#they don’t owe you shit

[polin-brain-rot]

I don’t know about you guys, but I hope Nicola and Luke and whoever they are dating / not dating are having lovely days without all the bullshit some of you guys are posting …

😊 hope this helps.

(This shouldn’t be a hot take just fyi)

[gayboss-too-close-to-the-sun]

No one owes anyone the truth about their agab or their transness and it doesn’t make them a bad person for not sharing or for trying to hide it!! :D shocking I know!!!

transmasc: “I did something to avoid getting clocked or assaulted or killed.”

dumbasses on tumblr: “erm.. that’s actually rlly problematic :/ u know you’re literally a male oppressor right?”

[beneaththemooon]

[spineless-lobster]

HEY SO DO YOU GUYS WANNA KNOW WHERE ALL OF THIS *gestures broadly to my blog* STARTED?????

This motherfucker right here gave me two things

1. An everlasting obsession with greek mythology

2. Autism

Picking up this book in my school library in like the fourth grade or whatever is literally my canon event I would not be the person I am today without it

[flowercrowncrip]

Post your diagnosis papers

ID: screenshot of a post by derek (@ eedrk) which reads "2013: I better use of fake name online. 2016: I guess I can use my real name. 2018: sorry to my fans for being late posting today is medical history". The words "medical history" have been edited in /End ID

[karlie-xox]

Oh yes lovely, I laugh, haha, funny you think you can get a gf tehe 🤭 love that for u never stop believing yay! You can do it and all your besties support you in your goal naww ❣️ (Gotta warn all my friends about this baby dick loser lol… think he’s actually a closet case, explaining his utter lack of rizz 🏳️‍🌈)

[arcane-vagabond]

Hey….if someone blocks you, they probably have a reason. You don’t need to run to all these other blogs asking why, especially when you’re fairly certain of the reason. It’s unnecessary and rude, and you definitely shouldn’t be making multiple blogs to get ahold of the person who blocked you. Accept the block and move on.

[sinkjustlikeastone]

I feel like now is a good time to remind everybody to be respectful of actor’s personal lives, what with RJ leaving.

You don’t get to make their choices for them and they don’t owe you anything or any information.

Everything they do is up to them, and everything they do in their own time is none of your business unless they choose to share. And there’s no way anybody’s gonna share any part of their personal lives when some people act the way that they do about it.

PLEASE I BEG YOU respect actor’s personal space and choices. You don’t want to be the reason someone quits or gets burnt out or even just has a bad experience. These people are working hard to do something that is hugely for other people and they owe you nothing and do not deserve your disrespect.

[abigmessofablog]

ANNOTATE YOUR BOOKS!!! DONT BE AFRAID

USE HIGHLIGHTERS AND STICKY NOTES AND TAB THEM AND WRITE IN THEM AND DOODLE IN THEM AND MAKE ANALYSIS IN THE MARGINS AND JOKE WITH YOURSELF. MAKE YOUR BOOKS PERSONAL AND MAKE THEM IDENTIFIABLE AS UNDENIABLY A PRODUCT OF YOUR READING EXPERIENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[phantomsies]

getting all the education/degrees I can and planning so I can get the fuck out of this country >>>>

[iwontmakeuasandwich]

And if I said the majority of the polin fandom has proven to be fake and their treatment of Luke Newton entirely depends on his relationship status and whether or not he’s with Nicola Coughlan then what?

[yourlocalbadgerscales]

People: We need more body positivity! All body types are allowed and you don’t owe anyone ANYTHING when it comes to your weight!

Celebrity: *loses weight*

The same people: Oh my god, why did you do that? How could you betray us like that? Do you not love your body? Are you fatphobic now?

Other people: Omfg just work out and go on a diet and you’ll lose weight, it’s not that hard!

Celebrity: *loses weight*

The same people: OMFG OZEMPIC USER DETECTED 🗣️🗣️🗣️

[roanofarcc]

LEAVE CHAPPELL ROAN ALONE!! SOMEONES CELEBRITY STATUS DOES NOT AUTOMATICALLY GIVE “fans” CONSENT TO HARASS, STALK, TOUCH, OR EVEN TALK TO THEM IF THEY DO NOT WANT THAT KIND OF INTERACTION. SHE IS NOT SELFISH FOR HAVING CLEAR BOUNDARIES BUT YOU ARE AN ASSHOLE IF YOU IGNORE THOSE BOUNDARIES AFTER SHE HAS STATED MULTIPLE TIMES SHE FEELS UNSAFE!!

[littler3d]

I absolutely adore that Odysseus doesn’t lie and say I love you (like that) to calypso cause I never understood why they do that in stories. She is holding you hostage and forcing you to be with her tell her to fuck off and don’t look back

[dykedvonte]

I think we need to start ignoring media again. There is media made for things I love that I ignore cause it is inevitably inconsequential to how I experience and enjoy the thing in my specific way. Like you can still watch or read or take in whatever it is but you don’t need to incorporate into how you enjoy the thing. It can just not exist for you in that aspect and it’s honestly less stressful and easier to do that than figure out how to make something you don’t care for into something you like.

When you try to force that connection or link or whatever you just end of tainting your own view of what you liked and now your even more upset than if you just went “huh… anyway back to my thing.”

[suchaflurryflurry]

i like to claim that people having different opinions is fine but like, if you think paramore’s newer stuff sucks or that they should go back to being a (very good!) pop punk/emo band, then i don’t want you anywhere near me tbh