#terrible fathers
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So of course whenever I write "Mr. Bennet is a terrible father" people come back at me with, "I can tell you about terrible fathers! How dare you use that word!" but I'm probably going to keep using it and here is why:
Her father was a clergyman, without being neglected, or poor, and a very respectable man, though his name was Richard—and he had never been handsome. He had a considerable independence besides two good livings—and he was not in the least addicted to locking up his daughters. - Northanger Abbey, Ch 1
Jane Austen knew that very extremely horrible parents existed, but that was not what she was interested in as a writer. To me, she seems to want to expose how parents can fail their children without anything that would be considered explicit physical abuse. Even General Tilney and Mrs. Norris only talk and scream, we have no evidence at all that they would hit.
And yet, the characters suffer a lot because of their parents. Emma's father has imprisoned her, but by loving her too much. Mr. Bennet doesn't harm his daughters in the present, but he's setting them up for a very precarious future*. Sir Walter would never let Anne go unfed or unclothed, but he still neglects her. Mrs. Dashwood is so emotionally fragile that Elinor feels that she cannot confide in her when she is suffering herself. Sir Thomas was so strict that his children hated their home.
Jane Austen didn't write Gothic horror or the worst side of humanity. She wrote very relatable and realistically flawed parents who still put their children through a lot of suffering.
*Going to add, letting Lydia go to Brighton explicitly to expose herself, which may reflect poorly on the other sisters in a world where reputation is everything, is another failure to consider his children's future. Even if you disregard the danger to Lydia herself, he was endangering all his children. He is very much a person who trades the future for a peaceful present.
#jane austen#pride and prejudice#mansfield park#northanger abbey#sense and sensibility#emma#persuasion#terrible fathers#just not THAT terrible#the normal type of terrible
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Today, we're talking to Chris Rice about the longstanding history of characters with terrible fathers, about why romance seems to love a bad dad, about our favorite characters with terrible fathers, and about why terrible fathers make the best heroes. (we know! it's problematic!)
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Obsessed with characters who portray themselves as worse than they are. Who are lying to everyone including themselves about it. People generally assume if someone's lying about themselves they're trying to look better but sometimes they're trying to look worse. They attribute agency to where they had none, add intent to accidents, try to convince everyone that this is something they did instead of something that happened to them.
#this is about tenko bnha#but it is also about dahlia ace attorney#watch the nezumiVA videos on ace attorney trilogy they're great#anyway dahlia saying she (at like. 6 years old) apparently convinced her father to abandon her sister. hmmm#also everyone including herself thinking of her as the manipulator in control with terry when she was 14 dating a 20 y/o#anyway these characters both did do terrible things but feel the need to pile on more and remove nuance from where it exists#to convince themselves that this is what they really want. that they chose this.#it's about the loss of control it's about being a victim feeling worse than being a villain#at least if you were the bad guy you had autonomy#shimura tenko#shigaraki tomura#dahlia hawthorne
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#should craster win? yes #is craster objectively the worst dad? yes #is craster an absolute monster and exists to represent the evils that the night's watch tolerates in their crusading mission? yes #but i'm voting jaehaerys because he's so much more insidious #i don't care if craster is objectively the worst dad jaehaerys ignites my rage #craster is an awful dad but jaehaerys created the system of targaryen incest family-as-cage for generations #that destroyed the realm multiple times as well has his family #and systematically justified the suffering of so many other girls #obviously he's not solely responsible but. #think of how many other fathers used jaehaerys as a model. as an excuse #how he's held up as a shining model of a good king and a good father #how many of the other bad dads must think themselves as jaehaerys reborn #he set a bad example for so many people. #he's the father to the whole realm. (via @ludcake)
ASOIAF terrible fathers bracket FINAL FOUR: Jaehaerys Targaryen vs. Craster
Jaehaerys: I fully recognize this is probably my last chance to deliver unto y’all my anti-jaehaerys sermon, so I am gonna leave it all on the fucking field for you people today. Between passing over daenerys for his son against his wife’s wishes, making his wife carry 13 of his children against her wishes, forcing his terrified likely cognitively disabled 13 year old daughter to get married against her will (resulting in her violent death), exiling his 16 year old daughter to another continent for having premarital sex after holding her down and making her watch as he chopped her boyfriend in half with a sword and then saying it’s fine she had to resort to sex work because she was always a whore anyways, forcing his other 16 year old daughter to get married to an old man thousands of miles away from her home (resulting in her death), locking his final teenage daughter away from public view during her pregnancy and miscarriage (resulting in her suicide), making his 12 year old granddaughter marry his sixteen year old grandson and start trying for kids (resulting in her death) and passing over Rhaenys for Viserys (resulting in the dance of the dragons, which caused the downfall of house targaryen), Jaehaerys was a MENACE to each and every woman in his life, way too personally invested in his teen daughters’ sex lives in a way that does carry sinister implications, and ultimately laid the seeds for the cataclysm that would swallow his whole family forever. Looked at his daughters and all he could see was a wife (whether for himself, his sons, or another old man he needed to gain power from) and a future incubator he would exchange the life of for a grandson. see you in hell
