#sorry anon /gen

[magicalara]

I had a request for Grell x female reaper reader.

Y/N is dealing with bulimia and has never told Grell about it. On one of Y/N's days off Grell gets off early and when she's home, hears her love throwing up in the bathroom. (I headcanon that reapers can get sick sometimes) Grell asks Y/N if she's okay because it's very rare for reapers to get sick. Y/N breaks down and finally tells Grell about this illness that's come back to effect her even though she's not alive anymore.

Okay I was gonna wait and answer this in the morning but I'm just gonna do it now to get it off my mind.

No, I'm sorry, but I won't write it.

Eating disorders are a touchy topic in general with me bc I've struggled with it before. I won't never write eating disorders, but certain things I just won't do, especially since I didn't have bulimia and I wouldn't wanna say something that isn't true about or hurtful towards those who do. Vomit it also a touchy topic that I try not to write if I can avoid it bc I am very sensitive to that stuff (in terms of like I'll start to feel queezy myself) and just don't like it.

So, I'm sorry but I won't write your request. If you'd like to discuss an alternative where Grelle comforts a reader who struggles with an eating disorder in general, my dms are always open. I might not respond super quick but they're open.

[sunlitmcgee]

i wasnt hoping for a wise response i just wanted to get it off my chest and have someone go “yeah your so right”

oh im sorry. i hope that i helped a bit!

[theloveinc]

any hobie and/or miguel icks? 😟

whoever sent this: thank you + i ADORE you. i hope you don't mind i'm switching up the formatting/style a it in comparison to my older icks... shorter list, more detailed <3

(warning: some fem terms used at the end, such as “mama!”)

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Miguel O'Hara

- This guy... has some long ass toenails. Type of toenails that poke you at night in bed, and tear holes in his socks.

It's maybe somewhat related to the claw thing he's got going on? Has a lot stronger and faster-growing nails than the average person... but the real problem here is that he's TERRIBLE about clipping them. Claims it doesn't bother him even remotely and that you're the one overreacting when you ask him to... but hardly anything gets through to him about it. You probably even offer to do it for him one day, thinking the offer of a foot massage would sway his thinking and that it'd actually work... but he fought you on that just as easy...!!!

...which is how you came to the conclusion that you have a man who'll even argue w/ you over toenails. Petty boy.

- Miguel is also tired 24/7. AND yeah, it's pretty hard to be un-sympathetic towards that, but he's tired in the... I'm-gonna-prioritize-this-one-last-email-over-saying-goodnight-to-you way. Which gets real irritating when you're asking him to help you out w/ anything, like cleaning up or answering a question or JUST HAVING A DAMN CONVERSATION W/ YOU and he's using "I'm tired" as an excuse when his response is shitty or distracted.

Like one of those stupid guys whose always squinting at their damn iPad when you ask what he wants for dinner... which is ironic given that he'll get snippy at you for not giving him your full, entire attention whenever he wants it. Type of man to start picking imaginary lint off your head when you're simply trying to finish up a text before engaging him so that you aren't distracted.

- Odd about Lyla. Not that he loves her or anything, but she'll like pop up to give him updates about whatever even if you're MID-MAKEOUT session and he won't change that setting. Pulling away from your lips all pouty and squinty only to glare at his watch for thirty seconds before trying to go right back into kissing you.

No. No sir.

(Lyla will also always say something to or-but-usually-and about you, which... Okay, she's an AI and doesn't Get It... but it's still weird because it feels like someone you don't know just walked into the room.)

- Picks his nose when he's too busy to find a tissue, and forgets to sanitize his hands after. Denies this when you tell him.. but you've witnessed this multiple times (he's weirdly kind of whiney for a dude and lazy for a workaholic LOL).

Hobie Brown

- Lovely boyfriend because he doesn't give a crap about your appearance or the idea of needing to "look nice" for a man... but also stupid, nuisance boyfriend because this means he doesn't give one hoot if you try to get all gussied up for him. Nags you about wasting time getting ready because he doesn't need you to do all that instead of just saying "THANK YOU, YOU LOOK NICE." Even probably complains about you feeding into gender stereotypes or w/e when you do something like shave your legs or pluck your eyebrows😭

You try to talk to him about this, ask if he even cares that you tried to look nice, and he skirts around admitting it because he has an argument for everything. "'oughta know I think you're pretty either way"-ass when you just spent an hour trying to look all good for him.

