilly]

Always thinking abt that post about ppl denying trans men language so we can't talk about our experiences

I, as a trans man, am seen as a tainted woman, & suffer the abuse I've suffered my entire life, that I recognize as misogyny (bc I've dealt w it my entire life, as previously mentioned). I am assaulted specifically bc I am a trans man & they think being assaulted will make me more feminine. But I can't talk about my specific experience w transphobia bc it isn't the same as what transfemmes experience. & I can't talk about my specific experience w misogyny bc it isn't the same as what cis women experience. But also I can't have my own language bc trans men are icky & don't get assaulted.

Transfemmes can talk about not experiencing male privilege when they're closeted but we can't say hey!! I experience that too as a trans man!! Bc the point isn't our experiences being valid or not, it's making sure we can't speak. It doesn't matter if u call your experience transmisandry or transandrophobia or whatever instead of misogyny bc the point isn't about not stepping on toes, it's about shutting us up. They don't care if trans men experience a higher rate of violence than cis women, or that trans men have a high rate of suicide. If trans men can't talk about our experiences, ppl can continue to ignore the statistics & say their transphoba is justified.

When I read about cis men having sex with trans men specifically to spread STDs to us, or see stories about trans men that were murdered, & the only ppl that spread those stories are a couple transmasc mutuals. I really feel tired. When I share posts about transmasc issues with 100 notes max & a bunch of transmascs tag it w "I'm Tired" I really feel tired. When I see other trans ppl buy into what TERFs say about trans men & use their ignorance of transmasc issues to tell themselves that trans men don't suffer transphobia, I really feel tired.

When I share my experiences & am dogpiled for the 100th time w the same 3 transphobic talking points coming from cis & trans ppl alike I really feel tired. & isolated. & suicidal. But I'll still do it bc I'm a fucking annoying cunt. & I hope other trans men & mascs see me being annoying & know that they aren't the only tired isolated transboys out there. I've felt isolated my entire life not being able to talk about my experience as a weird girl, & now as an adult trans man. & I feel like I'll die feeling unheard & unloved. & nobody will care, & my parents will bury me under my deadname. I'm too much of an annoying cunt to die though I'll keep looking at transmasc art & listening to transmasc music & stories bc it breaks my heart that transmascs aren't celebrated or cared about. I wish trans men of all colors & sizes could talk about our lives without being called entitled or annoying. I louve transmascs & trans men I hope all of u continue to live & create art & share your experiences. I'll love u if the rest of the world won't

[couldtransitionsaveher]

Couldn't stop feeling awful about this, so I made this about it:

Pardon me but I still don't get why you banned buffalo bill when you've allowed so many other transphobic characters in in the past

Okay, I'm going to run through a whole bunch of stuff real quick. TW for transphobia and more specifically transmisogyny

So basically, for the last hundred years or so, trans women have been an acceptable punching bag all across pop culture. Basically every sitcom released within the last fifty years (especially 90s-00s ones) have had some kind of a "man in a dress" or "chick with a dick" joke, horror movies still love the "gender-confused serial killer" trope, and the average drama views trans women as trauma sponges. This is without going into how a lot of "good" trans rep is still very tokenizing, assuming it's even allowed to be canon (*cough* Taliyah League of Legends *cough*). If I were to exclude all transphobic and/or transmisogynistic, there would be nothing to post. I have to limit my restrictions to the most egregious examples of pop culture transmisogyny-- specifically ones that have caused material harm.

[mothy-gutz]

My boundaries

Whats welcome on my page🌸: LGBTQ poc

Furries and therians emo/sene/goth/punk/ect😊

Thin ice😐: hasbin hotel mha I won't block you if your in these fandoms as long as your not being toxic about it😶

Dni😤: pro shiper zoophiles and pedophiles terf homophobia Transphoba racism or bullying over religion bullying or any kind of discrimination if so you will get hard blocked😐

[traumatizedbymay2016]

"Drag isn't transphobic! Learn the history!"

Based and correct take there, pal.

I assume that you're not including the necessary corollary that "a history of being a trans inclusive space does not guarantee either that the space will continue to be trans inclusive nor that individual people within the space will be mindful of anf working against transphoba" because you're based enough to take it for granted, but maybe we should be careful to make it clear lest the unintentional message we send be that drag spaces cannot be connected to transphobia and a bunch of less based people than yourself come to the conclusion that no criticism of the space is valid, don't you?

