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Also, as someone who has used "Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings" that doesn't always mean the fic actually needs archive warnings! A lot of old school writers have a blanket policy of "Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings" for convenience or because they have a philosophical opposition to modern fandom tagging conventions. Like, this post glosses over it but in the 2000s the entire concept of warnings was fucking controversial. People fought long and hard in the LJ trenches about it. "Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings" is a way of allowing preference about tagging conventions, while also allowing readers to make informed choices.
I personally used that category when I was writing for a fandom that had multiple background student/teacher relationships that existed before the story takes place. I was unsure about tagging the fic as underage because I wasn't referencing them or showing them any more than the source material, and I was worried it would chase off people fine with the source material but who wouldn't want anything more detailed, but at the same time if I tagged "no archive warnings apply" that seemed a little dishonest. By choosing not to warn I could be specific in the tags without worrying about the broad strokes.
"Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings" is a purely neutral setting, that's exactly what it says on the tin! Someone isn't using the general archive tagging conventions, it doesn't necessarily imply anything about the content of the story.
This is a Moving Forward PSA for everyone using AO3. I am witnessing the results of a culture clash and communication failure. Not a lack of communication, but a misunderstanding caused by changes in fandom culture.
Before fic tagging was common, fics weren’t tagged. You had a pairing, if applicable, an author’s note about genre or general content, and if they were feeling charitable, a vague content warning. There are even a few genres of fic where even vaguely tagging literally spoils the plot and impact (such as horror, psyche thriller, in which the likely content is implicit to the genre). As a result, there is a basic category tag that permits this, as a courtesy to “old-fashioned” writers.
“No Archive Warnings Apply” means the fic is PG13 at worst, probably fluff, totally safe.
“Choose Not to Use Archive Warnings” is the polar opposite. It’s a glaring Enter at Your Own Risk billboard. It means: a shitload of warnings apply but I ain’t telling because this story requires shock value. It’s very important to read the author’s notes for those fics because they might be using that older format from above.
But without the context of fandom culture that generated AO3, it’s understandably easy to conflate the two categories, given their similar wording.
#kids are always so confused about what choose not to warn is for#not the first post i've had to correct about this
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--- somehow i don't think the trans radfem movement thinks aphobia is a fine word to exist
It's almost quaint. Almost.
Why is there a wave of trans radfems defending 4chan boards
I'm going to need to be pointed to this if only because I'm going to get dinged for spreading malicious lies about trans women being "Nazis" otherwise, but lmfao if true.
wtf kind of hill is txttletale dying on now?
I mean she's still a tankie fuck but apparently now she's also getting in on the transmisogynistic harassment campaign game.
isn't "doll" specifically a fetish term? that is really not something people should be applying to other people without making sure it's ok first.
No, it's a Black ballroom term that trans women started running with.
People on this site are taking pissing on the poor to a whole new goddamn level “telling people that this person is/has sexually harassed someone who was a minor is calling everyone with their identity a pedophile”, I’d blame the school system but that really was a choice not to actually read and relay
it's definitely malicious
joan jett in the mv for i hate myself for loving you is like, unbearably beautiful
so true
it’s so obvious that these people choose to isolate themselves in a dimension crafted out of their own self-hatred that they care more about hurting their oppressors (and people who don’t even oppress them) than uplifting people hurt by systems of oppression. sometimes i think i’m bad but then i come across people like that and realise i’m relatively well-adjusted
inspiring innit
post addressed to trans women from a trans woman about trans women –> trfs in the notes: “why are you telling me to be nice to trans men?”
they have their priorities
absolutely wild to say that transunitists are 2010-reddit-style mras and then say things like "afab privilege." yeah those afabs with their wielding of power. and i bet they get free drinks at every bar and their bosses promote them for being pretty, huh.
they get upset at having their logic compared to MRAs because it's implicit misgendering (never mind that they directly call random trans men MRAs and radfems as well) but I'm not sure what they expect when they talk at length about how all of those fucking evil AFAB bitches are just waiting for their chance to screw you over with a false rape accusation
"pick me" is AAVE, and, like all white girls, they're overusing and misusing it until it has no meaning left 🙄
I actually wasn't aware of that. Neat. Disputed? See replies.
