#toxic to both parties
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I personally believe that Briar Beuty and Raven Queen should have become the best of friends after the Thronecoming fiasco. Raven knows to an extent how Briar feels, I mean we don't even know if the people trapped in the mirror prison can die while in there or if they are forever trapped, and now that Briar has expressedly voiced her thoughts on following your destiny and signing the book I think that Raven would have understood her point of view.
#also imagine the vibes both girls bring#extriverted party girl and her introverted musician bestie#eah#briar beauty#raven queen#also them becoming and staying friends makes more sense than raven's and apple's friendship or briar's and apple's both wich were in a way#toxic to both parties#could juat be me though
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excuse me i just stumbled on this photoshoot (?) on Twitter and
wtf why does peat have that rich 太太 (tai tai) energy?? (ie. a wealthy, spoiled, pampered trophy housewife)
why does fort look like his assigned bodyguard who is officially just there to make sure no one gets to his boss through his 'wife' but he's also totally fucking his boss' wife on the down low
they totally plot to murder peat's rich husband and have him inherit his fortune and afterwards fort stays as his kept man bodyguard and peat rules his financial empire with an iron fist.
why do i need a fic about this like i need to breathe.
Edit: so i wrote a thing (its mahasamut/tongrak and its way more intense then i even anticipated)
#fortpeat#fort x peat#fort thitipong#peat wasuthorn#this has very 'freak for freak' energy#both of them are very grey morality and more than slightly obsessed with each other in that possessive way thats definitely a bit toxic#oh actually this could fit for:#mutrak#tongrak's the type to get upset if anyone (eg. the waitresses at the parties he attends) pays attention to his dashing young bodyguard#and mahasamut will leave possessive marks juuuuust underneath the line of tongrak's collars so that he knows tongrak can't fuck anyone else#at least not without it being clear that someone else was there first#their dynamic is all about shifting power plays where outside the bedroom tongrak will do something to rile mahasamut up#so that the second they're home mahasamut will pin him down to their bed and fuck him into submission again#the servants all desperately wish they'd stop fucking in random places because they all know way too much about their kinks#mahasamut x tongrak#tongrak x mahasamut#rakmut#fic inspo#its the blazer/top thing that peat's wearing that is just peak tai tai energy i can't#<my posts>
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I love how you agree that 001 is down bad for 456. Like... just kiss already.
Dude, it's lowkey terrifying, to be honest, because so far it's been for shits and giggles only. I swear, this tropes is about to be added into the "overused" shelf at this point bUT IT DOESN'T MEAN IT CAN'T BE ENTERTAINING, STILL. TO ME. SO BLESS BLESS BLESS GIFMAKERS AND MY MUTUALS for bringing those two into my dash since I've already heard ENOUGH from sources whose tastes are similar to mine so it is safe to say I can trust them when they say season 2, to put it mildly, not as good as the first season (derogatory in the most spiteful way) in sooo many aspects.
I can't put it down, is the thing. I haven't even moved past episode 1, knowing they're reusing the old elements that'd make the entire thing redundant and a waste of time. But when I think about if Jun-ho's existence is also included in the sphere of this... situationship or something between Gi-hun and In-ho...... I can't lie, it is hysterical because wHAT DO YOU MEAAAN YOU'VE BEEN OBSESSED WITH LOOKING FOR YOUR BROTHER, WHO ISN'T 100% YOUR BIOLOGICAL BROTHER THAT'S DISAPPEARED SINCE YEARS AGO, yet somehow you're always drawn to this particular man in the oddest way possible because NOT ONLY THIS MAN HAS GONE THROUGH SIMILAR ORDEAL AS YOU IN A PLACE WHERE YOU FINALLY FOUND YOUR BROTHER, yet at the same time not knowing this man MIGHT BE YOUR BROTHER'S TYPE
IN THE MOST SOULMATE SHIT KIND OF WAY??????????????????????????
Smh siblings
#crazy ass work for tropes where siblings unknowingly orbiting towards each other#but not without the help of a third party that has this intense gravity that can both reunite while also destroy#i'm not saying Jun-ho might as well join his brother's toxic yaoi game with this particular man btw#bet Jun-ho would rather eat glass than witness the whole possessiveness his brother has or something#UNAWARE that when it's just obsession in disguise. the very same thing he ALSO possesses (ha)#Hwang Jun-ho i am so sorry you're related to that embarassing older brother of yours lmao#(i know he can get along just fine eventually with gi-hun if they're in-laws) (which is fuckin hilarious to me honestly)#Squid Game#Hwang In-ho#Hwang Inho#Hwang Junho#Gi-hun#Hwang In Ho#Hwang Jun Ho#Seong Gi Hun#Seong Gi-hun#Seong Gihun#player 456#player 001#nazura
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Oh wait is it a toxic family when the father refuses to take accountability and instead blames the kids for his mistakes? And as a result the kids are unwillingly shoehorned into roles where one is the golden perfectionistic never allowed to criticise the family child, and the other is the black sheep difficult selfish disobedient child?
