#thats a immature adult toddler

[endlessfuckup]

shutthefuckupshutthefuckup

if i hear this bullshit one more fucking time i am gonna bash my head into a fucking wall

[strangeauthor]

that post abt adults being moved abt watching a bluey ep like sure whatever its cringe or such but like the op is being needlessly mean about it, like as another autistic person it reads to me like such a mean spirited way to deal with like, what, random 20 yr olds having overwhelming feelings about any sort of media thats not intended for them, like this aint the same as bronies putting porn out in public abt mlp this is abt ... crying ? because you watched a kid´s show??? literally whats so horrible or immature about that man . no one has to get a superiority complex about watching toddler shows but You All need to stop shaming human beings for being normally affected by even simple things like, you dont know what the other person is experiencing at the other side or the life they lived thru lmao.

u rite bestie; imma delete the post

[ghost-of-the-machine]

getting caught up on certain online drama and i saw something that reminded me of what IVE been thru and it hurts my soul. cuz like.

YEAH they did go thru that shit, nothing worse than a grown man whos constantly victimizing himself. was little ol teenager me really as bad as you in that situation? were we equals? nothing like a grown man who cant take responsibility, but thats fine!! if you cant apologize for sexting with a teenager TO THE TEENAGER himself because you truly believe there was nothing you did wrong there, like all i wanted from him was an apology so i could forgive him and we could move on with our lives and maybe i could be HAPPY with someone!! but no that was TOO FAR cuz really i mean. age of consent is different in different places!!! ☝🤓 what a gotcha!!! god.

and this isnt just about him either, cuz this is just CONSTANT in my life, and in so many other people lives. i think it must be some kind of cycle. when the older people who look down on you for BEING younger cant help but act like children, completely immature really and you as a kid are left there to pick up the pieces, to take the blame for them because theyre so immature they think theyre on the same level as YOU. A CHILD. its so disappointing and it really affects people, its this weight, this burden i think some people dont really get. like knowing no matter what you have to be the bigger man, even if you PHYSICALLY ARENT THE BIGGER MAN, knowing you need to take responsibility because the shitty adults around you are incapable and would just make you do it anyways

dsmp drama is literally what sparked me to say this but it just makes me really sad, i watched toms video and HEARING IT FROM HIM its something i relate to heavily

"if i was your age when you met me, i wouldnt ever talk to a 16 year old like that"

all the time i think back to my situation and i hesitate to even call him a GROOMER cuz i mean. i was 16, how bad could it have been? ive been thru worse at younger but then i think about it for a second. if i was his age, i REALLY WOULDNT ever look at a teenager that way. IM NOT HIS AGE YET WHEN WE MET AND I STILL WOULDNT. so like??? why am i having to be the bigger man, why do i feel the need to take responsibility but someone older than me couldnt, cuz I FIND IT QUITE EASY. that line was drawn for me when i hit 18, cuz younger people are so annoying!! /NSRS but you get my point, that was my thought process back then. i see anyone 17 and under as kids, teenagers is KIDS, maybe not goo goo gaa gaa toddler but still young!! completely out of the question. im only 21 rn and i still see them that way, GOOD as a young person who was robbed of that, young people should be allowed to feel young, to be young. yes you can be an individual and you can think for yourself and all that but you are still YOUNG, thats the mentality i had back then, i thought oh this isnt so wrong because im consenting!! im allowing this to happen!!! so that matters!!

I HEAVILY REGRET THAT NOW. OBVIOUSLY. because teens dont make good choices. it just upsets me that I had to learn that the hard way, that i couldnt rely on the adult in that situation to recognize that for me, i try to make excuses for him and try to say hey it wasnt that bad, cuz REALLY was it that bad? 16 is pretty close to 18, and like i said ive been through worse, but. im just saying, as someone younger than he was when he met me, i would NEVER even think about talking to a 16 year old the way he did. and mind you, asking my age was one of the FIRST things we did. so its not even like something that came up later, it was established and he just. i dont know!! i dont know if he truly didnt care, or if it was more sinister than that, but its still gross either way

it just. im just bringing this up cuz HEARING IT from someone elses mouth like this thing ive thought about for a while is EYE OPENING on how older people will take advantage of younger folk and then SOMEHOW PIN THE BLAME ON THEM. he used to tell me how immature i was and how like we've both hurt eachother or whatever. if you want MATURE, maybe try idk. AN ADULT

like we ceased contact several times over the years, and he tried to convince me once that it was ME who made it sexual (<- the memory of that encounter is literally burned into my mind, which i told him but whatever its just trauma 🙄 doesnt matter) and yet. he always came back to me, every time we cut contact, it was never ME who reached out, he did it 3 times

some part of me has it ingrained in my mind that. i mean i just used to make a lot of excuses for him, downplay MY hurt so that i could try and see him as a good person cuz he was all i had at the time, but. when you come out of that, i have beautiful people that i love, that id spend the rest of my life with so happily, and now that im safe, its becoming easier to recognize whats just an excuse, just some desperate scared part of me trying to see him as anything other than the bad guy, cuz he definitely brought that up too! said that me getting support and people telling me what happened between us actually WAS bad, worse than i was making it up to be, that my hurt was valid, he told me that it was an echo chamber, and i think that speaks for itself

so. was it always me? we were equals in that situation? i worshipped him almost, god i wanted him so bad, i was so lonely when i was 16, all the shit that made me feel nasty and gross and uncomfortable i PUT UP WITH cuz i just wanted someone. but no, we were both bad people who hurt eachother, right? we are both to blame

