#socialmediarapeculture

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After how many escalated violence scenarios you have observed that began on social media, do you consider that sub-posts, comments, and vulgarity you like/re-post are about someone you don’t know personally? Your followers or friends/relatives have secrets of their own, and sometimes they could be hiding them from you in shame through a social media game of telephone that is meant to deflect and project shame onto someone else. You are then participating in targeting someone online through your likes and re-shares of your follower’s post. Especially when sexual violence is involved, investigate what happened first before liking posts from your follower/friend etc. and before you re-share it. 

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This audience member at a Switchfoot concert sexually forced himself onto me without consent when I dated him at college. Important details below:  

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I’m not your ex-girlfriend. It was not a relationship. It was dating violence.

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Sexual abusers will not prevail. Pictured left: Elwood Anthony Morris III/ “ElwoodSound” on social media. 

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It's not what it's not. You're son did not have consent.

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The mother of a nonconsensual groper has a friend, Miriam Avila, who is a grown woman that is helping the sexual abuser's family create a social media "game" of telephone to attempt to deflect and/or distract from what the son did to me at college. Several of the mother's friends have been confronted, and may actually truly believe her. Don't assume all of the friends are knowingly lying for the family. However, they were demanded to investigate the receipts given and shown to them, and now they know the consequences of participating in targeting someone on a friend's behalf without acknowledging and seeking out the facts. Again, at college, the guy I dated groped me without consent one night as I was trying to sleep next to him with my eyes closed. When I told him to stop because I was trying to sleep, he told me to “just ignore” him and to “just go back to sleep”.

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Several friends of the nonconsensual groper's mother display Hispanic Anti-Blackness on social media, and are now displaying rape culture and sexism towards me, in addition to joining in on this Anti-Black profiling of me. I have confronted them about their rape culture sub-post likes, and now their participation in targeting me will be exposed. Again, at college, I was groped without consent as my eyes were closed trying to sleep next to a guy I was dating. Keep in mind, when you date someone for an extended period of time, they begin to tell you family secrets in conversation that their relatives do not want you to know. Part of the reason why I was groped without consent and why he trivialized my feelings upon my request that he stop, is because there is a history of at least psychological abuse in their family that I have seen while I visited his home several times for about 5 years, and this abuse is something he told me about himself. I am not the perfect victim of sexual violence, but this is not acceptable.