#this has happened to me before
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My friend's husband: I have been listening to Epic the musical on repeat, it's really good!
Me, internally: Can it be? Will this guy and I finally have a common opinion??
My friend's husband: Polites is so annoying though.
Me:
#it's been several days and im still reeling#epic the musical#polites#it's fine you can be friends with people and never agree on anything other than like. human rights#this has happened to me before
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I watched "Reverse the Curse" - a huge thank you to @randomfoggytiger who made it possible. I will forever think of the movie as Bucky Fucking Dent. I feel like most of us do.
Let me start by saying that I loved the book when it came out. It's such a heartfelt story. I'm not always the biggest fan of DD's writing; it can feel like he's just rambling. Still, I love Bucky Fucking Dent for the story that lay underneath it.
It's the same with the movie. I've wanted to see it since it was announced. Will I ever learn not to go in with too many expectations? Time will tell, but the signs aren't good. Anyway. I went in with too many of them and of course, they couldn't uphold.
Do you ever consume a piece of media at the wrong time? I feel like that might be me and this movie. I liked it. I really liked it. It's wonderful, and heartfelt and the father-son story is so well done. DD's acting really is incredible. I just couldn't connect to it emotionally. There were moments when I would have liked more depth. I didn't laugh once. Well, humor is subjective anyway.
I think it's a movie that I will have to watch again. Without expectations, without any baggage of any kid. It's the kind of movie I feel you should watch on a crisp day in Autumn when the sun is out and you're caught between two seasons.
#personal#i just couldn't connect#like maybe it's the weather or i was uncomfortable#this has happened to me before#i liked it#i know i will like it even better if i watch it through different eyes#but it will take time#at this moment in time i cannot connect with it#eternally grateful to randomfoggytiger#you're the MVP here
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frankly i’d be delighted
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i have no fears
the theater accidentally plays the dubbed version of the my hero movie when you can prove you 100% went to the showing of the subbed version
... one fear
#dont get me wrong the dubbed version isnt bad. i just dont personally like it that much#this has happened to me before#hopefully it wont happen tmr#my hero academia you're next#mha#bnha#my hero academia#mha you're next#bnha you're next
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i wasted my annual nye psychedelic adventure and i'm still mad about it. 3 tabs of acid, 8g of shroom tea, but my back pain was so intense that it sliced through the usual euphoria, and i had coherent thoughts the entire night. total bullshit.
what's the point of drugs if you're not in the No Thoughts Zone!! i'm not getting high to THINK or TALK. i am getting high so that the only thing in my head for 12 hours will be a steady whompwhompwhomp. now i have to wait til my birthday to try again. can i get a lamentations 1:12 in the chat
#this has happened to me before#i foolishly thought more drugs would solve my issue#but no!!!#instead i just wasted drugs!!!#blog
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'life's too short to be embarrassed about what you love'
*camera pans to me, hastily trying to stuff my phone into my jeans because I accidentally opened gay cowboy literature in the middle of a social occasion*
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greeting. I am lightheaded
#think it might be a kind of migraine but i'm not sure#this has happened to me before#did i stand up too quickly and my heartbeat sped up so now i'm lightheaded? or is it like i said a migraine? or somehow both?? hard to say
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to moving forward
#my art#jujutsu kaisen#jjk#jjk fanart#jujutsu kaisen fanart#jjk art#yuji itadori#gojo satoru#fushiguro megumi#nobara kugisaki#itadori yuuji#megumi fushiguro#jjk spoilers#satoru gojo#jjk manga spoilers#hina.comic#before any1 says anything i KNOw his birthday is in december ik ik ik this is just 2 show some post-battle bonding after the trauma#its winter in canon n megumi's birthday has passed and he spent it being piloted like a mech so they need to celebrate Now!!#also this was technically a request lmao anon wanted megumi birthday angst hehehehhe i hope u like it <3 bc it KILLED ME DEAD#im going to collapse remember when i said this wasnt harder than the hydrangeas im having second thoughts#page 8 made me want to bash my head in#could have stuck with one flashback image could have left them monochrome could have done literally anything 2 ease the workload#but noooo the chronic overachiever in me would not allow it#rule of threes i had to include all of them and they Had to be in colour it wouldn't have hit the same if i had kept it monochrome#i needed it to look how childhood memories look i needed it to look oversaturated and hazy and fond but unmistakably Gone#it may have killed me but im so proud of this rn like from an art style perspective these megumis and yuujis r top tier by my standards#personal favourites r the first and last panel of crying megumi like not 2 pat myself on th back but expression?????? hello??????#enjoy your cake megumi you've earned it <333 sorry fr hurting ur feelings it will happen again#oh my god i can sleep tonight bless <333 and i met my 3 day deadline NICE im so good at what i do
