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NAAAH THE NEW CHAPTER FUCKING SLAPPED
slay.
literally.
yall still both suck tho as parents š¤·š»āāļø
bro carries that sword in his chest like an accessory
nice drip ig
THEYāRE SO COOL šš
FUCK YOU.
FUCK ME!
#WAITING A WHOLE WEEK WAS FINALLY WORTH IT#these yamazakis are goated ngl#still shitty ass parents#lookism#lookism webtoon#comics#webtoon#gun park#ptj universe#shiro oni
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The number of times I've seen people argue that Bruce is a decent father and that he is not abusive absolutely blows my absolute mind.
Yes, you can hc whatever version of Bruce you want. You can even blame it all on bad writers or reject canon. You can claim comic!Bruce isn't your Bruce and main a different version of him. Those are all valid.
However, you can NOT say that he has ever been justified for hitting his kids. There is no excuse for him willingly laying his hands on his kids. It doesn't matter if the person is drunk, drowning in grief, lost in emotions, whatever. Hitting kids is not okay.
Continually, the physical abuse is a very obvious sign of Bruce being a shit dad in the comics. On top of that, there is so much emotional abuse and manipulation as well. He's shitty as fuck to his kids and there's no reason this is okay. He may love those kids, but that doesn't excuse his behaviors.
Anyways, reject canon Bruce all you want. There's certain aspects of other characters I reject, and DC stands for Disregard Canon. Feel free to have whatever version of Bruce you desire.
What is NOT okay is excusing or accepting canon Bruce's actions/behaviors as acceptable.
#dc comics#dc universe#batman#bruce wayne#I've seen people argue that bruce can hit his kids because they are all vigilantes#what kind of stupid ass logic is that?#tw child abuse#tw abuse#i don't like getting into arguments with people but some of these excuses floor me#āthey're both adultsā no. that's not how child-parent relationships work#even after a kid becomes an adult the parent still has some level of power over the kid and the relationship is not equal#bruce is and has been the adult for their entire relationship. he's the parent#even if they weren't parent and child people should not be resorting to violence to solve arguments#people out here arguing Bruce isn't a shitty dad at all and still deny it when shown empirical evidence#good dad bruce is great (and shown in some media) but isnāt universal#blame the writers or say you don't accept that version of bruce but don't say he isn't canonically shit#yes bruce can still love his kids and be abusive. the two aren't mutually exclusive#bruce wayne bashing
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Guys the cartoon horse line is not implying Jimmy being a predator to kids because the baby is represented as a foil. It is because horses are his stand in for consequential figures and Anya and the sexual violence he perpetrated towards her.
I know heās deplorable but the line is very much about his warped views of women and Anya along with the Pony Express as a corporation seeing as horses stand in for a lot in his mind.
#like I didnāt know this was like a misconception like Polle and horses are a stand in for Anya and the baby too#with the company like itās a multilayered thing but someone pointed out he views everyone in a very utilitarian manner even himself#like the broodmare is how he sees Anya his attraction to her is simply because sheās the only woman and person he can impose himself on#just uhh he is not attracted to the baby I can see how we got there but itās still insane in my head we are getting there#I think heād be very uncomfortable around kids cause even if he doesnāt like them or want them hurt he knows heās like#a real bad example and would prefer not to have to dull his shitty sparkle so a parent doesnāt cuss him out or beat his ass for like#idk blowing smoke in their face#mouthwashing#jimmy mouthwashing#canāt believe I gotta defend Jimmy but uhhh this is one of those cases we are analyzing a bit too much in the wrong way#even the devs say the line is getting a bit too much focus outside of the aforementioned meanings#sa mention#rape mention
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Iām about to set my clothes on fire so midnight headcanon:
When Yor and Yuri were young sometimes Yor would have to head out for a midnight job and Yuri would try to follow her so in order to get him to stop she have a big poster of Donovan Desmond and would put it up by the front door so anytime he went into the living room it would stare at him and he would run back into his room.
For some ungodly reason their father told them that the Desmonds eat people and theyāre skin walkers so Yor embellished that already insane story and told Yuri that now that a Desmond is prime minister they have hunters all around looking for young kids to serve up to him and his skin walker family.
