#this isnt directed to anyone specific

[kiisuuumii]

i hope you can come to believe that you can be happy in this life

[aychama]

Diversity cannot be forced in a world with so many diverse people.

[freakinator]

hm. my phrasing wasnt the best in answering this ngl but i hope yall get what i mean, i'll try to clarify regardless tho

regardless of if he's actually straight or not, its. very odd to me that red repeatedly... well for a lack of better term Queerbaits his audience (aka his "btw im bi... well half of it anyway... the straight half that is" schtick)

if he does have internalized homophobia then that sucks. if hes just a straight man that really really doesnt wanna be seen as gay but still keeps saying hes bi for some reason before deconfirming it then it sucks for a different reason

and the thing that really gets me is that most of the time whenever he pulls this kinda thing is its entirely unprompted, he just brings it up all on his own

and the thing is i think its okay to be uncomfortable with being shipped esp since swagdoons is almost unavoidable on lstwt but the way he goes about it expressing that sentiment is very strange to me like. idk what his sexuality is (and tbh i dont care to know, we're not friends and i dont need his personal info) but regardless i think whatever is going on here is something that he needs to work on on his own

[snowflake-sage]

Just to clarify something:

I am nonbinary, my pronouns are they/them!

I realized I didn't have my pronouns in my bio (which I'm going to add) and I think my sonas pronouns are confusing people.

Mae is my main sona and Sage is my secondary sona, tho both are also their own character and have different pronouns. Mae goes by she/her, and Sage he/him, but ME AS A PERSON goes by they/them. Their opposite pronouns as well as both being my sonas is a representation of my personal identity as a nonbinary person, as I connect with both masc and fem but I'm not limited to one or the other.

Okay that's all, thank you 👍

[t4transsexual]

at the risk of people getting mad at me for saying this ive noticed that every single trans person who refuses to date other trans people is extremely insecure in their transness and like. thats fine i guess u dont gotta date trans ppl or anything im just saying this is something ive noticed

[nyastyaraspurrtina]

I'm sorry but whenever I see those posts that are like "Reblog this post to prove your blog is a safe space for xyz people!!! Mutuals if you don't reblog this I'm unfollowing!!!" or "Reblog this post to help me prove to my dad xyz is valid!!!!" it's just like...I'm sorry, I'm not gonna do that. It's reblog bait. I don't have to reblog some guilt trippy post to prove I'm an ally to someone or whatever. Same goes for those "if this gets x notes I'll do self care" posts. Dude, if guilting people on Tumblr into giving you notes is the only way you're able to practice self care, that's really fucking bad and I'm not enabling that, or you just want notes, which I don't care about giving you enough to reblog your weird bait post. It's just weird.

[hand-of-devotion]

I keep rotating certain aspects of the Evontra'vir-Ashton conversation and there's one specific thing I see other people taking away from it that is lacking a certain amount of nuance that stuck with me.

Specifically in regards to Ashton's views and how they parallel his fathers.

It should be obvious to everyone at this point that Ashton's stubborn hypocritical "refusal to the call" rooted in his anti divine/fate beliefs need some genuine reflection. They are important and they are aware of it but they don't want any of the hard to grapple with things associated. He needs to think about what it is he can actually do moving forward rather than getting caught up in what he feels he's owed.

However! One very important thing that I keep seeing others ignore or maybe just not even pick up on is THIS.

Efterin's entitlement came from his own zealots ego. The powers he believed he was promised an understanding and control over were NEVER his.

Ashton's entitlement towards the situation is rooted in what was done TO him. Those powers are in fact his. They have been there since he was a child due to a ritual he had no say in. That ritual physically altered his body and killed off nearly everyone in his entire village.

Which. Again. Just because they HAVE those powers doesn't mean they were ever guaranteed mastery over them. Certainly not without putting in effort. It has never been a "gift", even if part of them wishes it was. There is likely never going to be a reality in which the full-blown titan level abilities just ACTIVATE for him with full ease. Moving forward. He has a base level of info. Which he likely didn't find satisfying (but given the situation, there was never really a "satisfying" answer). Now they need to just. Look forward and inward. Make some changes if they want some changes.

But yeah. At the end of the day. Regardless of parallels and a real need for character reflection and growth. Saying that Ashton is "the same" as Efterin seems. Fairly reductive, all things considered.

[carn1epretzelz]

okay im not really one to defend hazbin/helluva publicly because yeah, it's got a lot of really serious flaws and a lot of my close circle doesn't really give a shit or actively dislike/are upset by the show (for good reason) but i CANNOT be quiet about how INFURIATED i feel at the mischaracterization of stolas im seeing recently? Calling him a RAPIST??!!?! I feel like it's gotta do with his original Pilot personality, how it seemed like he was gunna be a lot more of a like spoiled brat prince type but he very obviously 180'd from that. People are basically saying he cohered Blitzo into their deal. And while yes, it absolutely isn't a HEALTHY dynamic or relationship, soliciting sex from someone so they can do their job, apparently some people cannot fucking read into a character more than base level. It is so fucking clear that Stolas set up this deal because; 1. yes, he has a crush, and he's looking for an excuse to at least be around that crush. but also 2. HE THOUGHT BLITZO RECIPROCATED HIS FEELINGS. Stolas 100% thought he and Blitzo WERE ON THE SAME PAGE with their relationship. If anything I'd argue both of these characters could be at fault; Blitzo KNOWS what he's doing, the sex doesn't mean anything to him and he's leading Stolas on, and Stolas is using his position of power to convince Blitzo to sleep with him. Not that I think his royalty status matters at all to Blitzo; Stolas isn't FORCING it, and Blitzo would easily tell him to fuck off or say he isn't interested IF HE WASN'T INTERESTED. And Stolas is LITERALLY ATTEMPTING to find an alternative for their deal. He's looking for an Asmodean Crystal or something so that Blitzo doesn't HAVE to use his Grimoire to go to Earth. He's breaking the deal BECAUSE HE REALIZED BLITZO DOESN'T PROPERLY RECIPROCATE HIS FEELINGS AND HE FEELS LIKE HE'S TRAPPING HIM. I'm convinced some people just don't read into characterization properly just because they dislike something. Stolas is not a fucking rapist and I'm genuinely disgusted that some people are comparing him to FUCKING VALENTINO of all characters they are not the same IN THE SLIGHTEST. Stolas is NOT without his faults for being a little skeevy to try and get his crush to sleep with him, but he is not a fucking abuser dear LORD.

[psi-spectacular]

"Yall I aged him up chill"

[pootimedes]

(me trying to flirt) we're both mentally ill and we should make out

[sw-x-rm]

so funny /sarc that people wanna romanticise mental disorders/conditions no matter how damaging or humiliating they actually are n claim to support people with them but the SECOND it's a humiliating physical issue? Nope muh uh you better suffer in silence bitch

[beetroot-merchant]

hey you. tumblr user. please shut up about ai if you dont know anything about it

[h0neybane]

one of my... pet peeves is when... people type like... this... just throughout the entire... paragraph... CAN YOU JUST... BE NORMAL

[maliciousalice]

[musingmycelium]

. noncoherent but also thoughts

[tv-worlds]

please provide translations for your typing quirks if someone asks. please add image ids (which i’ll admit i’ve failed to do, but will start doing.) being radqueer is being all inclusive, this *means* being inclusive to people who need translations.