craster: marries his daughters and sacrifices his sons to the white walkers
#you should probably vote craster. i voted craster. but all of the above is true#entirely sadly and terribly true#it's depressing as fuck but true#grrm decided the best king ever needed to be the worst dad because “unhappy families are more interesting”#but by being the worst dad he made it so everything after him crashed and burned- so was he *actually* the best king? sigh#also as a reminder this is not the final. the winner of this vote goes up against tywin for the final#and y'know *whoever* wins here that'll be a hell of a choice let me tell you#asoiaf#asoiaf meta#jaehaerys targaryen#craster#terrible fathers#i blame the patriarchy#(in poll form!)#tumblr polls#queue and me we're in this together now
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Headcanon: Deep down they both want to be their fairy godparent/godkid again after losing them, but don't believe they deserve each other and feel like they aren't worthy to be their companion anymore
They both need counseling and therapy as a whole package
#fairly oddparents#fairly oddparents a new wish#peri#peri fairywinkle cosma#dev dimmadome#fop a new wish#peri fairly oddparents#a new wish#periwinkle#the fairly oddparents#dev#my art#fanart#I like how both Peri and Dev is the type who prefers not directly express their feelings because they want to be seen as cool/independent#and be loved by the people that they care of#in other words#a tsundere//hit#jokes aside I like to think another reason why Dev cried during that scene is because-#he realized he's doing the same thing that his dad has done to him but on Peri#and yet Peri still cares for him despite his treatment towards him#like how Dev still loves his dad despite being a terrible father#and just..want to do everything right by him to earn his dad affection#man#Also ngl I have a hunch that Dev might still remember since Hazel's ''no rule'' wish was pretty vague#so maybe he counts in that wish?#plus he was wearing sunglasses before the memory wipe which maybe that won't affect him as well?#you can see I'm coping rn#I do hope this is only temporary and we will see them being back together in season 2 tho#giving them both some time to reflect and growth#because Peri clearly needs more experience in his job and Dev needs his character development for season 2
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every time i want to be absolutely ruined, i just think about the fact that, despite being only five seasons, in-universe bbc's merlin spanned over a period of ten years.
ten years during which merlin dressed and undressed arthur every day. took care of his armour. stood and fastened the clasps when arthur was going out to battle. what imaginably could be more quietly intimate than that?
ten years during which merlin withstood being underestimated, withstood all that he had done for arthur being unacknowledged, just so he could stay by his side.
ten years during which the most powerful magical being in albion chose to stay by arthur's side as his manservant, and his friend. destiny be damned.
that utter devotion, loyalty to each other? arthur's reciprocated loyalty to and love for merlin despite the fact that, in his mind, he was just a human servant who hadn't saved his life nearly half as much as in reality?
I'M DEAD. BOWLED OVER. IN RUINS.
#like how come this silly little british comedy#with all its cardboard props and terrible cgi#is some of the most poetically tragic romance that's literally ever existed#AND THAT'S JUST IN CANON#THIS IS ALL CANON#arthur risks his life to save merlin's in the FOURTH EPISODE.#AGAINST HIS FATHER'S ORDERS#and merlin GUIDES HIM#DESPITE BEING IN A COMA#LIKE WHAT KIND OF#HOMOSEXUAL#yeah in conclusion i may grow and mature#but i will NEVER be over merlin#(i'm rereading and like the cycle of the year and it's reawakening feelings)#merlin#bbc merlin#merthur
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Worst. Dad
#tumblr polls#bad dads#terrible fathers#horrible patriarchs#Tekken#SNK#Fatal Fury#full metal alchemist#neon genesis evangelion#chicken little#moral oral#matilda#star wars#IT#a song of ice and fire
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ramon’s constant refusal to be seen as soft or cute, always trying to keep a tough exterior, only calling his father by his name and not « dad »….
meanwhile he’s the only egg to be tucked to bed every night with a lullaby. he lets his little sisters sleep over and watches whatever movies they want to see. he hasn’t stopped wearing that adorable bear backpack. and he secretely likes that fit calls him his beautiful baby boy auuuuughhhhhh
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space, the final frontier !!!!!🌟🌟
#art#artists on tumblr#digital art#procreate#my art#invincible#omniman#prime video#invincible season 2#fanart#invincible fanart#black hole#painting#HE'S SOOOOO FINE BRO I LITERALLY CANT LIVE WITHOUT HIM#legit bro the need for him is like detremental to my health#he could literally ruin me id be perfectly okay with it#this was actually quite a quick drawing#follow my insta guys.....#he is a terrible father#but that okay i still want him#hes trying his best#i could fix him but i could also accept him as he is#forgive me god#illustration#omni man
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remembered i drew this and said oh! tumblr would like this
#dan and phil#spooky week#dnp#dnptit#daniel howell#dan howell#phil lester#sister daniel#father phillip#the terrible influence tour#i miss tit#phinktober 2024#bring me back to my tit show#dan and phil games#amazingphil#danisnotonfire
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Danica: I just don't think Logan's got staying power. I think it'll be someone else [in the seat soon] you know?
