It's time for a computer spring clean!
You can have your laptop or desktop PC running better than new by having a Service and tuneup, Drop me a message or book through my online booking system and we'll go from there! https://www.yourgeekfriend.co.uk/contact-yourgeekfriend-pc-repair-gloucester
You can have your laptop or desktop PC running better than new by having a Service and tuneup, we optimise your system for the best performance it can possibly have, advise on upgrades to make it even faster, ensure that it’s safe and secure for your peace of mind and even give it a clean inside and out. Most tune-ups are done within 24hrs of being brought to my workshop so you won’t be without…
View On WordPress
0 notes
One of the main reasons why I silently freak out so much after talking to people in a group setting is because I listen to them (or at least try to act like I’m listening to them) but the very instant I open my mouth to speak, they start talking to someone else, or someone else talks right fucking over me even though they know I‘m trying to speak. Every. Single. Time.
And it’s not just so-called “neurotypical” people. Oh no. It’s neurodivergent people too. And the neurodivergent people I understand; but they also have to understand that not all of us are fast talkers and some of us need people to be patient or we will never get our information out. My brain-to-mouth processing speeds are extremely extremely slow and I cannot talk quickly to save my life unless I am reciting something I already have memorized. If someone cuts me off in any way before I am finished, my brain gets stuck in a buffering mode for three seconds at the very least, and more if they continue to cut me off when I’m trying to communicate “No that’s not the end of what I’m saying and that’s not what I even meant by that. Stop making hasty generalizations about a point you haven’t even heard through yet.”
But no matter who I am talking to, right before I am able to finish my extremely well-thought-out point that I’ve been formulating in my head for months or years prior in the mirror, I always, without fail get cut off because everyone gets impatient with my long pauses and doesn’t even want to attempt to listen to what I have to say because they think what they’re about to say in reaction is more important. And it’s not like I’m taking over the conversation or talking more than I listen; I’m just taking more time than they are comfortable with to say a typical amount of words.
And then those same people always tell me, in a somewhat patronizing tone, “You’re so quiet! You’re such a good listener!” Yes because that’s what you’ve made me. Why should I talk to you if you won’t fucking listen to me for three seconds. And no, after a certain point I stopped listening to you because why should I listen to you if you don’t ever listen to me?
Everyone’s nice to me and says they want me there at their social functions but they still subtly exclude me. God damn.
I suppose they want to look at me, or perhaps inhale my aroma. Like I’m a house plant.
3 notes
·
View notes
the horrors had taken me but im ok now also i got a new wifi card so it is finally gamer time
5 notes
·
View notes
turns out you can't "rest" by secretly being super productive anyway.
so i'm now having a full off week from gym and everything.
unfortunately. once again. the more i'm unable to stay on top of everything. the harder it becomes to stay on top. and the more there is to catch up with, like, to return to a manageable baseline. and i haven't been able to achieve that sorta reset in most aspects of my daily living in, uh, years to begin with.
seriously starting to consider looking into cleaning services. i should be able to afford it once. would love to pay to win, or at least pay to change the difficulty setting. but it's also a thing i would need to organize on my own, hmm...
(this post was inspired by "damn i want to write but both my laptop and tower are locked behind a mini quest of Get Your Shit Together (Cleaning Edition) and i am fully out of spell slots and with several levels of exhaustion")
4 notes
·
View notes
Well, I intend to post both a rewatch gifset and the B99 parallel gifset tomorrow, but it remains to be seen if technology will cooperate with me
4 notes
·
View notes