#the divine — basil. ` 🕊

[divine-construct]

honestly i dislike the words ‘transmasc’ ‘transfem’ ‘transneutral’ ‘transneumasc’ ‘transneufem’ ‘transfemmasc’ ‘transneumascfem’ and, if there’s more, those too. they imply that you transition to a binary masculinity/feminity/neutrality/mix of those, and many trans people i know don’t.

the male body i want is not inherently masculine. even if i want a male body, i don’t actively want to dress masculine. transmasc and transfem are just new words to reinforce the same male = masculine, female = feminine binary again. my little brother (amab) has long hair and a sidecut, wears ‘masculine’ clothes, and still keeps getting read as a girl because he’s short and has a rather high-pitched voice (because he’s a kid!). not even a masculine presenting amab person is inherently masculine.

in the end, my transness means that i want a male-looking body, but not neccessarily a masculine one. and, apart from that, i as a whole am not and do not wish to be masculine. i am neither only masculine or only feminine—i am both—but if i had to choose just one? then i’d be transfeminine. i enjoy dressing mostly fem, appearing mostly fem, looking mostly fem. in a male-looking body. but i cannot call myself transmasculine for the wish of a male body, if there is no masculinity i am transitioning to.

[divine-construct]

pre-facing this by saying there are always two answers from two of our headmates, one who is apl & plato-favorable & demi-alterous, and one who is apl & plato-averse/repulsed (probably more what you’re looking for). this means we have different opinions and experiences, but i thought i’d talk abt being apl-favorable too in case that might help :3

What does being aplatonic mean to you personally? — Basil: I don’t feel the need to make friends with anyone. I’m demi-alterous & plato-favorable, so if someone approaches us, and we get close, I start considering them a friend at some point. However, while I want to stay close to them, that’s all I want. I don’t really care if we’re friends, or siblings, or maybe even romantically involved; What counts is that we’re close. Essentially, being apl, to me, is not wanting to make friends with specific people, and let the process happen naturally instead. — Naoto: I don’t want to/feel the need to make friends. Not with specific people, and neither with anyone in general. I don’t mind acquaintances, familial relationships, or those of the romantic type, but I do not want any friends.

Are there any parts of your identity that you feel are connected to your aplatonic identity? This could be the aforementioned neurodivergency, another queer identity, or anything else you can think of. — Basil: It very much goes hand in hand with me being a romance-favorable (it’s complicated with my opinions on sex) aroace, and I believe these go hand in hand with my neurodivergency (namely ADHD & autism, not social anxiety, depression or ocd). — Naoto: My aplatonicism is very much connected to my aroaceness, and our ADHD, as well as autism. I do think it’s probably connected to our trauma/DID as well.

Can you describe your experience with friendship growing up (how you felt about it, if other people said anything, etc.)? — Hard to say as a system,, we never had many close friends, and never had the desire to make friends with specific people. Friendship’s always just happened to us, but never on our behalf. We used to get teased/lowkey bullied for not having a lot of friends, but it never bothered us.

What tropes and storylines do you wish you saw less of in media? — We both agree on this; we don’t like how everyone always is supposed to have friends, and if they don’t, they’re a freak and need to work on themselves so people start wanting to be friends with them. Basically, the picture that no friends = there’s something wrong with you (and that something has to be changed).

What tropes and storylines do you wish you saw more of in media? — We also both agree on this: Friendless people who start friendless, end friendless, and are not portrayed as broken. People who don’t want friends, yet are not broken. Maybe even someone who gains a friend, realises that they don’t want any friends, and is able to peacefully resolve it. Stories in which friendship isn’t the center, other than stories about romance or simply sex. Non-friending apl people!!

Imagine your ideal (but semi-realistic) living situation and life. You are not in school. You have a job of your choosing. You are content. How often do you interact with other people in this scenario, and who are they to you? — Basil: I’d like to live with our qpp, so social interactions with him every day <3 Plus, I’d like to see/talk to my close friends at least once or twice a month. As few as possible social interactions with people I don’t know (except maybe on the internet), and maybe a few meet ups with lose friends each year. — Naoto: No qpp. No friends. Maybe a romantic partner, but I doubt I’ll ever have one. I’d like to live a town or so away from them, close, but not too close. We’d see each other once or twice a week. As few social interactions as possible with strangers, except on the internet. I wouldn’t mind work collegues as long as we only see each other for work.

Would any aplatonic people be willing to answer a few questions about their identity and experiences?

I’m planning on writing an aplatonic character and there’s only so much insight I can get from the outside looking in.

You can comment, repost, send an ask, or DM your answers, and feel free to skip any questions you don’t want to answer, especially if it’s too personal.

Questions below:

What does being aplatonic mean to you personally?

Are there any parts of your identity that you feel are connected to your aplatonic identity? This could be the aforementioned neurodivergency, another queer identity, or anything else you can think of.