- Tries to share the most obscure music with you... which is like, sweet in concept, but weird when it actually happens since it's never like a generic love song but an eleven minute underground jam session.

Which isn't to say he has bad taste in music, usually it's fine if not fantastic... but you try to tell him you don't want to listen to some dude's first draft of himself banging on a drum set for a full album and he's like: "tsk."

HOBIE. TSK??? FUCKING TSK????????? WHAT ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE LIKE????????

(He'll also use his to get out of listening to your music. Claiming his "inconsistency" is why he liked your playlist yesterday but not today. Stop!!!)

- And you know I gotta say it, he's a punk, after all: absolutely refuses to clean his favorite leather jacket, and it smells RANK. He's genuinely sentimental about it, though... and if you even try to bring up cleaning it somehow (even if very gently), he's acting like you betrayed him. Goes through the five stages of grief over you asking him not to wear it on one of your dates, and teases you by TALKING to it:

"Mumma didn't mean that, jackie. She just doesn't understand our lifestyle, does she?" while giving you a (lighthearted) stink eye.

[3-aem]

chill tf out i was just giving an advice, you have no right to treat random ppl like that, especially when i was just trying to help. you’re a proper asshole, hope ppl realize that

who tf asked for it though

here i’ll spell it out for you since you clearly don’t understand and id like you comprehend why you giving unsolicited advice is broadly seen as entitled and a dick move by the entire creator community online: we are not an art critique circle

if your criticism ever hurts someone and stops them from wanting to draw you failed as a critiquer. your criticism wasn’t constructive it was destructive. and the chances of this happening on the internet is High.

point blank: you don’t know if someone is doing drawing something someway because they like it or not. and you voicing your opinion is thus not ‘helping’ as you so very much want to believe, it’s entitlement to think you know better.

people draw and post on here to get away from real world where critiques from ur boss or ur colleagues actually matter.

there are times where creators solicit advice or suggestions. give them there.

[gotstabbedbyapen]

u know how you’ve headcanoned that Ares saw the jar fiasco as pence for going after Leto and the twins? 👀

I headcanon that after python Apollo rolled up to Ares and was like FIGHT ME because he’s running high on his vengeance spree and Ares just Looks at this pubescent god pointing a sword at him, rolls his eyes, and says; “do you even know HOW to use that thing?”

Cut to Ares showing Apollo how to properly grip a sword’s grip, and it was those lessons that helped Apollo kill Tityos ^-^

so I propose: Tityos was part 1 repentance and Giants were part 2. One for each twin ^-^

@apollosgiftofprophecy

What a pleasant surprise to have you here, Alder 👀

I can't believe you still remember that headcanon, and I totally agree with yours! Ares was a terrible brother for persecuting the twins when Leto was still pregnant with them, but deep down he still feel bad for them and tried to make it up during the Tityos and the Aloadae incidents.

I have another addition about Ares' repentance: when Apollo and Ares were boxing in the first Olympic, they were almost equally matched. But then Ares started to see the pain in Apollo's stubbornness, the struggle of a bastard trying to make his father proud and pay back for all of his mother's suffering, including Ares' part. So toward the end, Ares kinda start letting Apollo hit him more, like the more pain he gets, the more "relief" he felt. But at the same time, his pride didn't let him give up so easily.

Apollo beat Ares fair and square in the end, and Ares was still humiliated for his defeat. But a part of him still quietly said, "Good job, kid."

[queernoctis]

so we know how it goes the first time gen calls seph good girl, does it go about the same when angeal does it? i always tend to think seph gives a bit more of an honest responses to angeal a little easier than to gen on the first pass just by the nature of their relationship but i love asking questions LOL

it def Would feel more genuine coming from angeal i think ;0; with gen, seph has that lingering doubt that he's just making fun of her, but not with angeal

[rewritingcanon]

Ask and you shall receive! Ng hcs! (Note: some of these I've heard before and stuck to while some are original, also idk hoe to format this lol)

Albus had a fnaf phase when he was 10 that stuck with him for years.

