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can i just say how much i love that isha is nonverbal
nobody comments on it, nobody makes fun of her. thats just how she is, shes just a person who happens to be nonverbal. i love it so much
#arcane#arcane spoilers#arcane season two#isha arcane#like idk if ive ever seen a proper nonverbal character in media#let alone one thats literally just a person#shes just as capable at communicating as everyone else#man. act 2 hit me so fuckin hard#her and jinx and sevika.. what an amazing found family that is literally a found-family#kay natters
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Y'know... A lot of ZaDr fics have them either gradually drifting into a less contentious status quo or establishing a deeply bizarre multilayered dynamic that is nonetheless very consistent and beholden to its own rules—which works, to be clear, because slavish adherence to the rhythm of their endless 'game' is already their canon baseline.
WITH THAT BEING SAID. I think it would be very funny to depict a ZaDr dynamic in which they're like, on-again off-again nemeses. As they get older theyre gradually forced to acknowledge the true depth of their mutual attachment, but instead of actually improving themselves in any lasting way or compromising the conflicting elements into an ill-definable state of contentious codependence, they just start oscillating wildly between periods of obscenely clingy allyship and devotedly murderous enmity. There's never an in between. They'll dedicate all their energy to trying to horrifically torture each other to death, until one of them gets uncomfortably close to actually dying or an external crisis pushes them together or they just get bored—at which point, they become obnoxiously glued at the hip until one of them relapses into anxiety about their ambitions or an argument escalates past the the point of no return or they just get bored. And every time they both Really Mean It, They're Not Gonna Do This Anymore, before naturally going ahead and doing it again
#invader zim#zadp#zadr#iz posting#natterings#there is so much good drama potential here actually#initially I just thought the idea was funny and it IS but also#there is something to be said about leveraging the full force of ones loathing#against someone you've been sincerely intimate with#and at the same time still being too attached to that person to fully commit#so that it just becomes this endless unresolved resentment that's never meaningfully addressed#also how this effects literally everyone around them#because they literally cannot be trusted to stick to anything#anything they do they HAVE to do as a team#until they get so sick of each other that they'd sooner die than share a cause#and they'll sign themselves onto wholeass war efforts just to have a sufficiently dramatic battleground#(because obviously it's not any fun if the stakes arent absurdly high#'apocalyptic' being the bare minimum here)#only to defect without a second thought the moment they decide they miss each other#at the end of the day there's only one kind of dedication and loyalty they care about#and they're making it everyone elses problem#im always saying steady pitch-pale vacillation is the ideal zadr endgame#and what is this if not that taken to its absolute practical and emotional extreme
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How often must Dazai think about how he wasn’t enough to save Oda
Not arriving too late to the scene, not realizing he got played by Mori, but the moment he had to stop Oda, and couldn’t
Oda had lost everything, they both knew how it was going to end, and when Dazai reached out a hand to stop him, to be the last thing Oda could live for, to be there for him, Oda walked away
That has to haunt him. In Oda’s final moments he revealed he understood Dazai better than anyone--his self-destructiveness, his amorality, his aimlessness--enough to give him a way to truly live his own life. But for one moment, the boy obsessed with death had wanted to be enough for someone else to live for, and he wasn’t. He couldn’t be. Not as he was.
Oda wouldn’t live for Dazai, so Dazai’s just going to have to live for him instead.
