#the war on bubbles

[azuremallone]

[reineydraws]

this pastrami sandwich and his cheese skald live rent-free in my mind 🥲

[bishicat]

I feel like they give each other the best embraces 💖

[floralcavern]

The difference between male wish fulfillment vs female wish fulfillment in romance anime

There’s kind of a different gaze that can be targeted to in romance anime. 

In male wish fulfillment anime romances, there’s usually a much heavier emphasis on the male love interest’s pov than the female’s. Also, women tend to be much more.. objectified and there’s an unnecessary amount of fan service. An example of this is Rent a Girlfriend and Don’t Toy With Me Miss Nagatoro. It’s more about the male lead being hit on by.. really horny women than actual romance.

However, in female wish fulfillment anime, it tends to be more told from the female’s perspective. The way the male love interest tends to be written is to make him emotional and aware and.. kind, rather than objectifying him or even making them horny, because women.. we don’t really want to be lusted after like that, typically. We’re already objectified enough. My favorite example is Kimi Ni Todoke: From Me To You. Kazehaya admits he’s a ‘pervert’ but in a respectful way. The writer doesn’t make him fully pure or naive or anything like that. He’s still a teen boy. But in this series, the male character is written to be sweet, emotional, and aware but he’s not stripped away from his inherent masculinity (nontoxic masculinity!). Not just.. a guy, if that makes any sense. Meanwhile, in male wish fulfillment anime, the women are just women, rather than characters. Again, I hope this makes sense!

Now, I’m not saying all romance anime that’s written from the female’s perspective is the best! I think MY Love Story!! is a good example of this! The main character is a male and he’s a genuine, total sweetheart while still having a sense of masculinity! And the female character isn’t objectified! And I would even say even say that this show could be considered a male wish fulfillment romance, based on how it’s written.

And then there’s shows for both, like Kaguya Sama: Love is War. In this show, the two love interests have complete equal power in focus, making them feel completely balanced and real. Neither are objectified and both get treated like humans. Same with The Apothecary Diaries, if not more so!

Anyways, sorry for this ramble. I just really like (well written) romance anime. And I will leave off with a list of romance anime recommendations!

•Kimi Ni Todoke: From Me To You (adorable, fluffy, amazing character development, doesn’t beat around the bush the entire fucking series. Half of the manga is pining and the other half is the complexities of being in your first ever relationship as you try to navigate it all)

•Snow White With The Red Hair (amazing female lead with cool world building and interesting dynamics)

•MY Love Story!! (SO CUTE! Amazing show about not judging appearances)

•My Happy Marriage (Really wholesome Cinderella type story)

•Kaguya Sama: Love Is War (hilarious. I actually recommend the dub. Genuinely really sweet)

•Sasaki To Miyano (so sweet it’ll give you cavities)

•Tomo Chan Is A Girl (there is sadly quite a bit of fanservice in this. I’ve seen way worse, but ya. If you’re wanting something to watch with your parents, this may not be it. Mostly just close ups on boobs)

•Monthly Girls Nozaki (romcom that leans really heavy on the comedy more than the romance, but I love it too much to not recommend. Watch it in the dub, you won’t regret it)

•Fruits Basket (Really sweet)

•Toilet Bound Hanako (THE MANGA! READ THE MANGA! DON’T LET THE TITLE WEIRD YOU OUT, I SWEAR IT IS INCREDIBLE! READ!)

•Komi Can’t Communicate (I would, however, like to apologize for Yamai ahead of time. The entire fandom hates her, don’t worry. There’s also quite a bit of fan service in this one 😔)

•Toradora (haven’t seen it in a while, but it’s a classic lol)

•Horimiya (Another romance anime that doesn’t beat around the bush!)

•The Ice Guy And His Cool Female Colleague (SO. CUTE. AGHHHH. Despite it being ice themed, it certainly makes me feel warm and fuzzy)

•Love, Chuunibyou, and Other Delusions (so silly, amazing story about maturity while also keeping your inner child alive)

•I Want To Eat Your Pancreas (be sure to bring tissues! You will cry!)

•Kamisama Kiss (I really like the characters and world building in this one. Sadly, we’ll probably never get another season 😔)

•Words Bubble Up Like Soda Pop (SUCH A CUTE MOVIE! Amazing feel good romance that just makes you happy)

•My Little Monster (not my usual first recommendation, but it’s an overall fun watch… still so desperately want another season. False hope lol)

•Ouran High School Host Club (an absolute classic romcom. Another situation where I actually recommend the dub)

•Apothecary Diaries (AGGHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!! …full stop. I love this show.)

•Princess Tutu (I LOVE THIS STORYBOOK SETTING! And Ahiru is so silly. She’s just a duck, she can’t handle all these responsibilities!)

[niobiumao3]

[tlmtwelve]

Bad Batch in a Bubble Bath #5: Echo

[zaprowsdower27]

->person I've never seen before reblogs one of my responses to a tumblr funnyman post

-> I look through their blog to see if they're posting stuff I'd be interested in following since basically every account I follow other than folks I know from other sites was found in a similar way

->First two pages look good, lot of funny posts and intelligent political commentary

->Third page has a post referring to Hamas as 'The Resistance' and claiming that a hostage kissed a Hamas member before being freed and this shows how obviously Hamas treated them wonderfully and anybody claiming Hamas are the bad guys rather than benevolent heroes is a liar, rather than it being a form of sick twisted mockery done at gunpoint if it happened at all

...I hate reminders of why my feed is 85% Jewtuals by volume these days. I honestly wish I could use tumblr for things other than commiseration about antisemitic shit in Israel and the Diaspora, but every time I try to follow more goyim than the five or six plus Big Name Funnymen I have at this point to try to even out my followed account topic ratio I end up getting shit like that

[betterthanbatman1]

Jason Todd Red Beanie appreciation post

[atomic-chronoscaph]

Horrors of War bubble gum trading cards - Gum Inc. (1938)

[tilbageidanmark]

Web buttons from the 1990’s-2000’s

[peacockrulz]

oooooOOOOOooooo digital circus upon ye!!!!!!!! (these characters are SO hard to draw ;;) ((Stupid-er doodles under the cut))

I love Cain I swear dsfklksldkflsdkf

[lucky-fy]

made it gayer

[cillyscribbles]

would she hear me if i called her name? / would she hold me if she knew my shame?

[cameoliob]

My random kallus headcanon is he isn't a native basic speaker, like he can read, write, and speak space Russian, he did learn basic as a street language but he didn't learn to read and write it until later like teens or just before joining the empire, he still finds the language dumb

Tbh in my brain Kallus was one of those kids raised bilingual but his nosy ass only ever uses that skill anymore to listen in on other ppls convos

(He secretly lives for the drama)

[niobiumao3]

[tlmtwelve]

Bad Batch in a Bubble Bath #4: Wrecker