And the golden child is about to explode because he’s never allowed to have his own opinions and so when he feels real frustration at his father, he can’t land the blame there and so he’s conditioned to blame his sibling instead?
And the black sheep child just takes the criticism and the blame and learns to become overly defensive, because he’s learned no one will watch his back but himself, not even his sibling?
Oh wait it’s not a toxic family.
It’s Scuderia Ferrari
#take all the misplaced anger between Charlos and direct it at Fred Vasseur#may Charles and Carlos both realise this#look this post is parasocial and I take that#but it’s literally a toxic family dynamic#it’s a situation where each party becomes more and more entrenched because those patterns are the only way they can defend themselves#Charles is in a pattern where he thinks if you just respect what the team says it will all be okay#because it must be okay? right? right?#Carlos is in a pattern where he has lost all trust in the pit wall and needs to start strategising for himself#and almost seems to accept that Charles will come out of the car angry#and it’s all rooted in Fred Vasseur and the team’s absolute lack of accountability#how hard is it to say to your drivers ‘we messed up your strategy’#‘Carlos should not have been parallel to you on pit exit’#‘we should have pitted Carlos earlier’#but no. Ferrari won’t. and I know they haven’t because there’s not been a lick of accountability publicly#here’s the thing. I have my own opinions about whether Carlos or Charles’s reactions to media after the race were appropriate or not#but what I am convinced of is that those reactions of frustration and defensiveness come from this exact team culture#and the pattern reinforces itself again and again#charles leclerc#f1#carlos sainz#las vegas gp 2024
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i feel like it's pretty safe to assume the people who say Chaggie is toxic because of Vaggie's attachment to Charlie haven't really been deeply in love before, especially not in a situation where their partner literally saved their life.
Sure a dynamic like that could go sour if you become too overbearing/demanding or controlling out of fear of losing them, but Vaggie is very obviously not that?
I can't exactly put the feeling into words, it's sort of a situation you have to experience in order to understand. But when you owe someone your life, especially when it feels that person is also your soulmate, of course you dedicate the rest of it to making them happy and giving unyielding support. Of course you feel like you owe them the world, because they're your whole world and the only reason you're even still here.
Yes it can create a power imbalance and your partner could take advantage of the obsessive loyalty that level of dependency breeds, but Charlie chooses not to because shes not abusive and she respects and loves vaggie.
Charlie recognizes that Vaggie has self worth issues and places her value in how useful she is to her, and instead of making it into a toxic situation charlie takes the time to reassure vaggie that she doesn't need to be 'proving' herself and that she is loved and valued as she is.
#Idk chaggies dynamic mirrors me and my fiance of 10+ yrs so I'm biased and will b blocking ppl that say dumb shit probably lol#Yes it can become toxic very easily if either party chooses to make it that way but if you truly love your partner you simply#Don't? Take advantage of them?? And both parties of chaggie very clearly respect and love eachother.#And as time goes on it'll be easier for Vaggie to believe her worth outside of her relationship and accept herself#idk I see some of the discourse abt this and it's like. /SO/ clear you guys don't get it.#And that's fine bc it's really not something you can truly get if you haven't gone through it yourself#But idk how you can say with your whole chest that either Vaggie or Charlie are taking advantage of eachother#Tumblr is all for supporting ppl that are struggling until it comes down to people who actually heavily depend on that support
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sobbing why am i so susceptible to old man yaoi
#it takes over my life more & more by the day#toxic old man yaoi#(yes this is about#billford#and#pureshadow#especially#why r they hitting different)#crawls back into my cave for a million years#hjfgmnvbjf unhealthy dynamics where both parties r actively making things worse....#codependency and obsession and freaky levels of attachment.....#i am not okay </3
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the day osc tumblr stops fighting over tacomic is the day we all heal [adding my personal opinion in the tags]
#tacomic neg#adding the tags so the people im talking about can see this and actually digest it with their eyeballs#its just so tiring#why do u guys care about ship discourse so much for ships that aren't even bad or hurting anyone#please just look away and stop complaining and being unnecessarily mean to people who are doing nothing wrong#i've never seen any actual tacomic shippers MAKE them abusive or toxic or belittle other ships and be so hostile towards them#also it'll make you much happier instead of making you pointlessly mad all the time if u just stop caring#i think people should just stop fighting each other cause it gets nowhere and just makes both parties mad and upset for no reason#but the osc thrives off of negativity and infighting for some reason idk why im even saying this. im not surprised this is happening.#its been like this ever since i joined. don't you guys ever take a break instead of being so negative all the time?#its also hypocritical for reasons i've said before but i don't feel like starting anything up
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im new here- is dean abusive?
