#supporting friends

[chemnections]

it’s details like this that make my chem one of the greatest bands out there

(03/18/24)

[deerlingdoodles]

Silly little art I like to call:

“When you’re ‘patiently’ waiting for the next part of the fanfic your friend is writing”

(“Signals, Space, and Shrimp” a Voices of the Void fanfic in progress written by my friend Icy Vulpine)

I had no idea about the game Voices of the Void but after watching some gameplay recommended by Icy, I definitely have better understanding and appreciation of the foundation for this story.

I would absolutely recommend it to any one who’s interested!

The writing is easy to follow, fun, and personally has me hooked to keep wanting more, @icy-vulpine is a wonderful friend and writer.

He’s also pretty good about posting updates on the progress of each chapter on his account. ☺️

(and I swear I’m only playfully impatient, I know quality work takes time)

[sexyvixen7]

(Source: angelkins723 Instagram Stories)

Jensen, Rob, and Alex at the Whiskey A Go-Go last night for the album release party for The Dick Jr. and The Volunteers.

[pumpkin-the-girlie-girl-vixen]

Meeting expectations set by my StrawBerry Mama can be quite challenging at times.

- StrawBerry Shortcake Kid

🍓 Strawberry Shortcake is usually portrayed as a cheerful and optimistic character, always ready to help her friends and spread positivity. Her mental status in the stories is often depicted as stable and resilient, even in challenging situations. She faces various adventures and problems with a positive attitude and a kind heart, which helps her overcome obstacles and support her friends. While this meme humorously suggests otherwise, Strawberry Shortcake's character is generally seen as a symbol of stability and joy.

🍰🍓 Even though Strawberry Shortcake is a strong character, everyone has their breaking point when the weight of the world is on their shoulders. No matter how resilient and positive she is, there are moments when the challenges and responsibilities can feel overwhelming. It's important to remember that even the most cheerful and optimistic individuals can struggle at times. Acknowledging these moments of vulnerability can make her character more relatable and human, showing that it's okay to seek support and take a break when needed. 🍰🍓🍰🍓🍰🍓🍰🍓🍰🍓🍰🍓

Growing up, I was lovingly referred to as my mother’s “strawberry shortcake kid.” This identity, infused with sweetness and cheer, has shaped who I am since before I even took my first breath. From the very beginning, my mother instilled in me the values that Strawberry Shortcake embodies—joy, resilience, and a commitment to uplifting those around me. 🍓

Just as Strawberry Shortcake navigates her adventures with positivity, I’ve faced my own challenges with an optimistic outlook. I recall moments in childhood where I would don my favorite strawberry-themed outfits, embodying that cheerful spirit, and aim to spread happiness to my peers. Whether it was organizing a small gathering to celebrate a friend’s achievement or lending a listening ear to someone in need, I embraced the role of a supportive friend, much like my beloved character. 🍰

The lessons I learned from Strawberry Shortcake resonate with me today. I understand the importance of mental resilience and the ability to remain stable in the face of adversity. Her adventures remind me that life will present challenges, but with a kind heart and a positive mindset, we can find solutions and support each other through tough times. 🍓

As I look to the future, I carry forward this legacy of joy and positivity. My journey may not always mirror the simplicity of a children’s story, but I strive to maintain that cheerful disposition and optimism in everything I do. I hope to inspire others in the same way Strawberry Shortcake inspired me—by embracing the sweetness of life, supporting friends, and facing obstacles with a smile. Truly, my identity as a “strawberry shortcake kid” is a testament to the power of positivity and the joy of community. 🍰

As much as I strive to embody the cheerful spirit of Strawberry Shortcake, I recognize that even she has her moments of vulnerability. Despite her strength and unwavering optimism, there are times when the weight of the world bears down heavily on her shoulders. This truth resonates deeply with me, as I have experienced similar moments of feeling overwhelmed, even while trying to maintain a bright facade. 🍓

Acknowledging these struggles is a vital part of my identity. Just like Strawberry Shortcake, I have learned that it’s okay to admit when things feel too heavy and to seek support when needed. There have been days when the responsibilities of life seemed insurmountable, and I, too, have felt the urge to retreat into my own version of Strawberryland, a place where I can recharge and gather my strength 🍰

