#this is true hater problems like if i could just be normal about it i would. sadly annoying ppl in 2019 utterly destroyed it for me 4ever 🥲

[spxcesuits]

devastating when ur otp and notp are constantly brought up in association with e/o just bc they both have the same character and are compared even tho the dynamics are not that similar at all 😔

[narcissisticpdcultureis]

Questioning npd culture is... (Half a vent)

"do I actually do that or do I just think I do?"

"Well I think like that all the time but it's not like I ever do anything about it"

"no one else would ever think of me like that so it must not be true"

"ok but is that a symptom or am I just a shitty person?"

"am I a hater or am I just actually right about everything all the time? Is me having an ego wrong or am I just actually perfect?"

"am I blowing things out of proportion or is wanting you to die a justified response to this situation?"

"if they don't answer me they must hate me and want me dead so I must have showed them how awful of a human being I actually am"

"is the disorder defined by what I do? Or is just thinking this type of shit enough to be a problem?"

"yeah I've always had this idea that I was going to be famous and loved forever and i break down when I think about how that's probably not going to happen and I'm supposed to be just like any other person because I'm Not, i'm different than all of them and i deserve to be remembered more than they do, but that's not me being irrational, i'm just confident in my own abilities" (i'm not)

"is this a normal level of confidence or am I getting an ego about this because people are praising me? but yeah I am just better at it than everyone else"

"yes getting in arguments online makes me so fucking anxious but it's the only place I can do it without real consequences and honestly I don't care about this at all I just want an excuse to laugh at you because it makes me feel better about myself"

"i don't think I could ever be able to accurately recognize this in myself but i also don't think anyone else could either unless I told them specifically (and then it wouldn't feel genuine, I'd feel like I just manipulated them and i'm faking because I want to seem 'edgy' or something)"

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[seat-safety-switch]

Visiting actual civilization is fun. In most cities, things don't start happening until you leave the endless expanse of suburbia and go to the inner city. Downtown haters will tell you not to do it, of course. It's "unsafe," but so is driving a fifty-year-old car without airbags or the ability to turn left. Joke's on them: not only will they use more fuel over the lifetime of their car idling at lights waiting for a green arrow, but they're also going to miss out on my favourite part of downtown, the sausage cart.

Long ago, according to local legend, this sausage cart was opened by a dude from Poland whose name is lost to history. His descendants now own a network of sausage carts all throughout downtown, but this one – the true original – is the only choice of the tube-meat connoisseur. I love to visit, get a smokie and a questionably-branded pop, and be back on the road, before the parking patrol has even twigged to the fact that I left my car in the memorial fountain once again.

Last weekend, I went down there and there was a problem. The operator, whose name will also be lost to history because I ain't no snitch, was worried that his customer base was starting to get pulled away by the falafel cart across the street. This was a valid worry: not only was the falafel cheaper, more flavourful, and more delicious, but they had a guy dressed up as a giant foam gyro breakdancing on the sidewalk. It was a nearly irresistible combo, one that I could only pull myself away from out of blind loyalty to the Sausage King's bravest foot soldier.

Now, I'm not one to get involved in petty squabbles like this normally. I would have just left, but the dude in the gyro suit started chirping at me as I approached my car. My attorney has suggested that I not repeat the words he spoke about my humble Volare, but I assure you that he ate said words, as I set about doing a spiteful, highschooler-grade one-wheel-peel burnout to enshroud their business in tire smoke. Of course, that burnout then resulted in the half-century-old automatic transmission letting go and splashing white-hot Dexron III® all over the cart full of ingredients, but it got results nonetheless. I don't know what they're complaining about, it didn't even taste bad when I helped myself to a free sample after they ran away.

[midnightblvc]

𝐀𝐔𝐆𝐔𝐒𝐓 𝐌𝐎𝐎𝐍 𝐒𝐄𝐍𝐓𝐄𝐍𝐂𝐄 𝐒𝐓𝐀𝐑𝐓𝐄𝐑𝐒.

sentence starters taken from ost of the amazon prime's movie The idea of You (2024). change pronouns as you see fit. 

I need more hours in the day

I'm focusing on your waist

I got a lot of energy for you

I need more minutes of your time

so I got us both a room for two

you're such a masterpiece

that's something we should celebrate

tell me you'll never leave

because I've been thinkin' everyday

you're the highlight, no doubt

I’m down

you got me loving the taste

just tell me where to go

I got dinner on the plate

it's gonna have to wait

I can't seem to stay away

because you've been on my mind all day

I took a little time to breathe

I'm living in the new normal lately

took a shot and I'm puttin' it right in the pocket

what you gonna do, baby?

it took a lot of time to say

I think I need a new direction lately

I think I know how we're gonna face it

new wave

what a beautiful change

I make you blush

I know that you think I talk too much

I don't wanna say goodbye

please repeat what you just did to me

baby, rest your head on my shoulder

we could keep it going the whole night

just let me get your number and your time

you might not take this that seriously

but you don't make a move 'cause you don't want to say goodbye

I want to get closer to you

it's all on your face, that someone said something 'bout you

but haters gon' hate, just let that shit fly by

you know that it's fake, so why you gon' act like it's true

I just wanna make it real clear

you don't need the problems

they ain't nothing but lies

baby, no need to worry

girl, I got you

you still wanna cry, I see that you're hurting

you're still beautiful

I'll be by your side

I could not choose

too much too soon

but then I give it up to the devil in me

and I let my guard down

I've given up on her vision of me

she don't want part of the cliché I turned into

don't want her to see me that way

face the truth

I don't even care about the rain no more

that's the side the effect you've had on me

but there's no way to put out this flame

I'll wait a lifetime or two with the idea of you to get me through

never even dared to write a song before not until you put your faith in me

I used to believe that love's gonna fade

So I'll wait a lifetime or two

I'll hold on to

[randomlydreamingsblog]

10 of my top Kakasaku headcanons:

!!!!! Before I start, if you share different opinions or just think something different it’s okay, these are just MY thoughts on how I personally picture the ship. Since they’re not canon, it opens to a lot of possibilities and opinions, so if you don’t like mine just keep scrolling and we’ll be fine !!!!!

1- It takes quite some time for them to start seeing each other in a different light. After the war their bond evolves into a low key friendship that gets them closer. After they both realize they feel attracted to each other, they both experience a lot of self conflict and mixed emotions. Things only switch when the tension between them is so strong they actually kiss and then things finally start to slowly move on from there.

2- Kakashi isn’t a hater of hospitals. He’s a reasonable man and he understands that health and rest are important, so he is not reluctant to doctors or nurses. He always prefers when it’s Sakura taking care of him, and he respects her orders. Even though he doesn’t enjoy being in a hospital bed (who does?) he does his best to follow the rules and let his body recover.

