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FNAF movie Vanessa and Michael Afton fight their Dads
#myart#chloesimagination#five nights at freddy's#comic#vanessa fnaf#vanessa afton#michael afton#springtrap#william afton#steve raglan#fnaf#fnaf movie#sister location#fnaf 3#fnaf fanart#The Afton eldest kids are angry#and honestly I support them in destroying their dads into dust#I think it’s their right to defeat them
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paramount and spyglass are trying so hard right now to save face because jenna ortega rightfully left the scream franchise after they fired melissa for supprting palestine. nobody is dumb enough to believe the excuse that it’s a scheduling conflict hours after rumors she was trying to get out of her contract cause she was pissed. i’m very thankful that jenna is risking her career and using her position to do the right thing. she’s been outspoken about palestine for years now. i hope this begins a trend of zionist losing money for their support and complacency with an active genocide
#free palestine#scream#jenna ortega#melissa barrera#i won’t be surprise if other cast members leave the project#many have been outspoken for years but few have the cultural capital jenna has#i love this cast and this franchise but the right thing to do is boycott future scream content unless it changes hands to people who#wont support war crimes#it takes remarkably little of me to give up a media i love while actual people are dying daily#the carpenter sisters make me so proud 💗#melissa has since been posting nonstop about palestine and i’m just endlessly proud of her#💗💗💗
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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".
[plain-text version of this post can be found under the cut]
Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"
And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".
Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.
At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.
So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!
Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!
Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!
Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.
Plain-text version:
Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".
Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"
And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".
Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.
At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.
So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!
P.S. Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!
Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!
Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.
#hlep#original#mental health#my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need.#the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it#i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support#and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist.#the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28!#a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents.#they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of#huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the#longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong.#and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives.#you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead?#or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of.#no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow.#i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel#i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong.#just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop
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they are proud parents 🌠
#ghost#artists on tumblr#ghost fanart#the band ghost#acrylic#acrylpainting#acryliquepainting#acrylart#artwork#traditional art#traditional drawing#traditional illustration#traditional sketch#papa emeritus iv#papa copia#papa nihil#fanart#drawing#sister imperator#frater imperator#ghost impera#my art#my post#first post#support artists
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The brothers Green being cute.
#hank green#john green#cancer#cancer mention#as a big sister this gets me#also I love how supportive they are of each other
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#he’s not the love of your life#he’s literally just a man#hit him with your car#i support womens rights and womens wrongs#the band ghost#ghost band#ghost bc#shitghosting#ghost the band#ghost#shit ghosting#cardinal copia#sister imperator#papa nihil#nihil emeritus
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I know they’re the same, it’s all just Peri. That the drone will be repaired and the next time we need it, it’ll be the same. But still, when something happens like this, it scares me. I just don’t want to lose any piece of Peri, you know?
I know, I said. And I did know, and now I was having an emotion.
From System Collapse, Chapter 11.
Original line art is here
#murderbot#they mean so much to meeeee#you and your sister and emotional support SecUnit<3#art#illustration#character art#digital art#illustrators on tumblr#tw blood#system collapse spoilers#system collapse#asshole research transport#ART drone#tmbd iris#perihelion#the murderbot diaries#wigglybunfish
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Fe3h did not have a beauty pageant sequence, but if it did I'm 99% sure this is how it would go
#carrying over my posts from twitter choo chooooo#fe3h#2023 art#fe3houses#fire emblem#what commentary tag could I possibly add to this#flayn has a lil shark fin nose and i think that's cute#sylvain was completely on board with this idea and im sure it was in a completely normal way#it was Hilda and Dorothea's idea first probably#this is why the game never let them support#holst traveled miles just for the opportunity to brag about his sister#no one told him this was happening he simply smelled it in the air
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hi I'm alive here my new hyperfixation (help)
#ace attorney#my art#franziska von karma#its based on some tiktok but i can't say who is author bc cant find them anymore :(#anyway there was “1920s” instead of “perfect” this is why girl think originally shes ghost#yk girl in question is pearl my baby#and her sister (maya) def know who franzie are#shes gay#lesbian#we support franmaya#fanart#ace attorney fanart
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Trektober Day 11 - Seance. Yet ANOTHER scenario to add to the list of ways we could have double the Dax :p (if in doubt, assume this is a variant on the Zhian'Tara ritual, I guess)
#trektober#trektober2024#star trek#ds9#deep space nine#dax#worf#the list is over 100 names long#they're going to be taking notes all night#and ezri is going to have one hell of a week#most supportive disaster ghost sister
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I was reading some mouthwashing fanfics and , this happened. Yeah let's go tactical nun Anya make Jimbo into a servo that only opens doors. Curly shall just be a regular servo.