a lot of this going on is just reminding me once again of the intense monogenderism that really never gets worked on. It’s super awkward as a multigendered individual and an intersex one
it also just really feels so fucking tone ignorant the way people talk.
society still calls traits of men or masc, some even actively choose to agree while still being a counter to it gender but obviously real trans women don’t so attacking those things would never hurt them, and multigender trans woman who are also men? Obviously fake.
the English language is so fucking insufficient
I honestly wish every asshole who seems to think the ability to mask as complete cis and definitely just your assigned gender is a privilege had to live in my head for the holiday season. I am entirely in the closet with my family because of bigotry I have no other choice than living with my family for multiple reasons I just spent the entire winter holiday pretending to be a woman answering to my deadname being called aunty and sister and daughter and not being able to say jack shit about it without even being able to retreat to the solace of my friends afterwards because they are all busy with their own families. I want those assholes to experience the emotions and thoughts I just went through and come out the otherside and see if they still think that this is a fucking privilege.
Love you anon. <3
that anon telling on themselves so hard saying transmisogynys "far deeper" than transphobia. literally why on earth would you phrase it like that if the point was anything besides "my *special* oppression is way more poignant and meaningful than your boring regular oppression"
lmao right though it's so obviously just trying to mark their thing as having more dramatic flair
do you keep a backup of your blog with a program like tumblthree? there's a lot of valuable posts on it, and tumblr is almost distressingly transitory.
I don't, but noted.
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⭑・゚゚・*:༅。 AURORA’S PHONE 。༅:*゚:*:✼✿
ˑ༄ؘ ۪۪۫۫ ▹🐚 PHONE CASES
total: 8 (?)
when it comes to aurora and her phone cases, i’d say she’s all over the place with her style in cases. as long as it’s aesthetic and matches her vibe, she’ll use it. areum tends to switch them out every other month since she likes the variety of looks on her phone.
☁️*:・゚★。WALLPAPERS
total: too many to count
for her lock screens (left photo), aurora usually puts a picture of joshua, her baby, or a photo of both of them. she likes to open her phone to something that makes her happy, so pictures of her family are usually her go to. on the other hand, her home screens (right photo) are much more simple. areum doesn’t like too many distracting things on her phone, so choosing a minimalistic wallpaper will keep her focus on the apps.
⋆⁺₊ ☾⋆⁺🫖 CONTACT PHOTOS FOR SEVENTEEN
total: multiple for each member
for seventeen’s contact photos on aurora’s phone, she tends to put silly pictures of them that she’d taken. areum likes to change them every time there’s a new and funnier picture. she says it’s funny to see their contact photos light up her phone each time one of them calls.
🎧゜*̣̩☽⋆SEVENTEEN CONTACT NAMES FROM AURORA
༅ s.coups ┈┈ asparagus
༅ jeonghan ┈┈ yeppeuda✌️
༅ joshua ┈┈ father of my child <3
༅ jun ┈┈ mooniejunnie
༅ hoshi ┈┈ hoshiranghae🐯
༅ wonwoo ┈┈ illit 6th member
༅ woozi ┈┈ mr neverleaveshishouse
༅ minghao ┈┈ myunghoe
༅ mingyu ┈┈ potato🥔
༅ dk ┈┈ HERE IS POONGPOONGIE
༅ seungkwan ┈┈ boo bitch 👻
༅ vernon ┈┈ kidneyfunction
༅ dino ┈┈ pi cheolin
⭒ : ✧ : -⋅🪩 AURORA CONTACT NAMES FROM SEVENTEEN
༅ s.coups ┈┈ songie
༅ jeonghan ┈┈ arie !
༅ joshua ┈┈ loml <3
༅ jun ┈┈ reumie (:
༅ hoshi ┈┈ rorahae :3
༅ wonwoo ┈┈ -10000 aura
༅ woozi ┈┈ owes me $20
༅ minghao ┈┈ sleeping beauty ugly
༅ mingyu ┈┈ princess rora 👑
༅ dk ┈┈ AURORANGIE
༅ seungkwan ┈┈ #1 op
༅ vernon ┈┈ erora
༅ dino ┈┈ fav noona !
ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ ꕀ
🪽.≡。゚a/n: lmk if you guys want a post about aurora’s recent text messages; i think it’d be really fun to write. also if you have any suggestions for better contact names for seventeen, again lmk because i actually had a lot of trouble coming with funny nicknames so having your opinion would help!
#seventeen#svt aurora#svt imagines#seventeen 14th member#svt scenarios#seventeen imagines#seventeen scenarios#seventeen x reader
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#there's a lot that I would choose multiple for#like there's no real preference for hard or soft cover books but if it's a large non-fic or picture book then I like it hard#if novel I prefer soft because it's harder to turn the pages at times#same goes for the bookshop library thing#though I've not checked out a book from the library in ages#only ever used the receipt as a bookmark... gives the book some history when I look at it again in the future#also had a thing where I hated damaging my books#like no breaking the spine or no slightly bending a page#got bit sad when I see my books bend open (or something) at some random page#but recently I buy second hand books to read and they're filled with bends and dog ears and little random notes#if I own the book I now bend open the pages and mark where I've been with a corner fold#I like looking at the past readers reading history and when I read my book again it'll show where I read up to and all that cool stuff#gives the books some personality and history#however I only do that with soft books#never doing that for a hard cover#am evil lol#maybe there is a preference to the hard and soft covers#lmaaaooo
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I see there's posts floating around directly and blatantly arguing against mine (same wording) by completely misunderstanding what I said. I'm fucking BACK, babey. Should've bought some hay-scented fragrance while I was at Sephora today, because I am once again your strawman!
#yes Lucanis has been told what he's going to do with his life for his entire life and has not been able to make a lot of choices for himself#this has no bearing on how he has no moral issue with killing people for money#which is what I was saying: he has no moral issue with killing people for money and some of you are clearly uncomfortable with that#because you're bending over backward to insist that he does actually deep inside have an issue with being a contract killer#when it is INCREDIBLY clear and he discusses this multiple times that he does not have any issue with being paid to stab people to death#I can't even discuss other aspects of Lucanis because you're all so unwilling to accept the specific point I'm making#which is that the text makes it incredibly clear that Lucanis does not have any issue with being killer for hire#he has no issue with the “killing people as a profession that he engages in”#he flat out dismisses the idea that there is any moral issue to be had when Emmrich and Davrin ask him about it#you all want him to have a moral issue with the core premise of “killing people” because you struggle with the idea he does not have one#because you're all very convinced that if he chose for himself that he would choose to have an issue with murder#but he doesn't#when he engages in what you consider “making it more palpable” to him it is actually not related to the murder at all#in fact the things he does extra isn't even un-Crow-like necessarily—it's just making things more complicated and less efficient#by avoiding doing things that are not part of the contract and thus aren't necessary to do even if it would make it easier#it is still not an issue with performing murders for money!#I know I'm repeating myself a lot here but people really are doing Olympic floor gymnastics routines to avoid what I'm trying to say#which is that the text is very clear Lucanis does not have a moral issue with the part of his job where he is hired to kill people#(also to that refutation asserting that Lucanis's “enjoyment” is derived from going after objectively bad people#how did you miss the part where Lucanis HATES it when people say that when THEY kill it's Noble And Good only)#(Also his contracts are not strictly Venatori. He has a specialty but he very much states he has non-Venatori and non-mage contracts)#DATV things#anyway I should write a follow-up post
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I think the most baffling thing about the Tulpar as a vessel to me is the fact that the ship really did only have a one way communication system.
I know it was cheap but even the most basic of vessels regarding major transport would have some way, shape or form for outside communication. Not only that but there was absolutely no form of innate emergency signal to show they may have been offline or in trouble despite clearly having a system to dock credits if they went off course. It's another factor that really shows that bad situations are made to get worse by design. One person who is required to relay all information to the crew and make all the choices without feedback. No way to update or call for help in case of a dire situation. No way to inform of inner personal conflicts and acquire procedures accordingly.
It really is like they are all in some sort of fucked up solitary confinement. They have their own world with strict roles that are meaningless in the end, as long as the cargo makes it, it doesn't matter what happens on that ship to the company. They don't want to hear anything and will come to conclusions on what happened based on how much pay they can withhold from the workers. Even what they do send is short, sterile and corporate to the extent it was likely written and sent out with a command by some random unmanned computer in an office.