3- Kakashi is the one who falls first when he starts to notice he’s attacked to not only Sakura’s beauty but also her personality, different traits and small details like her laugh, her smell or the way she talks.

4- Sakura falls for him after a medical checkup when Kakashi shows his face to her for the first time. She’s shocked because he’s very different from the old bored man she’d pictured in her head: he’s actually much younger and incredibly handsome. That actually makes her see him in a different way and she ends up feeling attracted, and later, in love.

5- Their bonds with Sasuke will always remain. They’ll always love him and welcome him as part of their family and they’ll always be friends. Sasuke loves Sakura and wishes she has someone who can give her what he couldn’t and he’s happy when he finds out she’s with Kakashi. He doesn’t think it’s weird and actually believes they make a lot of sense together. (I simply don’t like to mischaracterize Sasuke just to make Kakasaku happen. Maybe it’s because I like the canon couple and understand Sasuke’s character)

6- Kakashi had very few sexual experiences in his life. He’s very reserved and doesn’t open up easily, so even though he can get attention from a lot of women, his ninja duties, past traumas and domestic personality don’t really allow him to have a relationship or commit to someone.

7- When it comes to Sakura, I believe 2 things can be true: either she and Sasuke actually have a full relationship for a while and later they end it in good terms, or they don’t even start a relationship and decide to be friends instead. In the fist scenario, Sakura has experienced everything form a relationship: love, intimacy and of course, sex. In the second scenario she has her fisrt time with Kakashi but the journey on love and intimacy is new to both.

8- Kakashi does feel a slight guilt about the way he neglected Sakura when he was her sensei. However it’s not that much shameful or too deep, because Sakura appreciates everything he did for her. It’s just that if he could go back in time he might do things differently, that’s all.

9- Showing his face was never a problem to Kakashi. Of course he prefers to keep his mask on and only takes it off when it’s highly necessary, but it was never a problem to show his face to the people who were closer to him, like Guy and his other jounin friends for example. The thing with team 7 is just because it was fun to tease them when he saw the 3 of them working so well together for something silly, so he kept teasing as much as he could.

10- Sakura is also a minute closeted “pervert” , just like Kakashi. She has a very sexual side but she keeps it to herself. Even though sometimes she might struggle with some insecurities and come off a little shy (which is perfectly normal because it’s very unrealistic to be 100% confident and outgoing all the time) she’s always brave to come out of her shell and enjoys experiencing new things. If she’s in love with someone she’s not afraid of anything and she’s very passionate, so with Kakashi she gives everything she has, and it’s HOT!

That’s it, I have more but this post would be too long. Hope you enjoyed it!

[atdwarriorsau]

if you had to change anything like. big big abt plot in canon what would you change

Dawn of the Clans next question.

Man like... so much. I think most warrior cats fans can agree the writing isn't that... good.

I could say so much. The fact that racism, xenophobia, colonialism, sexism, ableism, fatphobia, abuse apologia, are not only all present, but normalized and are explicitly shown as the moral and righteous viewpoint/status quo/thing to do. Now portraying these topics, even in children's book (which wc is), is fine, as long as it's clear these things are wrong. It's important for this information to be accessible to kids, if they read about abuse they can understand that their own situation is bad; hence why Kosa bill and book banning are real bad. I want to say the writing in this regard isn't deliberate, but not to get controversial but I don't exactly trust white middle aged British women (sowwy)

A post about my dotc feelings, see @bonefall for more or the moonkitti Bumble video

ANYWAYS

I think it's fine to have these kinds of elements in warrior cats, but you HAVE to show that they are bad things. Which is a believe you should have anyway but...

For overarching stufff, I would really love to do something about that ableism. Part of the reason it's so weird that wc society treats disabled cats like... that... is because if you look at real cats that are blind, or have a missing leg or whatever, they are almost always perfectly mobile, and most of them could hunt. Cats rely on their other senses far more than humans do. You could find plenty of videos of 'disabled' cats doing just as much as 'abled' cats.

You could argue that the cats in wc are basically human, which is true (moonkitti's 'the cats are just people' video). HOWEVER, you know who else can still be mobile and do things with disabilities? That's right, humans!

It doesn't make sense from either the 'wc cats are cats' OR the 'wc cats are humans' angles.

And the thing is, Jayfeather was the perfect opertunity to tackle this! Everycat and their mothers have made a Jay as a warrior au, and even without that we could have had a great discussion through the books about the society's ableism. Don't even get me started on Briarlight's death. Absolutely insulting.

As for smaller plot things, ima do stuff for all the arcs!

The Prophecies Begin

(I have not read every book but have absorbed the plot through Tumblr osmosis)

- This is the best arc writing wise so I don't have much but...

- the last book. not great

- It's such a weird sudden heelturn from the previous books. Like Firestar adopting the xenophobia when it doesn't make that much sense from a character standpoint? If anything, he should at least have to struggle with his duty to the clans vs his feelings about Scourge. It would make sense for Firestar to sympathize with him

- Speaking of....

- Listen ima say it. While I love the aesthetic and potential, as it is, Scourge is overrated. Send the fire and pitchforks and stuff, ima say it like it is. Be honest without the Scourge Manga would he be as popular. Be so fr

- It's so so so weird for Scourge and Bloodclan to have similar if at least conflated ideologies with Tigerstar. Why would they be weird about half clan kits and such.

- Also.... sigh... the evil atheist thing gets me. I'm a certified Starclan hater and it is so boring for every villain to be the evil atheist (unless you're going to actually explore that) Implying someone is evil or doomed or whatever because they lack (your) religion is bad and dumb

- and this is the arc I have the least to say about

The New Prophecy

- We do NOT need to know every step of the journey

- Biggest problems here are pacing and POV

- This arc is about clan solidarity. That's had to pull of with only Thunderclan POV. We NEEDED at least Wind and River POV and thos arc would be perfect

- Tribe racism is bad.

Power Of Three

- If you thought TNP pacing was bad...

- huh I wonder if that has anything to do with the arc being created for the fire scene. I don't know though

- Listen I love the idea of slice of life but you have to stick to that. PO3 can not decide on high stakes magic stuff or slice of life. Pick a lane.

- Dark Forest plan makes no sense. At all. I ain't gonna explain it here but yeah it's bad

- Also the prophecy. What's up with that. How did their powers affect the battle except maybe Lion? What's up with them not knowing where it came from?

- This arc has just... so may dangling plot threads. You just keeping throwing them at the wall and giving no answers.

- The cave. The time travelling. Random tribe visit. Rock. Midnight. The spirit world. SOL. THE ECLIPSE

- Most of the things I mentioned have... wait for it... NO EFFECT ON THE MAIN PLOT WHATSOEVER. OR ANY PLOT

- The ending feels like a middle. Like I love the Holly stuff but that's for the middle idk

- Also I would love for Lionblaze to have a paw in killing Ashfur

- I don't like the weird 'adoption bad' thing they have going on

- Oh and Tribe racism is bad again

Omen Of The Stars

- OK I need to talk about the prophecy.

