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jinstronaut · 7 months ago

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i still orbit you, and nothing’s changed, but if there’s no name to love, everything has changed. (cr. namuspromised, lyric translation doolsetbangtan)

happy birthday @cordiallyfuturedwight 💜💜💜

#bts #btsedit #btsgif #dailybts #btsdaily #jin #seokjin #kim seokjin #kim taehyung #jung hoseok #min yoongi #dailybangtan #userbangtan #userdimple #usersan #heyryen #userpat #tuserandi #raplineuser #annietrack #userkelli #usersky #***#dont mind me reposting this bc tumblr hates me BUT HAPPY BIRHTDAY KAYLA !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! im typing this as im getting ready for work teehee #anyways hi ily idk how u feel abt this song but the vibe felt right and also um Look At Them u kno. esp hobi what the fuck hes so !!!!! OK #ANYWAYS THIS IS ABT YOU. and ILY !!!! idk what i did to deserve ur support and kindness and friendship but i am so thankful that you #decided you wanted to keep me around bc truly u are so amazing and i hold you so close to my heart. u are one of a kind. and im so lucky #to call you a friend. you are so important to me !!!! and i hope u have the best day ever !!!! you deserve it !!!!!!#OK I HAVE TO GO TO WORK ILY PLS I WILL GET BETTER AT SHOWING U HOW MUCH ILY I PROMISE ♥♥♥

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uncanny-tranny · 11 months ago

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I think what might actually help the families of trans loved ones is to actually engage with where the trans person is at - especially if the family isn't quite understanding yet. When I came out, I was completely alone in figuring out my manhood. I had peers and I had exposed myself to so many trans people who explored gender, and while it was amazing, it isn't quite the same at times. I grieve quietly, sometimes, about all the missed opportunities that might have just made it easier for my family to have seen how utterly happy I was. It took them a very long time to actually notice that I was happy, especially once I got on testosterone. I'm lucky that they saw that happiness eventually, and slowly accepted it. My manhood is completely detached from their influence, both to my relief and chagrin. It's sad to me that I learned to shave from a kind online stranger, somebody who didn't even have a father and yet, I do. I have a father. I grieve at the loss of a potential shared experience. I grieve about the pain I went through when I was in that stage of transition, especially because it was raw and vulnerable. I grieve that many trans people today are traversing the path I had to, because it's sometimes lonely (even when you do have other forms of support).

It's hard to know that I will never have gotten my sense of being from my family. In many ways, it has severed a lot of connection with them because there were so many times that I was begging them to see happiness when they were focused on the idea that I was almost in a state of purgatory - flesh which felt warm but held no familiarity to them. I don't harbor ill-will toward them, I hope I don't leave the impression that I despise them. I understand what they felt, even if I can't conceptualize it myself. However, it's a raw wound in my heart, and I don't want to leave anybody else feeling that way, either.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #ally advice #i'm thankful that my manhood is the way it is. but it was a painful journey to get here and i did it partially alone #i absolutely am grateful to have had my friends and the trans people who made themselves known though. i owe these people my life #i still think it's not unreasonable to have wished for my /family/ to have been part of that journey sooner especially when i was young #sometimes it seems like parents who believe their child has died after they express their transness make that a self-fulfilling prophecy...#...in that the parent often aloenates themself/themselves from their child in a variety of ways...#...i was alienated from my dad when he threatened my transition - it became a self-fulfilling prophecy in that i shut myself down...#...i retreated inward and in a way became a ghost - corporeal to the touch but a spirit who may not be seen...#...in many ways i felt in limbo between life and death. it was a cycle of purgatory #and that is something i think is best avoided. it's lonely and scary and it makes it hard to imagine a future #i need to emphasize that even though this was shitty i am still lucky in so many ways #i just faced a lot of undue shit even so - shit i don't think was conducive to a good environment or well-being

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absentlyabbie · 2 years ago

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you do not have to be in a romantic relationship in order to not live alone.

find a roommate. live with a levelheaded friend.

you're still gonna have to communicate clearly rather than assume or wait for the other person to read your vibes. you gotta negotiate fairly, be willing to compromise, and accommodate one another's boundaries. lay out expectations, needs, wants, schedules clearly and be prepared to make adjustments as you go.

living with someone regardless of dynamic is still a relationship and that's always going to require the above things. but you don't have to be part of a couple or a romance to go halves on rent or split the grocery bills and cooking/chores duties.

romantic partners aren't the only way to not live alone.