This coincides with the rumor that Donovan plotted to cause the train crash that killed the prime minister but also their parents (not on purpose) so Yor told him that after their parents died Donovan and his family ate them and theyāre looking for them next.
So of course now Yuri is irrationally afraid of Donovan and actually is afraid to meet. His team found out he was afraid of him and decided to replace all the photos of Yor with photos of Donovan and when he saw them he literally had a panic attack and started hyperventilating and thatās how everyone found out Yuri has a genuine phobia of Donovan
(In case you donāt get it uh itās directly related to unsolved trauma about his parents death. Obviously telling a 7 year old their parents got eaten is not a good idea but you know. Check tags for more info)
#spy x family#sxf#yor forger#headcanon#yuri briar#donovan desmond#I like to think Yor was actually a shitty big sister at times#and donāt think Yor was just being an ass here she genuinely didnāt want him running around late at night#I mean there was literally a serial killer on the lose (her)#but obviously she was just a kid herself so she really couldnāt think of a more appropriate way to do it#but donāt worry a lot of Ostanian kids around Yuriās age are afraid of Donovan. Yor wasnāt the only one lmao#itās just worse for yuri because you know other factors#dead parents being left alone at night not having a proper care taker (because Yor was still a child) and just gerenal problems#seeing Donovan reminds him of those cold nights he spent in hall waiting for Yor to come back#every time he looked over he would see the devil staring at him#also my current continuum has it where Yor and Yuriās parents died in a train crash that was considered the start of the war#the actual case is unknown but it killed the pm and the vp so#the fact Donovan a young newbie with old money got selected to become pm was shocking#so one theory was that it was him and he sacrificed all the souls to become prime minister#and added context Yorās parents are very religious Christian but modern ones who are convince modern media is trying to lure kids into hell#and of course very antisemetic#and their neighbors as well believe this so#some say Melinda did it so she can have a baby
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people in the comments of ep 4 thinking asterion is actually a softie and just has resting bitch face. lol. lmao even. this man is so far from being a softie hard ass doesn't even begin to cover it. this man raised two sons emotionally fucked up in completely different ways. this man created the family equivalent of a nuclear waste zone. and he didn't even mean to! imagine that! he's so bad at being a parent he managed to destroy his sons' sense of self-worth by complete accident!
he actively works against being a softie do not denigrate his effort like this!!
#i talk a lot <3#cpsm#crown prince sells medicine#tap#the apothecary prince#asterion magentano#does he actually really love his sons and is very proud of rakiel and becomes extremely protective of him later on??#yeah. he's still a hard ass tho askdhkjsfs#this is not me saying i don't like him btw. he's a shitty parent and i love it. i'm into that shit.
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ok so your first problem was assuming mdzs is a story where Good People are Rewarded and Bad People are Punished.
your second problem was assuming that MXTXāwho goes out of her way to showcase unresolved, tragic, undeserved endings in all of her worksāwould ever write a story with such a shallow notion of ādeserving.ā
the only reason wangxian makes it out unscathed is because theyāre literally the protagonists. authorial intent and plot armor ensure their happy ending. thatās it.
#mdzs talk#moi#i mean it also helps that neither wwx nor lwj give a rats ass about the rest of the cultivation world#wwx had already fucked off and lwj was basically doing that too#that man has never given a single shit about politics and maintaining good relationships#like what does it say about you if even jiang cheng is a better politician than you.#mister ādonāt talk to me before iāve had my coffee. or after. just donāt fucking talk to me.ā#but yeah wangxian is like oh we helped to create a massive power vacuum and destabilized the entire cultivation world?#ahaha no way!š¤Ŗ hey actually can this wait? my husband and i wanna go fuck in the bushes š„°#like. lwj thatās YOUR brother that just lost his most significant emotional support of the last decade.#wwx thatās YOUR pseudo nephew whose parental figure you just got killed.#thatās YOUR pseudo nephew who now has to become sect leader at like 15.#but nah they wanna go bang on the side of the road#god forbid they try to clean up some of the gigantic mess they helped to make#and nobody try to argue āwell but jgy!!ā buh buh buh nothing. jgy cleaned up after himself.#neither wwx nor lwj had ANY personal stake in seeing jgy dead. lwj SHOULD have had a personal stake in keeping him alive actually.#i still think itās super shitty and hypocritical of lwj to defend wwx so strongly and yet try so hard to condemn jgy in PRIVATE#both wwx and lwj really showed their asses at guanyin ngl. obviously huaisang did too.#like yeah itās noble and righteous or whatever but like. righteousness was not why lwj defended wwx before.#wangxian stans being self-righteous and hypocritical? with classist double standards? with black and white mentality?#wow! who would have ever guessed?