- First literally any other candidate would be better than Firestar. Raise you hand if you cared. Oh alright.

- Hollyleaf, Ivypool, Breezepelt, Flametail, idk Whitewing?

- Speaking of give Flametail something to do or cut him. Why is this like our only main series Shadowclan POV? (this arc in general has too many POVs, pleaseeee we do not need Lionblaze POV)

- 'Hollyleaf didn't have a power because we couldn't think of one.' Gives Dovewing a power

- Just throwing in a quick 'Dovewing deserved better' in here...

- For spending thirteen books setting up the Dark Forest battle, man was that disappointing and a lil boring. Good for them for killing Firestar tho. Shoulda killed more guys off.

- Starclan acting like complete idiots for no reason. Cool I'm sure this will never happen again.

- One tiny thing to make the plot better. Make it so Starclan can't come to the living world (or won't hehe) while DF spirits can. Makes the battle actually plausible (for DF) and adds more stakes and tension. (Maybe the prophecy came from the DF... hm...)

- Oh and Tribe racism bad again

A Vision Of Shadows

- Okay if this is the Skyclan return arc why do they have such small a role?

- Darktail's backstory sucks I'll say it. Cowards

- The Tigerheartstar book and the Hawkwing book should've been inside the main arc. Whyd you give me required reading. At least the Hawkwing book anyways. Skyclan's journey to the lake 100% needed to be IN this arc

- Here begins the reoccurring theme of the ending destroying the arc. This is probably the least bad of those. But still not great chief. If you can't fill the six books with enough plot maybe you need more plot... (or yanno replace b6 with Hawkwing's Journey and shuffle it around? Who said that?)

- Alderheart's character growth being offscreen and him just not having anxiety anymore irks me

- First time the sister would have been a more interesting protag. This will happen again..

- Also the mediator stuff flopped. Skyclan should have invented it earlier. Skyclan NEEDED to be so much more weirder. Now we have copy-paste clan number five, old people edition

The Broken Code

- Sisters being more interesting part two

- First time two of the protags have a relationship while the other protag has the entire plot. This will happen again.

- What did you do to Mothwing.

- The ghosts thing, while interesting, yet again requires required reading from a super edition. Okay. Leafpool's death not being in a main arc book is insulting

- Alright this arc was pretty alright I'll admit it

- If Bristlefrost somehow returns I'm deducting points I stg

A Starless Clan

- (the Southpark kid voice) KILL NIGHTHEART!

- Ugghhh can I get a misogyny number two combo?

- Everything else with Sunbeam except Nightheart is SO interesting and the arc needed more of that.

- Oh we have evil atheists again. Okay.

- At least Curlfeather had a bit of interest. Splashtail flopped hard in, you guessed it, the last book! Yet again they ran out of plot for the last book, sad!

- Starclan should stay away more often tbh

Changing Skies

- I could just say Moonpaw's parentage but that would be lazy

- ughhhhhh I bet we're getting loads of ablesim against Leafstar. Sounds fun. Also Leafstar is one million years old but I doubt they'd have the balls to kill her off. Modern Skyclan will never have another leader.

- Also ableism against Moonpaw cause I'd bet a dollar they'd imply DID with her and they will NOT do any research and it will ableist as hell. If the voice is evil istg

- The absorbed twin thing isn't great either. Don't get me started on the chimeraism thing. None of it works that way

- Also we might be leaving the territories again. I bet the next place will have even less to do in it than the lake

- They will find a way to get Stormclan stuff in here and it will be bad and I will be mad about it

- The arc ain't even come out yet and I'm mad lol

Ughhhhh yeahh that went long... ugh picture of my cat fo your troubles..

[bwobgames]

Previous First

"Coffee, finally"

"Man, I can't believe it's over"

"That's understandable, we basically spent the whole night on panic mode"

"I know! And now we are supposed to go back and worry about normal stuff?

This is like when I was a kid and thought quicksand would be a big problem in my day to day life

What do you mean I don't have to think about time resetting maniacs anymore??"

"I mean, who would believe it?"

"That's true.

All of us are going to trauma bond so much"

"I can see that.

I'm glad we got friends out of it, at least.

That's how difficult it is to make friends as an adult, you need at least one stabbing for a dnd group"

"Been there, been there"

The house explodes again, the bomb squad is waiting on firefighters and the police.

The body was found and covered

They all agreed it was an attempted mass murder gone wrong

"... So, how do you feel?"

"Like a very used rope that will snap at the lightest weight"

"I feel like my skin is not as resistant as it used to be, like whatever happened took parts of me that I'll never get back"

"...Yeah, I understand"

"Not to be pessimistic, but part of me feels like I will never leave this place

Even though it's destroyed, even if they tear it down and build a starbucks on top

I think I'll still be here

A ghost of me"

Oliver Beebo recently started believing in ghosts

The supernatural and psychological type

"My dreams are going to get so weird now"

"Hey, I told you, didn't I? I have great contacts in the mental health department"

"Is that why you're so put together still?"

"I am nowhere near put together, I'm just great at acting like I do"

"I think someone called it masking?"

"Comes with the job"

"I'm sure"

Marigold approaches

"Hello! I wanted you two to know that we will take care of everything legal, but we do need you to testify, so if I could have your numbers for further contact?"

"Oh, of course"

"Also, the now renamed family Iraola cordially invites you to any and all holidays and game nights"

"Oh, nice! Does this involve card games?"

"If you ask Owen, he will immediately challenge you to some kind of battle on his multiple card game sets"

"I will bring only my best for such opponent"

"Uh, miss Marigold Iraola?"

"Yes?"

"When should we concrete the legal agreement to pass you the company?"

".... What?"

"You are the one who should have it. It's only fair"

He gives Oliver a look

"... really? But you used so much money!"

"Well, I wouldn't mind a, let's say, monetary compensation for my efforts both here and there"

"I don't think 'efforts' is the right word for your work at the company, Nadia would throttle you for saying that"

"Did it go broke."

"Uh. I don't know"

"...Alright, that's fine. I'll fix it and get you two with psychological compensation, medical compensation, and, well, compensation for the detective work"

"I have been in worse situations and been paid 20 dollars. This is the best thing that could happen to my wallet"

They interchange phone numbers and are put on the "Clock haters" groupchat

Vivi immediately floods his phone with cat memes

He answers with a thumbs up emoji

"... I feel like I should do something"

"It better not be stand up. Your ankle is lumpy and weird"

"No, no. I mean...

When I was at the other house, I promised to let a bit of beard grow, to, yknow, commemorate my survival, I guess.

Maybe I should let my hair grow? Would it look to unkept?"

"If you let someone else cut it, then you could look fine"

"But my money"

"I'll get it for you, im curious too.

