#trans dads

[skywalkerbootleg]

For the last 5 years I was so sure that never ever in forever I'd want a pregnancy. Pregnancies are so heavily associated and connected to womanhood in society, that as a trans man I always despised the thought of it.

Now that I've started planning my hysterectomy (uterus begone surgery) I kept feeling a kind of sadness in knowing I will never get to have biological children. And I thought:

If I lived in a society in which it was socially and biologically normal that both men and women carried children, would I then want to bear children myself? Yes, probably without a doubt.

So why let some stupid rule society made stop me? It never stopped me before. Society already tells me I'm not a real man because I'm trans, carrying children won't worsen that actually.

I decided to not get a hysterectomy. At least not in the near future. I'm still only a teenager, I want to keep this option open for me

Just something I've been thinking about

[lucifer-is-a-hermit]

Before I saw the photo I thought it was about ftm and other assigned female at birth fathers and I was like hell yeah dads who birthed kids positivity

So this is now a positivity post for dads who birthed children <3

[byjove]

cis people will say “I found out I’m having a baby girl at my anatomy scan and I’m experiencing gender disappointment” but be mad when you say “who knows? maybe you’ll end up with a son anyway”

[lizardho]

When I came out, I was SO scared I was gonna get disowned. I wrote a letter to my parents, sent it to their emails, put a physical copy on the counter, and left the house for a few hours to give them time. In that time I tried coffee for the first time, which was a dreadful idea, and got all jittery. I kept waiting for a text or something but nothing happened.

After a few hours, I didn’t hear back from them so I went home. My parents were home and had stacked a bunch of groceries on top of the letter without opening it. They said “hi” and I said “hi” and went down stairs to the basement. I held my dog and panicked about what to do. My sister, who knew that I had written them a letter of great importance, told me they hadn’t read it yet. She also told me she could ask them to do so. I consented to this and stayed in the basement. A few minutes later my dad knocked on the door and poked his soft smooth little nerd head in and said “hey buddy” and I started crying so hard I almost vomited. He came over and gave me a BIG hug and said that it was gonna be OK, he was OK with this, he knew it must have been hard but he was here for me. He told me he and my mom had already talked years before they had me about how if they had to pick between their faith and their child they’d pick their child. It was a very sweet moment. I came out to my mom later that evening and we were both bawling the whole time.

The day after I came out to my parents, I came out to my brother @inbabylontheywept at a Mexican restaurant and he took it like a champ. That evening my mom took me for a walk and looked almost angry - she said she wanted to make sure that I didn’t use being a woman as an excuse to not go to grad school. I told her I wouldn’t and she instantly looked relieved and happier.

My dad, on the other hand, seemed to struggle with it. He kept asking me if I had a boyfriend, and I told him I did not. He kept asking me if I wanted to go clothes shopping with him and I did not. He kept asking me if I would let him go to some of my shows, and I had NO idea what he was talking about.

Finally, 6 months after coming out, of awkward misgendering and questions that didn’t make sense from my dad, he excitedly pokes his soft smooth little nerd head into my bedroom again and says “I found a movie about Your People.” My people. I was absolutely bewildered, but he was so excited and I knew he had been trying SO hard so I watched it with him. It was The Birdcage, and it was amazing. It also was revelatory in that I finally realized why my initially-supportive father seemed to be having such a hard time with my pronouns and stuff - he didn’t know what the difference between trans and doing drag was. After the movie he again asked if I would invite him to one of my shows, and I said, “Hey dad, you know how about half the world is women?” And he said “yeah,” and I said “Well, see, I’m on that half now. I’m not doing drag.” And it was like a switch flipped in his brain. He was like “omg that’s so easy? I was so confused about what to call you when?”

Anyway, my parents are charming and my family has been so kind and patient with me, I like sharing the stories of my little wins with them.

[myths-and-girls]

Getting top surgery next week and ngl, I think its gonna be a huge weight off my chest

[pears-palette]

My dad has a little gag he loves doing that involves me being trans (it’s fun- don’t worry).

So, my dead name is also the name of a food item (spelled different but sounds the same). We sometimes eat that food item- it’s a nice treat. His little joke is that he will only call that food “Dead Names”- which leads to hilarious instances of hearing my 70 year old father call out “Hey, I’m going to go grab some Dead Names while we’re here!” while he’s half way down the isle in the grocery store, or him coming home and saying “hey, I picked up a box of Dead Names while I was out! :)”

It just makes me so overwhelmingly happy that my old name is not something wrapped in grief. It doesn’t represent a loss. It is something we can smile about and remember even if it doesn’t fit me anymore.

[potato-lord-but-not]

faroeverse doodles free from tumblr draft purgatory. the last one was made bc I realized since parker survives in this rendition of faroeverse, he probably goes looking for her and gets caught up in holy ghosts shenanigans. so. them and their three dads <3

[xochimillilili]

Perv dad telling his boy that he's got a new game for them, a new skill to teach him as a growing young man. Stupid loving son who follows him like a puppy, thinking they're just play fighting. Taking it so bravely until his daddy's cock is pulsing and throbbing as it stretches out his tight hole. Squirming and kicking at the sting of being stretched too far

"Shh shhh it'll feel better soon kiddo, big stretch for me— stop fighting... just hold onto your old man, come on and biggggg stretch~ Awwwww that's it baby, such a good kiddo. Now doesn't that feel better?... kiddo?"

