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I was thinking that I want to kin aliens for fun, when it struck me that I want to be xenogender for fun too.

We treat gender so much more seriously than we treat other parts of our identities. I think everyone has the right to identify as a gender for fun!

Don't be pressured to "get it right" when it comes to your gender identity. Have fun with it. 👽

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Functioning as a median system is so hard sometimes, because people just see me as incredibly contradictory.

I don't even have a working narrative about my own life. I mean, take my gender -- I'm a cis girl, but no, I'm 2spirit, but no, I'm non-binary. I'm detrans, but no, I used to be trans, but no, I'm genderfluid.

It is so frustrating to not be able to explain that I'm multiple different people. And even when people know I'm a median system, they tend to be confused by me or think I'm lying. Aaaa!

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Made a little something on slur reclamation.

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if you feel "vaguely threatened" by a minority group, then youre a bigot, full stop.

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something about the feeling of being torn apart by/because of your "conflicting" genders. society has a way of making being an androgyne feel like torture

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I hope you believe transmisogyny exists?

A massive part of the point of coining "transunity" was to center transmisogyny in the discussion, alongside the two other major branches of transphobia (exorsexism/nbphobia and transandrophobia). A not-insignificant part of that, for me, is encouraging folks who've been talking about transandrophobia to continue/do better at holding ourselves and each other accountable to learning about transmisogyny, and listening to/uplifting/including the voices of transfems.

I want better solidarity to and from all parts of the trans community. I believe we need solidarity between all parts of the trans community- including the recognition of and fight against the unique challenges we all face- in order to meaningfully improve the lives of trans people.

That's what I've been saying from the start. It's really, really fucked that people have misrepresented my words and intentions to this point.

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ppl on here will put a "check my DNI before interacting!!" notice on all their posts and when you go to check, the DNI is at the very bottom of a mile long pinned post and includes the incredibly vague phrase "usual DNI criteria". all of this so I can reblog your mid tier horny post? it's just not going to happen my friend.

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Include men in your body positivity. you are not body positive if you make fun of male pattern baldness, neckbeards, fatness, etc in men. these traits are just as worthy of acceptance regardless of if it's wrapped in pink bows or not.

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my blog truly reflects my life.. inconsistent.. disorganised… annoying

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just got the chance to take a deeper look into abrosexuality, and i'd say that suits me! i have always found it strange that people think that sexuality has to be static. it does not. sexuality can be fluid as well. abrosexuality is when one's sexuality changes or has some fluidity to it. that's a very normal thing for a lot of people!

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I hope I live to see the day gender-segregated restrooms are a thing of the past. I’m tired of my options as an enban being to feel worried about being seen as a guy in the women’s restroom or girl in the men’s restroom, hold off until I get home—sometimes for hours, or hope against hope that there is a gender-neutral bathroom somewhere I can access. Some people can’t seem to fathom a world with restrooms that maintain privacy and safety without enforcing the gender binary as the norm forever. If you’d like to better understand the need for them and see my favorite example of such a design, check out this short video from the “Stalled!” project.

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Some of you need to stop treating gender like sports. Just because you support trans men/mascs doesn't mean that you hate trans women/fems. This isn't like football where if you love the Steelers, you have to hate the Eagles, else you're a traitor to Steelers fans.

We can support many genders without hating others.

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I luckily haven't had to deal with much chronic pain or hand pain yet, especially with regards to baking (crochet is another story). That said, these look like some pretty solid tips! There's also some in the comments section.

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Remember kids:

Regardless of what you see in porn, DO NOT USE DUCT TAPE for BDSM.

The person could get an allergic reaction to the glue in it.