Can you describe your experience with friendship growing up (how you felt about it, if other people said anything, etc.)?

What tropes and storylines do you wish you saw less of in media?

What tropes and storylines do you wish you saw more of in media?

Imagine your ideal (but semi-realistic) living situation and life. You are not in school. You have a job of your choosing. You are content. How often do you interact with other people in this scenario, and who are they to you?

[sappy-witch]

January Magick 🌬️

Hello darlings 🥰

As we start the new year, it's a great time to refresh your magical practice and set your intentions for the months to come. Here are some herbs, crystals, and other tools that you can incorporate into your magic this January and their corresponding properties:

🌿HERBS & SPICES: 

Sage: cleansing, protection, and wisdom. 

Juniper: purification, healing, and protection. 

Basil: abundance, love, and luck. 

Cinnamon: prosperity, warmth, and love. 

Peppermint: purification, energy, and clarity. 

Thyme: courage, strength, and purification.

💎CRYSTALS: 

Garnet: passion, creativity, and grounding. 

Clear Quartz: clarity, amplification, and healing. 

Black Onyx: protection, grounding, and transformation. 

Amethyst: intuition, spiritual connection, and relaxation. 

Rose Quartz: love, harmony, and peace.

🕯️CANDLES: 

White: represents purity and new beginnings. 

Silver: represents the moon and the feminine energy. 

Gold: represents the sun and masculine energy. 

Black: protection and banishing. 

Blue: peace, communication, and healing.

🔥INCENSE: 

Frankincense: purification and spiritual growth. 

Myrrh: healing and grounding. 

Cedarwood: protection and purification. 

Peppermint: energy, clarity, and focus.

🔮OTHER TOOLS: 

Tarot cards: divination, self-discovery, and guidance. 

Runes: divination and communication with ancestors and deities. 

Meditation: relaxation, grounding, and connection with the inner self.

🎉CELEBRATIONS: 

January 1st - New Year's Day: A great time for setting intentions, cleansing your space, and starting new projects. 

Remember, the magic is within you, and these tools are here to support and enhance your practice. Use them with intention, gratitude, and respect.

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[walkinthewoodsllc]

Today it’s about basil again. I harvested two hefty baskets of beautiful, fragrant Genovese basil, and made not quite two full pints of straight-up pesto. By straight-up pesto, I mean just sweet basil, olive oil, and a pinch of salt. I pack this in jars removing as much air as I can,then top it off with a generous layer of olive oil. This keeps in the refrigerator for quite a while. And while I was harvesting Genovese basil, I got some of the Thai basil as well to hang to dry. I’ll likely harvest more to preserve in olive oil as well. My little hut smells of divinity. 👼 🕊🌱🌱🌱🕊 https://www.instagram.com/p/CisuByvJ0DD/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[divine-construct]

my qpp agreed on taking photos of each other 20th century style with an analog camera so we can make lockets with each other’s pictures. hehehe :33

[divine-construct]

i did a thing we haven’t done in almost 5 years. i changed our lock screen. lol

[divine-construct]

i dreamt about giving myself a wolfcut twice in one night... maybe it’s finally time

[divine-construct]

List 5 things that make you happy, then put this in the askbox for the last 10 people who reblogged something from you! get to know your mutuals and followers (ू•‧̫•ू⑅)♡

aa this is sweet, ty for the ask <2

cats. kitty cats. kitties. :3

my hyperfixations/spins. i am a simple man....

my qpp!! and my friends. and my godmother, and my siblings. people i’m close with :D

music

honestly i’m pretty exciteable lol so most things i few as positive

[divine-construct]

happy birthday!

tyy! :D

[divine-construct]

happy bday :3

ik we dont talk but ur all real cool 👍

- 🌕

thanks!! :3

aw ty <3 you guys seem really cool too! maybe we should just start talking ajdkgjkd we hardly talk to anyone on here and have wanted to change that for a while anyway tbh

[divine-construct]

i started researching schizophrenia back in 2020 when it was briefly touched in our english classes and while i’m still not comfy saying that i have it because i’m not actually sure (same with fibromyalgia) i do think the chance is pretty high. i relate so much. i’ve been researching it for close to three years (with a ton of research in the past half year) and. it’s so scarily relatable. help

[divine-construct]

man i haven’t fronted in a while

[divine-construct]

love it when i go to the museum and my blood pressure drops for no reason at all and i faint

[sappy-witch]

May Magick 🌸

Hello darlings 🥰

As the flowers continue to bloom and the weather warms up, it's time to update your magical toolkit with some new tools and correspondences for the month of May. Here are some suggestions to help you harness the energies of this enchanting month:

🌿HERBS & SPICES: 

Basil: abundance, prosperity, and protection. 

Lemon Balm: clarity, focus, and joy. 

Hawthorn: protection, purification, and fertility. 

