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#toxic to both parties
bimyself06 · 7 months
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I personally believe that Briar Beuty and Raven Queen should have become the best of friends after the Thronecoming fiasco. Raven knows to an extent how Briar feels, I mean we don't even know if the people trapped in the mirror prison can die while in there or if they are forever trapped, and now that Briar has expressedly voiced her thoughts on following your destiny and signing the book I think that Raven would have understood her point of view.
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hauntzbin · 7 months
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i feel like it's pretty safe to assume the people who say Chaggie is toxic because of Vaggie's attachment to Charlie haven't really been deeply in love before, especially not in a situation where their partner literally saved their life.
Sure a dynamic like that could go sour if you become too overbearing/demanding or controlling out of fear of losing them, but Vaggie is very obviously not that?
I can't exactly put the feeling into words, it's sort of a situation you have to experience in order to understand. But when you owe someone your life, especially when it feels that person is also your soulmate, of course you dedicate the rest of it to making them happy and giving unyielding support. Of course you feel like you owe them the world, because they're your whole world and the only reason you're even still here.
Yes it can create a power imbalance and your partner could take advantage of the obsessive loyalty that level of dependency breeds, but Charlie chooses not to because shes not abusive and she respects and loves vaggie.
Charlie recognizes that Vaggie has self worth issues and places her value in how useful she is to her, and instead of making it into a toxic situation charlie takes the time to reassure vaggie that she doesn't need to be 'proving' herself and that she is loved and valued as she is.
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lilacthebooklover · 1 month
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sobbing why am i so susceptible to old man yaoi
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glamfellens · 10 months
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banish these wips/shit thats been sat on my hard drive for a year+ boy
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flyingbuddiies · 6 months
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the day osc tumblr stops fighting over tacomic is the day we all heal [adding my personal opinion in the tags]
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sammygender · 3 months
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im new here- is dean abusive?
imo yeah. smarter people than me have written dissections of the way he treats sam & others (he’s also Awful to his psuedo-son jack, but i haven’t gotten to that season yet), i’ve probably reblogged a bunch of them.
he certainly doesn’t mean to be & i don’t say it to condemn him as a person or as a character & i’m still very attached to him & he loves sam very much (not that that makes a difference in whether u abuse someone or not) - but the way he treats sam a lot/some of the time is emotionally abusive and sam is clearly badly impacted. s4 and s8 come to mind as his worst moments also ofc moc era - after that there’s less interpersonal conflict (up to where i am at least) but that’s because sam mostly stops disagreeing with dean not because dean actually gets much better <3 spn is cycles of abuse show after all. family is hell. dean’s learnt pretty much everything about how to behave from his abusive father and as a result. well. cycle continues
#anon i wonder which way ur approaching this from - having not considered that dean treats sam badly or having never thought of it as Abusiv#mutuals pls feel free to chime in with ur opinions#wrote a bunch of more detailed responses to this but none of them felt right so i was just like. eh#narrative portrays dean as right like All Of The Time bc the shows morality is deans morality its fucked up so that makes it harder for#fandom to see how awful he is sometimes#but i think a lot of people see his awful behaviour but just wouldn’t call it abusive and rather toxic etc because abusive#is such a ‘strong word’ and people have a lot of personal connotations with it#i don’t often even actually use the word abusive to describe him. but he is! and i’ve been watching s4 and he’s just So awful and it’s been#reminding me hugely#dean crit#<- i guess#spn#oliver talks#asks#it’s more than just like. being awful sometimes. bc it’s this systemic pattern of eradicating sam’s sense of identity outside of him#and punishing sam for ‘disobeying’ him (like s4/8)#dean winchester#supernatural#Also when you start recognising dean as abusive the show becomes a legitimate horror story because fucking hell!!!!#narrative just. sides with him most of the time!!!!#if u wanna think abt it for urself id say make sure u know what abuse actually Is and how it can present & then look at a lot of sam and#dean conflicts. do they seem equal? r both parties being as awful to each other? whats the context?#look away from the view the show is trying to get you to take via like. ending shots and closeups. and look at what theyre actually saying#to each other and what has actually happened#<- i feel like this sounds patronising i dont mean to be😭#if u already think sam&dean r fucked up and had just never defined it as abusive before then feel free to ignore me#there r probably posts in my dean winchester tag much better than this#<- okay apparently i had a lot to say actually. sorry for doing it in the tags
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lotus-pear · 9 months
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nah kunidazai is so much better [I say this as a multishipper, skk stans don't come for me]. It was the first ship I liked in bsd especially cuz it reminded me of nanago (nanami x gojo from jjk)
OMGG BC WHEN I STARTED BSD I LITERALLY FELL IN LOVE W KNKDZ BC I WAS LIKE OMG ITS NANAMI AND GOJO IN THE BOOKISH STRAY DOGS ANIME???