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#red vs blue#rvb director#rvb carolina#rvb allison#shitty comics#my dad did this to me once. when i was little my dream was to be in the military so he got his hands on an mre and told me to eat it#i was like 6 and that shit was so ass i cried for days and i was mad at my dad#he bought me ice cream cuz my mom was like wtf bro thats too cruel. and i was still mad. i took the ice cream and still was >:(#the frown lines on my face today probably came from that#do NOT let your parents on ebay#my rbf is a result of this cruel and painful childhood
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Trying sooo hard to keep my mouth shut rn seeing my Splinter getting a general higher parenting grade than my Draxum
Splinter has chapters from his POV in the fic while Draxum doesn't so i guess it's to be expected.
Splinter originally wasn't going to have a POV either, but then I got the double mutation idea and Raphael lost all self awareness so he couldn't have a POV anymore. I had to choose either April or Splinter to take over and Splinter seemed like the better choice cuz he's more involved in the immediate story, and I figured seeing his POV would help readers understand how tf he became so much worse than canon
Anyways me defending a yokai war criminal cuz he has 3 kids:
#how can y'all give him F's or D's when he bought all of Mikeyās art supplies#taught him safety when using spray cans#and let him paint a mural of a human city AKA the thing Draxum hates with his whole being??#man supports his freaking sons!!!#told them he was proud of them which is something even canon Splinter couldn't do at first!!#in terms of parenting they definitely had a more STABLE life than Raphael did if nothing else#he's still a shitty terrible dad but an F???#when my splinter is right there with his completely neglectful ass??#i understand Splinter is more sympathetic but objectively-#sfdsfjkj someone stop me im writing paragraphs in the tags about an abusive sheepman#red rover au#turtle thoughts#cw abuse mention
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not to be a complete ungrateful terrible horrible brat for a minute but like having a terminally ill parent who is also terminally fucking shitty really sucks because not only do you personally have to cope with your parent actively dying but also said parent will get mad at you for wanting time to yourself and not wanting to be their live in nurse 24/7 and also like completely forget about who you are and what you're like as a person especially in terms of like . energy level. because it's not convenient to them right now so anytime you try to think of yourself it always feels like you're Choosing Wrong
#crow.txt#like fuck me i hardly have the wherewithal to take care of myself. i do not also have the wherewithal OR PATIENCE#to take care of a WHOLE OTHER PERSON#and anytime i express im feeling run down and not really able to do Whatever#its always wah wah I RAISED YOU AS A KID. okay? nobody fucking asked you to do all that! by the way! nobody made you#least of all fuckin me.#if i had any say in the matter i wouldnt have been born like are you fucking kidding me#all of this has just been. utterly hazardous to my mental health.#that tweet about shitty parents thinking youll still take care of them when theyre old holds true#like no. your ass is going to a home. i cannot do this.#i am not qualified for this. i dont like that nobody really listens to me period anyway#but its worse when nobody really listens to me when i say i need a break or that im tired or whatever#like im sorry but hot take a lot of people are not really equipped to be caretakers for relatives and theres nothing wrong with that#idk what she wants me to say to I Raised You besides nobody asked you to or i wish you didnt#like do i Want to hurt anyones feelings. no. but i can! i fucking will! if you keep ignoring mine!#lord have fucking mercy my head hurts.