imo yeah. smarter people than me have written dissections of the way he treats sam & others (he’s also Awful to his psuedo-son jack, but i haven’t gotten to that season yet), i’ve probably reblogged a bunch of them.
he certainly doesn’t mean to be & i don’t say it to condemn him as a person or as a character & i’m still very attached to him & he loves sam very much (not that that makes a difference in whether u abuse someone or not) - but the way he treats sam a lot/some of the time is emotionally abusive and sam is clearly badly impacted. s4 and s8 come to mind as his worst moments also ofc moc era - after that there’s less interpersonal conflict (up to where i am at least) but that’s because sam mostly stops disagreeing with dean not because dean actually gets much better <3 spn is cycles of abuse show after all. family is hell. dean’s learnt pretty much everything about how to behave from his abusive father and as a result. well. cycle continues
#anon i wonder which way ur approaching this from - having not considered that dean treats sam badly or having never thought of it as Abusiv#mutuals pls feel free to chime in with ur opinions#wrote a bunch of more detailed responses to this but none of them felt right so i was just like. eh#narrative portrays dean as right like All Of The Time bc the shows morality is deans morality its fucked up so that makes it harder for#fandom to see how awful he is sometimes#but i think a lot of people see his awful behaviour but just wouldn’t call it abusive and rather toxic etc because abusive#is such a ‘strong word’ and people have a lot of personal connotations with it#i don’t often even actually use the word abusive to describe him. but he is! and i’ve been watching s4 and he’s just So awful and it’s been#reminding me hugely#dean crit#<- i guess#spn#oliver talks#asks#it’s more than just like. being awful sometimes. bc it’s this systemic pattern of eradicating sam’s sense of identity outside of him#and punishing sam for ‘disobeying’ him (like s4/8)#dean winchester#supernatural#Also when you start recognising dean as abusive the show becomes a legitimate horror story because fucking hell!!!!#narrative just. sides with him most of the time!!!!#if u wanna think abt it for urself id say make sure u know what abuse actually Is and how it can present & then look at a lot of sam and#dean conflicts. do they seem equal? r both parties being as awful to each other? whats the context?#look away from the view the show is trying to get you to take via like. ending shots and closeups. and look at what theyre actually saying#to each other and what has actually happened#<- i feel like this sounds patronising i dont mean to be😭#if u already think sam&dean r fucked up and had just never defined it as abusive before then feel free to ignore me#there r probably posts in my dean winchester tag much better than this#<- okay apparently i had a lot to say actually. sorry for doing it in the tags
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nah kunidazai is so much better [I say this as a multishipper, skk stans don't come for me]. It was the first ship I liked in bsd especially cuz it reminded me of nanago (nanami x gojo from jjk)
OMGG BC WHEN I STARTED BSD I LITERALLY FELL IN LOVE W KNKDZ BC I WAS LIKE OMG ITS NANAMI AND GOJO IN THE BOOKISH STRAY DOGS ANIME???
#also yea knkdz is overall way healthier than skk and a relationship where both parties learn and grow bc of each other#skk is lowkey toxic but that makes it hot ig#i adore both nobody come for me😭#lotus’s asks
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My interpretation for these two.
Compulsory heterosexuality is what I know best when it comes to queer themes so there's a lot of projection there.
#autofelaciones mentales mias#Sorry for being the party pooper. I know many have taken the polyamory and sexual-equality route#at first it was just about Mul cuz I had his character clear. His situation was more of an unrequited thing#but my friend offered to do something for Geum and he FILLED A WHOLE PAGE#I added ''About his brothers'' to not make Mul's page look so empty💀#toxic yaoi#<- that sums it up#it's just the not-very-healthy-shitty-queer-person inside both of us
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Maybe it's the angst brain but I wanna see an OC x Hobie but it's a toxic relationship. Like what would that look like? And I mean in actual in character toxic relationship not whatever people have been doing in the x reader tag.