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32girassoisdevangogh · 8 months
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My interpretation for these two.
Compulsory heterosexuality is what I know best when it comes to queer themes so there's a lot of projection there.
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spidey-bie · 11 months
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Maybe it's the angst brain but I wanna see an OC x Hobie but it's a toxic relationship. Like what would that look like? And I mean in actual in character toxic relationship not whatever people have been doing in the x reader tag.
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thissmycomingofage · 10 months
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The thing is that the tgw deluxe tracks are the regular tracks' kids and there's actually a family tree :
Holy revival : coming of age/tgw
Yoko : two weeks ago/wendy
The Song: watch/lost the breakup
Guy On A Horse: yjab(aiktm)/BSC
Truth is : therapy/there it goes
The last one : the band & I/history of man
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zlixlriffs · 2 years
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Favorite gay romance trope:
Childhood friends where the queer one is in love with the other but they know it will never work out so to save themselves from heartbreak starts pulling away but then the other one starts realizing things because they miss the other a lot
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rigginsstreet · 2 years
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groupie!billy following steve and his band around on tour and they hook up all the time and billys very familiar with the crew and everything but he and steve keep it super casual.... until they dont 😏
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charliextea · 2 months
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god when i die probably: you really had a fucking type huh?
me: what do you mean?
god:
payneland
dreamling
me: that’s a coinc-
mercelot
me: okay but that’s-
thilbo
me:okay but i bet you can’t name one more
ironstrange
me: that one’s only with fanon characterizations though. i don’t think it counts
god: do you want to see your other type?
me, already knowing i will like this one less: no not really-
catwin
corintheus
hannigram
me: i’m sorry?
god: you should be.
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hatake · 1 year
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seariii · 7 months
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THE TIMING!! I saw an email of something that's stressful but I can't talk about much and Quiet Room started playing
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end-orfino · 5 months
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droners might have some flaws but i really think that if someone wants to write a proper rivals to lovers dynamic then they should study whatever hannah and corto have as a reference
#like just. i have heard a bunch of people complain about enemies to lovers dynamics sometimes accidentally turning out to just be toxic#because of the writers not nailing down the jackpot of the hostility from both parties being balanced#and also other reasons. and i myself have my own too. bcs its just not an easy dynamic to write#but genuiely so far? so far these two have none of these issues#their relationship goes from hating each other to considering each other a more respected rival to genuine friends in a great way that-#-doesnt feel rushed or unnatural#and they're unified by having far more similarities than you'd think they'd have at first glance. which was both why they hated each other#and why they work so great now that they're friends#AND their haterism towards each other back when they werent friends was very balanced and equal. they both hated each others guts lmao#and now that they're friends they still bicker but it was said directly that now its just how they act when racing is involved & theyre-#competing against each other. like that one 'best friends off court sworn enemies on it. athletes understand' meme#and outside of it they're genuiely friends and like each other#and EVEN DURING RACING. HAVE YOU SEEN THE MECHANIX RACE#their bickering during the race is pure fun for them they're LAUGHING TOGETHER it's so great#PLUS THE SHOW WENT OUT OF ITS WAY MORE THAN ONCE TO SHOW HOW WELL THEY CAN SYNCHRONIZE.#HOW WELL THEY CAN WORK TOGETHER.#i could say more. i could say more about them. but just know that the droners yuri is real#for the record though they're not. canon. i dont want to queerbait anyone on accident.#but i havent seen a single fan that wouldnt agree that they have something going on there#which even with a fandom this small is saying something
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