Teddy is really good at drums and bass guitar

Albus is really good at math but not so good in English class.

James has anxiety and adhd

Teddy is pansexual and victoire is bi

Lilly is the only one of the potter siblings with glasses

Albus paints his nails black and wears eyeliner

James Secretly loves reading both old and new literature books but he doesn't let people know because it isn't expected of him

Victoire is a healer and is a very dedicated worker

Lilly made reserve seeker in her first year, harry cried over it

Albus has bipolar disorder

Teddy makes sure to have tea with his grandmother on the weekends with her freinds

James is really family oriented and gets homesick really easily, he also kisses both of siblings foreheads sometimes to their displeasure

Victoire surfs because she crew up in shell cottage right by the water

Dominique is a trans woman

Scorpius has brown eyes like his mom and multiple bueaty marks on his face

Teddy had a small gap between his teeth but changed his teeth with his metamorphmagus abilities cause he was terrified of getting braces

James is really good at singing but doesn't do it often

To the suprise of the hogwarts staff Lilly is the most like grandpa James not her older brother

Alice is plus size

Craig was the first person to stand up for albus when he was getting bullied. James thanked him for it and now they talk to each other whenever they see eachother

Scorpius has natural eye bags and because he's skinny and kinda pale people think he looks like a corpse which is ironic considering how full of life he is

I don't know how to end this so I'll stop here but I might make a part 2 or do hcs for each individual character idk.

omg i agree with SO much of these but i’m especially passionate about lily being the only potter sibling with glasses and scorpius having tonnes of beauty marks. i feel like i havent seen anyone else who also thinks scorpius is us riddled with beauty marks??? not just on his face but also neck, shoulders, chest etc. i thought it was only me lol.

and i really like the idea of james secretly being good at singing. i feel like he tries to “jokingly” belt songs that are hard to sing to sing terribly and annoy other people and this is how everyone finds out he’s actually really good at it 😭

and the idea of teddy using his abilities to get straight teeth would be so hilarious because ik for a fact he def don’t know shit about dental and will probs continue to fuck his teeth up even more. andromeda takes him to the dentist and it’s literally that dentists worst nightmare. like tf happened here??

also yes the idea that james sirius potter is the next marauders menace and fred weasley ii is the next weasley twin is outdated and boring. get the daughters in here rn.

[milo-igidk]

Hiii! Random question, did you ever watch rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles

if so what was your opinion on it

Also heyyyy fellow kotlc fan :D

(you don't have to answer this ask if you don't want to lmao)

LOOKS AT YOU WITH AUTISM IN MY EYES

yeah i watched rottmnt. and by watched, well, heh. let’s just say hyperfixated on it for a year or so ���

i love rottmnt so so much one of my favorite shows it made me so insane, the fandom is so so silly (at least the side i was in ig) i love the animation SO MUCH FLYING BARK PRODUCTIONS SAVE ME, its so funny, the characters are all so well written and entertaining to watch, the plot is so good, the voice acting goes hardd, (i love ben schwartz, sue me)

honestly miss the era in my life when i was in its fandom, i met my best friend and a lot of other cool ppl there, and it was just like a rlly nice comunity ig (again it definetly depends which side of the fandom youre on lmfao). i think i joined in between s2 and the movie, and i loveeeed the movie fucking soooo good. the other time i joined a fandom right before the movie came out was tales of arcadia and,, yeah we dont talk abt that movie.

i love the character dynamics sm i could talk abt them a lot, all the characters are so lovable and funny and have silly sibling dynamics, i couldnt pick a favourite so dont ask me 🙏 i do kin leo tho hes so me fr (guy who kins keefe from kotlc also kins leo from rotmnt, shocker!)

the show has such a special place in my heart and im forever mad it got cancelled :[[

the silliesss, oh youre gonna make me rewatch it annon

[celestie0]

would kickoff gojo softlaunch or hardlaunch reader on his social media?

