#theperfectvictim

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Observing who’s presence or voices are deemed as valuable contributors to spaces where sexual violence is being discussed.

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Happy birthday to Mrs. Mary Louise Smith. At just 18 years old, she was arrested 40 days before Rosa Parks for refusing to give her seat up to a white passenger. Because her father was an alcoholic, black leaders felt his background would undermine the protest. #marylouisesmith #rosaparks #montgomerybusboycott #theperfectvictim #blackhidstory #blackhistory #thingstheydontteachyou #treasureourown #blackhistoryeveryday #neverforget #blackhid #greatblackwomen

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Thanks @sloni33 for showing me how small and unaware I look to everyone else. #theperfectvictim

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I am speaking out about musician Alexander Ling / @ alexthesun's willing & active participation in discriminatory rape culture that is present in the environment of Every Nation church. He continues friendships with former youth ministry attendees who have mocked sexual battery I previously experienced from the public figure Charles Hamilton. Alexander is older than all of us, but he has willfully chosen to be a participant in rape culture posted online by the users who are from this youth group. I told Alexander that his young friend had re-posted photos from an anonymous rape culture twitter account that threatened me to be silent about the discrimination at this church. He refused to look into his young friend's online rape culture, & still continues a friendship with him. Meanwhile, after the statute of limitations already ran up, Charles Hamilton already inadvertently & openly admitted to his sexual battery of me on twitter. According to a definition that is from the still biased, anti-Black law, " Sexual battery can be defined as unwanted form of contact with an intimate part of the body that is made for purposes of sexual arousal or sexual gratification.." . The batterer tweeted that he never intented to violate/intimidate me, however, therefore, his intention was to accomplish arousal for himself. Alexander Ling continues a frienship with a former youth group teen who re-posted rape culture tweets that mocked Charles Hamilton's sexual battery. Taking photographs of this online discrimination stemming from Every Nation church & directly speaking out against it is being used to make additional "stalking & harassment" threats in order to get me to be silent.

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If anything else happens to me, this post will remain on the internet for someone, anyone to see. Just months ago during Me Too discussions online, I named who carried out sexual battery against me.  @buzzfeeduk

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TW: Rape, Sexual battery (different).

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Latinx anti-Black user kindjai, who is close friends with participants in rape culture targeting an African American woman on social media. Left of her is a photo of killer cop Jeronimo Yanez, murderer of Philando Castile. Latinx anti-Blackness is not just cops who imitate white supremacy, it is also everyday fake squad goals online that consist of covert rape culture against predominantly African American women.

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Not your doll.

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“The victim” (target) could be leaving themselves open to civil prosecution by the offender who’s actually committed the offence against them”.

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@theacademy

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The mother of a nonconsensual groper has a friend, Miriam Avila, who is a grown woman that is helping the sexual abuser's family create a social media "game" of telephone to attempt to deflect and/or distract from what the son did to me at college. Several of the mother's friends have been confronted, and may actually truly believe her. Don't assume all of the friends are knowingly lying for the family. However, they were demanded to investigate the receipts given and shown to them, and now they know the consequences of participating in targeting someone on a friend's behalf without acknowledging and seeking out the facts. Again, at college, the guy I dated groped me without consent one night as I was trying to sleep next to him with my eyes closed. When I told him to stop because I was trying to sleep, he told me to “just ignore” him and to “just go back to sleep”.

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Several friends of the nonconsensual groper's mother display Hispanic Anti-Blackness on social media, and are now displaying rape culture and sexism towards me, in addition to joining in on this Anti-Black profiling of me. I have confronted them about their rape culture sub-post likes, and now their participation in targeting me will be exposed. Again, at college, I was groped without consent as my eyes were closed trying to sleep next to a guy I was dating. Keep in mind, when you date someone for an extended period of time, they begin to tell you family secrets in conversation that their relatives do not want you to know. Part of the reason why I was groped without consent and why he trivialized my feelings upon my request that he stop, is because there is a history of at least psychological abuse in their family that I have seen while I visited his home several times for about 5 years, and this abuse is something he told me about himself. I am not the perfect victim of sexual violence, but this is not acceptable.