Pretty son now limp as his daddy's heavy balls rest against his ass, cock fully sheathed in his fuckhole. Tight hole squeezing his dad's cock, practically teasing him for more

"Ohhh, does it feel so good you can't even talk sweetie? That's my boy, my champ, I told you it'd feel so much better once you stopped fucking squirming <3 Just like your mom, always stupider all filled up~"

[choking-on-ice]

Since y'all seem to like Mama Bear Chilchuck, I raise you Defensive Daughter Izutsumi

Izutsumi still has cat instincts, so I can picture her getting the urge to basically brush/groom loved ones after injuries. Idk abt anyone else?

pt1

[batbusiness-schooldropout]

Tim: You can't just run around here shirtless! Where's your binder!?

Jason: Shit! Where is my...... Did you forget I'm cis?

Tim:........maybe. It's hard not to when your tits are bigger than mine

Damian: You forgot too, idiot

Jason: Why don't you wait until you're taller than my tits before you run your mouth

Bruce: I will give you each $500 right now to talk about anything else

[managone16]

James: Reg. Regulus: yeah? *James, pointing to his pinky* : Got hurt. *Regulus, rolling his eyes, but walking closer before kissing him on the wound.* Regulus: Let's put this in ice? James, nodding: Okay. Harry, watching this: Papa!! Harry ouchie too!! *Pouts* Regulus, smiling sweetly: Oh no! *kisses the wound* Regulus, gasping: It's gone!! Harry, also gasping: Papa!! Magic! Regulus, giggling: It's gone now, Haz. You can go play. *Kisses Harry everywhere on his face before letting him go* James, in the corner: What about me *pouts* Regulus, rolling his eyes again: Oh James.

[homkamiro]

Fem spy/Transmasc spy are both really funny to me because they imply that Spy was the one to carry Scout, and Scout would not handle that information responsibly. Or at all, really.

He didn't need to imagine that

[fluffylilbro]

Getting used by dad and his friends !!

i say w/ hearts in my eyes

Being home alone for majority of the day so you walk around in jus’ boxers and a t-shirt, and once dad is finally home you fail to realize he has company with him. ofc you come running out to greet him; hugging him & going on about how much you missed him, all while still in your tight boxers and loose t-shirt. by the time you notice your dad’s friends, they’re already staring at your behind w/ bulges in their pants. you’re jus too cute, even your dad is getting hard from how exposed you are. Nonetheless he ushers you off to your room, saying that him and his friends are gonna have some guy time together.

even though you’re gone, you’re not forgotten. your dad’s friends jus can’t stop thinking and talking about you, jus forgetting that your dad’s still there and rambling about your perky ass and how pretty you’d look with their cock’s stuffed in every hole you got!! ofc your dad is quick to join the conversation. if your dad’s a pervert, why wouldn’t his friends be. all of em fantasies about fucking their kids, it’s only fair he shares his stories of when he’s used you while its up in the air.

ofc they don’t believe him, not until he’s calling you out of your room and forcing you to strip in front of all of them. as soon as your naked, you’re being raised up and exposed to all of them!! your dad holds you, holding your legs open to reveal your glistening boycunt. you’re like a bunny being displayed for a group of feral wolves. you’re stuck whimpering and grabbing at your dad’s arms while his friends all crowd around you, each of them staring in awe and occasionally pressing a finger to your slick hole.

all the staring and drooling turns into them fucking your asshole while you sit on daddy’s lap, only dad’s allowed to use your pretty boy hole obviously!!

kinda insecure about my grammar and writing but I wanted to get this thought out :((

[ricochetyears]

everyone’s always talking about how james is such an amazing dad, and yeah, he’s awesome, but can we take a moment to talk about regulus as a parent? i mean, let’s just agree that he’s sooo attentive, and sooo loving, and he always lets their kid hang out with him in the kitchen while he’s cooking or cleaning, just listening to them go off about random stuff like, "daddy, mr. snuggles (aka the stuffed bunny) said he doesn’t like carrots. we had a fight." and regulus will give this exaggerated shocked look and be like, "no way? seriously? you’re telling me?" all wide-eyed and dramatic, and they’ll just go back and forth like that for hours, because their kid’s got the same endless chatter as james

[rowanberrypop]

god forbid a trans man carry his baby and/or breastfeeds his baby

god forbid a trans man writes OCs or AUs including a trans man carrying his baby and/or breastfeeding his baby

seahorse dads (trans men who carry their babies) are absolutely wonderful and strong and deserve respect. non fetishy fictional depictions of this also deserves respect

so many queer people still treat this like its something weird, or it’s a fetish, and when u bring it up u get weird looks or “WHAAA MPREG!!??” type replies. shut the FUCK up!!!!

trans people like this exist in the world!!!! just because you think its weird (its not btw) and you think anything weird is automatically fetish material doesnt mean it actually is. LEAVE TRANS MEN THE FUCK ALONE!!!!!!!!!