#this comment ruined me

[kezzieke]

damn

Obsessed with how Bill keeps indirectly complimenting Ford through how he insults Stan. We get it, you're projecting your insecurities onto Stan and you're in denial about how much you actually care about Ford. Dumbass triangle.

'Nothing but a carbon copy of a better genetic duplicate'

[inkskinned]

what is with men being mad any time a woman raises her voice where did that even come from. someone posted a video of a small electrical explosion, and the top comment was of course the woman screams. the second comment is women try not to scream challenge, level impossible. i had to go back and watch the video again. there is, somewhat fainty, a little gasp emitted off-camera, more of a yelp than a scream. it is mostly lost in the crack of the explosion. afterwards, you hear her voice, shaken, say, are you okay?

i am helping one of my friends train her voice pitch lower, because she wants to be taken seriously at work. she and i do each other's nails and talk about gender roles; and how - due to our appearance - neither of us have ever been able to be "hysterical" in public. we both appear young and sweet and feminine. she is cisgender, and cannot use her natural voice in her profession because people keep saying she appears to be "vapid". we both try to figure out if our purposeful voice lowering is technically sexist. is it promoting something when you are a victim to it?

a storm almost sends a pole through a car window. in the dashcam, you can hear the woman passenger say her partner's name twice, crying out in alarm. she sounds terrified. in the comments, she is lambasted for her lack of calm. how is that even fucking helping?

in high school, i taught myself to have a lower voice. i had been recorded when i was genuinely (and righteously) upset; and i hated how my voice sounded on the phone speakers when it was played back. i was defending my mom, and my voice cracked with emotion. it meant i was no longer winning the argument: i was just shrieking about it.

girls meet each other after a long summer and let out a little joyful scream. this usually stops around 12-14, because people will not tolerate this display of affection (as it has the effect of being passingly annoying). something about the fact that little girls can't ever even be annoying. we are trained to examine each part of our lives (even joy) for anything that could make us upsetting and disgusting. they act like teenage girls are breaking into houses and shrieking you awake at 3 in the morning. speaking as a public school educator: trust me, it's not that bad, you can just roll your eyes and move on. it does not compare to the ways boys end up being annoying: slurs in graffiti, purposefully mocking your body, following you after you said no. you know, just boy things.

there's another video of a man who is not allowed to yell in the house, so he snaps his fingers when he's excited about soccer. the comments are full of angry men, talking about how their brother is unfairly caged. let him express himself and this is terrible to do to someone. eventually the couple has to address it in a second video: they are married with a newborn baby. he was trying not to wake the infant up. there is no comment on the fact women are not allowed to yell indoors. or the fact that it could have been really alarming or triggering for his wife. sometimes i wonder if straight men even like women, if they even enjoy being in relationships with them.

for the longest time, i hated roller coasters because it always felt inappropriate and uncomfortable for me to scream. one of my friends called me on it, said it was unusual i'm so unwilling. i had to go to my therapist about it. i don't like to scream because i was not raised in a safe situation, and raising my voice would have brought unsafe attention towards me. even when i am supposed to scream, it feels shameful, guilty. i was not treated kindly, so i lack a basic form of self-protection. this is not a natural response. it is not good that in a situation of high adrenaline - i shut up about it.

something very bad is happening, i think. in between all the beauty standards and the stuff i've already discussed - this one feels new and cruel in a way i can't quite express. yes, it's scary and silencing. but there's something about how direct it is - that so many men agree with the sentiment that women should never yell, even in an emergency - it feels different.

is the word shriek gendered automatically? how about shrill or screech? in self defense class, one of the first things they tell you is to yell, as loud and as shrilly as you can. they say it will feel rude. most women will not do this. you need to practice overcoming the social pressure and just scream.

most women do not cry out, even when it's bad. we do not report it. we walk faster. we do not make a scene. what would be the point of doing anything else? no matter what we do, we don't get taken seriously. it is a joke to them. an instagram caption punchline. we have to present ourselves as silent, beautiful, captivating - "valuable."

a woman is outside watching her kids when someone throws a firecracker at them. she screams and runs towards her children. in the comments, grown men flock together in the thousands: god. women are so annoying.

[seyvia]

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[donnatroyyyy]

Jason Todd’s death storyline was perfectly executed because they killed him figuratively (killed his innocence) before actually killing him. It’s a tragedy because he died in two separate ways. And the reason his resurrection is just as much a tragedy is because only one of the things killed can be brought back and it wasn’t the thing that made Jason who he is (his innocence and kindness).

