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“Yeah, so like I’m actually a trans man! Uh, I finally worked up the courage to tell you, so yeah…”
“Ewww… why would anyone choose to be a man? KAM! Like you have the choice to be a WOMAN and you CHOSE to be a man?????”
“Huh? You’ve always said you’re a trans ally. Some of our other friends are trans. Why would you-”
“Are you trying to say I’m transphobic? I acknowledged that you’re a man!”
#transandrophobia#anti transmasculinity#transmisandry#trans men#malgendering#this exact exchange has not happened to me… but it’s a compilation of-#things happened to me + things happened to friends + videos I’ve seen from transandrophobes who think like this with a complete lack of-#self awareness#people have probably made posts before.#hell. I might’ve even made a post like this before#the transandrophobe in these situations is actually a cis woman approximately 90% of the time lmao#the cis women who claim to be ``not a r*df*m’’ while espousing their beliefs
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"egg prime directive" is transmisogynistic bullshit don't @ me i don't care
#angry#a cis man being told he might be trans will be fine#a trans woman looking for permission to accept herself and come out is worth a million cis men being briefly uncomfortable#why should they be upset at the thought that they might maybe have things in common with trans women anyway hm?#fuck off
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reminder that intersex people exist and to include us in ur activism and attempts at inclusivity
#just tired of seeing things that are supposedly inclusive of all genders and sexes#and then it’s only about cis and trans perisex people#saying this as a trans intersex person#please#intersex#trans#enby#nonbinary#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq
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Amazing transgender girl who's hair is to die for wonderful! Her sweet face and wonderful body make for a perfect 10.
#transgender#transgirl#queer#trans#trans pride#lgbtqia#transfem#trans community#transgenderwoman#lgbtlove#cisgender#trans things#gender identity#bi#bisexual#bigender#bi nsft#non binary#gay#lgbt#pan#cis men dni#gender stuff#gay cub#gay fashion#gay girls#gayboy#im gay#so gay#im so gay
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Ok so a while back I had a conversation with my friend's aunt. She's a trans woman well into her 50, who has kids and grandkids, and she came out when she was in her 40's. Me and my friends were talking about our queer space, and mentioned the well known "token cishet man"
Now, I'm sure most of us have that guy in our friend group, and it was common for us to just call him the straight guy. But my friend's aunt offered a different perspective ; she once was that token cishet man in a queer group of friends. Getting categorized so strongly as "the cis straight guy" made it harder for her to come out and accept herself. Since that talk with her, I've been careful about it, and guess what? Two women I've once called "the straightest person I know" (different occasions, and it was high school) now have girlfriends! You literally cannot know if someone is queer, and honestly most people are not the straight cisest person out there.
Anyways I'm not very articulate and English is not my friend but like I think everyone would benefit from being a little more careful about the way we treat our "token straight guy", she might be thankful later!
#and like i get it ok having a str8 person in ur queer space and yadayada#but like! if theyre not causing shit!! they should be welcome! this might be their space as well!!#im a trans guy btw and everyone in this story is white so this is definitely not a universal thing#idk ive just seen how men are treated in queer spaces? not all obv but#like trans girls questioning their gender and not feeling ready to come out and tell people deserve to feel like they belong!!#idk idk#i was reminded of this conversation this weekend because i was like of well maybe hes trans has he thought about being a girl#and my friends all went “oh no impossible no no hes the most cis het man” like yea maybe i guess! but has he thought about being a girl
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Steve, who accidentally overslept his alarm, who was supposed to meet his friends for weekly brunch 30 minutes ago: sorry, guys. I'm late.
Robin: this is how you tell me you might be pregnant? I expect much more fanfare next time.
Dustin: can I be the uncle? How about the godfather?
Eddie: don't worry, I'll be with you and our unborn child every step of the way. We'll be amazing parents!
Steve: ...
Steve: Fuck you guys
Robin: ew no
Dustin: I'm literally a minor
Eddie: you already have
#i thought this was funny#as much as I ship steddie i wrote this imagining purely platonic steddie#eddie just likes messing with him#steve can be cis or trans here#eddie munson#steve harrington#steddie#robin buckley#dustin henderson#platonic stobin#steddie incorrect quotes#stranger things incorrect quotes#platonic steddie#pre steddie
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trying to interact with cis woman-centric feminist media as a trans man (especially a gnc trans man) is a simultaneously bizarre and exhausting experience lmao. do you know how offputting it is to read about how men are the root of all evils in the world and how they'll never understand what it's like to be a woman when you literally have boobs and wear dresses and look far more like barbie than you ever will ken like please motherfucker i don't think i'm incapable of understanding your experiences actually. el oh el
#also trans men are not the only people to experience things deemed as 'woman specific' obviously#i just feel like we're the most obvious flaw in that line of reasoning#how can you look at someone who was raised the way you were your whole life and not understand that they may have been where you were befor#the way cis women refuse to make space for us is just so tiring like i'm genuinely so sick of it lmao#transandrophobia#transmisandry#marshy speaks
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Even thought i know its impossible for me to move, I still check the queer roommate search facebook groups for cities I'd like to move to and I gotta say it's incredibly discouraging seeing that a solid 75% of the offers explicitly ban trans men from applying.