There's something to be said about how unfair it is to force absolute power and control onto one person when you as an entity could do so much more to offload it but I've said it many times before so I won't again.
#its just like idk i dont think Curly was a bad captain because we only have this scenerio and I certainly dont think a man like Swansea#would like him or have very little issues with him specifically if he was incompentent or too lienent in the past but I do think the stress#was making him worse and worse as being a present leader as it dawned on him how much he actually had to handle like I really think he#just wanted to do yknow normal captain pilot stuff and fly the ship and yknow the little stuff like make sure things run right and over tim#the constant stress and strain of having to make every major choice started to grate on him and freak him out cause they cant even fucking#eat unless he pulls out the scanner and starts cooking like he has to choose the meal likely or have a vote and i make that part of the#reason he seems so indecisive and inactive is the fact he has to make the choice all the time and he's hoping he can at least make the crew#feel a little more in control of themselves as people by staying out of affairs like the game or disputes because god he literally has to#choose for them all the time like thats a lot of responsibility monitering their sleep their breaks food consumption thats all on him like#it really should be another persons job entirely as thats almost like absoulte contrl over the lives of everyone else that PE forces onto#that title and its also crazy how everyone accepts it even if they dont like it like they broke the food machine open rather than get the#scanner they all waited two months before Jimmy appointed himself leader its so scary how conditioned they all are to the environemnt#cause that sort of mindset is sadly real where people just wait everyone just waited until it was getting real dire and then they still#followed Jimmy without too many complaints like i saw a fic or post where Anya acknowledges they all kinda just let Jimmy do what they want#because he became the captain and it was stupid on all their parts cause they could clearly see how bad he was and yet he was captain so#they just fell in line to their roles and thats a bigger point towards how PE treated them and the complacency capitalism brings to you#just like something that irks me because idk I know Curly is slow to act but he's not as like unopinionated as people make him out to be#like he does try to find solutions but they are still restricted at the end of the day by what PE provides them and I think his biggest c#crime is being in his own head too much and not giving Anya that emotional stability cause like idk man was he supposed to go to Home Depot#himself and install like padlocks? even if the let Anya sleep in medical after she pointed it out she was already pregnant at that point#like we arent seeing the inherent issue that no one not even Anya herself was thinking of the preventative measures because a)there was a#point nothing was happening that necessitated them b) it would've been the responsibility of PE to address them pre and post incident and c#there is only one person on the entire ship given the authority to do anything. You can not make multiple important choices in one instance#in such little time and Curly should not have had that total power like i think the most interesting thing in takes that really blame Curly#is that level of control they give him over the company. Like again i think about the three days we miss between the eval/party and the#convo/crash like i think people switch them around as if those scenes happen in succession when they are broken up and its heavily implied#Curly and Jimmy just havent been talking vs the depiction that she told him and for like three days Curly was just chummy despite the fact#Jimmy and him just had a blow out fight like the next time we assume they talk is during the crash sequence cause he honestly hangs#around Anya more which i think is really important because she trust Curly to defend her himself but not his judgement to give her somethin#to defend herself as she knows he believes her but also knows she's not seeing the danger the same and its heartbreaking and more
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My favorite sex headcanon that is not fueled by lust in any way but just exists because it’s funny to me. Is that Evi has like a super mega piss kink like Cannot Get Off If There’s No Piss Involved kind of shit and Dalinar Does Not Have A Piss Kink At All but he’s like you know what. Some of Sadeas’s wildest fantasies are shit like wound fucking and forced castration so in comparison to that peeing on you every time we have sex is no biggie and so even though for Dalinar his Evi sex is lackluster unenthusiastic pretend-she’s-Navani reproductive at best, Evi’s Dalinar sex is wildly wildly good. Because she gets to have Dalinar pee on her. Love wins
#if I could choose any kink I don’t have to have I think I would choose piss because every piss kink fic I have ever read has made#the simple act of peeing into something sacred and divine and infinitely pleasurable#and like. I’m an alcoholic. I piss a lot. if I could get off on pissing while I do it that would be so fun#it would be like when I have a big brunch with a friend and it’s like to you this is normal but to me I am getting a slight thrill about#ohhhhh I’m so fullllllll well I would be experiencing that with piss multiple times a day#instead of just being annoyed that I have to stop doing what I’m doing#ok that’s all piss Ted talk over#luke.txt#drunkposting