GREAT QUESTION i feel like he would hard launch on their one month anniversary or sumth straight to the timeline 🤔 i headcanon he doesnt post to his story very often at least compared to his feed

idk i think he’d keep their relationship sorta private on insta, like only post on anniversary or birthday or holidays stuff but he’s always begging her to do every single couples challenge or dance or trendthey come across on tiktok so his tiktok feed is just entirely her

[erabu-san]

Hi, I'm sorry you're having a hard time with people tagging your posts when you don't want them tagged with ship, I know most people will not look at the original tags if something is reblogged to their dashboard and just reblog and tag as they usually do, and people when they ship something will tag any interaction between the characters as ship. So like you said, probably a better idea to put in your original post. I think just adding "please don't tag as ship !" or "this art has platonic intention, so please don't tag as ship !" would actually be perfectly fine, maybe a smiley but i don't think it comes across as rude or mean either way, it's completely reasonable.

Personally I don't think lots of people would mind that sort of boundary, and the people doing it now most likely have no idea you have it. Anyone who does mind such an easy boundary (you aren't even saying shippers cannot reblog! just to not tag!) and gets mad that you put it in the post then is not worth your time.

Hope you have a lovely day and people are more respectful <3

🥹�� thank you so much anon !!

There is a lot of you who send me support, I read them all. And I am clearly lucky to be understood ! Thank you

I believe I became more sensitive because of lack of sleep, I usually just block and ignore haha

But yeah it became way too much recently ! I find reconfort by sharing thing I like, and I know there is a public who will find it at their taste(if there is no public, i know there is my friends 🫵💕), and.. true, I always expect there is people who doesn't read original tag. Internet is large, and it is sure there is thing out of my control. Even by rationalize facts, and organised my thought, it is hard to supress my feeling. This my problem, I have to deal with it I guess. But why feeling, as a human, is a problem ? Why do I constantly invalidate my feeling because "I have to expect this" ? And why do I have to constantly justify my feeling and behaviour while I am in my right ? On MY art ?

So that's why I started to put boundaries

And it is not only abt tumblr, but also twitter (twitter is the worst for me haha). I still didn't post my art on instagram because I don't want to feel this much again 😭 irony because instagram is my safest place between all my social media ! And yes !! I know there is plenty of my followers who ship them, and we still interact because shipping is not the problem ? They know my art and post abt them are not abt romance and I do not wish it becomes romance and they respect that !

Ah, I started to rant again, I hope you don't mind 🥹 it is week end, maybe a good sleep will help me to deal everything better !

My day became more lovely thanks to you all support, and I am sincerely grateful again for you taking your time to write me a kind message. Anon, I wish you also have a lovely day, and everything will be good for you, right now in present but also for your future 🫶

[earth-updates-today]

can you bring back my cat.

He died today

Going ooc for this one. I am incredibly and deeply sorry that you lost your cat, and while it may not be much, I want to let you know that things can and do keep going and get better. Change is inevitable, and while that means good things end, so do bad things. There will probably always be days where you feel eaten alive by grief, but over time they'll start to lessen. I'm saying this as someone who lost my cat at the start of June. If it was within my power I would bring back both your and my cats, but the most that either of us can do is keep going so that, if there is an afterlife, they might not have to watch us continue to suffer for their sake. Please remember that it is okay to grieve, and try to be gentle with yourself while the loss is fresh

[echobx]

Hey it’s the anon from the homeschool ask, Rudy was homeschooled, before high school I believe, because of his dyslexia. He then returned to public school. He talked about it on a live with an actor from Ozark, he also talks about how him mother was his teacher and how she would use topics that interested him to make learning and focusing easier.

oh, I legit didn't know that. thank you 💕

they start talking about it around 6:00 and go back and forth from that point on.

what I noticed tho listening to him describe it, it's very clear to me that he's most likely adhd because of how much he talks about this struggle with social interactions. this "I will wait to speak until it's my turn" is something I think almost every (undiagnosed) adhd person has ingrained in their brain.

[theloveinc]

OKAY hear me out but touya WITH a job getting ready at your cute vanity and pink room. struggling to put up his cargo pants/ slacks with the belt, while running over to get his coat off of the fuzzy pink chair in the corner. he's forced to fix his hair and check if his face looks the least presentable in your mirror filled with polaroids before he goes out and it's SO funny to watch him do that omg. i'm gonna die

(pt. i!)