Rose: love, beauty, and self-care.

Vervain: divination, healing, and spiritual connection. 

Nettle: courage, strength, and banishing.

💎CRYSTALS: 

Emerald: abundance, growth, and healing.

Moonstone: intuition, emotions, and fertility. 

Carnelian: courage, vitality, and motivation.

Malachite: protection, transformation, and grounding. 

Rhodonite: self-love, forgiveness, and emotional healing. 

Sodalite: communication, logic, and psychic development.

🔥INCENSE: 

Frankincense: purification, spirituality, and protection. 

Myrrh: meditation, healing, and banishing. 

Sandalwood: divination, success, and love.

🪔 ESSENTIAL OILS: 

Ylang-Ylang: love, sensuality, and attraction. 

Lavender: relaxation, healing, and purification. 

Peppermint and rosemary: mental clarity, focus, and energy.

🕯️CANDLES: 

White: purity, peace, and spiritual connection. 

Pink: love, self-care, and emotional healing. 

Green: abundance, growth, and fertility. 

Blue: communication, intuition, and psychic abilities. 

🔮OTHER TOOLS: 

Runes: divination, self-discovery, and guidance. 

Mirror: scrying, self-reflection, and clarity. 

Remember, these tools are here to assist you on your magical journey, but the real power lies within you. Use them with intention, respect, and gratitude.

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Blessed be. 🕊✨

[sappy-witch]

July Magick 🌻

Hello darlings 🥰

The days are getting longer, the sun is shining bright, and the energy of summer is in full swing. Here are some tools and practices that you can incorporate into your magic this July:

🌿HERBS & SPICES: 

Lemon Balm: happiness, positivity, and success. 

Calendula: joy, abundance, and good luck. 

Peppermint: refreshment, energy, and healing. 

Basil: love, passion, and abundance.

Lemon Verbena: clarity, focus, and relaxation. 

Yarrow: divination, psychic powers, and courage.

💎CRYSTALS: 

Carnelian: motivation, creativity, and courage.

Sunstone: positivity, vitality, and joy. 

Moonstone: intuition, emotional balance, and feminine energy. 

Citrine: abundance, success, and manifestation. 

Aquamarine: calmness, tranquility, and communication. 

Sodalite: logic, intuition, and spiritual growth.

🔥INCENSE: 

Frankincense: purification, spiritual awareness, and protection. 

Sandalwood: relaxation, peace, and grounding. 

Lemongrass: psychic powers, purification, and healing.

🪔 ESSENTIAL OILS: 

Lavender: relaxation, sleep, and healing. 

Peppermint: energy, focus, and motivation. 

Cedarwood: grounding, protection, and abundance.

🕯️CANDLES: 

Orange: creativity, joy, and passion. 

Yellow: success, happiness, and confidence. 

Green: growth, abundance, and prosperity.

🔮OTHER TOOLS: 

Journal: self-reflection, manifestation, and creativity. 

Dreamcatcher: (ethically sourced) dreamwork, protection, and good luck. 

Feathers: communication, air element, and spiritual growth.

Remember, the magic is within you, and these tools are here to support and enhance your practice. Use them with intention, gratitude, and respect.

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[sappy-witch]

June Magick ☀️

Hello darlings 🥰

With the arrival of June, it's time to incorporate some new magical tools and rituals into your practice. Here are some herbs, crystals, candles, and other tools that can help you harness the energies of the season:

🌿HERBS & SPICES: 

Lemon Balm: calming, relaxation, and happiness. 

Lavender: purification, healing, and love. 

Mint: focus, clarity, and abundance. 

Rose: love, self-love, and beauty. 

Basil: protection, prosperity, and abundance. 

Thyme: courage, strength, and purification.

💎CRYSTALS: 

Moonstone: intuition, emotional balance, and new beginnings. 

Carnelian: creativity, motivation, and courage. 

Blue Lace Agate: calm communication, self-expression, and anxiety relief.

Green Aventurine: growth, prosperity, and abundance. 

Sunstone: energy, happiness, and positivity. 

Amber: purification, healing, and grounding.

🕯️CANDLES: 

Orange: creativity, confidence, and inspiration. 

Blue: calm communication, peace, and healing. 

Yellow: happiness, positivity, and optimism. 

Green: abundance, growth, and prosperity. 

Purple: intuition, psychic abilities, and spirituality.

🔥INCENSE: 

Lavender: relaxation, sleep, and purification. 

Sandalwood: protection, spirituality, and meditation. 

Rose: love, self-love, and healing.

🔮OTHER TOOLS: 

Tarot cards: divination, self-discovery, and guidance. 

Crystals grids: manifestation, healing, and energy work. 

Meditation: inner peace, mindfulness, and spiritual growth.

Remember to set your intentions, use your tools with gratitude and respect, and let the magic flow through you.

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