[selkieblood]

a memory re-revealed itself of me around 3-5 yo about this baby bird my mom (probably) rescued and put in this bird cage, at least thats my assumed context because i only really remember this birdcage. i remember climbing onto the couch to try and get the bird (a fledgling bird, feathered but not an adult) because i was a small child and wanted to have the bird because birds are cool, well its kind of fucked up because i remember the distinct feeling of wanting it as a toy, or i wanted to look at it. anyway i remember i made the cage tip or fall or something and i got scared because i felt surely my parents were going to be Very mad and i just remember all the wood chips scattered everywhere on the couch and on the carpet the mess was overwhelming and scary it was a catastrophe to toddler me. i felt really guilty about that memory well into like age 12 which is why i havent asked my mom about it. but i forgot about it for a while. i might ask my mom about it. but i have a sick feeling about it still. maybe i got reprimanded after. i also want to ask my mom about the configuration of my room at the apartment in which it took place. tbh i have only neutral/bad memories from that time of guilt and of being scared of strangers and my dad. but the 2 neutral memories were 1 of my older brothers toys on the carpet (i think either beyblades or pokemon or something) and 2 my dads fishing buddy handling fish in a white bucket. but meditating on this i realize i literally never liked my dad and he made me uncomfortable from day fuckn 1 seriously fuck that guy. all my life he tried to make me feel immature or delusional for being uncomfortable around him. but if a toddler is scared of you thats on you man. i hope he kills himself

[dragynkeep]

Speaking of shameless.. Can we talk about hoe Fiona deserved the world? She had no childhood. Raised her siblings from the age of basically a toddler until she was an adult, and never got to experience being a kid of teen or anything really. Then the whole storylines on how she was being immature and irresponsible and all that stuff happened. Like yes in some instances she was but also lets not forget this is a traumatized women. Being forced to care for all your siblings from age 6 onwards leads to trauma. Hell id argue she was severally traumatized by what she went through. And no this isnt excusing the shit shes done thats put herself or others in danger but it at least helps explain it and really i cant really blame her for acting childish and immature as an adult. Like all her family she needs heavy fucking therapy and tbh id say she also needs someone to take care of her the way she did her entire family.

honestly agree with all of this & it absolutely showed in how the family fell apart when she left. debbie went power mad, no one respected each other & for all everyone went at fiona for what she did wrong with the cocaine incident, even after she redeemed herself — everyone else in the gallagher family fr forgot about him when their own lives took over. fiona should've taken her lil munchkin with her smh. fuck the rest of them, they're adults now.

[lilweaselhub]

Okay woof theres a lot here.

Let me bring in my few points.

1. Renders are always going to be a more accurate depiction of characters physical height and build. Storyboarders will often make errors and characters will vary in actual drafts of shows / the visuals you see on screen can and do vary from these standards a lot. But thats what they’re there for. A standard of how tall the characters supposed to be.

2. The argument of the collector is mentally x y or z is a moot point because they’re not mortal.

The concept that they reflect what we deem to be younger can coexist with the fact that they aren’t comparable to a normal human / mortal witch whatever.

This is why they’re emotionally immature, theyve never experienced emotions like a mortal would. You cannot gain emotional maturity from an experience you never had.

This does not necessarily mean the collector is compatible with being claimed as a toddler / young 6-8 year old. Because they have an experience even the collector never had and never will have. Do i think this means they’re compatible with a mortal adult either? Absolutely not. But thats what makes this type of character interesting to begin with. They dont fit under that box. Theyre ageless, and arent constrained to a mortals experience

3. The collectors appearance is definitely youthful in design, and while i think it’s important to keep that in mind. I think its a disservice to the character to reduce them as harmless because of it. Most were rooting for them as an interesting antagonistic force up until the moment their corporeal form was shown on screen. Then it was a complete 180. Which is contradictory as the evidence that they’re a threat/antagonistic force/ NOT innocent is still there just as it was BEFORE the design reveal.

4.At the end of the day arguing about whether the character 4.5,6 12,13 or whatever is hardly going to make a difference. Dana is the only one who can confirm exactly what they are as its their character. && most are gonna have and keep their own hcs regardless of others input. Though i do think it’s important to discuss things like this.

**side note i DID try to send this in the replies my phone literally said no.

Speaking of Collector’s appearance age

Does this look accurate?

He looks just a bit older that Amity in the flashback. If only we knew how old she was.

upd. I just don’t buy ‘he is the same height as 12 years old Gus’. 12 years old Gus in s1 and 12 years old Gus in s2 are so different though xD