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i saw the post about gif plagiarism you made and wanted to extend my support to you. it's really sad to see and you've been such a staple of the gaming gifmaking community on here for such a long time thaat i really hope it doesn't discourage or ruin gifmaking for you. like you're genuinely a wonderful part of the community and it is a blessing to have you around. i hope you're doing alright
thank you so much for your very, very kind message! i truly do appreciate it.
i'm doing much better after finally putting it all out there - it ate away at me for months as some of my friends can attest to - and, though i was initially very anxious since the early responses by a handful people weren't... great, with the plagiarism that was being perpetuated over months being twisted into something it was never about (gatekeeping, claiming characters, etc.) for their own reasons and biases, and being mocked or even dismissed, it was good to see just how many people ultimately supported the creators affected, including myself, as time went on.
overall, in the aftermath of everything, i haven't felt such a sense of community in a long time on this site and i'm extremely grateful to the people, who supported me through this, be it via discord, messages, asks, rbs or replies to my post.
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#still one day i'd like to speak more about how people (i'm speaking generally here) perceive creators on this site#especially if they are seen as “big” blogs#and equate that status with them not being allowed to speak up about how they are being treated#at what number of followers are we just meant to take whatever is thrown at us#it's interesting to see esp since when#plagiarism on other platforms or media is exposed#the response is so extremely different#idk sometimes it just makes me sad to see creators on this site are good enough to consume content from#but not good enough to treat with basic decency#text: asks#text: personal
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Letting your business partner pretend you're abusing him so you can con the living daylights out of foreign diplomats that you kept waiting for nearly three hours is crazy. And to rub it in by planning a skit where you bring him iced coffee and he complains about it? Iconic showstopping never seen before this is EVEN BETTER than the little show they put on for Taewon which was one of my favorite jinjae moments truly I feel like I just received a surprise custom-made cake after ordering a custom-made cupcake
#jinjae#chaotic ramblings#also the fact that immediately before this hyunjae was coming to terms with treating yoojin as a person and an equal#and yoojin was coming to terms with his new responsibilities that come with being a person in hyunjae's eyes#like even in an extremely uncertain time in their relationship they still manage to cooperate seamlessly and it adds all the more charm to#how vulnerable and turbulent and honest and conflicting they are behind closed curtains.#outwardly they pretend to be natural partners pretending to be a problem case which makes it all the more delicious to know that it takes so#much effort for them to actually navigate the inherent power dynamics. it's so hard for yj to hold hj accountable and for hj to treat yj as#a person. and I just think it's great that geunseo contrasted the reality of their relationship with two different pretenses#hjyj#han yoojin#sung hyunjae#sctir#the s classes that i raised#speaking of cake sctir would be great cakeverse material
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tbh, one of the things I can't wait to be over with this campaign is the idea that any real person's engagement with feminism is somehow tethered to whether or not/how much they like imogen and laudna (and additionally, having the concept of lesbophobia attached to whether you enjoy the ship between them). i feel like every single time there's been a word of criticism about their behavior or development, it's immediately been met with a cry (in certain circles) that anyone being critical isn't feminist and doesn't support sapphic relationships, which has been a WILD experience on my end as a stan blog for a female character who has notable sapphic ships. but none of that has mattered in the wake of these two SPECIFIC characters. like they're the linchpins of feminism and all sapphics around the world, and to dislike or even just be mildly critical of them proves you have disavowed your rights to be a feminist. or queer yourself. if i am eager for ANYTHING to be over, it is that