#im talking no children by mountain goats type of toxic relationship#like they hate each other so much but they#they also inconvenience the people around them#I can see a mutual codependent relationship#both parties are seeking validation from the other and reinforcing bad habits#but that's just me#hobie x oc#atsv x oc#oc x canon#jay and the spiders
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People who age up Jeanne just to be the same age as Ren are cowards
#text#I also don't agree with the headcanon interpretation of Ren treating her like a “kid” either in the BP era because of their age difference#If anything I like to believe they treated eachother as equals and have mutual respect for one another#I personally find it boring to keep restricting your enjoyment on the ship all because of their 4 year age gap. When they literally have#no power imbalance in their dynamic neither theyre unhealthy. Theyre both mature for their ages if anything#Like yeah its ok to be uncomfortable and grossed out because theyre a adult x teen ship I get it. But still again they have a pretty#mature and healthy relationship by the end of the day as it even shows in their adult years. Idk why ppl have such a hard time#grasping the concept that Ren and Jeanne had a mature healthy relationship during the BP era and still wishes#for jeanne to be aged up or make her the same age as Ren because 4 year age gap is too much apparently#also lets not forget theyve been through hell in their childhoods and had to grow up fast in the toxic environment they were in#. but nah ppl think a 4 year age gap is much worse and it'll make both parties even more traumatized ever then before#than the hell they were put through as kids. Lord#I think their tragic backstories were MUCH worse honestly to the point it gives them life long trauma and endless nightmares#But them dating I literally dont give a fuck as they literally healed each other when they got together romantically#Also note: I still believe people can do whatever they want by the end of the day. Sometimes not all aus are made for everyone and thats ok#Do whatever that makes you feel the most comfortable and see fit-- I just find it a tad bit sad when ppl restrict themselves strictly#when it comes to fictional age gap ships in general when they could break loose and go all out having fun without thinking about#irl morals because this is fiction but thats just me
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god when i die probably: you really had a fucking type huh?
me: what do you mean?
god:
payneland
dreamling
me: that’s a coinc-
mercelot
me: okay but that’s-
thilbo
me:okay but i bet you can’t name one more
ironstrange
me: that one’s only with fanon characterizations though. i don’t think it counts
god: do you want to see your other type?
me, already knowing i will like this one less: no not really-
catwin
corintheus
hannigram
me: i’m sorry?
god: you should be.
#for anyone confused#set one is sunshine x dark soul#and sunshine is obsessed with dark soul in 50% of pairings listed#and the other one is toxic obsession by one or both parties#i just want someone to be obsessed with me okay#i want to be consumed#(also brunets but we ignore that)#for clarity i still love all these ships to some degree#this is not shade!#also this is a lie for the joke i have lots of ships that fall outside of these categories#i just noticed this and thought it was funny
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#started going to therapy again in the hopes of coping better with my fam situation#but my therapist is pretty adamant that the situation is too toxic for me to be able to heal in#and i know he's right but also i'm not in a place rn where i can leave said situation or have the emotional capacity to try#and having a third party affirm that the position you're in is actually more fucked up than u thought is both validating and exhausting#bc like before i was just like ''my mom is entitled to still be close to the ppl who sexually abused me''#and was able to just blame all my rage and frustration and hurt on myself#but now that it is starting to resonate that Wait That's Actually Fucked Up#just existing around my mom has become so much more exhausting#& i've spoken to my therapist abt this but i'm venting here bc i'm really feeling it today#it's sounds dumb but having someone explain to u that ur rightfully at ur limit at all times makes it so real somehow#ofc i'm at my limit at all times in this environment most people would be too!!!#i'm just so tired 😭😭#tired and overwhelmed and tired and overwhelmed#and#ugh
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droners might have some flaws but i really think that if someone wants to write a proper rivals to lovers dynamic then they should study whatever hannah and corto have as a reference
#like just. i have heard a bunch of people complain about enemies to lovers dynamics sometimes accidentally turning out to just be toxic#because of the writers not nailing down the jackpot of the hostility from both parties being balanced#and also other reasons. and i myself have my own too. bcs its just not an easy dynamic to write#but genuiely so far? so far these two have none of these issues#their relationship goes from hating each other to considering each other a more respected rival to genuine friends in a great way that-#-doesnt feel rushed or unnatural#and they're unified by having far more similarities than you'd think they'd have at first glance. which was both why they hated each other#and why they work so great now that they're friends#AND their haterism towards each other back when they werent friends was very balanced and equal. they both hated each others guts lmao#and now that they're friends they still bicker but it was said directly that now its just how they act when racing is involved & theyre-#competing against each other. like that one 'best friends off court sworn enemies on it. athletes understand' meme#and outside of it they're genuiely friends and like each other#and EVEN DURING RACING. HAVE YOU SEEN THE MECHANIX RACE#their bickering during the race is pure fun for them they're LAUGHING TOGETHER it's so great#PLUS THE SHOW WENT OUT OF ITS WAY MORE THAN ONCE TO SHOW HOW WELL THEY CAN SYNCHRONIZE.#HOW WELL THEY CAN WORK TOGETHER.#i could say more. i could say more about them. but just know that the droners yuri is real#for the record though they're not. canon. i dont want to queerbait anyone on accident.#but i havent seen a single fan that wouldnt agree that they have something going on there#which even with a fandom this small is saying something
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being VERY normal about Rhaenicent tonight (lying)
#doomed toxic yuri#love that for them#when a ship is doomed from the start>>>#when both parties are toxic and unhinged>>>>#they said lets make eachother better and then WORSE#rhaenicent#'youre the only person who makes me happy but we cant be together so im going to make it EVERYONES PROBLEM'
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