Although, now we have these huge gashes on our faces, doesn't that count?"

"No, They weren't made intentionally.

...Maybe a tattoo?"

"Oh yeah! That's a good idea! I'll take you to my usual parlor"

"You have tattoos?"

"Yeah, but it's too cold to show you right now"

"Where will you go after this, by the way. Back to the capital?"

"No, I'm going to be too tired in the way there, I'll just stay the night at my hotel"

"Oh... well... y'know..."

"I don't live that far, well, I live in the region center, but that's way closer to here than the capital so, uh..."

"You could, you know, stay over if you want"

"... And do what?"

"Uh, do you like boardgames?"

"I supposed so"

"I really doubt we would have the energy to do anything else more, um, physically taxing"

"That's fair. I'll crash at your place then.

We could go sightseeing after, or just play video games inside"

"Yeah, and cook a nice breakfast, get some groceries maybe"

"Go to a park, get ice cream, play with your cat...

It would be nice, I'd like that.

A life like that"

"Ah, but I'm taking you to my apartment as well. You will meet the real city life, Coast Boy. "

"Oh, you city people with your underground trains and expensive international snacks"

"Haha, just the best for the capital!"

Silence hangs over them

"... I'm still scared"

"Of the future?"

"Yeah.

Will it ever go away?"

"... I don't know, I'll help you though.

I'll get you a planner. You can be like those instagram girls with a very strict planner"

"... Yeah, I guess.

Sorry, my mood is all over the place"

"I don't blame you"

"I mean, I don't even know what am I going to do after this. I'm basically out of a job"

"Well, what are your options?"

"I could go back to crime. Maybe hacking or something with medicaments, that could be fun."

"No, I'll get you"

"I know, but you'll do it lovingly"

"I guess I could go back to do something security related. It's boring, though."

"I heard my local chuck e cheese is hiring security guards"

"I am not applying as a night security guard in a building with animatronics."

"That's oddly specific"

"I still could be your detective assistant, I can use Excel, you know"

"You overestimate how much I'm paid"

"Or I could be literally anything else, but for now, I'll be on vacation"

"Yeah, me too"

"I'm thinking of taking cases of more haunted houses"

"... Are you out of your mind"

"I know how to stop them, and I wouldn't be going blind like these last two. I could even find a way to do it without entering them"

"Please stop risking your life. The detective life is already dangerous enough"

"I'm the house killer, the home terror"

"Sure, sure

Maybe I should be your bodyguard"

"Again, you overestimate how much I can afford"

They drink their drinks in silence

They can't help but feel slight sadness at it all

But time doesn't stop

"Ángel! Ángel look!"

"Huh?"

"The light, the sunrise is starting!"

It is 8:00 am

The sun is coming out

A cold breeze passes through them

The chatter of everyone quiets down

The sun is back

A new day has started

It always will

A collective melancholy passes through all of them

The eternal night is over

What now?

The future is waiting

They are alive

They will live another day

As many as they can

"We'll be alright

Not all of the time, but we will.

I'm going back home, finally

I've lost so much

And gained as well

I'm full of conflicting feelings that my subconscious will have a blast using

I'm scared too

But I'll be brave

Just to see another sunrise like this

With people that I love

We'll be alright

The future is full of chances"

A new day is born

And they watch it together

Hand in hand.

Thanks for playing

[hcfiles]

You just proved that you're just a fake hater who has no problem letting problematic people on the podium. You want to follow this drama, of course you're free to do so, but that also means you're addicted to it. If I'm contradicting myself in the eyes of the other commenter, she's also contradicting herself, since she could have ignored my remarks. But as you like to say, hcfiles, I must have "touched a nerve" because only your opinion counts. That's why your account is deserted. It's true, compared to accounts that are pro-Cavill, how do they react? Many don't know anything about the actor's private life, others just recently found out that he's a father. What's the difference between you and his others fans? Don't tell me you're smarter. You created an IG account in the past to troll them. But Meta protects verified accounts, that's normal. It's what most companies do to protect their reputation. I wish Henry would already release the dms he gets from his fans or people who think they have a relationship with him. That's on a different level. But you see, it doesn't matter. He just has to keep his mouth shut and let it happen because that is his job.

So, because I want to follow a plot he created for attention, spotlight, algorithms, because I don't care for what happens to Natalie and because I don't have the same "opinion" as you do, I am a hater? What a funny way to see things.

And, if you don't want to consider my "opinion", just ignore it. If you don't like the page, just move on. You are free to go. I answered you because that's what I usually do to my followers (many or a few). Don't make light of my page yet. It's a relatively young blog.😂

But, I'm not the one creating content for attention and algorithms. I'm here just gossiping on who created it: Henry Cavill. I will answer you pleasantly,.... When I feel like it. You are welcome to stay or free to leave. It's up to you. But, your "remarks" give me the popularity. Keep bringing them.

Do you know why my IG was shut down? Because it was bothering. If my content was BS, all people had to do was ignore it and it would easily go away. But, it was somehow, influencing opinions.

And, by the way, I never sent him a DM and never tried to go after his family like his crazy fans. But, yes, I followed the plot. Just like he follows the lead. He put a show for the audience and I am a part of it.

And, no. My "opinion" is not the only one that counts. Proof is I am here giving you the attention I still think you deserve to read your "opinion" on the matter. But, you don't have one, do you? All you have is hate for me, because my "opinion" doesn't fit yours.

[cyprusgirl19]

I have never made a post before but I feel like this is something I have to do because it is really annoying me!

I recently discovered Milo Manheim after watching Disney's Z-O-M-B-I-E-S and found him so charming as Zed. I looked into him a bit more and watched interviews and videos of him on YouTube and he is like the sweetest most wholesome celebrity out there! Then I came across the Zionism accusations and the first thing I did (as any normal person should do rather than just believing everything they read) I did my research and was glad to find that these were all lies and rumours being spread. I want to make it super clear that Milo is Jewish but not all Jewish people follow or support Zionism. Let me take this opportunity to show that Milo Manheim is NOT an horrible, heartless genocide supporting Zionist as some people think.

First of all, the "proof" that people use as evidence has no merit at all!

"Proof" number 1: "My heart goes out to all the people affected by the attacks in Israel". Milo posted this the day after the infamous events of October 7th showing sympathy to the hostages and the people killed by Hamas. The war between Israel and Hamas had not stared yet. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that! How does that show he is a Zionist and a supporter of genocide? It doesn't!!!

"Proof" number 2: He works with organisations that aim to tackle antisemitism which apparently are also Zionist organizations. He is working with these to stop antisemitism not to spread Zionism. Of course he is going to be working with organisations to stop antisemitism he is Jewish for crying out loud! Someone also said that the fact he is working with director Eli Roth who is a Zionist means that Milo is also a Zionist. This is just stupid.

Someone made a post on Twitter/X saying Milo has been posting Israeli propaganda which is so false!