#i am well aware i am very lucky to live with my best friend #and that we live together well #but that definitely required not just compatible interests and living preference overlaps #but learning to communicate and work with each other and figure things out together #we're not romantically or physically involved but babe is my life partner and we plan our lives together as a unit #there are other ways to live my loves

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dinosaurwithablog · 4 months ago

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Unmute, please.... this is the sound of Petey breathing while she sleeps. This is the sound that lulls me to sleep every night... that calms my soul and my mind... that brings me peace and the ability to sleep. This sound is beautiful to me. It makes everything okay in my world. I love Petey. She makes everything beautiful, and she is the reason that I am okay every day. I love this dog with all my heart, and I am thankful for every day that I get to share with her by my side. She is my best friend. She is a great friend. I am grateful for every minute that we have together ❤️ 🙏🏼 I love her more than words could ever express ❤️ dogs make the world a much better place. Thank you, Petey. 😊😍 for everything...

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lightblueminecraftorchid · 21 days ago

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Shoutout to my roommate B for being So Chill about needing to pick me up from class yesterday bc I was too dissociated to drive. Thank u, B, you’re a real one.

#blue chatter #legit I could have just been trapped in that building for hours unable to get home #I was so scared and didn’t trust myself to walk home bc I get lost v easily even when I’m not dissociating #I’m so glad I thought to text Arrow and B and that Arrow. translated what I was trying to say to B.#and that B’s response was ‘cool where are you. do you need me to get you.’#I was also freaking out about my backpack being gone and B was like ‘you left it at home dw’ instead of asking me why I asked abt it #just. I am so lucky. to have friends and roommates who handled this so well.#also shoutout to my ASL teacher and her TA. they tried their best to help me but I was too far gone to understand Anything.#my teacher is Deaf so mouth talking was Not An Option and I couldn’t understand her even though I *knew* I knew those signs #it just didn’t click at all. and the harder I tried the more I felt myself slipping away again. bc I kept getting overwhelmed.#anyway that all happened yesterday #and now I get to go to two academic meetings about my capstone and grad school and just act like everything’s normal #Blegh.

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moocowart · 2 months ago

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My bestie stole my normal :(((

#my art #artists on tumblr #funny #funny stuff #concrete #medical humor #my best friend #she said I could make this joke and post it! don’t worry!#but seriously #omg how did you get the normal ness #and here I am #a mess of medical craziness #LUCKY

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blindmagdalena · 5 months ago

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THIS IS SO CUTE??? HAPPY LATE ANNIVERSARY!!

thank you, darling!!!! 🖤🖤🖤

#i am extremely lucky to have married my best friend in the whole world #if there is a chance for me to talk about my wife you can rest assured #i will not shut the fuck up