#bungou stray dogs#odazai#don't mind me just nattering on about stuff#idk they just give me a lot of feelings#beast!dazai has internalized this and made it his entire personality
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i feel like im starting to experience emotions more, might be due to a couple months ago stopping taking my anxiety/depression/ocd meds because i couldnt get more refills? but whatever reason why, its wild
ive always been 'low empathy', and never ever could feel actual excitement or sadness when i was supposed to. i remember opening the letter to find out i was accepted to an art school when i was 10, my mom was filming, all i could say was 'yay' and try to act like i felt anything about it. i knew i was happy, but nothing in me could show it or even really *feel* it. i never cried when sad things happen, only out of frustration or if something was particularly triggered. its honestly awful sometimes to live like this and just.. be incapable of attachment or emotions, or attempting to comfort someone having it be forced and practised because it feels so foreign
but now im starting to cry more, which is a start i suppose. particularly at words, its like i can finally feel the *meaning* and emotions of a speech or song, rather than there being the feeling of a squeeze in my chest or usually nothing at all. i cant tell if i like it or not lol! its so weird, youre telling me folks are supposed to be feeling this way? nuts
#kay natters#autism#funny how a consistent theme of my ocs is 'autistic person who learns to appreciate the people around them' because its like yeah. thats me#expanding on the comforting part having to be practised: as a preschool teacher you do a *lot* of comforting#because kids will cry every day no matter what#and comforting does *not* come naturally to me at all. verbal or physical#im definitely getting better though. through observation and practise and its getting more instinctual#im probably still weakest at verbal but im only just starting my second year so i have a lot to learn#idk. humans are weird. wish i could be one someday#also i couldnt get more refills because i have yet to find a new primary care provider#finally ordered a sim card so i can do everything from getting SNAP to insurance to various other price reduction stuff#since everything requires having a phone number (totes super accessible for those who need it most)#but yeah im excited to start seeing a doctor regularly again. and to get more refills
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animanga blog: @springandchocolat / @hazzabeast is my cat
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I was at the art museum today for an assignment and was in this wing where they had like realism up to Impressionism and there was this 40-50 year old man who was like wow, I don’t know anything about art but all these paintings look similar (when we got to the Impressionism side of the wing) and he was just like walking up to every painting and saying like “wow” “oh my g-d” with such genuine emotion in his voice and I wish I was him so bad
I wanted so badly to be this middle aged man discovering Impressionism for seemingly the first time with such an agile and tangible wonder in his voice
#Nitza nattering#it was so strange to me that he had seemingly never heard of it#I feel like it’s one of the most well known and physically recognizable art movements#but that might just be the painting major on me#overestimating the average persons expertise in my field#of course in art school I’m like Impressionism- we’ve all seen it#but. sigh
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sorry folks. on my insane arc again
#kay natters#the way i use tumblr is im just categorising posts onto my infinite sideblogs for personal collecting so like#apologies if your whole dash is ancient blaseball posts
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if i see someone call tenko a radfem or a terf one more time im gonna drink gasoline and spit it out at them like a llama
#norse natters#this is specific to a specific demographic btw not at a specific person#im tired. im just so tired.
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if it has "orders" that vague, would showing obvious enough dismay that Jean doesn't accept his agreement to them be "refusing"? In a situation where he is aware that having those tells caused him to get out of the order
I envision that as part of the ramping-up: the magic, as it grows out of control, starts actively reacting to anything Kaeya does to evade Jean's orders. Enforcing less and less explicit orders over time comes hand-in-hand with shutting down each new way Kaeya finds to work around them.
In fact, the cause-and-effect might even be the other way around! I'm tempted towards the notion that aside from the issue of a Vision's power being way more than the spell needs (and the Pyro-on-Cryo complications), the fact that a Vision responds to the intentions of their bearer is also playing into this. At the time Diluc does this magic he is still reeling from the revelation that Kaeya was deceiving him for all those years, and afraid on some level that he's going to somehow be able to wriggle out of this safeguard by fooling Jean as well. He does not want Kaeya to find any loopholes! And if I go with that, then the spell, turned by the Vision into an active rather than passive restraint, closes said loopholes as soon as Kaeya finds them--each strategy, including that one, has only a limited window before the magic starts triggering on it. And if that's what's happening, then forcing indirect or non-orders is just part of that overgrowth, because 'she didn't make it a direct order' is just another loophole, as far as that nasty mess of Abyssal magic and Vision power and Diluc's mistrust is concerned.