People are also mad at him because he hasn't said anything about Palestine. That doesn't mean he doesn't care. Perhaps he doesn't want to talk about the war. We don't know him and we don't know his thoughts as he never said what he truly thinks. We cannot make assumptions. He supports lots of charities aiming to improve people's lives and is an advocate for teen suicide prevention so obviously he cares about humans suffering. He is not heartless.

It is so sad and upsetting to see so much hate and lies being spread as if people think by hating on him they are better than him. Are the celebrities supporting Palestine but are also antisemitic better than him? No! Milo has never hated on anyone so newsflash haters you are not better than him. Milo is very vocal about spreading kindness. It is also very disappointing to see his own fans giving up on him without bothering to find out if what is said about him is true or not. I am pretty sure a lot of this has stemmed from antisemitism as nobody had a problem with him until the war started. Now everyone seems to hate Jews and I find that absolutely disgusting! I will also support and defend Milo because he is not what people think he is (unless he does or says something that suggest otherwise). I have now made it my mission to clear up this situation because Milo does not deserve this. Sorry for the rant but this upsets me. People don't realise the impact it could have on his mental health.

Also someone on tumblr said Milo supported a post baby ariel made mocking free Palestine but when I searched it up I couldn't find that post anywhere it. The person shared a photo (which was just Milo commenting a heart and Ariel replying back with hearts which doesn't mean anything Ariel and Milo are friends) but it did not show the actual post. I don't know what that is about maybe someone can enlighten me.

He also voted for Kamala Harris in the presidential elections and one of her promises was to secure a hostage and ceasefire deal between I srael and Hamas.

Sidenote since we are talking about the Israel Hamas War: I truly feel sympathy for the Palestinians and the hostages and people killed by Hamas. I pray for everyone affected by the war. However, hating/blocking celebrities who support Israel or haven't spoken in support of Palestine will do nothing to help stop the war. The celebrities supporting Israel want the hostages home and Hamas gone. They don't want genocide unless the openly dehumanise or hate on the Palestinians. People shouldn't be harassing celebrities for this as they can not do anything. It is the politicians who have the power to end the war.

[puhpandas]

as much as I find GGY/greg lore in general interesting, I really hope he gets his own lore completely disconnected from the mimic/glitchtrap too considering vanessa and cassie do. we only get glimpses of gregory’s entire character and nothing else. we don’t even know his family history because his parents are so unimportant that they died off screen.

while gregory’s character is interconnected throughout everyone else’s lore and serves so much purpose in that way, he ultimately has nothing of his own.

I could guess that’s why he’s so hated because there’s very little (that we know of) to latch onto or to sympathize with (not me though, I’m his #1 fan) the thing is, he’s been mischaracterized for so long that I kinda dread he’ll never get any proper development exploring what he could be in the future because of it. he’s only ever seen as the “problem” in other characters stories, completely discrediting anything he’s done up until this point.

I would love to hear more about Gregory's life before getting glitchtrapped if GGY is confirmed canon. he has so much mystery surrounding him rn which GGY can fix a lot of but like you said, I would love more development of just him as himself. with his past life and everything. it would help people like him more (except the violent haters I guess) because he'd actually have more of a person to him to like instead of the things hes done for the story.

it would make GGY in turn more upsetting too. if they develop his life he had ripped away from him it makes it a lot sadder and it helps both cases

I think ur statement about Gregory having nothing of his own is true. to be fair theres only been two games so far but I really do hope in a future game we get more Gregory backstory! I would love to just learn more about him in general and not exactly what he offers to the story as a whole. I dont mean a huge past like Michael afton or something, anything mundane would work better in my opinion. it works well with the idea that now hes stuck having to work against monsters because he got unlucky one day. that loss of his old normal life would be better than any crazy backstory for the 12 year old

sorry I can't say much bc my brain isnt working but you make really good points and I understand what ur saying!! it's not dislike towards GGY it's the hope that theres something more for Gregory alongside that. all we can do is hope at this point, but I do have hope since ruin seemed to be more of a setup than anything! we have HW2 to look forward to and probably many more games. surely at some point (especially with leaving the sb era and kinda getting a fresh slate with no tftp and freshly screwed up story) we'll get some more character for him

[maretinelli]

DÓNDE ESTÁ EL AMOR?

Ben Barnes X fem!reader

Summary: In which Y/n and Ben are separated, but their characters in the series are not. As a result, there was a scene in which the two characters needed to reconcile, however, Y/n and Ben weren't acting at that time.

Words: 1.2K+

Warnings: Swearing, fighting, shouting (???), Ben worried and happy ending.

Author: Once again informing you that English is not my first language. I apologize for any mistakes I may have made.

MASTERLIST

When Y/n and Ben accepted the roles to act in The Punisher, they both knew that their characters would be a romantic couple throughout the series, and that this would not be a problem, the actor couple had already been dating in real life for more than two years. and they could just act normal in front of the cameras.

However, as filming for the series progressed, there were numerous obstacles that Ben and Y/n were facing in their relationship. Haters, fake betrayals and lots of fights when they got home stressed.

Which ended in a separation. They both knew it would be better this way, better for their health. But there was no way to forget it so quickly, it had been almost three years by each other's side, there was no way to forget the love of your life.

At the present time, Y/n and Ben were living in New York to finish the series, but of course, they were both in different apartments. Since now they were no longer a couple in real life.

Y/n and Ben were on the recording set, while the director told them how that scene should be done.

It was more than obvious that tension arose when the couple separated, after all, their characters were still a couple in love.

Two months had passed after their breakup, but they both looked so tired that it seemed like all the fighting, talking, and breaking up had happened the night before.

Ben was no longer happy on set. On the contrary, when he wasn't filming, he was just wandering aimlessly around the other sets on the set or reading a book that was always in his car.

Y/n wasn't any different either, her shine had gone out and whenever she had a break between scenes, she would run to the car and cry. She couldn't bear to see, record or hear Ben's voice in character without thinking about the last time they were a couple in real life.

It was the price paid for being two famous actors who were in a long-term relationship.

"Y/n, try to stay closer to the window. Because then you can turn around to face Ben" the direct man says and the actress nods. Ben makes a thumbs up with his hands and they return to their seats.

The delegate boots that Y/n wore made a noise on the set. Ben analyzes his ex-girlfriend who had her back turned, admiring everything that was on the woman's body.

The holster, the boots, the fake glasses that your character wore and the bulletproof vest. She looked beautiful in that outfit, Ben couldn't deny it. He always loved Y/n, and it wouldn't be now that he would stop.

Y/n turns around and Ben looks away before the scene begins.

"3...2...1...ACTION!!" the director shouts and they start doing the scene.

The scene they were both doing today was a fight. When they read it the night before, their chests tightened in pain, all they could think about was their last night. The fight they had before breaking up the relationship.