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This winter (the season not the me) has been unseasonably and terrifyingly warm, like it's 10 degrees (Celsius sorry Americans) out today and I'm reminded of an article I read in the news a couple years ago about how Canada was baking at twice the rate as the rest of the world and go šļøššļø. In my youth snow where I live would be probably a foot high in the lowest snow areas of snow drifts and up to my waist (in adult height) in the high parts, and every year I see less and less snow ā ļøā ļøā ļø
On one hand despite my namesake I actually loathe the season winter, I'm extremely sensitive to the cold and getting brain freeze because the wind is blowing against the direction you're walking in sucks booty hole. But like NO snow is extremely bad. VERY bad. Do not like living out the consequences of climate change because uh. Canada just does not seem to have winters like it used to and hasn't in years. It's like watching all the corn crops stop growing like they used to because the summers are so much dryer and hotter with the exception of last summer, which was almost wet enough to kill the corn with that. But they survived and grew bushy like they used to and it was kind of terrifying to acknowledge I hadn't seen a crop that good in years.
#winters ramblings#on one hand it genuinely is SO NICE to not deal with snow seriously it is SO inconvenient#beautiful to look at for sure REALLY stunning when its not literally blinding you but omG snow on roads#in the cities where i live leave HUGE slush puddles and the snow is so MUSHY and WET from cars#pulverizing it to a fine icy slush ready to SOAK your feet in freezing water. shit is inconvenience powder#but the environment is in NEED of the snow that is how this country works environmentally NORMALLY#but no now we have consistently spring weather and ever less snowy winters#although we did have a shitty winter a couple years ago but thats not exacy indicive of much when it goes against prior patterns#and also that shitty winter STILL wasnt the winters of my childhood. the snow was ABSURD then#and yes its because drifts were the size of ME but even the massive piles of snow plowed from side walks are so much smaller#IF theres snow pules at all weve BARELY got snow this year and none of it stuck!!#like damn its been gone long enough ill miss it exactly until i have to walk to a bus stop in it#when i was 13 ill never forget my parents making me return a movie in a snow storm and it took me FORTY MINUTES#to complete this task because the snow NO JOKE was up to my wasit the whole way and i was my full 5'6 then#the snow was HORRIBLE. and for reference how long it USUALLY takes me to walk uptown and back?#roughly 15 minutes round trip so it took longer to walk ONE WAY than it took me to do a round trip no snow#and thats the last time i remember having a REALLY bad winter on account of walking to school was ALSO hell if the sidewalk#wasnt already plowed and usually only the main streets got that and i was Middle Street so id be done when id be going HOME#but not when i was going TO school. that winter blew ASS butlike it was normal bring them back šš
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feeling sad :(
#sorry this is such a dumb thing to be sad about im a grown ass adult but like two thirds of the people i invited to my birthday#either cant come or said they would then bailed and like#some of them have legit reasons but some of them i'm kind of like :/ ok well i put in so much effort for yall would be really nice#if a crumb of that was reciprocated#idk i dont ask for much on my birthday i just want to have a nice dinner with my friends#and i have friends who like throw the biggest tantrum fusses about their birthdays and make it this entire spectacle#and people still humour them so it's kind of like#idk#do i really suck that bad that you cant make a saturday evening work to like eat good food#idk maybe next year i just wont plan anything#and everyone'll be like BUT SIMA IT'S THE BIG ONE and i'll be like well! i wish it werent!#bc it'll suck even more to have people not come lmao i dont actually think i've ever had a milestone birthday people just dont give a shit#this includes my parents idk like they are nice to me on my birthday but like no birthday was ever like hashtag special#and like the holidays already sucked so bad this year they did not feel like the holidays half the people i got presents for#didnt get me anything which is like fine i dont give presents to get them back but it kind of sucks to not even get a card? a thank you???#idk this is so stupid i am turning 29 i pay taxes this should not be a big deal#maybe it's bc i feel like half my 20s were pandemic years so it kind of sucks that theyre basically over and idk im just feeling sad and ol#and lonely and just kind of shitty and unlikeable#AND IT'S DUMBBBBB TODAY WAS A GOOD DAY I PASSED MY DRIVING TEST IDK WHY I'M CRYING FUCK MY STUPID BAKA LIFE
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Idk how to explain this properly, but these two are giving me the same vibe
#tf2#tf2 sniper#hercules#they both adopted lol#and basically immortal#they literally came back from death just to kick some ass#the only difference between them is that Hercules's biological parents are not that shitty and his adopted parents are still alive ig
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I am a homebody. I don't like leaving my place if I don't Have to. I can go on vacation for a single day and Still be immediately glad to go home and not want to leave it again for any reason at all whatsoever for At Least a few weeks.