Even if that's not the specific mechanism I go with for why, I do know the magic is shutting down even that kind of passive resistance. The incident that makes Kaeya decide he has to tamper with it involves him being completely unable to give Jean mission-relevant information because it would have changed her strategy and the magic takes that as 'arguing' even though she would want to know. People get hurt because of it (including him)! No one gets killed this time, but... it's worth the risk to him not to put Jean in the position of being unwittingly responsible for someone's death. Because Diluc's coming home someday, and there's "so uh we might have anchored this on you without your knowledge or consent," and then there's "so uh someone died because we anchored this on you without your knowledge or consent," and there's both a moral event horizon here and, on the personal level, only so much forgiveness they can beg.
#fic nattering#asked and answered#honestly both of them regret the 'without her knowledge and consent' thing within the first like. couple weeks. a month max#but diluc assumes kaeya told her and if she's not sending him nastygrams he's not inclined to bring it up and invite them#while kaeya was relieved that he didn't have to tell her up until the point she told him not to break into eroch's office#and he went 'well i'll do it anyway she doesn't have to know' and then realized he physically could not#the moral/emotional regret came later for him because for a while he WAS just. so glad.#to have the choice of whether to betray khaenri'ah or mondstadt taken so entirely out of his hands#he is willing to accept that they've done something to jean that she'll be upset and angry about until the noose starts tightening#and suddenly he's running into the issues outlined above#and now it's SO different from straightforwardly obeying a regular order in the field of the sort that he should be obeying anyway!#(she would have hated even the original plan but kaeya is honestly okay with violating her personal sense of ethics that far#in the same way he was okay with lying to diluc for so long. which is to say he isn't but he's never felt like he has a choice)
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Thinking about how firestorm 04s central theme was about jason growing and finding his place in the world as both himself and the new firestorm. also the journey of all his relationships made me feel so insane.. <- i cant word it right but the whole jump from being a kid to a adult becoming your own person figuring out whats next learning who you want to be , who you want to keep around , who you want to try for and who you need to cut out..
and then it all gets thrown away for !! WHAT 😭 the new 52 r u ready to die my hand
#nothing past 04 is real to me#not over them fridging gehenna either ..#putting ron n jason as firsstorm killed them both#they r not the same age and neither of them are in highschool??#jason around 18/19 ron is probably 24 minimum#ron/mik or just literally what was gonna be 03#then jason n keeping w the nearest person/s theme bcs that was so interesting n wasnt utilised enough to me#i think jasons matrix should be more open and ron more structured#firestorm natter#the few issues in 04 was GOOD! no more however let them be seperate#sometimes have a the matrix combine for everyones suffering but nothing permanent (8 ppl for when shit gets real)
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((The fact that Ep0 ends with Danny carrying Ray deeper into the building and the fact that Ao/D ends with Zack carrying her out of the building, bye. Poetic cinema.))
#;;ooc: mun muttering#I live for the parallels and motive intricacies...I live for this series in general#I'm not going to natter I just wanted to say that one thing while I'm fixing up some new icons#I'll personally beat the shit out of anyone who willfully ignores Danny's depth of emotion & character and import to the story#it's just as much about him as Z and R; perhaps even moreso if you take *everything* into account and how deep the connections are#plus the mirroring of the interview scene..the fucking line...I'm crying#I always ready to write a fuckin essay about my favorite man; I swear to god#also the fact that they dedicated a chapter to one of my favorite side story characters;#AND her death was the one that triggered Rachel being made into sacrifice???? fucking bye....it's what i wanted....#also the further peek into B1 (I wish there was more obviously) but ah...the insights...the references to the novels...ah...#death mention tw
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Could u imagine irida, altho trained for so long to be the next leader, never believed in herself to sucessfully be chosen? how she felt when her name was called upon after all day shed been telling her older friend palina she was the one to take on duty? Could u imagine the anxiety? The feeling that she had betrayed the only person who had treated her with an ounce of care? The feeling that her entire world was shifting? How she had to keep a smile and a prideful look to appear as the correct answer, a strong new leader to lead her people? How she realizes lina and her could never be friends on equal ground? Although it was never equal to begin with?