[crane-among-celandines]

I fucking hate living on TERF Island.

I am so mad and frustrated right now. I wrote a complaint to the BBC about both the needlessly inflammatory tagline and the way the groups in it are presented mostly as neutral parties without much mention of their anti-trans activism, but I don't expect anything will come of it.

I'm so fucking tired of watching our media stir up more hatred against us while violence against queer people skyrockets.

[rapeculturerealities]

Yanna Awtrey, a 21-year-old transgender man and former student of Welch College near Nashville, Tennessee says the Baptist school suspended him for two semesters after he received top surgery.

According to Buzzfeed News, Awtrey began realizing his transgender identity at age 15 and he is the son of Baptist Free Will missionaries currently on a mission trip in Bulgaria, an east European country near Turkey. His parents disapprove of his trans identity and bodily transformation.

Nevertheless, he secretly began hormone treatment and then had top surgery on August 2. He asked friends of his parents to help care for him post-surgery, but when they discovered the purpose of the surgery after Awtrey had completed the procedure in the hospital, his caretakers immediately notified his parents and the college.

Hours later, the school’s vice president for student services, Jon Forlines, sent Awtrey an email stating that he wasn’t welcome back. The school offered to house him in a hotel for a few days if he’d just voluntarily unenroll and remove any social media posts about his suspension. It added that he’d need permission to return on campus to collect his dormroom belongings.

Awtrey refused and contested his suspension in a school disciplinary hearing. The school told Awtrey he’d violated its rule on “sexuality immorality and perversion in any form.”

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[glitch-h]

It’s pride month so let’s please remember that there’s a lot of racism and transphobia in the lgbt community Especially amongst white gays which is pretty goddamn disgusting considering we wouldn’t be where we are today without black trans women like Marsha P Johnson

We literally wouldn’t have Pride without black trans women. We should be holding them in high esteem but instead they face some of the worst treatment out of all of us even in Our Own Community that they helped create. It’s repulsive and we need to do better.

[deathtokillian]

Something that always makes me laugh when I think about it, is when a terf said "I should stop calling myself a lesbian and fetishizing womenhood"

first I have never called myself a lesbian. Second I'm not attracted to lesbians. Third what the fuck! Fetisgizing womenhood....how? Lmao it is the dumbist hate comment I ever gotten and it still makes me laugh thinking about it.

[darthteeth]

ok ok maybe its just me misunderstanding but why does this feel like something one of those “transandrophobia”people would say...

[batteryacidisedibleenough]

What?

Just for the record, I don't mean literal cannibalism, if you were confused, I mean socially cannibalistic. Someone's always gotta go. But I still don't know what transphoba has to do with cannibalism in the first place?? Are they saying trans people are gonna put your kids in a cauldron and boil them like a witch??? What???

Please rephrase, I am very confused

[cruelsister-moved]

side b cunts literally need to kill themselves genuinely worse than being straight up homophobic tbh!!

[shogunomicon]

Man fuck I just got a message from a friend I made in uni and we talked for a while and reconnected a bit and then he invited me to his discord server where it turns out him and his friends are all hardline alt-right cronies and I just want to die.

I guess it should’ve been obvious him and his whole friend group were the antisocial incel weaboos and I was very nearly one of those too, but I just thought he was better than that.

I guess it’s also kind of surreal to see like real live people that I know and have met hold opinions like “all immigrants are rapists” and “all trans people are pedophiles.” Those kinds of completely dogshit beliefs feel like made up strawmen that we use to unmask what the right is really talking about, but no here it is out in the open, that’s just exactly what they’re saying.

Like I expect that from the inbred redneck ‘berta boys that live here but not from them. Hell, I’ve seen the inbred redneck ‘berta boys disagreeing with the shit they say more often than not. Maybe I’m just too drunk to deal with this rn but fuck. What do I even say? Do I even say anything at all? I don’t want to just pretend like I’m fine with that because I’m beyond not fine with it, and I’m tempted to just block him from everything and be done with it. I guess the hope I have is that he finds the stuff I post distasteful and either blocks ME or confronts me so I can freely rip him a new one for this shit. Sorry for the ventpost this is like the only place I feel like I can complain about this.