#transmisia cw

[estrogenism]

very very funny how intersex transfems are by far the most vocal haters of tme/tma as binary terms because of the way that perisex people use them to discredit intersex trans people's complex experiences. but sure it's just those horrible afab trans people again!!

[Plaintext: very very funny how intersex transfems are by far the most vocal haters of tme/tma as binary terms because of the way that perisex people use them to discredit intersex trans people's complex experiences. but sure it's just those horrible afab trans people again!! End Plaintext.]

(also do not fucking try to witch hunt these people. i will block you on sight, i cropped out the urls for a reason)

edit: reminder that this post was made first and foremost about intersexism, and while it's okay to discuss other forms of oppression in the tags and reblogs (especially since i tagged them as such), please stop trying to brush off the original point.

[cisplus]

@radlaz123

It's interesting how you like replying privately instead of reblogging publicly. I wonder why that could be. 🤔

Trans people are an extremely marginalized group, and saying that they're an oppressor class is as ridiculous as saying that any other marginalized group is an oppressor class. It's just not true, and it makes you sound like a fascist.

How exactly do you think that trans men, who lack reproductive rights and who often lack the right to control their own healthcare in other ways, can be an oppressor class? I've already been through how they're likely to face abuse. They're also likely to die by suicide. I really can't with you feeling ~so oppressed~ by people whose rights you're actively taking away.

"Your feelings often trumps women's safety" what does this even mean? How do my feelings trump my own safety here...? What.

[kiruliom]

my biggest fear is when xenogender being known to the internet through transid and they think they're the same thing and we pay the price because of bunch of idiots and forced to not label ourselves(publicly) or we'll be bullied to the point being doxxed i mean it's already happening one of hero hei's videos is talking about transautism and his comments blame xenogender.....

Why we can't have nice things?...just because we want to be happy(and harmless) ?

I get that, and yeah people are already comparing it to xenogender, which is where transid stuff was even born (autigender? so you identify as autistic??? and stuff like that, was the root of transid, then known as transX, which is a stolen term from nonbinary people btw, being born as a troll identity)

so yeah that is a very good reason to mention it, however Ive never mentioned it myself as it reminds me of the truscum rhetoric known as "the cis people hate us because youre too different and quirky for them and it makes us look like a joke", doesnt mean that arguement is invalid, (in fact its kinda silly considering people who hate xenogenders will still hate xenogenders if transids just perished suddenly so idk it says a lot abt truscum) I just didnt wanna be compared to truscum, even if I dont wanna be compared to transids either qwq

[aceyanaheim]

I need a cross sign but for "protect me from transphobia"

[dyspunktional-leviathan]

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A screenshot from the urbandictionary on the word Pergs. It reads:

Pergs

Shortened slang term for Asperger’s Syndrome. Implies that someone is severely socially awkward. A person with this condition might also be called a "Pergburger."

[“Asperger’s Syndrome” and “severely socially awkward” contain links in the original entry]

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Why did you misgender her lmao

I did say "they" and "the account" in an attempt to be neutral in the original post a few hours ago, because I genuinely have never come across pergstrogen before and was totally unfamiliar with her (see! I got it right now) pronoun preferences. I am really sorry!

As it was pointed out in the comments I immediately updated the post, apologized, and have not made the mistake again. And I would do that for anybody! I only want to refer to people as they want to be referred to.

Some are saying I called her "it" which is completely untrue, my use of the word "it" was referring to a post, which is an it, not a person.

[antiradqueer-karkat]

"yea rqs are everywhere" ican gaurentee you that is the biggest lie ive ever heard come out of someones mouth. im literally the only xenogender collecting alterhuman opera singer iknow and out of my whole school, there are like 3 alterhumans iknow, with the rest of it hating on queer people and furrys like hello ??

[dyspunktional-leviathan]

I am tired of being nice about people pulling a trans version of “we’re still going to call it women’s issues”

You are not including all trans people (either as a whole or of given agab) when you’re saying transmasc/transfem

You are not even including all trans people (either as a whole or of given agab) when you’re saying stuff like transmasc/transfem and unaligned because someone can be exlusively aligned to their agab and still face the same fucking transphobia! And yes they are trans, if they themself define themself as such, and not a cis person receiving “misdirected” transphobia!

I am tired of seeing stuff and wanting to say hey this affects us too but thinking, I’m doing whataboutism, but I’m not fucking doing whataboutism I am being excluded, purposefully or not

[shyjusticewarrior]

DC Comics Incorrect Quotes Pt 15

Tim: Once Damian got into a fist fight with a trans guy and when he got sent to the principals' office the principal kept going like "how DARE you hit a WOMAN," and he got so offended on the trans guys' behalf that he got into a fight with the principal too.

Tim: This will forever be my favorite story about him. Just to clarify, it was only a verbal fight with the principal.

Tim: Update: I was wrong, he did in fact try to punch the principal, they just stopped him.

[transmorolians]

people will argue over the gender of any character with they/them pronouns and gender-neutral nouns

[loroliyesplaything]

aspec people excluded from the queer community.

trans people excluded from the queer community.

nonbinary people excluded from the trans community.

people with personality disorders excluded from the mentally ill/neurodivergent community

schizo-spec/psychotic people excluded from the neurodivergent community.

it's the exact same thing every single time. exactly the same. why do people try to single out and exclude specific groups within their groups? I'm sure there is quite a variety of reasons, and a few I can think of, but regardless, it is blatantly the exact same shit every time. it reads the same. and it is so infuriating and appalling to witness.