#like i'm sorry it's known i dont fuck with their ship#but i have come out of this as strongly disliking laudn/a which. IS ALLOWED#you can't revoke my feminist card (that you do NOT have access to anyway)#because i don't fuck with your personal blorbo!#one of these people one time left a comment of a fic of mine in a different fandom that was sapphic and i laughed so hard about it#like. if only you knew whomst i was and the accusations i had received. lol. lmao even#and this is simply a parable against assuming things like one's status regarding feminism and sapphic fiction when you DON'T KNOW THEM#the most extreme response is rarely if ever the one you should just automatically jump to#perhaps i simply don't like a character or ship because of something to do with the character or ship#and there is NO reason to apply an -ism or a -phobia to make me into a bad guy for simply not liking what you like#anyway#i HOPE this goes away after the campaign ends at least#cr tag
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woke up like 40 mins ago at like 4:30 unable to fall back alseep so im once again thinking about ragatha and pomni as The Ocd Havers. its everything to me. oh whoops i ran out of tags on this post
#i also saw a good post abt moral ocd followed by a wildly bad resoonse to it#like 10 mins after waking up#so im esp thinking abt ragatha moral ocd#i like giving them versions of ocd that are unpleasant and not cute and that people have a hard time even acknowledging as real forms of ocd#its probably me giving myself too much credit or holding myself to very silly idras but like#i wanna be able to depict the two or even just characters in general having ocd#in a way that could potentially help someone get a better idea of the different ways that ocd presents...#the amnt of ppl who responded to my ragatha ocd posts w 'wait i do this' is like its not necessarily GOOD to relate but also#i dont think all facets of ocd are well represented so its hard for people to figure that sorta thing out...#so in my heart im like maybe it could help to depict characters in a way i find cathartic and important bc then some ppl will Find Out#esp as someone who only even got diagnosed w ocd once it got bad enough that my therapist was concerned for my safety when i was like 18 ish#(true story... if youre thinking 'how could someone having ocd put their safety at risk'#research magical thinking ocd. andalso responsibility ocd and try connecting random dots and you might find it 👍#but also i think id need to add like 400 tws to this post if i actually elaborated)#point being. ragatha ocd and pomni ocd are dear concepts to me as someone with a very unfun version of ocd#ragathas themes to me are like. moral and responsibility. and yknow what maybe aprinkle in magical thinking too#pomnis themes to me are existential and sensory motor and a little bit of magical thinking too and harm ocd#i think they both would have other themes. after all ocd usually doesnt manifest as Just having a few themes and thats it#ppl usually have a Little Bit of most possible themes and then have some more prominently#and even then themes can shift over time...#i also think both of them have early onset ocd is good because i do too and i like it#ocd thats characterized by it worsening over time!!!!! thats them...#to me human younger pomni spent so much time with just right ocd compulsions#i also generally interpret pomni as having Some Sort Of Issues with anxiety or panic pre entering the circus already#so it relates to that . in my mind#and i do think the circus has made ragathas obsessions so much worse...#bit i think they did exist before the circus. just peobably got more extreme w trauma :(#bc the evil thing abt ocd is that it teams up w trauma. ypu WILL get obsessions related to trauma#ptsd already has unwelcome thoughts abt ur trauma as a component so ocd compounds it and gives you#fake new ways you come up with to ease the fear that if you dont do a compulsion itll Happen Again
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genuine question, how do you plan on continuing to afford your apartment in vancouver if none of you can work consistently?
???? we are on disability assistance, it says that in the post. we all get paid by the government like $1400 a month due to our disabilities making us unable to work. thats how government assistance functions.
which is NOT enough to live alone in vancouver at all, and all the resources we tried using have rlly long waiting lists. the waiting lists for an advocate ARE shorter if ur indigenous, but its still a few months wait just to get an appointment with an advocate. crowdfunding is literally ALWAYS my last resort.
which is WHY we are moving out together, and why we need assistance with security deposit and travelling costs. its easier to live with other folks
we're looking for a cheap basement suite/upper level house suite. the CHEAPEST shared house suites in vancouver/surrey/langley are around $2100 to $2500.