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also its so dumb that one of the arguments ppl have against a sims 5 is that theyve already invested too much money into 4. like yes its fucking scummy that ea charges so much for dlc and its Ludicrous the amt sims 4 costs if you have all the dlc and its going to keep getting more and more expensive but . to be honest . why are you paying for sims packs. im sry
#ik not everyone can pirate i get it and its your money do what you want#but itis your choice to invest so much into like. a sinking ship DJRNFJFNG. idk....#i want 2 be optimistic and believe that somehow they WILL be able to fix every single issue with ts4#but i honestly believe thats require them to take an extended break from releasing new packs and shit#and i genuinely honestly dont think theyll do that. lol.#but like. i think itd be a good idea like. Cut down on new releases and focus on fixing the base game and then pack refreshes#bc itd be rly cool to have like. pack refreshes to make them more fleshed out#but also like. sigh. it rly does come down to the packs bc i judt genuinely find it kind of disgusting how little is in each pack#and how many of the packs could be consolidated#genuinely earnestly feel like growing together and parenthood shouldve been one pack. like. and honestly throw hsy in there...#hsy could do with a refresh Badd ik its fairly new but oh my god the school is so fucking buggy#and in general like. IDK. id rly love the packs to be refreshed and id love love love More fucking lots in the worlds oh my god. multiple#worlds have literally 4 lots. Thats fucking actually insane it makes me crazy#i get like. ooh bc you can travel between worlds the worlds can be smaller but i hate it 😭😭😭#i think its just bc i grew up playing 3 perhaps but like. i rly loved like. idk when i choose to play in a sims world i want to play in tha#world. i dont want to have to like. i live in moonwood mills (5 lots .) and thej i have to go to like. san myshunonif i want to go to a bar#or whatever. is there a bar in san myshuno idr#IDKIDK. i feel like Innnn my opinion there should be like. at least 1 of the basegame lot types for every world maybe with some exceptions#and there should be enough empty slots ppl can fill it out more if they want...#but also like. idk. i suppose it wouldnt affect me much bc i usually stay on my home lot as much as possible#bc of the loading screens#it wouldnt be so bad if like. idk. i understand why they didnt wanna do open world like ts3#well i dont its fucking actually stupid. but i get that ts4 wasnt supposed to be what it is and it wasnt built to be a longrunning game.#hence why ts5 should happen instead as a Strong Foundation BUT WHATEVER but like. yk. and ik im not the only person in the world and other#ppl want different but i feel like maybe you could have options .. idk. im not a programmer#but itd be cool to have some sort of way to toggle between like. open world semi open world and closed world#where itd be like. ts3 style where the exteriors of everything r there but the interiors r loaded in when u visit (if that is how ts3 works#i may be a bit off) nd closed would be ts4 style Loading screen to go . next door#am i misremembering or are there even loading screens between like. the new apartments with forrent.... there were for the city living ones#skull Fuckk i ran out of space
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The Elite vs HOB fallout will be devastating and the most important part of the devastation will be defined by who is misted.
#kenny would be ideal he's just come back and he's said multiple times the bucks are pulling the weight for him malakai could feed on that#if kenny is misted I see him going full horrible bitch cleaner and the only person to bring him out of that is kota#nick and matt would feel unneeded and unwanted and throw themselves to hangy#matt is the emotional one out of the elite he would be the easiest target for malakai but malakai doesn't typically choose easy targets#if matt is misted he's gonna be an insufferable bratty bitch and hangy would obviously be the one to bring him out the dark#hence the 'you bring out the good in us' thing this would put hangy back with the elite but with a lot of unmended fences#nick is the one that holds everything in for the sake of the elite malakai could feast on nick and pick him apart into madness#if nick is misted by god brother that's going to be so sexy why would we want to break him from that evilness#I think it would have to take all 3 boys to bring back an evil deranged gremlin nick since each have a different bond and connection to him#either way by the calculations of my math me an hob girlie + me an elite girlie = winner#nick jackson#matt jackson#kenny omega#the elite#aew#aew lb
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if ur still taking drawing reqs, i would love to see more of lof/cataclysm again c:
((Here's my headcanon for his story:
There's a prophecy from long long ago that states that the world will be burned by FS. Abon the discovering of said prophecy, people started lashing out at FS, cursing him, calling him stuff along the lines of demon and monster. They wanted him gone because obviously they didn't want the world destroyed.