Understanding that vulnerability is a natural aspect of the human experience has allowed me to embrace my own moments of doubt and fatigue. Recognizing that even the most cheerful individuals can falter has made me more empathetic toward others. It reminds me that behind every smile can lie a story of struggle. It is essential to create spaces where we can express our challenges without fear of judgment, much like how Strawberry Shortcake leans on her friends for support. 🍓

In these instances of vulnerability, I find strength in community. I’ve learned the importance of surrounding myself with friends who uplift and encourage me, just as Strawberry Shortcake does with her pals. By sharing my feelings and experiences, I discover that I am not alone in my struggles. This connection with others creates a sense of belonging and reminds me that it's perfectly acceptable to take breaks, reevaluate my path, and gather my thoughts. 🍰

Ultimately, embracing both the cheerful and vulnerable aspects of my identity as a “strawberry shortcake kid” has enriched my life. It has taught me that resilience doesn’t mean never faltering; rather, it means acknowledging our struggles and leaning on our support systems when we need them most. Just like Strawberry Shortcake, I strive to face each day with optimism while also allowing myself the grace to be human. 🍓

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[send-noodles-not-nudes]

I love how everyone sees Merlin getting (Morgana's, no less) clothes for the Druid girl, thinks Merlin is just into drag, and doesn't give a fuck

Like no questions, he just has a weird hobby (for the time period), maybe he's trans, they don't care. Just assume he'll tell them when he's ready

[xiaozhan-appreciation]

Xiao Zhan sent a flower basket to support Zhang Yixing's concert tour.

The note says: “Without limits, nothing is unreachable. Wishing Yixing’s 2023 Great Voyage Tour a great success! - Xiao Zhan”

The photo was posted on Zhang Yixing's studio weibo account.

[confessionsofcalling]

I'm feeling confused and anxious right now. There's a lot going on with the people I love, but also the people I have complicated relationships with. My disorder makes me think and feel things I don't always like or understand. I have to keep reminding myself I am a good and loving person being my disordered thoughts.

I am feeling things that are not appropriate when someone else is grieving. I want to say the right things, be the right person. I am trying. I have always put everyone else before me and I struggle now with knowing when to do that still and when not too. I struggle with all the tangles in my brain that I don't ever let people see.

I am finding comfort right now in the story of Jesus in the garden. He was stressed and scared and cried out to his Father. He expressed his conflicting emotions. Saught connection with people whom he loved, even if they sometimes fell short. He was so very human there praying some of the hardest prayers any of us will pray.

I am praying right now that the Lord helps me be a good friend. A good sibling, a good human - no matter what the nasty voice in my head might be saying.

In the end, I remind myself that that voice is not God - so it doesn't deserve to take up so much space in my brain.

I'm writing to cope, to get all the crap out in a healthier way. Trying not make other people's hurt about me - easy to do on the outside, not so easy to do inside my head right now.

I am being honest, by abusive childhood has not built a person best equipped to deal with some hard stuff, and also a person who has had to deal with some stuff that is way too hard. So there's ups and downs. There is no shame in acknowledging that you are not perfect, but that you are loved anyway.

Being around for someone who is grieving is often complicated. But I am taking hope in knowing being present in a complicated situation is enough for now.

This is all kind of messy. But I suppose lent is a time to witness to the darker and more messy things about life. I hope some of this makes you feel less alone. You are not a bad person for having conflicting feelings and symptoms. You are still a loving friend and you are still loved by others.

Breathe, care for yourself, show up in the ways you are able. God gets you. I get you. Maybe that's enough.

Love as always - M xx

[cvbullshit]

Hey D.

I kinda need your opnion on a new AU i'm creating... This AU is called MonsterTale, in this AU the monsters are similar to the kaijus from MonsterVerse aka Godzilla monsters, Sans will be a Gojira type and i only focus on him.

Spoiler: The Gojira types will be called Goji skele, they can lay eggs and they have large long tail and spikes coming out of their backs

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What do you think? Is it a good idea or...? Pls, i really need an opnion, i'm feeling very shy and confused if i should make some videos of this AU-

The idea sounds fun, you don't have to be shy about it, yeah some ppl may not be into it but if you really like it and wanna make content on it, go ahead!

