#the BALLS this woman had

[mycological-mariner]

Hannah Snell, my hero

[sexynetra]

NICKY AT CANNES THIS IS NOT A DRILL

[castiels-undercoat]

When a fic turns Cas (sometimes dean ig) to a woman and makes the ship straight: 😞

When a fic turns them both into women and makes them lesbians: 🥰😇😍🤩

[dreamlogic]

i have no clue what's going on w/ the hiring process for the job offer i got yesterday, but at least it seems like nobody at the post office does either. 🙃

[mizumonohomo]

I think one thing the Hannibal TV adaptation missed out on, is the reactions of anyone who ate at hannibal's table and unknowingly ate human flesh. I know its played off as a comedy or a quick moment of "oh eww" and that IS funny (or its a sexy foreplay thing hannibal and will do lol). But really IMAGINE the sheer horror of say, being invited to a fancy dinner for whatever reason and having a nice meal with polite company then finding out years later that it was HUMAN?? and that you've been an unknowing cannibal for years??? Tell me that wouldn't fuck with your head. Knowing you ATE a guy whose name and face you now know. That it tasted like fancy party food, prepared well. hmmmm.

[sapphic-luthor]

A lot of “behind the scenes” stuff really colored fandom sentiment towards certain characters, Winn is hit hardest because the actor said some pretty off key stuff during one of the cons (Mon els actor too) so it’s pretty clear that’s the reason, because let’s call a spade a spade, Alex was way more “problematic” than anyone could ever claim Winn to be (which was not very). But in general “ship wars” (rolling my eyes real hard here) always bring out the most unreasonable in people so…

yeah i remember everybody talking about that comic con situation like it was some enormously traumatic incident and i was like damn jeremy jordan must have spit in our faces and called us dykes!

and then i watched the video and was like lol. wait this is The Unspeakable Incident????

meanwhile that one girl was getting a cease and desist letter from melissa’s legal team for calling her homophobic because she laughed at the joke like good LORD was it wild times

[hard--headed--woman]

some random asshole on youtube had the brilliant idea to comment "i hate gokū's voice in japanese, it's ridiculous and i can't take him seriously, he sounds like an angry grandma, why did they decide to have him voiced by a fucking woman?" and got attacked by the biggest online army of female dragon ball fans collectively telling him to shut up and fuck off because masako nozawa is the best and he's just a random dumbass. that was beautiful.

[bigothteddies]

oh my god re: your recent post... the 'girl dinner' shit. omfg. idc if it's 'not that deep' you're still reinforcing terrible shit!!! and also the like 'boys when they see a stick/cool rock' and 'girls when they time travel vs boys when they time travel' wojaks. the gender-fication of barbie vs. oppenheimer. why the fuck is the recent internet zeitgeist hyper stereotypical cisnormativity. like. i thought we had collectively outgrown this.

exactly. And that’s all just some parts of it too. People pretend they’re so on top of things but it’s just because they don’t want to seem out of touch and offensive. It’s wild watching people barf out gender binaries with new terms and new ways to categorize trans people as not their gender and new ways to reinforce the same gender roles on ourselves but in “good” ways now. It’s just….really frustrating and pretty terrifying at the same time

[sunny-makes-doodles]

BACK AT IT AGAIN <3 its my duty to draw my favs (and hearts) with their flags at least ONCE this month!!!

not much to add to this one but hey! again, happy pride! be gay do crime!!

I love my favs (and hearts. sorry hearts i didnt like him all that much)

and for a biiiiit of extra context the one with fu at the bottom is mee (canon future warrior! love that silly guy!)

[sparvverius]

im sorry i refuse to believe t*ylor sw*ft knows aristotle #misogyny #proud misogynist

[celestiachan]

sometimes im existing and i remember that there are people who view me as like. a person. my own person. with my own thoughts and feelings. and they just assume everyone around them is like that. that everyone around them is their own person with their own thoughts and feelings. kind of insane

[arlo-venn]

Someone found Arlo’s new bed ☁️

[lemonandpie]

Is Kori such a good antidote for Dick's Daddy Issues because she herself has Daddy energy? Or does she in fact have Mommy energy and that's how she keeps him from backsliding?

[coldflasher]

the flash should have ended with barry quitting his job at ccpd to become a stay-at-home husband and that's on that

[butts-bouncing-on-the-beltway]

Sometimes I remember my early years in the basketball dyke fandom and suddenly the fact that I married a car fandom fenme makes A LOT more sense

[slverblood]

I think what makes the most sense is if Aylin has extremely short hair for a long time post-canon, almost shaved if not shaved at times, and then eventually grows it out again. Short hair is just easier to manage when she's already struggling and overwhelmed and adjusting to life after a century of torment. She's also trying to reclaim some power over the trauma of it being cut against her will by essentially revisiting what happened except now she's in control, she's holding the shears. As well as ensuring no one can ever take her hair from her again. She's cutting it off and burning it; there's nothing for them to take. It's an imperfect way of coping, but honestly show me a perfect one.

It's a long time — I'm talking years — before she decides to grow it out again. It's part of an attempt to move beyond what's been done to her, to rediscover how she wants to look not how she thinks it's safe to look. It's another way of reclaiming autonomy and power over herself, wearing her crown of hair in spite of those who would take it from her. It's also done in memory of the people, especially the women, she loved in her past. Erlona, the Four Moons, the priestesses in the temple — hair care was a shared ritual. Even Meadowlin brushed and braided her hair. She struggles a lot with physical touch after being freed, and she's hard on herself about that; she used to be so free with it. She used to fear nothing. But, it starts with trusting Isobel to help with her hair and slowly grows to trusting other people. She has a community again; she has family and friends again; she can trust and be safe and be loved.

Maybe there will be periods where she cuts it again and grows it out and shaves half and styles it a different way and dyes it. Ultimately, it's not about the hair. It's not about beauty or even femininity. It's about what the hair means to her. Having control over her own body and how she presents it. Having a connection to the community, to the people, that were her home. Carrying those rituals of intimacy forward into new relationships, feeling safe and loved again.