Simon: *Asks Jenson the same question*
Jenson: No I don't think so. I think Logan's going to be in the seat until the end of the year. Of course we'd all love to see Logan doing a bit better than he was but (goes on to defend Logan and talk about Williams as a works team)
He shut that down SO quickly
#danica was like blah blah logan's terrible#jenson: No.#I love jenson button#he's the williamses quasi uncle/travelling father figure#jenson button#logan sargeant#danica patrick#f1#miami gp 2024#my post#sky sports f1
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“breathe to me while i hold you close the secret of the murmuring i envy.” (close up under cut)
#i will never be getting over them actually#PLUS this parallels well with the painting reference (ivan the terrible holding his son ivan) and arthur’s grief as a father himself#always thinking about the grief of fatherhood..#malevolent#malevolent podcast#blind faith#arthur lester#oscar malevolent#art#artist on tumblr#artist#digital painting#painting#malevolent spoilers#tw gore#also the title of this painting is from walt whitman’s ‘as i ebb’d with the ocean life’
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how much you want to bet he made rufus' birthday his passkey so he'd stop forgetting the kid's birthday, not the other way around
Thinking about how President Shinra made Rufus' birthday as his passkey and Hojo making a fan club for Sephiroth when he was a toddler
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I swear I didn't plan on making them dad and son, but I love doing dumb shit by accident. Everything great comes from a stupid joke.
#mcyt#lifesteal smp#minecraft#wemmbu#minutetech#ecorridor#dad wemmbu#he's a terrible father#his nose - everything good about him#that's why cor is a fucking angel and wemmbu is a piece of shit#yin yang lol#i wonder if he would pay child support 🤔
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bill seacaster having 24cha feels sort of crazy until you remember that 1) okay yes he is intimidating as shit, 2) he's so naturally deceptive that he managed to trick the majority of the fanbase into thinking he's a good father and 3) he FUCKS. and everybody came. allegedly
#a terrible man and an even worse father. but also utterly fascinating#bill seacaster#dimension 20#fantasy high#scal txt
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I love the idea of Anakin bringing up his experiences as a slave on Tatooine in random moments or conversations.
Imagine that not long after Anakin arrives at the temple, Obi-wan introduces him to Quinlan and Vos tells Anakin how he and Obi-wan used to sneak out of the temple as teenagers and what they did and Obi doesn't want Quinlan to demoralize his padawan and suddenly Anakin comes out with:
"If they ever sneak out I'll be blown up"
And now there's complete silence, both knights are quiet and Obi-wan is completely terrified because his little sweet padawan just said he was about to get blown up as a child with zero fear like it was normal and that's how Obi-wan found out Anakin has a bomb chip in his neck.
Or how during the Clone Wars Anakin was seriously injured but seems completely normal, can stand normally and doesn't complain about pain, and everyone around is panicking and Anakin just says:
"I'm fine and I've had worse untreated injuries"
and everyone looks at Obi-wan because if anyone is to know what Skywalker is talking about then only Kenobi can do it, but Obi-wan looks at Anakin as if he didn't say anything terrible, but inside he is terrified by how badly Anakin was injured as a child and how close he was to death.
Or another story from the war, the 501st and 212th battalions were on the front for a long time and food started to run out, which was complained about in their free time by the soldiers, even Obi-wan, everyone but Anakin and at some point Ahsoka asked her master about it and he only replied that:
"It's not that bad Snips and plus I've been without food for a much longer period of time than a week"
Which made most of the soldiers passing by stop and look at their general with concern, because what the hell did this man survive that he didn't have access to the right amount of food for more than a week, Ahsoka completely terrified looks at Obi-wan looking for some hint or proof that her master is joking as usual, but she finds only seriousness on his face which means that Anakin really isn't joking.
After a while, Obi-wan becomes more and more used to his padawan dropping such information bombs at various odd moments, not understanding how serious it is, but that doesn't mean he is prepared for it, Obi-wan is still terrified every time by what his boy has been through and how normal it is for him.
#star wars#shitpost#anakin skywalker#obi wan kenobi#star wars fandom#anakin and obi wan#star wars shitpost#obi wan#obi wan and anakin#star wars headcanons#anakin needs therapy#anakin#obi wan is anakin's father#padawan anakin#star wars anakin#obi wan anakin father#obi wan and anakin's dysfunctional relationship#obiwan kenobi#obi wan star wars#obi wan loves his padawan#obi wan is parent#anakin doesn't understand that his childhood was terrible.
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