[gojoest]

i wish ppl would respect selfships more and stop acting like they’re going to die if someone selfships with their fave

[rabbitcrimes]

When people are like Wei Wuxian was NOT suicidal it’s like. Ok sure. He just believed that his debt to the Jiangs should be paid with everything up to and including his life. And also that the moral and obvious thing to do in any situation is to put himself between anyone and harm's way. This is because he thinks he’s unkillable but he makes himself unkillable for the same reason he’ll die for a good enough reason: because it’s a way to have worth!

And then famously once everything goes to shit he does beg Lan Wangji to let him die as part of the moment where he is either destroyed by his own evil magic or lets his own evil magic tear him apart, a distinction I don't personally think matters very much at that point. Less explicitly textually, his mentally ill ass behavior after he gives up his core says to me that he wishes that he'd died honorably for Jiang Cheng when he had the chance and doesn't know what to do with himself since he hasn't.

Again I’m aware that he’s operating under a pretty specific set of culturally informed norms as a cultivator and member of a sect but like. TO ME. Everything about how Wei Wuxian conducts himself indicates that he has a box in his mind at all times that says 'in case of emergency break glass' and what’s inside the box is his own death. All the sound of mind actions of a man who has a normal and not suicidal relationship to death.

[pixlokita]

Can I be real honest and admit how much it saddens me that Instagram doesn’t even let me check if my friends or mutuals liked a post or story without slapping me with “insights” and how good or bad I’m doing regarding my content. I? Don’t care? God forbid I just want to share drawings or funny stories just for the heck of it . why does everything have to be about your account’s performance.

[thetorturedlovergirl]

I’m sorry I always talk about Doctor Who. This will keep happening I don’t care. No, I’m not letting u go. You will stay in this basement trapped forever while I keep talking about the gays.

[person25]

I commented one thing about Bakugo not looking happy to me in the epilogue and now people are saying that i’m delusional, should shut up, and need to cope??

I didn’t say anything about a ship, i’m trying to figure out what i said that was so wrong.

Edit: Also my pfp on tiktok is literally him smiling and i’m still getting replies saying “when is he ever happy?” Also also, a LOT of Bakugo haters were in my replies and that was what makes me the most mad, “he’s irrelevant so it doesn’t matter” (factually incorrect) “nobody gaf about him” (i do >:()

[girzapata6]

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Note: This AU is about the Krew turning into children, so yeah lmao... This is just based on a RP I had with my gf @charly-mao xD

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[thefabulousfab-3]

The only reason that Eloise isn’t running to tell Colin about LW as soon as they come in that door, is because of how much she loves Penelope and people still have the nerve to hate her.

[antiquepearlss]

I’m too tired to post an essay but my girl was just a victim of bad writing and a lack of critical thinking from the audience okay I love her.

[animezinglife]

Opinion:

Even if Azriel hadn't pointed out that Elain was a Seer, Lucien still would've gone to the human lands. Yes, he was worried about her wellbeing, but he was genuinely listening. He would've gone just based on the chance that what she was saying was true because he had faith in her.

[thesketchystar]

Sebastian Solace x Reader, Anyone?

Summary:

You're just one of Urbanshade's countless Expendables, trying to survive a monster-filled labyrinth. The one thing setting you apart from the rest is that you have the strange ability to revive after death.

Uncover secrets, develop relationships, and make plans to escape your shared prison—all while balancing your own survival, and protecting those you love.

[rystiel]

“pissed me off seeing the doctor suddenly being interested in men and kissing one for the sake of shoving it in our faces. kissing jack was a comedic moment for shock value so it didn’t count as woke pandering.” i’m hitting you with my bare fists

[miquella-everywhere]

Like I find it genuinely incredible/fucked up that thanks to all the bullshit Fromsoft has done with the dlc's Miq lore how it bleeds into Malenia's own character and makes her actions and motives... questionable. There was already so much vitriol towards Mal before the dlc and now it's infinitely worse.

And this is absolutely insane to me because like

MALENIA IS LITERALLY THE ELDEN RING POSTER WOMAN

THEY GAVE HER A COLLECTORS EDITION FIGURINE!

THEY GAVE HER A LIFE SIZED STATUE!

THEY GAVE HER A HELMET!

THEY GAVE HER A FREAKING LIFESIZED PROSTHETIC A R M!!!!

and yet they still shit on her lore this fucking much......