"Do you think it's being easy for me??" Y/ says, now as her character. "Do you think it's easy for me to listen to all the insults they say about you and not think about our relationship. Heavens Billy!!! Look what's happening to our relationship because of them" Y/n says running his hands through his hair as he walks through the living room of Ben's character's apartment. AKA Billy.

"Honey, listen!!" Billy says trying to get closer to his girlfriend. Which was played by Y/n.

"I can't, I've already heard too much. And it always starts with excuses and ends in a fight because I really don't know what's true or not." Y/n says going a little off script.

The director looks at the paper but doesn't say anything, he was enjoying how things were going. Even though Ben and Y/n weren't enjoying recording that scene.

"Billy, by Gods. I've heard so much from you and others that now I'm lost. My brain says to drink beer for breakfast so I can forget about you in my day, but my heart loves you too much to do that . Heavens!!! Where is the love that you say so much about???" Y/n shouts, making Ben wince a little.

She was a little out of control, which was making Ben worried. But he didn't want to intervene, she was just acting.

But not...

"That moon that danced for us. She's tired and now turns her back on us. That's what's happening to us Billy, look at our relationship. It's getting hidden behind black clouds like the moon on a stormy night." Y/n says shedding some tears.

It was more than obvious that this line wasn't in the script, but no one wanted to interfere. The scene was looking wonderful in the eyes of the director.

"Honey" was Ben's character's turn. Or basically Ben himself. "To hell with the outside world, nothing more matters in my life than you. You are the reason I live, every day I wake up thinking about you and every night I sleep thinking about you. I think for the first time, you should listen to your heart, we know you always believed in me, but the pressure of the world wanted you to think differently" Ben says leaving the scene completely and approaching Y/n, who was now struggling not to shed more tears than he should . Barnes places both hands on the woman's cheeks. "Let me stroke your hair again. Let me cover your chest with my chest. I will paint the sky with colors again. I will make you forget the whole world once and for all. Let me touch your mouth. Let me stop the hours. I'll paint the universe blue again and I'll make this all just a dream. Just let me come back to you and show you that this was all a nightmare that the world put on us. You were always mine, and you always will be" He he says with tears in his eyes and Y/n smiles slightly before locking lips with the actor.

That wasn't in the scene, but it gave it a real touch. Because really, everything they both said was true and they were talking about their real-life relationship, not the fictional one.

When they both felt the air running out, they both separated and the director cut the scene with claps coming from him.

"Brilliant, it seemed like no one was there acting"

Without holding back, he let the tears fall and sobs were heard loudly. The actress ran off the set and everyone looked worried.

"It's just that we weren't really acting" Last thing Ben says before running after Y/n.

The woman was no longer running, but was now walking quickly to the car in the parking lot. She didn't care if she was still wearing her character's clothes, she just wanted to get to the car and cry until the world ended.

"Y/n!!...Y/N!!" She hears Ben's voice behind her, and without thinking, her body stops where it is and turns to see her ex-boyfriend.

Ben got closer and closer and Y/n's eyes cried even more.

"I-...I'm sorry" First thing she says when Ben is facing her. "I shouldn't have given up on our relationship like I did, I really love you so much and this is all too terrible to bear." Y/n says and Barnes approaches her and wraps her in a hug.

"My sweet girl, it's okay..." she says while shedding some tears. "I also haven't been such an attentive boyfriend lately and let the outside world get in the way of our relationship. But I knew that everything I said inside was to you, not to our characters. I want you back, girl" he kisses the top of Y/n's head. "I will always want you, my sweet and beautiful girl"

Y/n cries harder against his chest, only pulling away to say a few words.

"Ben, I love you. I never stopped loving you. And I want you more than anything" Y/n says and Ben without thinking puts their lips together again.

"Let's go home, baby!! Let's go back to our house" Ben says as he wraps her in another cozy hug.

Author: God, I love this guy😭 Well, if you like the stories, please go to my profile box and request your story!!!

[jacquesthepigeon]

(hey if you don't oost this publicly could you just answer privately with a dot. The select text feature is being wonky and I'd like a copy for ease in other discussions, please.)

For the anon asking about Mari-Sue-ness.

I know I come at it from a slightly different angle than some (yes there are just haters) but I think my experience might match some who 'feel' like she is a sue without being able to articulate it well. (Tl;dr Overly Sarcastic Productions has a great video breaking down the Mary Sue trope in general, worth a look)

(addendum this held true until Felix showed up and sprinted to challenge Mari for the lead)

The Sueness comes from the fact that the entire world feels like it exists only for Marinette. It's about framing not specific character traits. There is a real sense that the entire world stops if Marinette isn't paying attention to it. It exists not as a world, but as a toybox to pull things from when she is supposed to play with them. Everything exists for her benefit.

Yes she is the protagonist and yes you do focus on a protagonist, but you generally do so in a world that lives and breathes around them. The journey is the protagonist navigating this world that exists, overcoming obstacles in their way, and growing as a person. Mari should be the most important person in the story, but she shouldn't feel like the only person in a room full of maniquinns.

There are other framing elements as well. The big one is one that divides the fanbase because it is two things that exist simultaneously and so different sides can each grasp the thing they want to prove their point.

1)Mari is never held accountable for what she does

2)Mari is relentlessly punished by the nareative.

Both these things are true and both are sue-elements.

Start with punishment. I call it that because it is what it is. Marinette's punishment at the hands of the story isn't normally tied to her actual misbehavior. It is arbitrary and unjust. That is the *point* It is supposed to evoke those feelings of injustice in you, while providing a fig leaf (see! She doesn't always win!) Bit that's just it. Relentless unjust punishment simply elevates the character into martyr status. It makes you want to protect this poor special person who is the victim of everything and who is hurt for doing no wrong.

The other element is the lack of addressing the wrong that she does do. Let's be clear: a hero who makes mistakes is a good character, and Marinette as shown in the text minus the framing is a *good character.* The show however sets up this strange dichotomy where Marinette has to make these mistakes, but she can't ever really be *wrong*, just mistaken, and the solution a simple fix.

This works when the problems are minor day-to-day episodic plot things. It doesn't when the things are major emotional beats that should require revisiting. When Mari's jealousy makes her accidently give away Fu's ID and makes her ignore her instincts leading to Miracle Queen, that is interesting, humanizing, and understandable. When at the end if the day the narrative just decides 'Fu is happier now and Chloé was always evil anyway' it's absolutely dodging the moment and replacing healthy character growth with 'Mari is always right'

The show doesn't seem to want to admit to any way except Marinette's as being right. It doesn't even want to entertain the possibility. An plotline where Cat Noir voices his feelings of isolation and wanting to be a partner, where Ladybug acknowledges his concerns and maybe shares a little bit not everything because she is still her own person making her own choices? Nah. We'll frame Kuro Neko as Cat Noir throwing a tantrum, right down to him admitting to being 'naughty' and outting zero percent of the responsibility for the divide on her shoulders.