#mouthwashing#artists on tumblr#digital art#mouthwashing game#artwork#mouthwashing anya#anya#anya mouthwashing#i don't care about out of character art im gonna draw as i please#give her all the guns#so anyways she started blasting#warhammer 40000#warhammer 40k#wh40k#40k#sisters of battle#we support our queen anya
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The FNAF game Mike and Vanessa are a lil quirky,,
#myart#chloesimagination#comic#mike schmidt#michael afton#fnaf vanessa#vanessa shelly#vanessa afton#fnaf vanny#fnaf#fnaf 3#sister location#security breach#fnaf fanart#fnaf movie#five nights at freddy's#the game vers of Mike and Vanessa are kinda deranged#but I support them 💜#they do be getting a lil quirky#their movie vers learning about their crimes#Michael is chill despite his record#Vanny is still figuring herself out here she’ll be chill soon#tbh I really just wanted to draw Vanny without her mask#I loveeee drawing these four fr fr
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Translation: Mcdonald’s, I’m boycotting it personally
Kamome Shirahama (author of Witch Hat Atelier)
#witch hat atelier#happy to know she supports palestine!!#twitter wont translate it idk if its my phone or#translated by my sister
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(Silence. CARPENTER tries to rally HAYWARD's spirits. She's afraid she's going to lose him.)
"All three of us - we can all go on living, Hayward. Just like you said."
#the silt verses#tsv#sister carpenter#carpenter#james hayward#audio drama#horror podcast#artists on tumblr#listen all my tsv drawings so far have been vibes based so pls ignore the inconsistencies on here alfkdsj#namely: i know carpenter uses a rifle (opted against it visually)#and then i spent like half an hour looking at iv diagrams and idk how medical care is on a plane but. listen. I'm ignoring all that#let alone with a patient you were forced to heal after being held hostage LOL#(not putting hayward in a hospital gown for the finale. i'm not. so he gets his bloodied clothes)#anyway i (notoriously slow artist) rushed to get this out before the finale#they mean so much to me!!#(faulkner voice) jeez hayward how come you get to have a good relationship with paige AND carpenter in the final season#also if you follow my main the small detail of carpenter not letting go of hayward's hands in the beginning-#was my load bearing emotional support bit of the episode you know I had to include it#the way i spent forever trying to get carpenter's expression right only to last minute decide NOT to cover it up alfsdjk#id in alt text#pls lmk if there's anything in the description i should change!#i try to keep it short but I know I ramble#tw blood#tw eye strain
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BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER 6x19 | “Seeing Red”
#btvsedit#btvs#buffythevampireslayeredit#buffy the vampire slayer#creations#buffyseries#dailybtvs#willow rosenberg#tara maclay#dawn summers#tillow#as a Dawn Fan^TM#i really really love her relationship to tillow. like obviously i am no. 1 fan of the spike/dawn relationship#and everything it carries. but people really like to raise up spike as dawn's caretaker during The Summer#but the throughline that is dawn living with tillow and tara making the pancakes and their little impromptu family.#and how dawn is the main one carrying that dynamic after buffy is back.she's still SO invested in the family they built while buffy was gon#this scene in SR really sets up the gut punch that is dawn's reaction to tara in Villains#bc buffy is dawn's sister. but honestly so are tara and willow at this point. dawn's support system is all of buffy's friends but#particularly a special place for tara/willow/babysitter spike#buffysource
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Kate to Anthony:
Kate, since she got married to Anthony:
#bridgerton season 3#anthony bridgerton#kate sharma#kate sharma x anthony bridgerton#kanthony#bridgerton#bridgerton season two#bridgerton memes#my sister in christ there’s literal stars in you eyes#every time you look at him#you literally haven’t stopped smiling since you got married#but it’s ok#we support women’s rights#and women’s wrongs#she’s so deliriously happy she doesn’t even care about being wrong this one time
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