[magic-can]

The deadline has passed, the scumbags voted to continue sending money to Israel. Keep protesting, keep fighting. And keep supporting verified campaigns. The Alanqar family still needs help (verified #6 here) so if you want to do something please support their campaign in any way you can: https://www.gofundme.com/f/rising-from-the-ashes-ghadas-journey-of-hope-and-resilien?utm_medium=customer&utm_source=copy_link&utm_campaign=fp_sharesheet&lang=en_US

While you are at it, please share @zinaanqar ‘s campaign (link here)

[devils-yui]

Reposting this from a friend bc I think it is VERY important to know of this, and for immigrants, and other possible victims of the ICE Raids happening right now

Here’s to also a very huge edit, from the list of very helpful people who have been reblogging and providing more info.

I’m not as well informed but I will be relaying the information and tagging each person who added onto this post:

@onthedriftinthetardis -

The phone number in the first photo is ONLY for Orange County, California!

Look up your local ACLU affiliate here

@6feetunderwater -

It always makes me nervous to see a reporting phone number passed around without any links to verify it, so the number in the first pic can be found on the site for the Orange County Rapid Response Network, which is "an interconnected system of non-profit and grassroots organizations, civil rights attorneys, law school clinics, and individuals working together to respond to dehumanizing immigration enforcement activities and policies in Orange County"

@geekerypeekery -

The second warrant is not fake, but is an administrative rather than judicial warrant, and has no constitutional authority to bypass Fourth Amendment protections - in other words, it does not entitle the bearer to enter and search your home. It simply authorizes agents of the issuing department to contact you. Always ask to see the warrant before opening your door!

In addition to the ACLU links, try contacting the National Immigration Law Center https://www.nilc.org/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/Warrants-Subpoenas-Facts.pdf

@american-anger -

The phone number listed here is specific to Orange County in California, but you can look up other California counties here:

CALIFORNIA RAPID RESPONSE NETWORKS

@beaniebaneenie -

Unpleasant reminder: within 100 miles of the border (which is home to 200 million people and virtually all major cities in the US), ICE does not need a warrant to enter your home, your car, to search anything, or even to arrest you.

You are not automatically safe just because they don't have a real warrant.

The best and safest thing you can do is learn to have escape routes- quick ways to get out of the house or area you're in if you find out ICE or CBP are around. Those of us who do have documentation? Time for us to step the fuck up.

Film any interaction. Every interaction. If you're able, step into the conversation and be a Karen/Kyle- weaponize your privilege for Good. If you get asked about people? Use positive but vague statements so you a) cannot be caught in a lie, and b) do not give any information away.

"I don't know them that well, but I don't tend to socialize much. They seem great to me."

"I can't remember the last time I saw them."

"Maybe they speak another language, I can't remember details. But I picked up Duolingo during the pandemic and tons of other people did too."

"I'm not sure."

"I'm sorry, I can't help you."

Even if you're somewhere the 100-mile Exception doesn't apply and a warrant is in fact needed? I don't expect ICE and CBP to play by the rules for long, if at all. I fully expect this to get ugly, and fast.

Cheeto has already declared an emergency of national security at the border, and is mobilizing the military to have jurisdiction over a huge swath of the country. It's essentially tantamount to martial law. And it's only been four days.

Gear up for a long, hard fight. This is gonna be a marathon, not a sprint.

— I am leaving all of this as an edit because on the off chance someone does find the posts that have these people specifically reblogging, I don’t want it to be too late. So I’m comprising it all here

Here are a few other people’s reblogs I thought were important:

Thank you @onthedriftinthetardis @6feetunderwater @geekerypeekery @american-anger @beaniebaneenie @bunnychiffon @dubiouslynamed @trisockatops @witchy-disaster for contributing and helping me make this a more well-informed post. Thank you so much

[sculien]

WHAT WE DO IN THE SHADOWS 6.09

[chemnections]

(11/08/24)

[infinitelystrangemachinex]

The stewards of the old world are always keen to give you a glimpse of their might... According to legend, the ancients built specialized chambers to seal away false prophets.

The Arcane is waking up.

[fiercemillennial]

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[enya-writes98]

March Blog 2024

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