[estrogenism]

yes you love and cherish trans people but are you normal about intersex people, who are significantly more likely to be trans than a perisex person (at least in terms of intersex youth)?

do you acknowledge that they are directly targeted by many bills that also target trans people or do you say that they're just another group being indirectly targeted by anti-trans bills?

do you say that no kids are being forced on hrt or do you acknowledge that intersex babies are often forced on hrt?

do you acknowledge that intersex people can often have a complex experience with gender or do you just scream "intersex people can be cis too!!" whenever an intersex trans person tells you to stop disregarding their unique relationship with gender?

do you see a post asking for people to listen to intersex people and respond without sexualizing us or do you conflate your allyship with sexuality by saying "yeah i'd totally fuck an intersex person!"?

do you call animals with intersex conditions "trans icons" or do you actually acknowledge their intersex conditions?

do you treat us like human beings or do you ask us invasive questions about our genitals like we're some kind of lab rats?

do you listen when we tell you not to call us hermaphrodites or do you just make the excuse that animals are called hermaphrodites so you should be allowed to call us that too?

do you acknowledge intersex transfems and transmascs regardless of their casab or do you screech about how intersex people are co-opting your terms?

do you try and group intersex people under terms like amab/afab and tme/tma without acknowledging their actual experiences or do you just yell about how intersex people are trying to take your language away? (edit: this also includes very conveniently not mentioning intersex people's concerns and experiences when yelling about this)

do you acknowledge that not all intersex people are white? do you care about intersex poc?

do you care about us outside of the times that you can use us against transmisic people as a gotcha?

[cisplus]

As a cis woman who literally doesn't know ANY cis women who wouldn't describe themselves as cis -- even my radical feminist mom -- I am laughing so hard. Where are you getting these statistics from? What are your sources, Mumsnet?

Your argument is flawed because anyone could turn it around and use it against any marginalized group, including women. They could say "women claim everything is misogynistic, and then practically instantaneously get it in law that it's a hate crime." That is messed up. You see how this logic is messed up, correct?

Anyway, I can't do this anymore. Come back with some statistics that "all cis women find being called cis degrading and a slur." And in the meantime, I'll probably see you on TV marching with the other fascists. Good riddance.

[kiruliom]

love how everyone who has responded so far assumes Im transmasc or afab in some way. weird, reminds me of how people say triggering shit under posts of people speaking up against psychotic disorders because "only they must care for their own community right?". also me saying "hey these people affect this other group of people" doesnt mean "actually the other group of people are more oppressed." anyway you probably wont get the notification since Im shadowbanned so

not having the means to transition makes the suicide rate for trans people higher, therefore forcing them to be "women again" will make them more prone to suicide.

every terf who has harassed me and my mutuals has assumed we're transmasc, I have gotten death threats for them over it, I have gotten called ugly and fat and the r slur because people assumed I "wanted to be a man because I didnt get respect as a woman"

not every trasmasc person is an "uwu cute tiktok femboy twink" and to assume so which youre clearly doing is gross and Im really angry that this comes from within the community, there are masculine trans men, poc trans men seen as "naturally masculine" due to racist reasons, trans men way deep into t, cis passing trans men, intersex trans men with naturally high testosterone, terfs dont see these people as "women" they see them as gross people who are too masculine and therefore deserve to die. Ive seen cis butches get death threats for being too masculine for fucks sake. these people are literal fascists, they want everyone but a specific group of people wiped out. they dont see real trans men as women, they see their ideal version of a trans man (girl with a pixie cut) as women.

"you must be so embarassed" why do people think they own people when they directly harass them and give the wildest takes like "trans women are more oppressed because theyre wemen and therefore trans men dont get oppressed by terfs at all"

get blocked now, I dont want you anywhere near any of my blogs

can we stop the belief that terfs hate transfems exclusively or like more than they hate cisgender men or transmascs and pretending it's just the trans women's battle against them and you're allies for them or whatever. this literally undermines how much harm theyre doing both to the trans community as a whole and even to the people (cis women) they claim to be protecting. terfs hate trans men just as much as trans women, transmascs arent safe because terfs view them as "uwu confused girlies trying to escape oppression", that is a very narrow worldview and inherently transphobic itself (it excludes butches, transmascs who's medically transitioned, intersex people, etc. etc.) transfems arent more oppressed by terfs than any other people theyre oppressing, please understand this. Im so sick and tired of people undermining my transmasc siblings when it comes to harassment from terfs because "well you arent a target to them", why are they harassing them then????

I just geniuenly dont like how the queer community can claim to be transmasc friendly and then view transmascs the same way transphobes view them (again, uwu girlies who are tricked into ruining their feminine beauty, they dont know anything and how lucky they are). feels both andromisic and misogynistic at the same time on top of transmisic idk how the fuck you manage to fuck up that badly

tldr: stop pretending transmascs arent affected by terfs nearly as much as transfems

anyone can reblog, except terfs of course they can fuck off

transfem is used as a way to refer to "TMA"/"AMAB" trans people transmasc is used as a way to refer to "TME"/"AFAB" trans people I know the definition is a bit more fluid now so I just wanted to note that

[jupiter--dream]

Bro 💀

[antiradqueer-karkat]

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THE ENTIRETY OF MY SCHOOL IS HOMOPHOBIC/TRANSPHOBIC BRO😭😭⁉️🙏

[dyspunktional-leviathan]

Just. Just think for a few seconds about the fact that we’re having a “which is transphobic, outing someone’s agab or being against outing someone’s agab” discourse.