That's the context for this. Nothing has ever made me want to get on a return trip to a locale faster than leaving NYC (70~Ā°f) and then hearing the pilot announce it was 106Ā° (even though the sun had already been down for a Bit) as we were landing in Dallas
#like ok. Zach time#This is my diary. I went half to say i went on a vacation without my parents bc im a grown ass man who's just never done that#and half to meet The guy friend irl for the first time. Like. I have the guy friends who i see irl all the time. But this is The Guy Friend#and anyways i have one fewer guy friends now.#+1 boyfriend tho.#(this is the dnd one not shitty one)#(i say that with affection)#anyways as an aro its a big deal to me.#Two most important people in the world to me are This guy and my BFF/little sister from a different mister.#and im so glad to have finally met one of them irl. and hope to meet the other one irl soon.#We would have already met irl if i hadn't still been forbidden from driving#anyways point is. I never thought id have a bf. He knows im acearo and idk. i appreciate him a lot.#Hes a good egg. Im real lucky
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feeling like youāre 12 when youāre 22 is genuinely such a humiliating experience.
#my dad and mom have been on my case ab asking for permission before I go places and it makes me kinda sick#seeing everyone around me make plans or whatever and then being like āIāll have to ask š„ŗ šš½šš½#ā#and my dadās a liar heās like itās not like we ever say no#except my mother does and so does he???#even the muslim girls I am friends with have more freedom and you know whatās amazing ab this is#they canāt stop me from going to school. they donāt pay for that#they canāt take my car. they donāt pay for that#my mom can stop making food for me and I will manage just fine#they wanna kick me out???? blessing in disguise#but itās hilarious that as an adult iām still paying for everything I use but I still have to ask permission genuinely fuck off#my parents when I have to stay late on campus for some school event: š#the way Iād be making money rn if they didnāt decide to come and stalk me at work and see me without my hijaab on#and that oneās on me I could choose to just work with it on and make them happy#but I literally canāt as a matter of principle#iām given such little pride as it is and if I say I donāt want to work with a hijaab on thatās that#i got an internship two days ago for the summer and you can bet your ass Iām not wearing my hijaab#except itās not paid#and as much as I have guilt spending I really donāt spend a lot and it makes me so angry#i know that your 20s isnāt your whole life and people shouldnāt think that if they waste their 20s their life is up#but itās like#my teens were already so shitty and abusive and trapped#how much longer do I have to deal w this before iām treated like an adult#trick question! itās only until a man can own me bc then he can make my decisions instead of them <3
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If my younger self saw us now- iād like to think she were very proud of how far weāve come š„¹
#thinking back on my past is weird- Iāve changed so much-#i was in a shitty environment with my parents- always yelling at each other- and getting scolded for dumb shit-#not speaking it (and still sometimes struggling with it) and caring so much what people think#if anyone who knows me now met me then- theyād assume we werenāt the same personā¦#i could be a mean kidā¦ but I was never taught to express my feelings and I had a shitty biological dad who I donāt talk to anymore btw-#unless he messages and then starts being an ass to my mom when I donāt message back#but no- I basically raised myself- and had my grandparents as wellā¦#my mom was there but she wasnāt THERE you know-#we have an okay bond now but we donāt always get along#kait rambles
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i am Very Tired. My period sucks. I'm stuck between being so exhausted I can't keep my eyes open but my brain is Firing Off. I want to do everything. I want to do nothing. People are annoying but I don't want to be lonely. I am flailing. I am a lump on a log.
blah.
I did, however, buy an archery target at the sports store today. It was pricey (like about $100?) buuuut I figure it should last awhile? Eventually I'll make my own but right now this one works. Dad and I just have to make a stand to put it on.
#a very important update about me#I'm tired of doing my Work#I want to go off about how my SIL is shitty and my brother should move forward with the divorce#or how like everyone sucks and boooooo#or maybe my ass needs to go off once in awhile#but I don't have anything to actually go off about#Also I forgot to bring my pillows to my parents house so I'm stuck with these 'okay but still subpar' pillows
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