even if we have to pay more rent when we move out itll be better being more broke than continuing to live with the woman that trafficked me since i was an infant and groomed most of my friends lmao
#ppl automatically think that when i mention living with my mom i dont pay rent but she makes us pay MOST of the rent#in our previous place we didnt even know she was only paying $200 rent for 7 years and was charging all of us an extra few hundred dollars#just so she could live super cushy while we all struggled to afford food and were hungry#same difference in this place but the rent is $855 for our rooms#a lot of thw places we are looking will only have us paying $700 to $800 for a bedroom which is nice and Preferable#bc my friends and i are genuinely dealing with malnutrition due to how much we Don't Eat lmao#frank.txt#sorry if i accidentally saw this message as rude its probably just ignorant but yea i hope this clears some stuff up!#ive been kind of Extremely On Edge lately so if this response is rude then Whoops Sorry fhdjdhdk
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decided to bring hatred into the fandom today. thinking about kit thinking somethings wrong with him/that he doesn’t truly care about people as much as others because he couldn’t imagine doing something like necromancy to bring any of his losses back
#thinking about how people grieve differently <3#but also this is the spiritual opposite of anakin seeing sabine die and obi wan *doesnt* commit atrocities against the people who killed her#and is like ‘well he must have not truly cared for her bc if padme died i would have killed ALL of them’#twp#kit herondale#the wicked powers#it’s so obvious ty is grieving. he wants livvy back so badly. kit would never do that. what’s wrong with him?#w johnny w rose w livvy.#& tbh let’s not pretend ty (& anakin in this regard)’s response is healthy in any way. it’s just what ppl expect w extreme devotion#esp in fiction. ppl romanticize the hell outta it
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chapter 4 is kinda the "ah there he goes Komaeda is now mean to everyone" chapter but its focus characters are basically the perfect counter to Komaeda's approach to life and death and therefore extremely fitting setup for Komaeda's death the next chapter.
Nidai is, like Komaeda, someone who has a terminal health condition that severely limits what he can achieve compared to most people. But he chooses to live the life he has to the fullest, doing what he can in its duration by being himself to support others. Tanaka is, like Komaeda, someone who is aware of the unfairness of life, that for instance in the wild certain animals must die so others can live. But he knows that even those which die as prey fight as hard as they can before their demise. All three of these characters are aware of how unfair life is and that it may be cut sort at any moment before it comes to fruition. But unlike Komaeda, both Tanaka and Nidai respect the life they're given. Being fated to a stepping stone for another's life, like a mice that gets eaten by a hawk, doesn't mean the mice gives up on its own life; the mice will still fight as hard as it can to live, and will have lived until its death. A human life is no different, it's meant to be lived.
So fitting that it is this chapter in which Komaeda learns the truth and rejects living, his life and everyone elses too, and spends the trial looking down on the class while they internalize Tanaka's message of always walking forward. This is the chapter that could have given him food for thought as to his own situation, but instead because he learns the awful truth he preemptively dismisses everything and rejects the moral of the chapter by rejecting the idea of living and moving forward, leading to him not only throwing away his life but now attempting to kill everyone else too in the next chapter
#danganronpa#sdr2#chapter 4 is honestly such a good lead-in to chapter 5 and endgame in terms of themes I think about it a lot#and I joke that dr2 is Komaeda The Game but I do truly believe that all the komaeda focus is extremely necessary#bc he has that extremely defeatist. despairing if you will. attitude that the game rejects and tears down#and it makes perfect sense where it comes from too given everything about his life and that he has two terminal illnesses#(in a way that's also a bit different from tanaka and nidai's case too tbh but that's an adjacent topic)#to the point I think part of the question he raises isn't 'how do you flip his world views so they stop being Like That'#but rather how do you understand and accomadate someone with such experiences#in a way that doesn't invalidate and dismiss them. but also stops them from being a harm