#transandrophobia#anti transmasculinity#and whats especially gross about it to me is how many of them seem completely unaware of it#like it hasnt even occured to them that trans men exist#like the vast majority of them say something to the effect of#'women and femmes only this means no cis men'#like#hello#i am in neither of those categories#and the thing is#i am fem#but I know goddamn well when they say 'women and femmes'#they mean women and women lite tm#and im fem in the gay man way#which people seem to simultaneously think is thr default for queer masculinity#and also doesn't count#i hate it here
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really dislike the idea that being gender nonconforming immediately means you’re not allowed to be upset at getting misgendered… are only trans people who adhere to their gender stereotypes allowed to feel upset about something so personal? doesn’t make any sense. dressing like your agab doesn’t immediately mean you don’t deal with any trans issues ¿
#just very unnecessarily cruel#you guys are obsessed when cis ppl are gender nonconforming#god forbid a trans person does the same#what is the point of coming into a community just to say the same thing the people oppressing us say#rambles
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Such a pretty transgender woman!
#trans#transgender#queer#transgirl#transfem#lgbtlove#lgbtqia#trans pride#transgenderwoman#trans community#cisgender#gender identity#cis men dni#genderqueer#gender envy#fluid gender#gender stuff#genderfluid#trans stuff#queer stuff#trans things#intersex#queerness#gender critical#gender ideology#gurl#sexy gurl#hot gurls#mtf#trans girl
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I just read a pilot for a TV show that two incredible people are trying to get made and HOO HOO! OH HOH! I can't tell you who either of them are or what the show is about but DAMN! I hope this gets made! I hope I get to be in it! HAHA, EXCITING! SICK, EVEN!
#one of the cool things about being in the acting industry is getting to see all the cool stuff that people *want* to make#before it gets all its edges sanded off in development to make it more commercially appealing#I get to read some raw uncut scripts#And be like OOOOOO oh my gosh imagine if this actually got MADE#before all the cis gatekeepers say “Hm but does the trans villain need to be quite so aggressively trans? Is this alienating people?”#YES IT IS AND IT RULES
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Xie Lian getting worshipped as he deserves 🙏✨
Sorry Hua Cheng I had to completely crop you out :’) if you want to see full image it’s on bluesky here <3
#need to stop drawing smut so i can post things properly on here i’m sorry guys 😭😭#this was also a request hahaha thank you for your vision besttiiiee#also if you’re weird about trans headcanons i’ll Get You#hualian#tgcf#tgcf fanart#xie lian#trans xie lian#heaven official's blessing#tian guan ci fu#my art#mossymage
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todays reddit adventure -
post: "trans and cis women will soon be benefiting from cheaper HRT [link to article]"
comment: "does this also affect T?"
op: "no, this is a women's health initiative by the government"
comment: "well it's a bit misleading to say HRT if you just mean Estrogen, it feels like the community forgets transmascs exist sometimes :/"
#like it's not just E for one thing and Two: she literally said women?#controversial statement of 'trans men aren't cis or trans women'
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If you have to pick only one between hua cheng and xie lian to be a trans guy the obvious answer is hua cheng. there’s no cis man alive with the level of swag and aura he has. cis men cannot juggle the different aesthetics he has and make it work
#tgcf#hualian#hua cheng#the correct answer is they’re both trans guys but if it has to be one or the other#qi rong copying his blood rain thing is symbolic of how cis guys can’t ever achieve the swag that comes naturally to tguys#like the man has vamp goth + manor lord + mafia boss + silver butterflies + blood rain + his color scheme#+ his evil sword + cool eyepatch + scary ass legends + playboy + ultimately bein some nerd#a cis guy can only hope to successfully pull off like 2 of those at once#u put an eyepatch and a saber on a cis guy and he goes pirate
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Everyone's making Catradora vs Ballister x Ambrosius comparison posts.
All I saw tho?




(Excuse my blinds reflecting on my tv lol)
#its the 'has she/her pronouns but not cis and demanding to be seen correctly' thing for me lol#gender#transgender#trans#it feels so nonbinary or agender to me 💕#💙💖🤍💖💙#💛🤍💜🖤#🖤🩶🤍💚🤍🩶🖤#aunt posting#the good place#janet tgp#janet#nimona movie#nimona 2023#nimona
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