Joel: So I was thinking, something involving me, and Jimmy, but then (Cleo starts laughing) you have creative range. How about that. How does that sound to you.
Cleo: Oh no, oh n- I- (starts laughing again)
Joel: Don't make it weird. Why are you making it weird. Why are you saying oh no like that. It's nothing weird.
Cleo: It's n- it's nothing weird, okay, um-
Joel: It's nothing romantic, it's just two good friends.
Cleo: (pauses) Okay, yeah, like two good friends on one singular block. Together. Uh.
Joel: Yeah well- You can, you can move the, like, you can do them off the block. You can do them on the floor if you want. Or like, if you need any more gold I've got another- gold block. It's up to you.
Cleo: No no no, I can do this. I can do this. It won't involve neck kisses or anything. It'll be less- (laughing)
Joel: Please don't make it involve- please. No. They're ded- they're left specially for Etho and I'm not willing to...
Cleo: You're not willing to share. (Joel: Nope.) Aw, okay.
Sex Repulsion is not the same thing as, or an excuse for, Sex Negativity
non-negotiable!
I am a sex-repulsed asexual. This means that I am uncomfortable and repulsed by the idea of engaging in sexual acts. This does not mean that I have an excuse to be repulsed by other people's sexual attraction or the right to police how other people engage in or express sexual acts or attraction.
Young queer people need to learn the difference between sex repulsion and sex negativity, and actively work to unlearn sex-negative attitudes. Asexuality, even sex-repulsed asexuality, is and should be fully compatible with sex positivity.
If you are uncomfortable with the idea of other people feeling sexual attraction or engaging in sexual acts that do not involve you in any way, that is not sex repulsion it is the cultural Christianity and you need to seriously work on that.
I know that donna was like “haha yeah doctor you’ve always been kinda gay” but it’s better 2 me if the doctor actually meant “oh I say that shit out loud now” the same way he said that about verbalizing his feelings/saying “love”. bc do I think the doctor was completely unaware of any and all attraction they’ve ever had to men? nah not at all. do I think the doctor has ever seen an attractive person and immediately gone “yeah. smash.” out loud? no sir