to themselves and hence others#honestly despite being program mandated therapist I don't think nanami could have helped komaeda only hinata#he desires understanding and gravitates to hinata bc they're similar. nanami isn't so I don't think she'd understand him enough to give any#perspective. vs hinata who can#which is also why I think Hinata is such a good counter to him bc Hinata has the experience of having his own life and existence erased#to become izuru. when he felt like nothing. which is something I think Komaeda could actually understand#and see himself in and use to flip himself around#not that it's hinata's responsibility. and yet the game does have commentary on Understanding others. bc Hinata's#reaction to his death isn't 'thank god' or 'deserved' or anything#but rather regret at not understanding him earlier. and given a motive to understand him via the trial#dr talk#dr meta#tanaka's view is also rather tobias animorphs of him but ya know tobias lives as a hawk
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i'm probably a system but i have a job so idrc about that rn
#spent a bit of time reflecting on my shitty past and i realized that a set of behaviors i had as a kid#line up really really fucking well with did symptoms#i used to talk a lot to myself as a kid but it felt like an. actual conversation between myself? instead of just#talking to nothing and imagining a response#no dude i actually felt two sides of my brains spin their gears different ways to form different points of view and ideas#I CAN STILL DO THAT.#another thing that makes me think that was how whenever i went into fight or flight i always. acted a certain way.#i always didn't care about being punished or grounded. however the main me was like. really fucking scared and i'm still traumatized by it#it's some real weird shit i'm telling y'all#and dating a system kind of made me realize all of this as well#shoutout to my girlfriend she's so cool dawg#but anyways- i always felt a strange kinship and immediate understanding to did systems .#like . i heard that people usually have a hard time grasping the concept but to me#“oh hey! other people have that split mind thing i got but to the extreme! that's pretty neat!”#anyways sorry for the yap sesh but something else i wanna say is#dude holy FUCK how did you fuck up parenting that bad that you accidentally get a second son- daughter.#if i ever write an autobiography my parents are hearing so much shit from me istg#i love them but also. WOW. WWOOOOWWWWW#anyways rant on the tags over uhhh goon bye gang ! 😁😁😁😁
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Months ago, I left a comment saying that Disney LA remake stans are dumb and annoying and someone told me "it's not that deep". If the desecration of the art of animation is not that deep to you, then I don't know what to tell you.
#anti la remakes#fandom#txt#la remakes have this energy around them that they feel as though they are so much better than their animated counterparts#animation has struggled to be taken as a serious artistic medium for years and all that these la remakes do this is to further this idea#“we are in la so therefore we are much more sophisticated mature deep and beautiful” fuck YOU#man fuck these remakes and fuck the people who support and ask for them#specially when it comes to the disney ones#if you support any of them you are part of the problem#and yes it was a response to a comment about tlm 2023#who has hands-down one of the most insufferable fandoms in the whole fucking planet#and definitely the most insufferable fandom of all la remake fandoms#mf's acted like this movie was the second coming of the godfather#nah it's a mid as hell movie it just tried a little harder than the others and you feel lustful towards its protags. that's all#but yeah fuck these movies#fuck anybody who was asking disney to remake tangled. fuck you#they make me so fucking upset#so don't even tell me “it ain't that deep” YES IT IS THAT DEEP#ANYTHING INVOLVING ART IS THAT FUCKING DEEP YOU FUCKING IDIOTS#i'm so these mf's#“these are movies for children” girl shut up. children deserve better than slop that insists upon itself#one of the extremely few good remakes are cinderella and scooby doo#and that is because cinderella is not even that much of a remake as it is a retelling of the story#and scooby doo is not even a remake it is an la adaptation which is different#and they embraced the fact that they came from a cartoon
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baldurs gate is so funny it’s just
laezel &shadowheart: let’s break you outta this religious cult!
wyll & gale: let’s break you outta this unhealthy relationship!
astarion & karlach: let’s break the people who broke you!