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19871997 · 5 months ago

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#prefacing this w ik in fanfiction they're all just our little barbie dolls we're making kiss and it doesnt matter whatsoever but like Do you #understand how much love and respect and loyalty there is between connor and leon irl #like in connors nhlpa ama he immediately no question said that leon's the nhler who knows him best + that he's spent his entire professiona #career w him. whenever leon's asked what he thinks of connor the first sentance out his mouth is 'you [the media] know. he knows' and then #he carries on talking about how he's the best player in the world + connor never hesitates to return the sentiment #and between the two of them it's not sentiments they sau it like its fact bc it is #and their whole 'cup or bust' thing every analyst and their mother have taken it as a 'they're going to win in edmonton or not at all' in t #e sense that they want to stay in edmonton n stay together <- like not even in an insane person edmonton polycule type of way in the they'r #the best players in the world and have insane chemistry on the ice and are eachother's best friends type of way #like a reason why their pp is so lethal is bc those two on a line + the other team down yeah ofc thats going to be automatic #and leon saying that their best beats anyone else's best no doubt and connor talking about building the team from the ground up like leon w #s there when they got boo'd off the ice in 2014 he was a part of building the team that's thier damn team and in turn the sheer amount of #respect the rest of the team have for them and they have for the rest of the team and the trust that while they're the best players they #don't have to play for all of them n that's part of thier whole like. our fourth line stands up to any other first line rock solid belief #like and ofc thier on ice hugs and lockerroom hugs and that moment in the sportsnet knee injury doc and how they mention that they're best #friends whenever theyre asked and how their gf's are also best friends and also their damn dogs #NOT TO MENTION. he's my ride or die. im really lucky our paths crossed here in edmonton. as a friend it was really tough to watch that #<- leon's insane 2022 playoff run on a broken ankle #and the way leon's been dubbed the german gretzky and connor's been the next next one since he was 15 and the way they have such a solid #control of the lockerroom together and i dont know if they've ever said conflicting things to the media and how they've said that they push #eachother to be better (connor saying that leon told him to score more)#and their little taps throughout their season and bringing back their team from the dead and leon being the one to make connor laugh in #pressers and on the bench #ALL TO SAY. like i am a mc.matt.drai enjoyer in the threesome/winners room/asg/2997 are actually quite abnormal about eachother and matthew #has never been normal about anything in his life and this might be fun. kinda way #but 2997 are soulbonded in ways quite possibly none of us will ever be able to truly understand #<- also i do mean this genuinely like they're not normal people but both of them are not normal #SORRY FOR RAMBLING. i just wish there was better written fanfiction.#<- wish to be the change you see in the world innit tho #so funny to me how the eh is just canadian innit.

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wizardrights · 8 months ago

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i asked for time off two months in advance and my friend waited to buy her plane tickets until it was approved. now my manager pulls me to the side this morning and tells me she might "need me" some days on my week off because we're full and understaffed. as if that's my problem. and i spent a good part of the morning feeling like it's MY fault and that /I/ messed up, when actually it's not my fault at all and i did everything right? i even gave notice a month earlier than required. and she's like, "we're busy that's why i haven't approved the time off yet" and like... yes she has? the only thing she hasn't approved yet is the extra day i requested a couple weeks ago because my friend got her dates mixed up and accidentally got her return flight the day after my last day off.

#she's like we're doing interviews so hopefully we have enough by then #but this is NOT MY PROBLEM.#this job is just a job to me dude like i'm only here for the money lmao #what's the point in working there if i have to give up the one time i get to see my best friend?#i only get to see her once a year and that's if we're lucky #i saw her last year but the time i saw her before that was two years prior #like it doesn't always work out #and i'm not even paid enough to live alone soooo likeeee?????#what am i doing there #actually thinking about putting in my two weeks lmao

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blind0raven · 7 months ago

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Aaaaa to finally meet the lovely Dylla Spade!

Ma'am its a pleasure to meet you! Your son is very nice and friendly and I'm a very good friend of his!!!

NWJDJDJSJFJCJXKKDD

Anjxjdn aww its cute how close he is to share what happens in school with his mom

Sorry Ms. Spade no Ace... you don't get to see the usual adventures of dumb moments we all do

WHO TEASED YOU

Let her talk Deuce!!! I wanna know more stories!!!~ hehehehe

Grim don't lie

If anything I'm the one doing that with you, Deuce and Ace with the amount of trouble that they get into nope I am not either as well

#twisted wonderland #twst wonderland #disney twisted wonderland #deuce spade #Twst grim #dilla spade #twst event #white rabbit fest #Ms. Spade I am a good friend of Deuce and do my best to help him out #You raised a good son and I'm very lucky to be his friend!#How do I score well to be in a good light with my potential mother-in-law???#Blind0Raven blabs