#z rambles#the *never equal to begin with* is about their age gap and personality differences. palina is older more calm collected responsible caring#and overall she was....perfect in iridas eyes. she admired her. maybe more than a friend and she was guilty#guilty of how much she was holding her driend to such extend but palina? seeinf irida train and become a leader was....conflicting#on one hand she deserves it she worked so hard but why am i. older and better in every way. discarded from the position#she was happy but she was upset. envious? but between them will aythinf change? hadnt they been.....equal?#baaically irida always see palina stabdinf taller better than her snd she was a mother figure she csnt surpass#so there was no equal in that dynamic#and now palina who had always been standinf tall feel irida is now above her and its strange she feels the dynamic had switched#and she wants it ti he normal. the same as back then but it csnt be cuz back then wasnt equal either#they were never stabding on equal ground. they were never close enough to understood each other#u see irida becoming leader wouldve put them on the same level right? but palina sees different and irida feels like its not right either#but rhats her guilt dripping hersekf talking#its just awful#its complex and its awful and things could nevee go back to how it was. cuz no natter what one of them or both will always be unhappy#to me. these two would have a talk and develop their relationship for years#this aint the type of shit that one talk was gonna fix everything. both of them got issues
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oh the unbeatable romantic bond between an obsessive stalker and the guy with a pathological need to feel like the center of the universe at all times
#natterings#zadr#iz posting#i joke but i am actually obsessed with this dynamic#both because it IS hilarious#and in a deeply pathetic way legitimately romantic too#having your most desperate dysfunctional emotional desires fulfilled by the one person who actually WANTS them#someone whose attention you dont have to beg for#someone to whom you are actually as central and significant as you delusionally believe you are#or someone that willingly invites your worst most neurotic tendencies#who plays the game and rewards you for your behavior with exciting spectacle and implicit respect#someone who quite LITERALLY thinks these qualities arent just inoffensive but actively make you better than your whole species#my point is they validate each others egos in the most absurd ways and its beautiful to watch
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!! All true (Jon's alexithymia is so real to me), and I'm also compelled to add:
Jon and Martin's relationship is very heavily based in mutual trauma—like, I love their shameless S5 codependence and the 'where you go I go' thing is Tragic Romance™ as all hell, but the reason they're both borderline willing to trade the world for each other is because they've been each other's only constant throughout all the horrors of the show. And this is especially relevant on Jon's end because a) Martin is the only original archival assistant still alive and losing him at this point would basically seal Jon's complete and utter inability to protect the people he believes himself responsible for AND sever his last tie to his former humanity, and b) Martin is the one person who has, unerringly, come to Jon's defense and been on his side when everyone else he cares about resents and mistrusts him in some way. The fact that support was very abruptly taken away in S4 when Jon undoubtedly needed it the most only made Jon value it more because he now has a very clear picture of what life is like without it.
And is this healthy? Well, no, but one, that's not what I'm here for, and two, I think Jonathan Sims expressed the sentiment best here:
They are not a normal relationship formed under normal circumstances, and consequently really can't be fairly evaluated by normal standards. They have been through and continue to go through levels of trauma that are literally impossible to replicate in the real world. Just let them have this.
Also, yeah, it's worth noting that because of the way TMA is written, with the vast majority of non-plot relevant events happening off-screen only to be hinted at on the recordings, the two of them developing a friendship over the course of seasons two and three is absolutely in the text if you're paying any attention whatsoever. It's probably not a very CLOSE friendship, under the circumstances—that they don't actually know each other very well is something both Martin and Peter explicitly point out—but there was absolutely room for feelings to begin developing before getting rudely derailed by S4.