that’s it that’s the game
#halsin is like let’s break you out of this monumental weight you keep putting on yourself#i could write pages on halsin tbh like#he really glosses over his own pain and like he’s not looked after#like the comments you can make about him being good for helping carry stuff#the way he can say ‘my heart can wound’#if you end things with him and then take it back (i reloaded the save i just wanted to see DJSJS)#and it broke my heart like people just see him as this big strong guy to push responsibility on to#who can protect everyone all the time and he can but like no!! i’m protecting YOU get in my pocket#acknowledge your past trauma don’t gloss over it#he’s very similar to astarion imo#in the way that both kind of seem like they don’t need help#or act like it rather but to different extremes#halsin cares about everything all the time and shoulders the burden#astarion elected to not care about anything ever and preserve himself bc no one else would#i’m obsessed with their poly and how they both desperately need to be cared for in vastly different ways that are somehow still so similar#lyriumsings txt#bg3#spoilers#anyway this was supposed to be a silly post i got lost in my feels DKSJDJDJS
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tumblr user lilacerull0 talking about dr lance sweets once again, but i admire this one thing he does, that's especially apparent in the earlier seasons, and it's when booth says something completely out of line and insulting to him he carries on with his work regardless of the comment in an extremely admirable fashion, but he also has an apparent physical manifestation of uneasiness. like his face gets really red or he looks at booth disapprovingly for a flicker of a second and i just really appreciate that as a young person learning to exist in new and more professional spaces. knowing how something is done never includes the actual experience. even if it is the same as it is on paper when you're trying to recount the story, it simply doesn't capture the vastness of the actual moment and all of the details that amount to making the experience what it is. it just feels incredibly truthful. he gets equally genuine without meaning to when he talks about something he really cares about that has to do with his work which is something most of the interns do as well and i just. love that. i love seeing myself in that. and i especially love how brennan gets excited with them from time to time too because, while she carries herself with more experience and professionalism, she still showcases the characteristic wonder reserved for her chosen career. it's like when gordon gordon says how, even though he is retiring, it's not because people have lost the ability to surprise him. and to bring this wandering post to a full circle, he says lance surprises him, establishing a link between his wisdom and sweets' inexperience. we are here because we love this and that remains true. as long as it does, everything else will fall into its place in time. i love you intergenerational relationships ♡
#dylanlila.mp3#i feel normal :)#idk lance meant sooo much to me as a kid but now that i lost the person i used to live with during extremely significant moments of my life#i can't help but feel closer to his experience of having to navigate this entire world alone all of a sudden#i have it infinitely easier because i can call my parents and the way his are described is exactly how i view mine#so i won't even think about losing that at his age but you know. you'd think it doesn't make that much of a difference#when you spend all your time at school/work but coming home to an empty apartment is still strange no matter how much you love it#and this is why you can't minimise his relationship with daisy with him because letting someone share that space is a big deal#like i wouldn't let just anyone spend time here#and more. all of his guilt and feelings of incompetence stem from NOT just his early childhood before adoption#but also... giving a hard time to genuinely kind and warm and loving people. even though they signed up for it and you know it's their#responsibility you still feel bad being on the receiving end of that if you were unable to respond appropriately at the time#that's why he is so kind to everyone apart from generally being that way. like he's making up for this brief moment in time when he wasn't
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The different parts of Gotham War not lining up at all in terms of plot, character motivation and characterization is bad enough, but now that DC is suddenly trying to explain when other titles like Detective Comics and Batman and Robin are taking place in relation to Gotham War it gets even worse because now all of these storylines make so much less sense too.
#Gotham War#Listing all the reasons why Gotham War and Ram V's Tec run don't fit together would be complicated#Because they are doing similar things with a similar cast of characters but in extremely different ways#And I don't have the energy to go through both storylines to get the details right#But Batman and Robin is simple#You can't have a cozy father-son-story and Bruce going insane and shoving all the parental responsibilities onto Dick#to be a brooding loner again taking place at the same time#Is the entire Batman and Robin book supposed to take place during the few days that Damian was the only one on Bruce's side in GW#Before Bruce abandoned Damian?#Because unlike when Death in the Family happened you can't even use the excuse that Damian changed his mind#And decided to stay with Bruce even though dinf ended with everyone including Dami not showing up at the talk Bruce wanted to have with the#Which was what they did in B&R 2011#Because back then it was the family that decided they didn't want to work with Bruce anymore#In GW it's Bruce who tells them to leave him alone#He very explicitly abandons Damian despite the fact that Damian didn't betray him and stayed loyal#So this time Damian can hardly change his mind and decide to stick by Bruce because it's Bruce who rejected him#I'm still so confused by Zdarsky putting that in the story in the first place because he clearly has very little interest in Damian#Out of all the male Robins he played the smallest part in this#It probably would have been better for B&R if Damian had been somehow absent for Gotham War like in a lot of previous batfam events#And left the time B&R takes place unspecified#So that it just takes place in its own bubble#I'm usually all for DC telling us how things fit together but for that to be good things need to actually line up#And not outright contradict each other