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27-royal-teas · 10 months ago

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mutuals i love you… i adore you so…. we r hugging and sitting on my couch n i am feeding u gumbo and good things i want you to feel sooo loved rn. like if ur reading this i hope u feel happy. if you don’t that’s ok just know i love you <333 i love you so so much n i value you SO MUCH and i am so happy to have you in my life… like yall are literally the coolest fuckin people. I don’t deserve yall i love u mwah mwah

#feeling soooo sappy rn. also the sapphic longing is hitting but my best friend hasn’t texted me in a while #anyway i am so so lucky to have encountered u guys….. you’re so talented and kind and wonderful. if ur reading this n you think im not #talking about you you’re wrong. I am. this applies to you. I love you #toby speaks #god i know some of yall are probably going Through it rn but i hope you know how much you’re loved

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an-assortment-of-forks · 10 months ago

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there are doctors there are hospitals there are specialists there is medicine there are systems in place so people do not have to suffer and be tortured under their own chronic pain daily and yet. they're all fucking inaccessible to the people who need it most!!! to what I would argue is most disabled people!! I'm so fucking done with the medical system.

#today is an absolutely wretched pain day that makes me want to not be here anymore but guess what!#wasted a whole year trying to convince my doctors I was in significant and disableing pain daily and the best they could do #is tell me to go to PT and to wait 6 months and tell them if it gets better #to prescribe some shit like gabapentin or otc pain meds and write me off #tell me they'll get new X-rays to see if it got worse by the summer #disability exists!! specialists exist! good doctors fucking exist!! somewhere!!! I'm sure!!#but here I sit. in excruciating amounts of pain unable to convince any fucking doctors of anything #and that year I spent pushing myself to the limit is wasted bc at the very end of it all only one guy listened to me #and he said no one in their giant ass facility could diagnose me #so I'm back to square one bc I got a new job which means new insurance and new doctors to try and convince again #I just want to be on disability so i can want to be alive again #I'm so frustrated and in pain constantly #what are people like me who have to work 40hrs to afford to live but don't have any family to rely on supposed to do??#just die? am i supposed to continue to work until im too disabled to move and be profitable unless i get lucky?#bc some fucking doctor finally decides to actually listen???#ive tried ALL THE DAMN TRICKS TOO. telling them a friend has it and thats how i found out. that my previous doctor was looking into it #etc etc #I'm SO done living like this i am exhausted.#and to know that i COULD BE HELPED. RIGHT NOW. is the worst fucking part #these systems are in place so people like me dont have to fucking suffer.#but i cant even do anything about it bc i have a cat.

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excelsior9173 · 3 days ago

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oh my god my parents have been so nice and supportive and just so fucking lovely in the last week that i cannot get my shit together over it

told my dad that i couldn’t visit him for the weekend like we’d been planning because i ended up picking up some more work and he just told me he was proud of me for my work ethic… and that it was the best birthday he’d had in years since i visited and made him bread 😭

and now my mom is telling me how much she believes in me and knows i can do it because i’ve been stalling doing a practice for my professionalism/situational awareness exam since it scares the hell out of me. and that unwavering belief and support is bursting my heart tonight

i am apparently just in a really weepy space lately lol

#ramble on exie #idk it’s just been a weekend of really big feelings #and i will never take for granted how lucky i am to have such a close bond with my parents #i love them so freaking much. my family are my best friends in the whole world

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sparkles-and-trash · 3 months ago

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Just came home from celebrating my upcoming birthday with a picnic with my favorite people and I’m so full of love and cake and wine, I am so incredibly lucky actually 😭🥰🫶🏼

#somehow s bookclub got started #and my cousin is now invited to my best friend’s birthday #they met tonight btw #i have such lovely people in my lige #how lucky am i #irl tag #personal

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spatialwave · 5 months ago

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happy birthday to @bigdumbbambieyes !!!!

she is the kindest person i have ever met and i am so, so, so happy to be able to spend (nearly) everyday with her! my best friend 😤🩷