I've seen it said in places that Jon and Martin's relationship (specifically Jon realizing he has feelings for Martin) feels rushed and out of nowhere, and there's a perspective here that I want to share.
I think some people see them as explicitly a gay couple and expect them both to react a certain way to each other, but I have some thoughts as to why Jon is different and their relationship might not look like a traditional MLM story.
I feel that Jon's affections for Martin are absolutely there and growing over time, but with him being acespec, possibly autistic (the "I feel...sad" moment screams alexithymia to me. He doesn't fully understand his internal feelings until they're too big to ignore), and trying very hard to not get murdered for several seasons, I think it's perfectly reasonable his feelings for Martin would take time to develop.
We do see him softening to Martin over time. We see him thinking about Martin unprompted when he's alone. We see him going from "this man is going to ruin this delicate facade I've put up to seem professional, and I want him gone immediately." to "Oh, you're actually capable. So capable you might be trying to kill me." To "I don't want him to get involved or he might get hurt. I need to keep my distance so he's safe." To "I'm going to make myself tea out of nowhere because the guy who usually made it for me all the time isn't here and now it's part of my routine and I want to keep that part of him around while I'm hiding out for murder."
But once he identifies his own feelings, he overcorrects right into hopeless romantic. He's pining hard all S4, because he finally realized himself that he's in love and it's at the worst possible time. It is abrupt. Dude only just figured it out and he's throwing his whole ass into this.
I think even without the autistic headcanon, the acespec nature of how he views relationships and his whole "I feel...sad" moment indicates clearly that he was just oblivious to his own feelings for a very long time.
I know it feels sudden, but some of us are oblivious, okay? I was friends with a girl for 2 years before my brain flipped the switch and Jon's reaction felt so familiar, and I love it. I just hardly ever get to see "me" in media, and it's a bummer when people say it feels unrealistic. It's not, it's just not the norm.
#magnus posting#tma#meta#my meta#jmart#jonathan sims#martin blackwood#natterings#sorry for hijacking your post op i just have so many thoughts and feelings about this#youre totally right though re: jons general inability to process and express his own feelings in a controlled way#and i dont think he consciously realized his feelings for martin until long after the point of no return#+ i do interpret them as more queerplatonic than strictly romantic at least on jons end#its the ace autist thing like you said but i think its more about the Partnership for him#than the particular form that partnership takes#thats just me tho#the funny thing is im not even THAT personally enthusiastic about jmart but like#i was literally talking on twitter a couple of hours ago about how uniquely suited they are to generating bad fandom takes#and since their relationship is an inextricable part of the story i inevitably end up feeling very strongly about this
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thank you stampy for changing my life for the better, for TEN years
#kay natters#i still feel shaky after that premiere#my heart is so unstable rn#i think the first stampy lovely world video i ever watched was Mittens Wish#the 200‘s of the series are absolute staples of my memory and bring me so much joy#my humour and personality and everything has been influenced by him#i watched every lovely world and every vlog and every den and every yadda yadda yadda and even series like race to the moon and pixelmon are#absolute comfort series#heck my accent is forever changed cuz i spent years surrounded by his voice haha#i used to steal my brothers 3ds JUST to watch stampy videos at night in secret#my senior quote was ‚do how monkeys do‘ from barely cooking#i hope he and kye continue living their best lives
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#I'm! Sick! Of! Doing! Laundry!#oh you wanna go to bed? cant. laundry.#want to have an evening? nope. laundry.#is it time to leave for work? nope guess what? LAUNDRY#anyway it's done now tantrum over#😆😆😆#Marie-Claire was at knit and natter but she was sick and forgot my gift#poor Marie-Claire#made friends with one of the others' daughter person (it's complicated)#and Melanie was telling us how her polyamoury works#going to crawl into bed now and try and get up for 7am to have a shower#haven't made lunch sorted bag or picked clothes#washing up still to do#stuff everywhere#but that's just how bad of an adult I am 😆😆
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