FS was absoutely horrifed about the entire thing. Despite his nature, he really did have an appreciation for life and everything with it. He would never want to burn the whole world. But he of all people, knew how much fire desires to burn. It doesn't matter what, fire will always burn. It does not listen to others and you can only be careful around it to not get hurt. So FS agreed to be put under a spell that wouldn't kill him, but send him to a internal sleep.
So there he slept, under the rocks of Dragon's Valley. And life continued for many many generations.
However, as the years continued, people became more evil hearted. Fighting and corruption only continued to grow and grow. Not only were people's relationships at ruin, so too soon was the Earth. Eventually, long after FS and the prochey were forgotten, the energy the chaos had created started breaking the spell of peace placed on FS. Then one fateful day, the spell broke and FS was awakened.
All FS knew and felt was the evil around him. All he could feel inside was the desire to burn everything. Nothing good remained, so why not just burn everything in sight? It was time for him to fulfill his prophecy. Burn the world so that nothing remains. Not a hint of what once was the evil world. Then. finally, peace may return and life can start anew.
Despite his accepetance of his role, a part of the old FS and his appericaition for life and knowledge that evil can become good still lives on. And he feels just a little hestience and guilt. A part of him wishes to be stopped, but he knows the ever growing chaos and hatred only fuels his power. So he continues to mindlessly burn until he dies, or the world.
If he does succeed, well, there'll be nothing left to fuel him. He can either aimlessly wonder the ash, or, let himself become one with it. Either by simply waiting for his fire to die, or going to a cold place to speed up the process. Whater he chooses. He is free in the world of ash he created. He probably becomes Lord of Ash while life begins to slowly grow again. Once the world and it's people become peaceful again, who knows if he tries to return to normal.
#cookie run#cookie run ovenbreak#cookie run kingdom#Fire Spirit Cookie#immortal cataclysm#Lord of Ash#headcanon#my art#((you know#for someone (me) who has stopped playing the games and doesn't really interact with cookierun content anymore#I sure as hell do think about it a lot#I LOVE coming up with headcanons and my own stories for the characters#its' the characters#it's the characters that keep me stuck here#i love them so much and there's creativity around them and POTENTIAL#Like honestly i feel like each character could have their own stand alone story and it would work#bc i don't own the characters I'm free to think of multiple stories for them and post them all#I don't have to choose one and stick with it#ugh#so good))
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fuck bhaal all my homies hate bhaal
#ari plays bg3#big mad. i just want to kill orin. i understand that this is how fights work sometimes but.#HATE things being difficulty added just because more guys pop up outta nowhere. its annoying. i dont like it.#i have 2 go to bed anyway so theres no way i was gonna get the farslayer but i thought about it for 2 seconds after restarting#and then quit the game sgdjdjdj#props to ppl who have finished this game multiple times because some of these difficulty spikes are. Spiked.#and it is not as enjoyable when you know /you/ have hit a level cap but your enemies have not.#i do not want to be able to progress to level 18 or anything i get that thats a huuuge boost#but like. idk man. level 14?#i just feel like i hit max level way too early in act 3.#anyway i have been a hater for too long in the tags#i do enjoy the game! quite a bit! but act 3 fatigue Hits. i want baldurs gate to be a big city but its a Lot#like. we already know that orin controls the undercity and gortash the city proper.#maybe there could have been a way to make the player choose b/w accessing 1 of the 2 city halves first and then balancing the undercity more#the obstacles to get to orin just feel like a lot more and more draining and closer together#compared to the lead up to gortash#and like. theoretically you could hunt orin down first but part of me is like. how. how would i have done that#to clarify i think my ideal would have been rivington and wyrms crossing always available but then most of the lower city/sewers#should be inaccessible to the party until orin or gortash is killed.#like i kno a lot of ppl didnt enjoy it but i actually was pretty satisfied w act 2! i think some of the act 1 stuff should have been#part of it technically#but i felt like the length and the throughline was pretty decent.#act 3 is a little decision paralysis inducing in a way i dont super love#WOW that was a rant in the tags. ok. we're normal now. i just have Thots