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I will testify that even if I strongly dislike, utterly hate, and cannot stand a character, I will never go on someones post talking about liking that character and say so. Basic decency and all that
#shocking how other people dont have this basic decency#not about me (right now. it has happened many times before)#but oh boy#the prophet speaks
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This has happened to me before
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Batfamily/Superfamily angst fic where one of the Supes (Jon? Kon?) takes off too quickly/recklessly next to one of the Batkids and accidentally ruptures their eardrum and Bruce goes on the warpath for Clark about it.
#obvs they settle it fine but#I want Bruce to yell at Clark#that they have to be CAREFUL#around humans#and Clark is like what this has never happened with me before#and Bruce is like do you want me to tell you the truth about that or not#bruce wayne#batman#dc#Fic ideas#batfamily#clark kent#Bruce ruins his friend but then picks him back up
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Sometimes at work it's not my place to tell people the things I want to say, and I find I often go home at the end of the rougher days to stand blankly in my shower and tell myself over and over what I wish I could pass on.
This accomplishes very little, and mostly just gives me a tension headache, but through it all I think I've narrowed myself down to a few solid things I'd like to tell people the most.
You can't change people. Not permanently, not for anythig. You can support them, encourage them, love them, give them tools and opportunities and resources, but you can't make them change. They can change themselves if they want to, but they have to want to, and they have to want it for themselves, because they're the only one that's certain to be with them forever.
For better or worse, you make your own choices, and blaming bad choices on others doesn't only work to absolve you of responsibility- it also robs you of control. Because if you say you only did something because I did something, then you arent only shifting blame- you're admitting that you cannot control yourself, that you cannot truly make choices for yourself, that other people can control you- and as long as you truly beleive that, you'll keep facing the same problems over and over. You'll keep letting others dictate your choices, because you'll beleive that they can, and you'll never be free.
White knights on horseback are from fairytales. Nobody can help you if ou're not willing to help yourself. To try, to put the dirty work in, to belive you're worth that effort- Act as though nobody is coming to save you. From a struggle, from pain, from bad relationships, from yourself. And when you do save yourself, because you will, because failure here isn't an option if you want to survive, you'll never find another dragon that can keep you prisoner.
Don't say anything to anyone that you wouldn't want them remembering forever.
Doing the right thing in bad circumstances is hard. It's the hardest thing. But if you make the choice to do that hard thing anyways, despite your fear, you'll go on the rest of your like knowing that you're the sort of person who did something.
The present only seems the hardest because the past I over and the future hasn't happened.
There's so much joy ahead of you, the kind you can't possibly understand until you see it yourself.
The responsibility of consequences is often disguised as the power of permission. "I won't do this if you help me", "I'll work on my anger if you do this for me", "I promised you I'd quit, but can I have just one?". The unspoken question is, "Can it be your fault if this goes badly?"
You cant make someone love you the way you need to be loved. Someone can love you very much and still be bad for you, even if you love them very much in return. Two people can love each other very, very much, and try their very best, and still be wrong for each other.
Sometimes being near to someone changes you, even in good ways, and the people you become don't fit together as well as the people you were.
Caring takes work. Even if it's real. Especially if it's real. And the most important gestures aren't the grand, poetic, songs-and-flowers-and-tears moments; they're getting out of bed even though you don't want to. Paying attention to things you don't enjoy. Scrubbing pans, or opening a window, saying "thank-you", or helping carry groceries into the house. The small things fill the big things- without the small, boring, mediocre things, big things feel hollow.