WAHHH mismatched socks, the elastic of his calvin kleins (that u bought him) peeking out at his backside; he nearly trips over his work bag that's waiting for him on the floor and practically slides right into your full-length mirror--you're really rooting for him and even though he wouldnt say it, he'd try to strangle himself if he lost his job for being late just one too many times--because he's rushing to get out the door.

you can hear him from the kitchen where you're putting together lunches (not for him specifically, but because you already make something for yourself, you might as well...you're welcome, touya), AND YES IT'S SO HARD not to laugh when the door bursts open and he's looking like a little fool with his black and white hair actually combed down and smudges around his eyes from trying + failing to get your eyeliner off of him.

(also, did he use your hairspray that was sitting on your vanity? maybe. okay, yes. though it's no surprise he knows where everything you own is lmfao)

he stills refuses to let you put things in a lunch box, but no way in HELL he's not shoving the wrapped sandwich and bento full of fruit into his bag before !!! kissing you goodbye!!!

it's truly like a dream come true 'coz even though part of him feels like a DOG having to work for the man, making you happy is what MAKES HIM HAPPY and being able to fill your (and now! his) room with more cute and pink things is his new favorite hobby...

(and even though he blushes like hell doing it, the next lunch date he's picking you up from, he's paying the whole table's bill in CASH and not taking no for an answer. makes him feel the best he has in a while. even though he's still eating everyone's leftovers lmao.)

slay the house down HOUSTON I'M DECEASED!!!!

[junosmindpalace]

Hey there juno, lots been going on. If you need a distraction or feel like writing a dcst prompt, I’ve got one for you: Senku doesn’t exactly express his feelings—not the sad painful ones anyway. He’s perfectly happy showing irritation, disappointment, and frustration, but only in the brief time before he picks up and moves on to figuring other stuff out before circling right back to the problem. I just want Reader to acknowledge that he does these things, doesn’t necessarily want to remove him from this routine because it is helpful, but it’s unhelpful in a way if too relied upon. So, as a fellow stoic emotion person, who does practically the same thing, they just kinda… remove Senku from the situation—drag him off for a night walk, or stargazing, or the making of something comepletely unrelated. A real break. It isn’t that he’s overworked and exhausting himself more so that if such habits continue, he will crumble. And there’s a lot of things readers noticed about Senku that don’t get talked about and they doesn’t pry into. That’s his business. If he makes it your business, you’ll listen. Your current business is making sure This Guy doesn’t burn himself out. You’re kinda stoic and tend towards a calm, quiet, cool personality—not shy, not uncomfortable, just a little quieter in your confidence, you don’t need affirmations—but it’s part of why you think Senku might need a ‘dude everything you’re working on and doing is just hella amazing’ and instead of attributing those successes to his intelligence, ascribes it to his hard working ability. Hence. Why that break is necessary. Something like that.

anon i COMPLETELY resonate with this and you’re so right. senku’s not the kind of guy to linger too much on his frustration, not because of a "weakness" thing, but because he knows it’s counterproductive; the emotional stuff just isn’t his thing either. the best thing in his mind is to keep going at it, work out a solution. so to have someone just kinda be like Hey We’re Doing Something Else For A Bit, even if it’s not outright said it’s for his benefit to clear his mind, would be nice. even if at first senku might find it a bit nonsensical, especially since he’s being pulled away from his work.

but just gently telling him to do this and that with you—go out to a restaurant you really like, go stargazing, flip through a science book—whatever it may be, he grows to appreciate it, and if anything most times returns to his work with new ideas!

and of course that doesn't mean you're gonna pry him to talk about his feelings regarding his work or himself or whatnot unless he wants to, but you'll always make sure to let him know in this way that the conversation is welcome.

[bloodied-dagger]

I want to snuggle up next to you, crying silently and facing away, while you card your fingers through my hair and talk about everything and nothing all at once

y'know I honestly have no idea to respond to this

my knee-jerk reaction was "oh this has got to be a prank"

but if it's not, then like

how is this supposed to be meant

like I think this is a positive thing? but like?

guys help I don't know what to say to this

[piningpercussionist]

I love lesbians thanks for providing solder 🫡

Anything for our Women* Lovers back at home, Sir (gn)!

*(and non women ♡)

(also this already included trans women but friendly reminder that if you're a terf you're not welcome here ♡ How did you get passed the transfem Scott posts? /j)