#spoiler: people in love... love

[mitsuki91]

I saw a post that make me 🤦🏻‍♀️

Like, I mean, I know everyone has his ship, and if you prefer Haymitch/Maysilee to Haydove is totally fine. But complain because Haymitch thinks about his girlfriend so much?! Complain that she is "too important" to him, that their story feels rushed?!

For the Lord' sake, he is a 16yo boy in love, who is also loved by his girlfriend. He is obsessed and rightly so. Also there is the whole angst "we will never meet again" (because he is sure to die in the hunger games); of course in the arena he'll keep thinking about her again and again. Let alone what happens in the end and the guilt he'll feel all his whole life.

I have this impression that today personal relationship are devalued so much... It's a scary thing. "You can not trauma dump on your friend!" WRONG. Friendhisp is about sharing! Not only experiences together but also (and most important) you inner life. "If you are rejected you have to move on" yes of course, don't be a stalker or else, but you are allowed to feel bad. Even for days or months. You have to process. And it's better if you can share your grief with someone - with friends.

So where this whole bullshit "People are too obsessive with the one they love" came from?! Excuse me, I am 33yo married woman, and I am obsessed with my husband since day one. I am sad to have to go work and be away all day from him and I am happy when at the end of the day I can see him again. It's not at all a 'toxic' love, I just care. Caring is the center of love, I don't know where this twisted mentality of what is a toxic love came from. Can we just relate toxicity to actual abuse (physical, mental, financial, etc) and stay away from actual normal people who love and be loved and in doing so are happy with each other and happy to see each other and happy to share time with each other and happy to think about each other during the day?!

Where is our sense of community if we can not accept even the basic concept that people who love think and care about each other?

[succssion]

innie mark is gonna have to watch himself watch petey die and do nothing about it because he doesn’t know him. outie mark is gonna have to watch himself talk to his wife for hours and do nothing about it because he doesn’t know her. mark is gonna feel the love for his wife and the love for helly at the same time. two different people inhabiting one brain. i’m so sick

[sapphic-storm69]

Spiderverse thots

[screechingcheesecakecheesecake]

This particular type of Marcille clinging to her muscular friends' torsos

[frogkik]

your light keeps burning 💛

[birdnaps]

animation so good it pissed me off.

[ianthewife]

addiction n abusive relationship metaphors are breaking down my door send help

head in my hands the last three panels are gonna live in my head forever

[heartorbit]

if we could stay connected, just like this

[puppppppppy]

sniffrin ^_^

[tiredcupofangry]

I hope there is a universe in which there are all of them alive and happy.....

[jingyismom]

undead boy with "UNMARRIED" on his gravestone makes sure to put "BELOVED WIFE" on his girl's gravestone even though he knows she won't be in the ground for long

[hinamie]

in spite of everything, I had fun <3

[egophiliac]

still ruminating over Lost In the Book With Spooky Skeletons Part 1, so here's a selection of some of my favorite little bits! (...some more loosely paraphrased than others) (I just feel like Idia has no room to criticize in general, okay)

anyway, I'm sure we're just going to have a fun time celebrating Halloween and nothing bad is going to happen whatsoever! :)

[dinodoggie]

I watched Mickey 17 and i really like the bug creatures (creepers) so i wanted to draw them!

i hope you enjoy, and have an AWESOME day!!

[heph]

A Moment in Time - Dearly Missed

[hungergameshyperfixation]

Not to be that person but Haymitch is now like canonically the person who keeps the Covey’s memory alive. Even if Katniss has information passed down from her father, I think it pales in comparison to what Haymitch knew intimately. Out of the remainder of 12’s population, it is Haymitch who adds their histories to the book. He tells their story. He also has seen Lucy Gray—he can give her a physical description.

And I think, out of all the things he did (in the canon story), that is the most meaningful way he honored Lenore Dove.