Thrre is honour and dignity in humble work.
If you are a cruel and spiteful person, then you will find every place you visit to be full of the same cruel, spiteful people. This is not because the world is as cruel as you, but because everywhere you are, you will be disliked. This is the curse that comes with being persistently cruel and spiteful.
If you are a kind and ppsitive person, you will repeatedly encounter kind and positive people, because as they grow familiar with you, they will be happier to have you near. This is the reward of being a kind and positive person.
When splitting paths with loved ones, briefly or forever, aim for your last words to always be "I love you".
#I'm still so young and ignorant#but I wish someone had told ME these things before I had to learn them#And now when shit goes south and everything is over and calm again the same things just roll though my head#Over and over and over#It's like everyone I meet has the same 3 problems and its ruining their lives#I just want to take everyone I meet by the shoulders and shake them#I KNOW why this is happening to you#Do you realize you can be better?#Do you realize you can do it?#Aren't you terrified of wasting your life like this?#*I* want to be happier#*I* used to be so much worse than I am#And I don't have it all figured out#But if we all decide to help ourselves then it'll be that much easier to help each other#Right?#It's so hard to lift dead weight#You need to kick against the waves with me#You need to WANT to float#Do you understand#Ugh it's 6am#This has been your overdramatic midnight ramble#Imma grill me a cheese and go back to bed#Blaurfhgh
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Does anyone else do a google search anytime they come up with a semi-decent line? Just to make sure you didn't read it somewhere, remembered it subconsciously, and accidentally plagiarised it in your own fic?
#writing#it's not imposter syndrome#or paranoia#this has happened to me before#and I have been living in fear ever since
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"You know what inspires me? When there's no one in the house… and I'm all alone to do whatever I want." - Walton Goggins, Mulholland Distilling (2023) (x)
#walton goggins#mulholland distilling#screw it im tagging it with#cooper howard#more ppl need to see this#he's got a bunch of ads for this where it's cheeky and cute and funny... but THIS one is just... come on now#also i've said it before but i've always like walton... but the moment he decided “imma just be a silver fox now” it's GAME OVER#like the dude has been looking like the same 30-40 year old for so long to me... then panini happened and then BOOM#TRANSFORM#goggingifs
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ff7 women in S.T.E.M.
#ff7#ffvii#final fantasy vii#lucrecia crescent#shera ff7#i dont know if the game explicitly declared lucrecia consented to experimentation under extreme pressure from hojo or not#but to me that's not what happened therefore she is my morally grey queen who haunts the narrative#definitely still a victim of hojo but it's more interesting to think she loved science more than her child before it was too late#not sure what other fans think pls feel free to lmkkkk#as for shera i love her for her story of how she lives her life due to her low self esteem. it is relatable and jarringly realistic#she's so smart and has good instincts but she only knows how to view herself though what other's say about her#and i love that the game validates her intelligence explicitly in the plot <3 a real women in stem moment#morally conflicting toxic women in stem everyone cheered
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mini comic about a kinda freaky terrible queen and the nonsensical takes she has about the times people have tried to kill her
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UP NEXT! ANOTHER short comic, (and then one more) this time taking place one month before the kings death, in which we will have: one annoying prince! one lousy fight scene! rejoice's dismissive nature! and row reveals a secret.... tune in next time for all that
#comic#webcomic#original comic#original character#ocs#alr bro it's not that funny#this is based on a true story that has happened to me#and continues to happen#this is NOT the main comic plot#just doing mini comics before working on the actual thing#to hopefully work towards a more final cohesive style#cus this is kind of all over the place but we live and we learn#anyways:#she just views things differently#nobody believes what u believe#interpt it as u want#shes just learning all the wrong lessons#the notes she's humming are to ding dong bell#which is a nursery ryhmes that teaches u to be kind to animals :)#unfortunately my genius wont show until the main comic is done#queen rejoice
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