So, yeah. Things like that can lead to accusations of Sue-ness. While at the same time, Marinette herself can be a great character.

I think I get what you mean with the show not knowing how to do things in moderation so it’s always either just looked over or going balls to the walls 1000% everything is her fault

[ruminate88]

My Best Friends And Lovers Were My Enemies Too 😰

I can truly say you don’t ever know a person fully because they can hide thoughts and feelings in their heart and head. The Bible claims to me in Jeremiah 17; The heart is deceitful and desperately wicked, who can know it? (I don’t even know my own heart sometimes and it’s confused me a lot in the past)

I know I’m far from perfect myself and have made countless mistakes. I’m not judging folks, I only tried to trust and find loving relationships but in my past, I was so empathetic and emotional, I attracted so many haters and abusers. People whom could only use me and pretend to care deeply for me. I had an online friend named Bri, from Washington Seattle, that we were on again, off again, for many many years! Bri would some how break my trust, I would pull away but then she would always come back around and some how we were always friends again. She would play both sides too! Bri was also friends with a girl online named Christine and this Christine always hated me from day one. (I never really got to talk to Christine, I always just tried to ignore her and focus on my own problems.) Bri knew this and would act like she was only friends with Christine to get information about her but I knew better. I tried to always give Bri the benefit of the doubt and forgave her countless times until one day Bri went too far.

I had been dating this guy named Andrew, whom, I didn’t know he was a narcissist but Andrew’s behavior in our relationship was very bizarre and confusing. I had made the mistake to complain to Bri countless times about Andrew and Bri took it upon herself to investigate!! Bri went behind my back and started texting Andrew. They apparently talked and sexted for a month behind my back. If Bri was just looking out for me, why did she need to sext with him?? Whenever Bri confessed to me what she had done, I just didn’t see how I could ever trust her again or have a normal friendship with her. I also questioned Andrew and he played dumb, claimed he believed I made a new account and he SWORE he believed that he was only talking to me the whole time. (I wasn’t born yesterday, I knew Andrew was trying to cover up the truth.)

Andrew wasn’t the only man in my life who lied and cheated. Bri wasn't the only dishonest friend in my life either. I learned that people can make mistakes, people can be selfish and can disappoint you. I’ve had special people in my life but even some folks deceive you by making you believe they’re special but they’re trying to gain something from you.

You just have to navigate yourself, having a firm belief system and sticking to it! Always knowing that people can let you down but the Bible tells me in 1 John 4:18: “Perfect Love cast out all fear!” From my own personal experiences, I could easily be afraid to ever have relationships again but then that would be the most cold and lonelist space. I work hard to pray to God and pray for loving people in my life. You won’t always know a persons true colors right away but expecting people not to be perfect, helps me not to be so disappointed and I’m more apt to understand people now and move on. I don’t live so hard anymore as I use to. I use to consistently fall apart and play the victim; having countless pity parties with myself.

Without love and relationships, you put yourself alone in a box and shut yourself off from living. You don’t have to have 100 friends, you do need people though. I’ve felt alone and isolated many times in my past and it’s the worst feeling I’ve ever experienced. I don’t understand people that insist on living alone and away from civilization. I realize the world can be cruel and dark but maybe you can be a light for them! Don’t give up! I know it’s hard to stand out from the crowd and be different. You don’t feel like you even fit in. I was always the empath and the emotional one in all my past relationships till one day God sent me my husband who is even more sensitive than me♥️ My husband cries when I’m hurt. That’s beyond sweet to me and nothing I ever had before.

Make your hellos and goodbyes count!! 🥺 Life is so short, you never know when it’s your last moment. Don’t run from people who actually try to be there for you, cherish them. (I know it’s hard sometimes to know who is really your friend or your enemy) My friend Brianna passed away in 2018 and I never got to forgive her or say goodbye. Even if she was wrong or wanted to hurt me, she still was a human like me and I should’ve been the bigger person and accepted her apologies but I let my disappointment and feelings cloud my judgement towards her. Didn’t mean I had to trust her again but what if she needed my friendship? What if I was the only light in her life?? I’ve asked God for wisdom and for forgiveness myself. I know I’m not better than anyone else and just as I want people to forgive my mistakes, I want to forgive others too but it’s hard. You don’t learn everything about life and people in a day!

Don’t beat yourself up! Forgive yourself too and if someone repeatedly hurts you, walk away but you should forgive them and love them from a distance. Yes you need relationships in your life but you do not have to take abuse from anyone!! God can put the right people in your path but you have to step out of your comfort zone and let people in!! God does not want you to isolate yourself! God created you for relationships! ♥️♥️♥️♥️

[mangoisms]

i love how you trash on fanon things specifically when they’re about the robins so i was wondering if you could tell us which do you think are the worst things that people have come up with?

HAHAHAHAHA thank you anon this is actually an honor ❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹 let’s see. the dick only eats cereal thing is annoying. i was thinking about it earlier and i do think it was the fanon thing i’d stumbled upon that was weird and surprised me. id heard of it and believed that it was an odd fanon thing that existed but actually encountering it was another experience entirely. jason’s personality is also very….. i don’t know. fandom leans hard into the lit thing which is Fine but. i don’t know. woobification is Also a problem with him i think when it shouldn’t exist like he did very bad things. that’s fine. idk

i also can’t lie, the popular fanon belief that the boys (ie dick and jason mostly it seems like) use nicknames for each other/other siblings is a bit hard to swallow. like that post that’s like jason would NOT be calling anyone baby bird or whatever because he hates everyone, like that is so true. but also with dick? i just. i don’t know. i once saw a post where someone documented actual canon nicknames, i’d love to find it again, but genuinely, in my reading so far—which is pre flashpoint so idk maybe cursed rebirth strikes again there—i haven’t encountered any nicknames ppl like to use in their fics like idk. baby bird. again. little wing?? drawing a blank but You know what i’m talking about….

and i know it’s a thing of affection but i think affection between them can be expressed in a way different from that, i just see the nicknames as being the go-to, if that makes sense? i’m not sure if any of this sense it’s 2am and i am eepy bear with me

steph and waffles seems overdone too. and as we all know. i loathe tim’s fanon personality. the whole sleep deprivation making coffee his entire personality thing is so annoying. and making him meek and shy. AND woobifying him. like that boy has flaws. he has so many flaws. he’s so much more interesting with his flaws. Can we please talk about the flaws.