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-said I wouldn't get into the whole bottom surgery thing- -really wants to get into the whole bottom surgery thing-
#i just think there are some people in the notes of that post talking about phallo when their issues towards it are like#hey you might want to look into metoidoplasty instead it sounds more like what you're saying you want#i don't know them obviously but it sounds kinda like people don't know there's more options than phalloplasty?#i guess if you don't want bottom surgery you aren't going to look into it tho#anyways. I'd personally choose metoidioplasty for myself#and even then there are multiple options for like. what you want to change and what you want to get rid of. it isn't just all or nothing#if you don't want surgery that's great too i just see people saying 'i don't want bottom surgery bc of x'#when they could choose to not get x if they don't want to#idk i just feel like there's a lot of misinfo and stigma around bottom surgery#it isn't for everyone but i feel like sometimes people misunderstand what it is and what the options are#.txt#i am definitely an outlier as to what I would prioritize in my transition#i dont even know if i want top surgery. i do want a dick tho
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#the best thing about pakistani weddings being multiple days is that anything i can't do on one day i can do on another#choosing one song to walk in on or one song for our first dance or whatever would be so much pressure but I'll have multiple entrances so#for example i think i wanna walk in to teri ore on my mehndi#but u wouldn't choose that for any other day#this song is so perf for our first dance on the mehndi but again i wouldn't choose it for any other day#plus another thing is im definitely some1 who prefers smaller weddings but lots of little pre events#and my fiance wants like a big grand wedding#so we each have our days and it'll work out perfectly inshallah#Spotify
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I stumbled into another facet of this due to a less-than-ideal ttrpg experience. Sometimes the fantasy is What If Everything Were Fucking Easy, Actually
I understand and respect that a lot of people want to be challenged by their games! I’ve watched lots of meta for fromsoft games and the like, I understand why working hard at things and mastering skills down to the frame is satisfying!
It is hard for me to go piss.
Recognising I have to piss, initiating Time To Go Piss protocol, standing up, walking to the bathroom, lowering myself safely to the toilet, and so on? It is physically and mentally hard—and painful!—for me.
When I sit down to play a videogame or gather around the table for a session, I want to live a fantasy where not only are mundane things like going to the grocery store or washing dishes not a gauntlet, but I can do AMAZING THINGS with minimal effort and feel cool doing it. I don’t want zero challenge from my games but please. Just for a few minutes or hours. I want to live in a world where things ARE fucking easy.
a reminder to my fellow disabled people it isn't wrong or make you less of a player for using accessibility options.
a reminder that playing on a low difficulty only or (like with games with minecraft) no difficulty
a reminder that using unlimited health options like in cult of the lamb is not bad or wrong and you are no less of a player for using it
turning brightness high on horror games like tattletale whether its because you are visually impaired or because you cannot handle the fear a low-light scene can cause.
disabled people are not any less a gamer for needing accessibility options. we are not any less a gamer for playing the game on easy. we are not any less a gamer because we are disabled and might not be able to get all the achievements or trophies or whatever a game has available.