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Granted I have the overall geographical and cultural knowledge of a 4th grader but from what I can tell the nuclear family model really does seem to be a white colonial invention
Different cultures have different approaches but I mainly hear about either large family units where multiple generations support each other and raise their children and grandchildren together or an "it takes a village" approach where children are raised somewhat communally
And I can't really speak on it much or claim that these families were free of abuse or that children aren't often an oppressed group basically everywhere I know of but the way ownership of your children is so engrained into white society is so bizarre
Like once you notice it you can't unnotice it even the most loving well meaning parents don't know what to do about it because everyone is so isolated from their own families and their own communities so you wind up with 1-2 parents who have full legal ownership of their child and are raised in a culture where you don't have personhood until you're 18 and all attempts at self actualization before them are seen as clueless rebellion. Like our culture is so divorced from the concept that a parent is someone who is helping mentor and care for their child so they can thrive as a fellow human being and it's actually so alarming
And ik this problem isn't unique to white and colonized people but it's honestly really soothing to hear about how other cultures approach and view parenting and community as a whole and to internalize it doesn't have to be this way
#like i was reading a book by Sabaa Tahir who's Pakistani#and the perspective on parenthood portrayed in it so healing#like when Salahuddin mentions that his mom taught him not to thank his parents growing up#''Ama taught me that saying thank you to your own parents is unnecessary. Akin to thanking your lungs for breathing. The times I tried#she looked at me like I’d rejected Saturday-morning paratha.''#and like obviously the idea isn't that your kids should be ungrateful im assuming that it's their behavior and overall respect thats thanks#but as someone who was raised thanking everyone for everything especially my parents no matter what it really stood out bc even little stuff#like that can make a huge difference yk? since I can remember white adults particularly my parents taught me i was a burden#and that their taking care of me was an act of kindness rather than a responsibility and I don't think it's some big conspiracy to make kids#feel horrible but it's not really teaching gratitude it's just teaching guilt#thats just one example tho#I also am at the extreme end of white cultural isolation (neither of my parents are close to their families we've never lived near them and#they specifically isolate us from everyone so the difference is a lot more drastic for me than it probably is a lot of other people#but when i hear ppl being close to their neighbors or anyone that lives near them i go a little insane with longing tbh#like what is that like? to grow up in an environment where your world is more than just your parents approval?#where there's some kind of insulation between you and all of your parents problems bc there is no one else#this was not a ramble with any kind of conclusion tho akehrjdhr#and once again I am absolutely not saying that child abuse is uniquely white bc. el em ey oh thats not how any of this works#it's just that white cultures view on children is sickening
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had an asthma attack while finishing my lesson. tried to communicate this by saying "i can't breathe" however due to the lack of breathing my trainer heard "i can't do it" (i was fucking up a grid on account of the not breathing) and was like "yes you can!! you did it before!" so i kept going 😂😭 was so confused by the response but in my state figured it made sense & her repeatedly telling me to take breaths (because she's a good trainer and noticed that i was breathing like an idiot) made me think i'd communicated what i thought and just needed to finish. did it! looked like utter shit! handed my lesson horse off to her next rider (WT) and laid on the ground for corpse time. it was at this moment that ppl started wondering if i was okay
#genuinely i am fine & the attack was mild - brought on by cold air#so finishing the grid properly was doable. but extremely difficult to sit up when ur lungs are Not lunging#& if they'd heard me correctly the response would have been different#pretty sure they thought i was just getting in my head and hyperventilating & the sudden onset of coughing was just part of that#meanwhile i was trying to decide if it was worth stopping to grab my inhaler from the car
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nothing like waking up extremely anxious, calming yourself down, then being confronted with an emergency behavior modification session w your dog for 20 min that brings your heart rate up to a whopping 110 from stress alone bc the ppl in your house are stupid. yay echo for doing a good job but boo my mom for being stupid
#she was talking to my brother (who echo doesn’t see often) Right in front of the glass door#so echo was just losing her mind barking at him#like have you considered moving? do you not care that she’s clearly very anxious and distressed?#it drives me Insane how many ppl are like Oh my dog is just crazy and bad 👍#like my brother in christ have you considered that they’re having an extremely distressing emotional response?#she did a great job too. by the end she was looking at him for several seconds at a time without barking#which is a Huge difference from where she started#i stg my mom just has No awareness of anyone around her#it’s maddening
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