it’s really just when people oversimplify their personalities that annoys me. dick becomes the happy ‘nice one’ (which isn’t true/again oversimplifying), jason is the ‘mean but soft one,’ tim is the ‘smart/coffee/exhausted one’, cass is the ‘nice quiet one’, steph is the ‘comedic relief,’ duke is the ‘normal one’ (this one REALLY annoys me LMAO), damian is…. the ‘bratty/animal obsessed’ one? (must confess i am not versed in damian’s fanon i think he may be exempt from it—the worst of it but again could be wrong—BUT i do think people take the easy route with his personality sometimes and then with jon. yeah. yeah)

so like out of that. honestly it’s all bad for me. i’m SURE i’m forgetting some stuff but that’s really the core of it and i guess what i consider to be the worst of fanon and the ones that annoys me the most. what about you anon what do you find annoying ❤️‍🩹 also thank you for letting me be a hater here 🫶🫶 LMAO

[larnax]

ok im not strong enough. hater mode activate.

im only so angry about this because its the first time ive ever seen bottom surgery even mentioned in a fandom context and its to shit on it. im gpnna turn into the joker

easy to DIY" this is dumb for the same reason "DIY wheelchair ramps" are dumb. gcs and making hrt both take skill and knowledge the average person does not have. DIY hrt saves lives and is many peoples' only option i am not disagreeing with that but its not your buddy brent making it in his bathtub its someone who has the medical knowledge who just isnt operating in an official capacity. you cannot do it Yourself unless you want to end up injecting olive oil. this is even more true for surgery. do you think you could perform a DIY vaginectomy????? have at least a baseline respect for the people who developed gcs procedures and the people who perform them

"leaves scars" every non op trans person owes me $500USD. i am so fucking tired of people who never bothered to address their internalized ableism/transphobia about ew yuck icky scars making that my problem by loudly announcing how disgusted they are by an extremely normal part of the human experience. there is nothing wrong with having visible scarring and there is nothing wrong with surgical scarring and acting like there is provably makes people avoid procedures that would unambiguously improve their lives

"certain procedures can be risky" aw cmon bud we all know which procedures you mean! pretty please keep fearmongering about how risky bottom surgery is otherwise someone might decide to actually get a surgery which has an extremely normal success rate for surgeries. yes they make you sign a bunch of forms acknowledging the risk thats called Informed Consent and 90% of the complications are true for literally any surgery or literally any surgery on the urethra/genitals. bottom surgery is not some uniquely dangerous procedure

"implants and bottom surgery highly imperfect" every non op trans person owes me $1000USD. would you say this about any other aspect of transition? is there any fucking room in your head for the fact that postop trans people actually exist in real life and could possibly see you talking about how disgusting you find them? because im 1) real and 2) fucking your mother with my Imperfect Dick right now

"doesnt leave scars/looks completely natural" every non op trans person owes me $1500USD. this stupid fucking idea people have that The Natural Body is 1) even a thing and 2) something we should aspire to or protect is so wildly transphobic and ableist that it, too, turns me into the joker. would you say this to an amputee? to someone who had an organ transplant? because people do and its the same bullshit. the right to bodily autonomy includes the right to alter your body! i dont fucking care if i Look Natural(although its worth noting that most people cant actually tell fully healed phallo dicks and natal dicks apart. i went to a urologist and he only realized i was postop when i told him) and it should not be treated as an unambiguously good thing.

LIKE EVEN THE FUCKING DOCTOR IS NOT ALLOWED TO HAVE MEDICAL BOTTOM SURGERY. olberic had an "averse reaction to medicine" <- directly against canon where he can be healed fine WHOLESALE INVENTED just so that we minimize the amount of people who could theoretically have phalloplasty

also youre lying to yourself and more importantly me if you think ophilia has any medical knowledge whatsoever shes literally a faith healer who cant even deal with poison

like ok "a wizard did it" is better than literally not even acknowledging some trans people want to "switch their junk" like most people do or arguing that its ahistorical to have any medical transition, However this is just having that so you can present it as the better alternative to the inferior gross medical transition which . go fuck yourself!!! go fuck yourself.

again im mostly so mad about this because when i saw the words "bottom surgery" in a fandom thing i was really really excited because i never get to see even other fans who acknowledge that their favorite characters could be like me! i had a solid 5 seconds of just being ecstatic to be represented and then i actually read the damn thing and it was just more of the fucking same.

[jerzwriter]

I am so sorry for the crap that's been happening to you. You don't deserve it. No one deserves it. But you particularly have never been anything but nice and welcoming and supportive to everyone. Literally everyone, even those who don't deserve it.

The sort of tremendous jealousy that people who send hate anons live with must be unbearable. Imagine spending that much time and energy trying to drag others down instead of simply focusing on your own stuff.

There are far more people here who support you and love you. Ignore the haters. It speaks volumes about their character, and zero about yours that they would engage in this type of harassment and bullying.

They just want the attention. They're desperate for a fraction of the attention that you get just from being a good writer and a decent human. And instead of trying to be those things themselves, they think that targeting you will somehow bring them the attention that they so desperately crave. It's sad really. What they really need is some mental health help. It ain't normal to act like that.

Keep your head up. Same to anyone else out there who's dealing with this. Because it's not you, it's them. People who send hate anonymously are cowards, bullies and unspeakably pathetic.

Hey Nonny,

Before I begin, I want to thank you. While 99% of asks are positive or fun, after a week of getting hate, I begin to dread notifications. So, when I saw this, it really touched me more than you know. That you took the time and energy to write this... I swear, I can't thank you enough.

Still, I almost didn't post this. Why? Because I know how some factions of our fandom work. I could already see the haters saying: "Oh, that's self-sent!" or "Did you see what she posted? She's such a conceited/narcissistic bitch." And trust me... those comments will happen. It becomes easy to second guess everything you say or do here, and, at the end of the day, it's fruitless. Because you never know what will trigger nasty, unstable people. I mean, the most vicious hate I ever got stemmed from apologizing for being behind on asks. (Because that makes sense.) I'm here to have fun. If I want to live in a tinderbox, I'll start accepting more invitations to family reunions (that's not happening! lol).

I appreciate your kind words more than you know, but like many people (especially women), they're not easy to hear. Isn't it awful that we take the bad things people say about us to heart more than the good things? That's why anon hate hurts... but we need to take that power back. Like you said, normal people don't go around trying to hurt others like this. It's pathological. Here's a quote I want everyone to memorize:

"Don't accept criticism from someone you wouldn't go to for advice."

I forget this myself at times... but it's true, and we all need to abide by it. People who send anonymous hate are vile cowards. And would any of us willingly seek advice from someone like that? I wouldn't unless it is to do the opposite. So, in that way, hate anons become fanmail. A terrible person doesn't like me? Well, that's good; I wouldn't want them to. Mission accomplished.

I want us all to remember we're here for fun. I will never understand where all this jealousy and hatred comes from. It's so unnecessary.

I want to thank you again. I wish I could give you a big hug. 💗 And I want to send a big hug out to others who are dealing with this crap because no one deserves it. 💗💗💗

And remember, it's like 1% of the fandom that creates 99% of the problems. The majority of people here are really good, kind people, like this anon. Thank you again! 💗