we deserve to be able to enjoy the games we want to play
#I really liked the stealth mechanics in p5 even tho they were baby mode easy even for me#but they Felt Cool#I would rather a mechanic be kind of a joke but Feel Cool#anyway re: ttrpgs#our DM wanted to make things more gritty and ‘realistic’—cool!#mechanically this meant short rests took 24 hours and long rests took 72 hours#and multiple times he interrupted our attempts to rest#at low levels it was gruelling. especially for our casters where it was like here’s the spells you have for this entire arc#and it resulted in us as a group not wanting to pursue story hooks bc like. why would any sane being go back into the forest#where they spent several days being nearly dead before being two characters short of a TPK that we had to be deus ex machina’d out of#I ended up choosing the champion route LITERALLY JUST SO I COULD GET RALLY#I feel bad bc like. I don’t think it was the experience our DM wanted either#and the good thing is it made me think a lot about what’s important to me in gaming#but yeah it was. not fun.#anyway. re: ttrpgs that’s part of why session zeros are important so you can have those conversations#but also you don’t always know what you do and don’t want until you hit it
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#we're supposed to do a final push move tomorrow#i have already felt for awhile that my partner's parents are quite annoying#which is way too easy to feel guilty about because they do a lot for us and seem like good people for the most part#but like. they have made moving very frustrating and have been weirdly controlling about it#and just. like nonsensical to the point of it feeling like aggression#i lost track of how many fucking times we had the interaction 'where do you want this?' 'over there so it's not in the way'#'imma set it here' specifically where it will be in the way? fucking why? and my back is fucked up rn WHICH THEY KNOW so#moving it out of the way myself is frequently not an option#they left literally every single box directly in a fucking tight area that seperates our entry from our bedrooms#they stacked them higher than i can handle safely even when my back *doesn't* hurt#i moved things further into the house and out of the way and informed them i had done so and why#they continued fucking putting shit in the exact same spot anyway#there's literally a mattress a boxspring seven boxes a three tier organizer and a clear tote in this fucking spot#i'm not fucking moving it and they can deal with it when they come in tomorrow#i came over here to get some clothes for my partner so they can br girlmode for a haircut tomorrow#and we were essentially harassed into packing everything except a few days of clothes already despite it having been A MONTH since we#started paying rent and we aren't fucking sleeping here yet#and like. it's so quiet. and it's a reasonable temperature in here. they come home from their other house and turn the AC down so low#that i can't comfortably sit in the house without thick pajamas a jacket a blanket and sometimes a heating pad too!!#i don't even want to go back to go bed over there but i have to bring the fucking clothes back#his dad is such a controlling dickwad and is so fucking contrarian about everything even when it's not his thing#and literally they'll offer aid just so they can control what we do i swear!!!!#like 'we'll pay for X portion but if we do you must choose thing with Y parameters'#'we'll pay for 50% of your washer and dryer but they have to be front loaders'#they tried to pressure us into accepting a condo that they would buy (we would pay monthly building fees) and sell if/when we left#they didn't say 'let's look at some condos together' they said 'here we'll buy this specific one do you like it?' and KEPT ASKING ABOUT IT#AFTER WE SAID NO MULTIPLE TIMES#i put my foot down on that offer so fucking hard because i knew there were gonna be shit ass rules because it would be their property still#like no i will not be putting cameras in my home and i will be burning candles thank you and i'm going to have a christmas tree and#on and on and on
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Call centers for URGENT CARE AND HOSPITALS are hell on earth
I think talking to the wall might bring better results
#they keep telling my nana to drink her meds#after she told them numerous times that she reguarly does and they dont help now#then they tell her that she could come#but not rn but she can call in the morning and see when she can come#its evening rn and she already called this morning#they cant send anyone to her house bc they dont have the permission from her doc who is not there atm#which like when the fuck does that man even work then???#cause he wasnt there this morning#he wasnt there this evening#so she can hope he is there tomorrow and call him and ask him to allow them to come to her home and do a SIMPLE CHECK UP and take her blood#also told her she is being paranoid multiple times#this woman waited weeks for her meds to work again#is in pain all the time#but yeah no she is being paranoid for sure#just what the fuck#also i guess we dont have half the machines and scanners we should have#like they told her we dont have an EKG???#im sorry wtf do you have then#do you just go with the vibes like what????#i know i am going to rage so hard when i go into my career#and probably cry a lot because i cant imagine being a part of creating a machine that helps detect something with more precision or faster#and then my own country and my own ppl not being able to use it#like i would sob on a nightly basis#and the worst part is i would have no influence over where it sells and for how much#bc i had a very rude wakeup call a few yrs ago that scientist and engineers mostly only create and only a few can choose how it sells#so i cant just be giving it at the lowest price possible like i thought cause it wont be my decision to make🤡#anyways i went on a tangent i am sorey#vent post
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